I’ve been noticing a common theme lately. It’s what I’ve come to call “this time syndrome.” There are a couple of versions of it.
Version #1: Someone points out oppression in action, and person #2 responds by stating that although whatever is being pointed out is a problem, that’s not what is happening/they bear no responsibility this time.
A few examples:
“Rape is a very, very serious crime. I just think that this time she’s lying/it’s not rape because (insert minimization and victim-blaming here) /she just wants the money/etc. etc.”
“Certainly in the past there has been discrimination against (insert oppressed identity here). But this time they just weren’t qualified.”
“In the past I know biased scientists used their research to “prove” that various oppressed groups were inferior. But that doesn’t happen anymore! This time the finding that white men just happen to be better at everything in the world and that every gender stereotype is genetically hardwired is totally true!”
Version #2: Someone recognizes that what they are doing is sometimes inappropriate, but this time it’s okay.
“It’s usually racist/sexist to dismiss people of color/women who make anti-racist/anti-sexist arguments as ‘angry and irrational.’ Or to say that they are ‘overreacting’ to something that’s ‘not a big deal.’ But this time it’s true!”
“I agree that there is sexism, but me using a gendered slur wasn’t sexism, because I’m not sexist. This time is different.”
“I know it’s usually an expression of privilege to say that everyone should focus on the issue I think is most important, but my issue affects so many more people than anyone else’s! This time people should do what I say.”
The thing is, somehow, every time is this time.