PD at Shakes has this up: a long post about LGBT PDA and self-censorship, including a bit about a couple of het friends who took her up on a challenge to be closeted, to conceal that they were a couple, for a week.
They lasted exactly three days.
My friend returned to me in tears on day four and said: “I’m sorry. I had no idea what it is like for you.”
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That is how I lived for the first 32 years of my life, whether I was single or coupled.
And while my current self-editing is not nearly as extreme as it was before I made the choice to live as an out lesbian, it’s still self-editing.
I should note that I spotted it at Alas, where Amp discusses it.