Last night, while at a bar in the city my friend [G], his cousin-in-law [P] and I started talking politics. Naturally, we almost instantly gravitated to the primaries, and being from Columbus, I recently voted. G asked who I voted for, and I said “Obama, but I feel sort of bad about it.” Immediately after saying this the bartender, who knows P fairly well but not G or I chimes in with “Why, because he’s black?” I stutter back, a little thrown, “Uh, no because I was going to vote for Hillary.”
A few weeks ago, virtually the exact same exchange happened. On the Tuesday after voting in Columbus, I was at a bar with really close friends and I was expressing my ambivalence for each candidate right before the election, my irrational gut feeling to vote for Hillary since December, and my last minute reversal and decision to vote for Obama. I said something nearly identical, “I feel sorta bad about voting for Barack.” and my close friend who knows me quite well said “Why, because he’s black?”
So there are two completely isolated incidents with almost the exact same exchange. My question is; is this just a joke, or did they expect a legitimate answer?
This is one that I have no answer for, other than “Some people are odd and say awkward things that I have no idea how to interpret.” Perhaps those of you with more experience in this area can be of assistance.