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Mind your business, Ohio legislature

Let me make this perfectly clear:

I just went through a pregnancy for a much-wanted child. I endured morning sickness that lasted throughout the entire pregnancy. I became so short of breath that I had to stop and rest partway up the stairs in my own home. I dislocated a rib. My heartburn was so bad that I had to take two or three separate medications each day. I had a major placental abruption with a level of blood loss that the doctors termed “impressive,” and placental abruption carries risk to both mother and fetus. And if I want to go through that, that is my decision. And if I decide not to go through with that ever again, no matter what my reason is, that is also my decision.

And my reasons for it are no legislature’s business. Whether or not anybody else thinks it’s a good reason. If someone chooses to have an abortion because of the fetus’s sex, race, disability status–not anybody else’s business.

So how does the Ohio legislature plan to enforce its bill prohibiting abortion due to a fetus having Down’s syndrome? Do they plan to bug doctors’ offices? How would any policeman know what a given woman’s reasons for abortion are? Particularly given that the blood test that can tell you whether your fetus has trisomy-18 or Down’s Syndrome (trisomy 21) is done at nine weeks. That’s quite early. Women have abortions that early for any number of reasons. This is a symbolic bill, and what it symbolizes is that the conversations pregnant people have with our doctors are not private, are not ours. It symbolizes that our decisions are never free from the judgment of others. We are never trusted to make our own decisions about child-bearing. But they are our decisions, and our motivations are between us and those we choose to consult. Forced-birthers using disability rights advocacy as a cat’s paw to muddy the issue doesn’t change that.


5 thoughts on Mind your business, Ohio legislature

  1. Obligatory “my body my choice” here.

    But, up until the state of Ohio is willing to give cradle-to-grave medical and living expenses for people with Downs, including paid caretakers so that family members are not stuck as perpetual caregivers with all of the misery that entails, they can just shut the fuck up.

    Oh wait, they’re not going to do that for healthy neurotypical children? Well then.

  2. “If someone chooses to have an abortion because of the fetus’s sex, race, disability status–not anybody else’s business.”
    Sex-selective abortion is a problem in many areas where cultural norms value male children over female children. This is not a very common issue in developed nations. This issue does not receive enough attention from feminists.

    1. Hi, I’m Indian and feminist. I hate, hate, hate, hate sex-selective abortion. I fucking hate the patriarchy. And I want to ask you some logistics-related questions that carry the assumption that sex-selective abortion has somehow been effectively and completely outlawed.

      1) The parts of India that have high female foeticide rates also have high female infanticide rates. If you stop the one, what are the chances the other goes up? What methods of surveillance will you implement to prevent the (widely societally sanctioned) murder of infants?

      2) How do you plan to ensure the physical, mental, sexual (yes I went there) and financial well-being of female infants and children whose fathers and father’s branch of the family (with whom they are almost certain to live) actively wants them dead?

      3) How do you plan on deterring passive methods of infanticide such as insufficient feeding or care, lack of medical attention or other neglect?

      4) How do you plan on justifying erasing the feminist principle that women have the right to determine what is and is not done with their bodies, when faced with women who actively want to not be pregnant for whatever reason?

      5) What methods of surveillance and punishment do you propose to enact upon women who want sex-selective abortions in order to ensure they are forced to carry to term?

      I’d be happy to know your responses on this matter.

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