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It’s the Birth Control, Stupid

Give women the tools to prevent unintended pregnancy and they will. The problem is, a lot of women aren’t getting those tools.

A new statistical analysis, published this month, shows that poor and uneducated women have fallen farther behind their more affluent peers in their ability to control fertility and plan childbearing.

The nation’s overall rate of unintended pregnancies held steady from the mid-1990s through 2001, the most recent year such data is available. But that stability masked huge disparities between demographic groups, according to the new analysis by the Guttmacher Institute, a research group affiliated with Planned Parenthood.

Teenagers, college graduates and women in the middle or upper class dramatically reduced unintended pregnancy and abortion rates. Among poor women, though, the unplanned pregnancy rate jumped nearly 30%.

As a result, poor women are now four times more likely to face an unintended pregnancy than those who are better off. They’re also three times more likely to get an abortion.

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Because I’m in a Bitchy Mood

I’d like to issue a big, fat Fuck You to the following people:

1. Those who suggest that people only read this blog because the bloggers are attractive (but at least he thinks we’re pretty! *bats eyelashes*). Fuck you.

2. Those who suggest that feminist bloggers spend all our time talking about blowjobs and don’t do anything to actually help women. Because apparently we’re unable to discuss sex and political issues at the same time. And apparently these individuals are unable to read or do any of their own research. Fuck you.

3. Those who claim that feminists don’t care about international women’s rights, despite the fact that feminists have been raising hell about these issues long before they were used as excuses for war (thanks to Zuzu and Nanette for the links). Almost every time one of us posts on issues primarily affecting Muslim women or women in the Middle East, we get this exact same reaction: “But feminists don’t care about women around the world!” I’m getting tired of posting these same press releases, and of continuing to direct people to Human Rights Watch, Amnesty International, the Global Fund for Women, Planned Parenthood International, MADRE, and the International Center for Research on Women. Next time, Google it your damn self, because I’m tired of doing your homework for you. Fuck you.

4. Disengenuous anti-feminist blow-hards who, with but a tenuous grasp of the material they’re criticizing, argue that this is why everyone hates feminists. And perhaps it’s the theme of the day, but really, when will the anti-feminists stop pulling the “Why don’t you spend your time on real feminist causes, like pornography or sex trafficking or child care or the wage gap?” card? Earth to assholes: WE DO. We’re remarkable multi-taskers, and our wee female brains somehow manage to think about more than one thing throughout the course of the day. And fyi, you criticize us even when we do cover the “real” feminist issues. So fuck you, too.

Who’s got you pissed off today? Bitch away in the comments.

When There’s No Plan B

Anti-choice politics of limiting birth control cause more abortions than they prevent. This should be obvious, and one woman demonstrates it here.

General idea is this: Busy married couple with two kids find some private time, and they have sex. In the heat of the moment, woman forgets to insert her diaphragm. Woman does not want to be pregnant, as she already has two kids and is on medications that cause severe birth defects. The next day she calls various doctors trying to get emergency contraception, and is routinely denied. Woman gets pregnant.

Had she been able to get Plan B over the counter, chances are that she would never have gotten pregnant, and would never have had an abortion. But actually preventing abortions is secondary to the anti-choice right, which is more interested in stripping away women’s human rights than protecting babies.

After making the decision with my husband, I was plunged into an even murkier world — that of finding an abortion provider. If information on Plan B was hard to come by, and practitioners were evasive on emergency contraception, trying to get information on how to abort a pregnancy in 2006 is an even more Byzantine experience.

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Do Women Deserve to Vote?

Yes, I’d say that we’re moving backwards when columnists are asking that question and actually having their articles published.

I’ll just quote Gawker:

How on earth did we women ever get the vote? If intellectual acumen were a requirement for suffrage today, we’d still be waiting for our shot at the ballot box. Fortunately, the pioneering suffragettes who fought for the 19th Amendment had their heads screwed on tight — unlike the “Sex and the City” groupies who think abortion as birth control is something worth fighting for. Five girls from Queens are holding a Brooklyn beer fund-raiser this week for their poor sisters in South Dakota, who’ve lost their right to kill their babies in utero.

