Yeah, no.
But with a Democratic house divided, now is the time for healing, and this can only happen if Hillary’s staunch female supporters let go of the reverse-sexist ideology that women are inherently better, wiser, and more compassionate leaders.
They will have to acknowledge that sometimes the best woman for the job is actually a man — if it’s the right man. Obama’s vote against the war, marriage to his female mentor, outstanding record on reproductive choice and a host of other progressive issues, and his uncanny ability to inspire people all over the world suggest he’s just that.
It is time to turn the page on myopic gender-based Feminism and concede that while patriarchy is real, so is female greed, dishonesty and corruptibility. It’s time to empower the feminisms embodied by millions of women and men who care about everyone, including, but not limited to, women.
This article by Rebecca Walker manages to prove only one thing: The best way to get feminist voices into major publications is to have those feminists beat up feminist straw-women. I mean, “reverse-sexist”? Really?
I don’t see a lot of feminists arguing that women are inherently more compassionate, caring, intelligent or good than men. Yeah, there are certainly a few who make that point, but they’re few and far between — I hear the “women are superior at being x,y, or z” meme more often from non-feminist-identified men and women, and from conservatives when they’re trying to make particular arguments about how women should stay home because it’s better for us. Most feminists I know are well aware that women can be assholes, too. And the feminist movement, as far as I can tell, has never been about arguing that women are morally superior; it’s been about securing equal rights and dismantling the structures that make it more difficult for some groups of people to get ahead.
I voted for Barack Obama. I like him a lot. He is very good on women’s issues. But that doesn’t make him the best “woman” for the job, any more than Bill Clinton was “the first Black president.” It erases the realities of being female to argue that a man can be a good enough “woman president;” it erases the fact that “good on women’s issues” is not the same as “woman;” it erases the importance of having women in positions of power. And it discounts just how huge of a milestone it will be when a woman is elected to the Presidency. We can applaud Obama on his progressive stances and keep him accountable on his less progressive ones without attributing to him a characteristic that he simply does not have. We can celebrate the practical and symbolic importance of his run for President without having to make him everything to everyone. And if we want to be as “post-gender” as Walker suggests, then perhaps we should really shift the paradigm and expect that issues of gender, racial and social justice be fundamental in any political system, and not the providence of “special interest groups” like women.