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Space: The Funnest Frontier!

So, hey, Phoenix Mars Lander, anyone? Awesome, right? It landed on Mars! Well, I think it’s awesome.

For those of you who don’t spend your typical Saturday night watching NASA TV, the lander is on one of Mars’ polar regions, looking for ice. And by gum, it found some, my friends:

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Scientists know the white stuff is ice and not minerals because it sublimated upon contact with the atmosphere. WICKED COOL. Right now, the lander is taking soil samples to analyze under its microscope. I’m infatuated with the process: after the lander takes a sample, it shakes it into its ovens, cooks it up, and then uses it to make science. TOTALLY ACES.

But, okay, it’s not like there are women in the soil samples – unless we’re talking about microscopic proto-women, which I can assure you we are not – so why am I posting this on a feminist website?

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Who’s a “real woman” anyway?

How many times have you heard some idiot say something like, “man, I hate American chicks, might as well go to Thailand/El Salvador/Moldova, that’s where the REAL WOMEN are at.”

Now, we all know what he probably means here – women who are at a similar economic level are not submissive enough, and women who are not are “easier” to deal with. There’s also the fact that a certain woman’s upbringing may make her more “susceptible” to what the man perceives to be submissive status, or else give the appearance of such status.

That’s all pretty much clear, or so I think. What isn’t often clear is the motivation of the “submissive foreign woman” in question. Based on my experience, scenarios vary wildly. A lot of women consider the arrangement a step up, and will tell you to fuck off if you try to lecture them on who to marry and how to carry themselves.

Were you born outside of Donetsk to an emotionally sadistic mother who cleaned hotel rooms and slept with guests for extra cash? Did you have an alcoholic stepfather who tried to bash your face in with a wrench after you refused to blow him? Did your mother then kick you out of the house for “trying to steal [her] man”? If not, you’re probably not going to have a whole lot of authority in the eyes of the eighteen-year-old who just wants a nice, stable life with some aging paramour in Milwaukee.

Maybe she’ll be happy with him. Maybe not. Maybe she’ll wait for him to die, inherit all his money, get a young boyfriend, and do her thing without ever revealing whether or not she’s happy. Hell, I don’t know. But what’s usually true about relationships that spark up in this manner is that both parties enter into them while pursuing a certain ideal, and their expectations are adjusted accordingly when reality hits.

Sometimes this is positive. Sometimes it’s deadly.

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I’m not one to be happy someone’s dead, but

But dying on the 4th of July was perhaps the most patriotic thing Jesse Helms ever did. Thanks, Jesse, for making the world a better place by finally leaving it.


“The Negro cannot count forever on the kind of restraint that’s thus far left him free to clog the streets, disrupt traffic, and interfere with other men’s rights.” – Jesse Helms on civil rights protests.

I’m sure some right-wing blog is going to link to this post as evidence of Teh Evil Left, but my point isn’t that I’m glad Helms is dead; my point is that the ideology Helms espoused is the antithesis of everything that makes a great country. It is the antithesis of what makes this country great. And the reactions to Helms’ death are pretty clear illustrations of what “patriotism” means on the right and on the left. On the left, it means improving things, and making the dreams that underpinned the formation of this country accessible to everyone. On the right, it means narrowing those dreams and making them available only to a particular group; it means basking in power without taking any sort of responsibility, and without making any effort to actually make great the thing you claim to love so much. On the right, it’s a window dressing, absent all substance.

I’m often skeptical of patriotism, mostly because I think the version promulgated in the U.S. political scene is vapid and shallow. Patriotism or nationalism or whatever you want to call it can be great insofar as it celebrates things worth being proud of. The problem with the conservative American form of patriotism is that it’s largely flag-waiving and no substance; it’s obsessing over who’s wearing the appropriate lapel pin as a symbol that We’re Number One! as opposed to doing the day-to-day, getting-your-hands-dirty work of actually making a place great.

Helms was a cheap “patriot.” He never worked to make this country better; he worked to exclude as many people as possible from the ideas and the dreams that laid the foundation for this place. What’s most disturbing is that Helms was embraced throughout his career, all the way up until he left the Senate in 2002. In fact, they’re still standing up for him — and even defending the racist ad he used to win an election in 1990. According to conservatives, Helms was “a truly great American and champion of freedom;” “a warrior and a patriot;” and “a man who understood, appreciated and fought for everything we celebrate on the 4th of July.”