Women are stupid; intelligence should be a prerequisite for voting rights; women shouldn’t be allowed to vote; Sex and the City fans view abortion as birth control; abortion is murder. All in 94 words. Nice work, Alicia.

[Incidentally, it’s a fund-raiser for Planned Parenthood in South Dakota, which banned all abortions except where the mother’s life is in danger, and it’ll be held Thursday night at Cafe Grumpy in Greenpoint.]

Head over to Greenpoint if you’re in the area.

I *Heart* Gwyneth and Blythe

I do have a secret love for Gwyneth Paltrow. I think she’s beautiful, she’s a great actress, she seems nice, she has such class, I want to raid her closet, etc etc. I love her so much that I can even forgive her for naming her son Moses, which is an abhorrent choice (personally, I thought Apple was cute). And now, she’s given me a more substantial reason to adore her and her lovely mama: They’re campaiging for Planned Parenthood. From the Action Alert:

Why are two Hollywood actors contacting you today?

Because we are first and foremost a mother and daughter, and we cannot stand idly by as birth control, family planning, and basic health care come under attack.

We are deeply disturbed by what’s happening in South Dakota and by the growing movement to limit women’s reproductive rights. And as Mother’s Day approaches, we have a great opportunity to make a difference.

Today, a generous Planned Parenthood supporter has issued a Mother’s Day Challenge for the critical Stand with the States Campaign: all online donations will be matched — dollar for dollar, until they reach $50,000 — until midnight on Mother’s Day.

Please rise to the Mother’s Day Challenge. Your gift will be effectively doubled and you’ll help Planned Parenthood reach their $50,000 goal!

Our family was recently blessed with the arrival of a new member. As we jump into another round of tiny clothes, new expressions, and dirty diapers, it strikes us yet again: having a child changes your life forever.

Such a personal decision should be made by families, not by politicians.

We need common-sense solutions to the health issues we face throughout our lives. Planned Parenthood provides those solutions, helping millions of women each day, improving our communities and our families. That’s why we support this amazing organization. We hope you will, too.

Click here and double your donation at this critical time.

Tell your mom you’ve donated in her name. Or whisper it to your baby at bedtime.

You’ll be making a gift to millions of mothers — to the future of our country. What a profound way to mark this day.

It is indeed a great Mother’s Day decision. Donate if you can.

UPDATE: Thanks for those of you who alerted me to the fact that my personal information was included in the first link. I’ll save any potential stalkers some difficulty by telling you all that I’ve moved since I last donated to Planned Parenthood, and the address that was listed is no longer where I live.

Must-Read Article on Crisis Pregnancy Centers

It’s so good, I don’t even know where to start quoting (and I don’t just say that because it’s written by our own beloved Amanda Marcotte). It’s the best article I’ve seen yet on Crisis Pregnancy Centers, and takes a different tack than most: Instead of just emphasizing the CPC’s system of lying and coercion (although she does that too), she tackles the issue from a healthcare perspective, pointing out that these crisis pregnancy centers simultaneously suck up tax dollars and short-change women.

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I don’t think that’s what they meant by “barrier method”

Well this is a great idea.

An informal survey found that almost half — 22 of 50 — of the District’s CVS pharmacies lock up their condoms — this in a city where one in 20 residents is HIV-positive. Most of those stores are in less affluent areas where the incidence of HIV/AIDS, other sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancy — all preventable with condoms — are highest. Many CVS stores in the close-in Prince George’s County suburbs also lock up condoms.

The Duane Reed in my neighborhood also locks its condoms behind a giant iron gate at night. Smart, right?

