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The kids are alright.

This is a story to bookmark for those days when you’re feeling dismayed about the state of the world. This weekend saw the U.S.’s first lesbian Homecoming king and queen and possible the world’s two happiest chicks ever.

On Friday Rebeca Arellano, a lesbian student at San Diego’s Patrick Henry High, was chosen as homecoming king during a pep rally. She’s the first girl to hold the title in school history, but it gets better! Last night at the dance, Rebecca’s girlfriend, Haileigh Adams, was crowned homecoming queen, making them the first lesbian couple to be king and queen.

As Haileigh said, “The fact that other people are feeling more confident about themselves or feeling like they might have a chance at doing this, it’s opening doors.”

The girls were elected in a sincere vote by the majority of their student body, and both say they’ve gotten support from faculty, fellow students, and their families. What criticism they’ve gotten, they’ve taken in stride. Rebeca Arellano says it’s “one of the most amazing experiences [she’s] ever had.” Also, the couple is just about as adorable as is legal in the state of California. So it’s wins all around.


23 thoughts on The kids are alright.

  1. Also, the couple is just about as adorable as is legal in the state of California.

    Ah yes, good ‘ol Prop. 27,895, with mandatory LWOP for a third adorableness strike.

    Just kidding! Love you, Californians. (But do fix your shit.)

  2. I’ll be happier when we stop awarding the popular kids crowns for…um…being popular? But until that day, I’m glad being hetero isn’t a requirement for that kind of approval, at least in this one school. 🙂

    And yeah, Arellano’s rebuttal of the “tradition” argument is fantastic.

  3. actually they aren’t the first. I remember a thing on TV when I was a kid. My mom’s response to that was one of those learning moments “ah, okay, Mom’s not okay with that”

    Maybe just the prom king was a lesbian? I can’t remember precisely. But butch-lesbian-prom-king and the resulting comment about how butches got femmes by confusing them are burned into my memory.

    not to say this isn’t cool. because it totally is.

  4. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with the notion of popularity per se. Some people will always be particularly well-liked for their positive traits. The problem is when this popularity is based on superficial characteristics like appearance and wealth, rather than meaningful characteristics like friendliness, kindness, charisma, intelligence, sense of humor, etc. The move away from a trait like heterosexuality being used as a requirement for popularity is definitely a positive development.

  5. “Some people will always be particularly well-liked for their positive traits.”

    And we can be sure that this couple are popular because of their positive traits because… ermm… hmm.

  6. Hugh:
    And we can be sure that this couple are popular because of their positive traits because… ermm… hmm.

    They never said this couple specifically. They said ‘some people’.

  7. Hi, long time lurker, first time poster…

    I kinda agree with a commenter on the Jezebel story: why are they “king and queen” and not, I dunno, “Queen and Queen”? As in, if they were to get married (hopefully they can soon, CA!) they would be “Bride and Bride” not “Bride and Groom”.

    But maybe this is errant pedantry. Congrats to the kids!

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