Of course, these are the same people who claim that Helms’ opposition of civil rights legislation “did not in and of itself did not make him a racist” — because his personal and administrative assistants were black.

What did Jesse Helms fight for? Well, he fought against a whole lot more than he fought for — including civil rights, women’s rights, gay rights, abortion rights, HIV/AIDS funding, foreign aid, the poor, and even modern art.

He fought bitterly against Federal aid for AIDS research and treatment, saying the disease resulted from “unnatural” and “disgusting” homosexual behavior.

“Nothing positive happened to Sodom and Gomorrah,” he said, “and nothing positive is likely to happen to America if our people succumb to the drumbeats of support for the homosexual lifestyle.”

Helms launched a Senate filibuster against making the birthday of Martin Luther King Jr. a national holiday. He was a segregationist and a bigot. He opposed fundamental rights for American people.

He is no patriot, and he is no great American. True patriots — true people we should be admiring today — are those who did the tough work of getting out there and demanding that their voices be heard; those who insisted that their America matters too; those who did not accept the status quo and instead worked every day to make this country a better place. That takes heart. That takes love. That is what the best of America looks like.

Those are the people I’ll be drinking to tonight. Not people like Jesse Helms, who did nothing more but try to stand in their way.

Luckily, he lost long before his death. And those who admire and seek to emulate him will continue to lose — because, to paraphrase someone much smarter than me, the arc of history does bend toward justice. And it bends that way because there are passionate, intelligent, good people pushing it — not because there are people like Helms trying to stem the tide.

My condolences are sincere for his family and for the people who loved him. But for my country and for the people who I love, celebration is more in order.

Feminism and Religion, Part 311187

Inspired by Fatemeh’s post below.

People ask me, “how do you reconcile feminism and religion?”

The short answer is, I don’t. I don’t reconcile religion with anything. I think the true nature (and purpose) of religion is such that it cannot be reconciled with the world we live in.

That’s not to say that religion cannot influence is in good and bad ways, or that it doesn’t have direct influence in the physical realm we inhabit, but that what appeals to me about religion is the fact that from the point of view of the physical world, it is irrational. Which is very different from how I view feminism.

Why do I believe? Because belief is beautiful, and strange, and imperfect (circumscribed as it is by human nature), and a great paradox to me. Because I agree with Milton in describing the world as a story that the divine being is telling itself. Which is in itself a paradox running up against the idea of free will.

So when some bearded guy somewhere tells me “cover up, whore” or “repent, whore” or “be quiet and stir that borscht, whore,” I pity him most dreadfully. His God is indeed dead, and it was he who replaced his God with an embalmed version that rests in an ugly-ass Great Mausoleum in the Sky. And I’d like to tell him that, except that I worry about getting my teeth smashed out (have been threatened, once), and I already have dental issues, so instead I just stay away from most religious gatherings and discussions altogether.

Being a feminist and being religious is totally possible, if you just ignore people who tell you you’re going to hell/you’re a brainwashed idiot in need of re-education camp. Or so I’ve decided for myself.

Friday Random Ten – the Independence edition

1. Modest Mouse – Bury Me With It
2. Bill Evans Trio – All of You (take 2)
3. Jens Lekman – It Was a Strange Time in My Life
4. Ryan Adams – My Blue Manhattan
5. Nick Cave & the Bad Seeds – Sugar Sugar Sugar
6. Bob Dylan – Corrina, Corrina
7. Miles Benjamin Anthony Robinson – Buriedfed
8. Tom Waits – Johnsburg, Illinois (live)
9. Frightened Rabbit – Head Rolls Off
10. Alceu Valença – Morena Tropicana

And, because it’s USA Day, a video from one of my all-time favorite Americans:

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Oh, I’ve noticed.

tiny food

America’s Shrinking Food Wraps, by Kate Pickert at Time.com, via Yahoo! News. I read this last week, but Frangela reminded me about this morning on the radio as they were filling in for Stephanie Miller.