Christine Spencer-Grier, director of community education at Planned Parenthood of Metropolitan Washington, has seen that firsthand. She helps run a program that assists teen mothers in avoiding another pregnancy. One of the program’s projects has the young moms venture out to buy condoms and report back on their experiences.

Spencer-Grier said many come back talking of being too embarrassed to buy once they saw they would have to ask for help. Others reported that, when they asked a salesperson for assistance, they got dirty looks or a lecture about being too young for sex.

“Teens are very sensitive to a disparaging look, a lecture — all of those things are very intimidating,” said Spencer-Grier. Many girls, she said, left the stores ashamed and empty-handed — but still likely to have sex.

Of course they are. If someone is going to a drug store, especially after normal business hours when the pharmacy is closed (at the drug stores near me, the condoms are only locked after the pharmacist leaves for the day), they’re probably planning on having sex — and soon.

The usual suspects, of course, are glad that people aren’t able to get the condoms they need. Because if you have sex, you deserve to die of AIDS.

Citizens for Community Values — which promotes abstinence as the answer to sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancies — applauds adding steps to buying condoms.

“I’d rather see them locked up,” said Phil Burress, president of the organization. “It’s a lie that condoms prevent all sexually transmitted diseases anyway. People should be educated about that and practice abstinence.”

Yes, it’s all a big lie. Except, wait, no one ever said that condoms prevent all sexually transmitted diseases in all circumstances. But 97% efficacy when used correctly? I’ll take that.

Locking up condoms may be a legitimate theft-prevention method, but what does it mean when condoms are one of the most commonly-stolen articles — apparently along with pregnancy tests and baby formula? That, perhaps, lower-income people aren’t getting the reproductive and family-care services they need? (Sidenote: I’m not trying to imply that only low-income people shoplift; but these seem to be items that are stolen out of necessity and not simple desire, which infers, to me, that the people taking them are hardly doing it for fun, but because they can’t afford them otherwise). The answer isn’t locking up condoms. It’s making sure that people have the disease-prevention methods that they need, affordably and easily.

God and Abortion Rights

Like many people who hold religious beliefs and are also pro-choice — and indeed, who are pro-choice in part because of the emphasis on goodness and respect for human rights that are ingrained in their faith — I’m tired of the right-wing anti-abortion campaign claiming that they have a monopoly on God. Skim the Bible for the word “abortion” — you won’t find it. The Bible doesn’t condone nor condemn abortion. It does, in one instance, represent it as a property crime (you cause a woman to miscarry, and you have to pay her husband a fine):

“And if men struggle and strike a woman with child so that she has a miscarriage, yet there is no further injury, he shall be fined as the woman’s husband may demand of him, and he shall pay as the judges decide. But if there is any further injury, then you shall appoint as a penalty life for life, eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot, burn for burn, wound for wound, bruise for bruise.”

Exodus 21:22-25

If a fetus is the full equivalent of a human life, shouldn’t the man who caused the woman to miscarry be expected to pay with his life?

Luckily, other faith-friendly pro-choicers are coming out on the offensive, and demonstrating that support for reproductive rights is not only not immoral, but fitting within a religious code that values justice and human rights.

The Interfaith Prayer Breakfast has been part of Planned Parenthood’s annual convention for four years. Most ministers and rabbis at the breakfast have known the group far longer.

Margaret Sanger, founder of the organization that became Planned Parenthood, drew clergy members in the early 20th century by relating the suffering of women who endured successive pregnancies that ravaged their health and sought illegal abortions in their desperation, said the Rev. Thomas R. Davis of the United Church of Christ, in his book “Sacred Work, Planned Parenthood and Its Clergy Alliances.”

In the 1930’s, Jewish and mainline Protestant groups began to voice their support for birth control. In 1962, a Maryland clergy coalition successfully pressed the state to permit the disbursal of contraception. In the late 1960’s, some 2,000 ministers and rabbis across the country banded together to give women information about abortion providers and to lobby for the repeal of anti-abortion laws.

