This is a guest post by Soraya Chemaly. Soraya Chemaly writes about the role of gender in culture, politics, religion and media. She is a regular contributor to Huffington Post, Fem2.0, The Feminist Wire, BitchFlicks and Alternet, among other media. She has appeared as a guest on NPR’s Talk of the Nation, Sirius XM progressive radio, and is a frequent HuffPost Live Panelist. Follow her on Twitter at @schemaly.
Earlier this week, I had barely finished writing Cameras, Consent and Conservative Rapeyness here, when this Change.org petition came across my desk: “Please sign to remove 12 Year Old Slut Memes from Facebook.” One of the offending page’s profile photo is of a pink-lipped and pouty child (she looks a lot younger than 12) wearing a tank top that reads “I love COCK.” Now, this page doesn’t openly advocate violence against anyone. It is, in essence, the virtual equivalent of street harassment. But, it is a case in point of how, whether real or virtual, photography serves to exponentially magnify the effects of subtle and real violence.
12 Year Old Slut Memes, posts photographs of girls so that others can comment on their sluttiness. It has more than 200,000 likes. The owners of the page, 19 year olds “Dom and James,” not sluts themselves according to their profile, are upset because their Tumblr of the same name was deleted and also because Facebook added the following qualification to the name of their page: “[Controversial Humor]” I, for one, feel much better now. The dynamic duo are so dismayed by the petition and by people who are threatening to sue them that they have started their own petition: “Please sign to tell people who complain about “12 year old slut memes”: To shut the f**k up.”
The man who started the petition to have the page taken down thinks that it encourages violence against minors and is a violation of Facebook’s own guidelines regarding hate speech. The two owners of the page explain it this way: “You put something on Facebook, you no longer own it. Sometimes it pays to read the fine print. In short, shut your f**king mouth and accept you’re the one that put up that slutty photo, regret and forget, you f**king moron.” They have a point about the small print and, indeed, now they they have put up the slutty photos themselves might want to consider the application of their own terms of indictment.
Facebook’s small print also prohibits the use or posting of content that is “threatening” or “hateful” or that “incites violence.” That’s what the terms say. Really. Facebook has already faced criticism for rape pages, but, like those, this page is [Humor], [Controversial Humor] and [Satire].
Although this page does not openly advocate or joke about violence it does sit squarely within the spectrum of violence against girls represented by the public commentary of bodies for the pleasure of others. There are lots of Facebook pages that openly use violent words and images – but, apparently, they’re just for fun. This is so not a “first amendment” (gasp! Censorhip!) issue. Clearly Facebook censors content all the time. Inciting racist content, homophobic content, anti-insert-your-religion-here- content. They are just not clear about their violently misogynistic content. I think a reasonable person might find “I kill bitches” with its side-splittingly funny gun pointing at your face photo and the “I love killing fucking bitches” comment thread is more than offensive.
You can sign the petition here: : “Please sign to remove 12 Year Old Slut Memes from Facebook.”