Brownfemipower gets tired.
i asked what makes me “exotic” looking–my boobs that can play patty cake with my knees, or my new glasses, or maybe my tendency to forget to comb my hair in the morning.
One of her commenters, I think, nailed the whole dynamic:
And yeah, I don’t know why people think “exotic” is a compliment. It basically says you don’t quite belong here, isn’t that sexy.
Mm-hm. In “The truth of brown motherhood,” she talked about being rendered foreign in another way: the other side of “exotic,” when people decide that you aren’t worth keeping around.