“The clergy could open that door because the clergy had a certain moral authority,” said Mr. Davis, who is chairman of Planned Parenthood’s clergy advisory board but whose book is not sponsored by the group. “They balanced the moral authority of the critics.”

The role of religious communities in securing abortion rights cannot be emphasized enough. Religious leaders took a look around and saw, for example, that 20% of hospital admissions for pregnancy-related problems in New York and California were the result of dangerous illegal abortions. They saw that poor women were more likely to be maimed or killed by their illegal abortions. They saw that even for the women who were able to secure safe illegal abortions — and thanks to a handful of conscientious providers, these women did exist — the shame of having to go underground for a basic medical procedure was deeply harmful. They saw that, even after Roe v. Wade legalized abortion, low-income women like Gerri Santoro (caution: graphic) still lacked the basic resources to make reproductive rights a reality. They saw, basically, that limiting reproductive rights hurts women.

And so they mobilized. Clergy, along with activists, community members and police officers, organized the Jane network, which connected women with safe clandestine abortion services. Should such a service become necessary again, progessive religious people will continue to be some of our strongest allies.

As the scrape of silverware quieted at the breakfast, the Rev. W. Stewart MacColl told the audience how a Presbyterian church in Houston that he had led and several others had worked with Planned Parenthood to start a family planning center. Protesters visited his church. Yet his 900 parishioners drove through picket lines every week to attend services. One Sunday, he and his wife, Jane, took refreshments to the protesters out of respect for their understanding of faith, he said.

Mr. MacColl said a parishioner called him the next day to comment: “That’s all very well for you to say, but you don’t drive to church with a 4-year-old in the back seat of your car and have to try to explain to him when a woman holds up a picture of a dead baby and screams through the window, ‘Your church believes in killing babies.’ ”

Mr. MacColl said of the abortion protester: “She would, I suspect, count herself a lover of life, a lover of the unborn, a lover of God. And yet she spoke in harshness, hatred and frightened a little child.”

Mr. MacColl quoted the theologian Reinhold Niebuhr: ” ‘Sometimes the worst evil is done by good people who do not know that they are not good.’ ”

The crowd murmured its assent.

Then Mr. MacColl challenged them. “The trouble is, I find myself reflected in that woman,” he said. “Because I can get trapped in self-righteousness and paint those who oppose me in dark colors they do not deserve. Is that, at times, true of you, as well?”

This time, people were silent.

He makes a good point. It is easy to demonize those who disagree with you, particularly when they’re just as passionate as you are. The difference, of course, is that a passion for limiting rights and oppressing an entire segment of the population tends to be a less salient argument than fighting for basic human rights and individual autonomy.

“The more we are able to cultivate the capacity in every person — women and men — to make informed ethical judgments both in ourselves and our society, the more we are coming into relationship with the transcendent, with God,” said the Rev. Susan Thistlethwaite, president of Chicago Theological Seminary.

“Human existence as a materialistic quest for power and dominance, a crass manipulation of fear and intolerance for political gain, drives us apart both from one another and from God,” she said. “For what does it profit you to gain the whole world and lose your soul?”

UPDATE: Allow me to clarify a minor point. I wrote about this because I thought it was interesting, not because I think that religious beliefs should at all influence legal standards. They shouldn’t. That should be obvious enough from everything I’ve ever written here.

And, not to criticize anyone in particular, but I’m quickly tiring of the legal strawman that is too often propped up in response to any assertion or observation. If I say, “I think it’s really abhorrent that Neil Boortz said that Rep. McKinney looks like a ‘ghetto slut;‘ if you support him by listening to his show, now might be a good time to stop,” it doesn’t mean that I’m trying to legally infringe on Neil Boortz’s legal right to free speech (and I’m not the government, so, you know, that would be tough for me to do either way). And if I say that religious people have had, and continue to have, an influence on abortion rights, it doesn’t mean that I think religion should dictate law on abortion. Ok, bitch over.