. . . is it possible that the amount of food Americans are buying is, in fact… shrinking? Well, yes. Soaring commodity and fuel prices are driving up costs for manufacturers; faced with a choice between raising prices (which consumers would surely notice) or quietly putting fewer ounces in the bag, carton or cup (which they generally don’t) manufacturers are choosing the latter. This month, Kellogg’s started shipping Apple Jacks, Cocoa Krispies, Corn Pops, Froot Loops and Honey Smacks containing an average of 2.4 fewer ounces per box.

Similar reductions have recently happened or are on the horizon for many other products: Tropicana orange juice containers are shrinking from 96 ounces to 89; Wrigley’s is dropping its the 17-stick PlenTPak in favor of the 15-stick Slim Pack; Dial soap bars now weigh half an ounce less, and that’s even before they melt in the shower. Containers of Country Crock spread, Hellmann’s mayonnaise and Edy’s and Breyer’s ice cream have all slimmed down as well (although that may not necessarily be a bad thing).

“People are just more sensitive to changes in price than changes in quantity,” says Harvard Business School Professor John Gourville, who studies consumer decision-making. “Most people can tell you how much a box of cereal costs, but they have no clue how much is actually in it.”. . .

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The Elephant in the Feminist Classroom

There are plenty of elephants in feminist classrooms, as we’re all aware. As a woman of color, there have been times when I was one of those elephants. White, middle-class feminism’s overlooking of race, class, queer identities, ability…this leads to a classroom full of elephants that many students and instructors are unable to see or unwilling to discuss.

These issues have slowly gained legitimacy within the white middle-class feminist classroom. In Intro to Feminism courses, there are discussions, speakers, and readings assigned about womanism, the queer movement, etc.—if the teacher is a half-decent one, anyway. They may be small discussions, they may only raise awareness without creating understanding, but the elephants are acknowledged.

There are still a few elephants left, however. The elephant I’m going to acknowledge today is religion (including spiritually and belief systems).

Religion is brought up in classrooms when anti-Semitism is discussed. Religion is brought up when female genital mutilation is introduced. Religion is revealed to be part of the dominant structure of Judeo-Christian patriarchy in the U.S. Religion is often talked about in classrooms as part of “the problem.”

How many times have we been in feminist classrooms and heard, “I think all religions are oppressive to women.” Or seen it on a feminist blog?

What does this statement do? It dismisses religion and feminists who have one. Feminist interpretations of all major world religions are increasing. Here’s a great website where you can find a bibliography for feminist theology and interpretations of Christianity, Islam, Judaism, Buddhism, Hinduism, and then some. Why is it acceptable to dismiss the belief systems of these feminists?

Belief systems are how we frame our entire world, and the entire world adheres to some type of belief. Here you can see a really rough breakdown of the world’s main belief systems. Not a definitely authoritative source, but the most illustrative and incredibly thorough. That’s a lot of people, and half of these adherents are women.

The idea that “religion is oppressive” is deceptive, because “religion” as it is discussed is reduced to the rules & regulations of said religion. We’re not talking about a connection with God or the universe, here. We’re talking about eating fish on Friday or wearing a wig to cover your hair. Dismissing an entire faith (and/or all belief systems) dismisses those who believe in this faith. Not to mention those of us who believe the male-defined rules, interpretations, and applications are the problem, not the faith itself.

Religion is a belief system. An idea. And idea cannot actively oppress someone. A holy book cannot chase women around and tell them do this or that—the Bible doesn’t go around physically stopping homosexuality; the Torah doesn’t physically measure the length of an Orthodox Jewish woman’s skirt. The interpretation and application of ideas (by male scholars and male-centered religious schools of thought) is what gets us in trouble. Interpretations that keep men in power and deny women agency are the problem. You know what these interpretations are? Patriarchy. Not God or faith in God. Patriarchy poses as religion in interpretations that say that women shouldn’t use birth control or that marriage is only for one man and one woman.

But the rules get confused with God. And then God gets pegged as the bad entity, instead of patriarchy. And that leaves the religious/spiritual feminists in class and on the blogosphere staring at each other, wondering, “Ain’t I a feminist, too?”

The blanket idea that all religions are oppressive is also often an uninformed one. Can someone who has not studied all belief systems (not just The Big Three, but all belief systems, including atheism, animism, wicca, etc., as well as more well-known Hinduism, Buddhism, etc.) put forth this idea? Often, those doling out judgment on religion only focus on The Big Three (Judaism, Christianity, and Islam), ignoring other belief systems like Buddhism, agnosticism, or Rastafarianism. These are religions, too: people frame their viewpoints with these in mind.

