Muslim Hedonist has thoughts.
The North American Muslim version of an identity crisis has been raging online for some time now, especially after 9/11. Being a Muslim is regarded by many, probably most immigrant Muslims here, as primarily the result of being born into a Muslim family. A Muslim child is (usually) assumed to become a Muslim adult, unless he/she either publicly converts to another religion.
I take the main concern underlying Sana’s comments to be something like this: ‘You’re white; you weren’t born in a so-called terrorist-producing country, or to a Muslim family. As a woman, you’re not even circumcised (unlike born Muslim men). In other words, you can hide, unlike us. In today’s political climate, we are stuck with being Muslim whatever we personally happen to believe, but you aren’t.
Not only that, but you, who exercised a privilege which we never had—the freedom to choose to be Muslim, as opposed to having it forced on you—have the gall to turn around and complain about how oppressive Islam is to women. What, didn’t you do any research before deciding to convert? And since you now see the light, why do you persist in hanging around?’
Read it all.