And even within The Big Three, there are endless sects. Judaism, Christianity, and Islam all have differing sects within them, and sects with sects. None of these religions can be described as monolithic. Sects within these religions can be incredibly strict and severe (like Fundamentalist Church of Latter Day Saint Christians, Salafi Muslims, and Haredi Jews), and they can be incredibly liberal, accepting female ministers, imams, and rabbis, and following interpretations that allow homosexuality, for example.

Can one fairly dismiss something without understanding it? Without reading a religion’s holy book, the scriptures, and laws, as well as understanding their historical interpretations and applications, without knowing the intricacies of sects within a religion and the differences between them, how can someone really know any belief system is oppressive and make a statement as such?

Reducing a belief system to its male/patriarchal interpretations and dismissing a religion because of a lack of knowledge is bad enough. But dismissing religion also dismisses the spirituality of an adherent. Their connection with the universe and/or their higher power. Take away a person’s religion may take away their source of comfort. It may take away their strategy for dealing with patriarchy and traumatic events. It’s taking away a support system; who has too much support in a world that often victimizes us because of our gender, skin color, or sexuality?

“You’re just brainwashed because you believe in God” sounds a lot like, “You’re just hysterical because you’re a woman” or “You’re just lazy because you’re Mexican” to me. Despite the fact that these are different types of discrimination, they all result in discrimination, barriers, and disunity. Yes, there are people who don’t question their belief system and may aptly be described as brainwashed. I don’t advocate this, but dismissing faith (and those of us with a faith) is exclusionary.

For many religious feminists, belief in a higher power and a religious lifestyle is a choice. But it’s also part of someone; it’s the way we look at things, the way we respond to situations, the way we deal with events and people in our lives. It’s part of our psychological make-up. Feminism, as I learned it, is about respect and dignity for all people. I think that should include feminists who have faith.

This Time Syndrome

I’ve been noticing a common theme lately. It’s what I’ve come to call “this time syndrome.” There are a couple of versions of it.

Version #1: Someone points out oppression in action, and person #2 responds by stating that although whatever is being pointed out is a problem, that’s not what is happening/they bear no responsibility this time.

A few examples:

“Rape is a very, very serious crime. I just think that this time she’s lying/it’s not rape because (insert minimization and victim-blaming here) /she just wants the money/etc. etc.”

“Certainly in the past there has been discrimination against (insert oppressed identity here). But this time they just weren’t qualified.”

“In the past I know biased scientists used their research to “prove” that various oppressed groups were inferior. But that doesn’t happen anymore! This time the finding that white men just happen to be better at everything in the world and that every gender stereotype is genetically hardwired is totally true!”

Version #2: Someone recognizes that what they are doing is sometimes inappropriate, but this time it’s okay.

“It’s usually racist/sexist to dismiss people of color/women who make anti-racist/anti-sexist arguments as ‘angry and irrational.’ Or to say that they are ‘overreacting’ to something that’s ‘not a big deal.’ But this time it’s true!”

“I agree that there is sexism, but me using a gendered slur wasn’t sexism, because I’m not sexist. This time is different.”

“I know it’s usually an expression of privilege to say that everyone should focus on the issue I think is most important, but my issue affects so many more people than anyone else’s! This time people should do what I say.”

The thing is, somehow, every time is this time.

Best Wishes…

To Darcy Burner, whose home was tragically destroyed in a fire this week. I’m incredibly relieved to hear that her family is safe — and that, as she said, “it’s just stuff” that was lost. The fire started in the bedroom of her five-year-old son Henry. He ran to his parents’ room, waking them up so that they could get everyone out of the house. Firefighters also rescued their dog, but their cat Charlotte died in the fire.

Darcy is running for a Congressional seat in my home state of Washington. She is an amazing woman, and I’m really glad to hear that she’s ok. If you’re interested in helping out, she’s asked that donations be made to your local humane society or animal shelter in honor of Charlotte, or to the Washington State Council of Firefighters Benevolence Fund.

Darcy will be continuing her campaign for Congress. The campaign site is here.