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Not liking The Help that much

(I know Jill posted on the movie. I read the book and I have thoughts, which I was finally able to edit today.)

I haven’t seen the movie The Help, but I did read the book. I wasn’t impressed.

First, I am sick to the teeth of feel-good, revisionist fiction. I am really fed up with the Nice White Lady trope. And I am stunned that people read shit like this and think it shows any sort of political awareness by the author.

The main character Skeeter is a big old rebel because she want to a four-year-university! Without seeking an MRS degree! So there! HA! (And yes, I know that was kind of a big deal back then, trust me, but she had that option. The Black women she “helps” never did.)

The actual plot—that Skeeter writes a book about Black maids and what they see and hear at work—is also teeth gnashingly infuriating. Not that such a book is written—hell, no (though really, a White woman speaking for Black women is gross. It just is). It’s that the Black women in the story are passive, they are so fearful they need to be coaxed by the Nice White Lady. Apparently, there was no civil rights movement afoot in the South. Oh, they recognize MLK and his work, there is mention of actions in seemingly distant places, but the Black women and men of this town don’t seem to be involved. They are passive, they are helpless, they do nothing, and are so very grateful to the Nice White Lady once she shows them the One True Way.

It’s frustrating because in these narratives—written by privileged Whites—Black people are always passive. Things are done to them or for them, but they are never the agents of their own liberation. (And sorry, but no, telling the Nice White Lady about your shitty boss isn’t being an agent of your own liberation—not when Black women were actually organizing against Jim Crow, segregation, lynchings and violence, and the intimidation of Black voters.)

Jo Ann Robinson had been organizing against segregation and for the bus boycotts for years. And she did this not on her own, but as part of the Women’s Political Council. They were the first group to call for a bus boycott in the Montgomery Bus Boycott.

And she is not the only one.

Ella Baker. Fannie Lou Hamer. Septima Poinsette Clark. Vivian Malone Jones. Dorothy Height. They worked their asses off, they took punches (Fannie Lou Hamer was damn near beaten to death), they dodged bullets, some lost their homes and livelihoods, they endured harassment and threats, and they were out there facing the brutality of White people who did not want to share the power.

And the thing is, these women are not outliers. They are not unusual. Women were active in the struggle—even the nice Black maid who was always so sweet to you growing up, who was always so quiet and polite to your parents, was likely working her ass off on her off hours, knocking on doors, preparing for meetings (or cleaning up after them), strategizing about what to do next, giving aid to other activists who needed it. Even small actions could be perilous, but know this: a lot of people were taking them. This movement was not built on the actions of a few leaders or some Nice White People. They weren’t waiting for the Nice White Lady to come and free them, they were doing that themselves thankyouverymuch.

And it’s why it infuriates me when Whites, or wealthy people, or men, or whoever, want to barge in and lay down the law and tell a community What They Need or What is Best for You.

This could have been a good, meaty book if Skeeter had done this thinking she was great and smacked right up against civil rights organizing in her own town. It could have been a much more compelling story if it showed that the Nice White Lady realized she wasn’t that nice or good for doing this and showed some actual growth on her part (as opposed to the bohemian makeover and move to New York because she’s a spunky independent girl). It could have been much better if the maids were shown more accurately, as actually active in their own lives, as agents of their own freedom, with no need for a Nice White Lady to show them how to do it.

But it was not that book. It was a book that exocitized the Black women (they speak in dialect in the book and their accents are literally spelled out—the dialogue of the White southerners—who ALSO SPEAK IN A DIALECT BY THE WAY—is not given the same treatment). They are pure, Bible-reading demure Madonnas or they are short-tempered “sassy” and mouthy (dear God can we kill that particular word, please? I hate the word sassy. It is right up there with spunky as a patronizing “compliment”), but they are ultimately there to serve as tools for a story about the fake growth of the White main character.

This is just a gross combination of theft and denial—stealing someone’s history and denying it even existed.


22 thoughts on Not liking The Help that much

  1. You don’t know how glad I am to read this, in addition to Jill’s previous post. I have given the Association of African-American Historians’ Statement to several friends/acquaintances (white) who saw the movie and loved it and completely disagreed with the criticisms. I haven’t seen it, not wanting to put my money into the film-makers coffers, but another friend (African-American) who has not seen the movie is hoping to see it today and that this might be the beginning of a dialogue among white and African-American women on the realities of domestic workers in the South. We are planning a meeting where people can have a conversation and, as my African-American friend says, the white women can “actually listen without feeling picked on to the real African-American experience.” Wish us luck.

  2. Thanks for this post. I am always happy to see a reaction to racism and a coherent point made, especially since certain comments about such topics reflect a generalizing attitude with no consideration of difference – or worse – a paternalism inherent in white capitalist society. (e.g. discussions on muslim women and so on)

    I havent seen the film yet, but I see your point completely. It’s a classical example of ‘speaking in someone’s name’, paternalism and the unacknowledged white privilege – not accounting for your position and proximity to power. yes, I’d also like to see works which have active characters with agency and a sense of self-definition. exoticizing and commodification of difference (oh, ”those poor little brown girls”) – very accessible to the majority of white privileged capitalists – which is why it was made into a film.
    i personally dont need another vision of fragile white womanhood achieving personal growth to someone else’s detriment / objectification / erasure / silencing.

    cheers

  3. Thank your for writing this! I’m boycotting the book and the movie because when I heard the premise and read the previews, I was appalled. The very fact that this book has become this popular is a sign that the anti-racist struggle in this country is very very far from over.

  4. Both of my parents grew up in the South. A series of black maids raised them. Being a maid was about the only occupation available back then for African-American women.

    I suppose it’s not surprising that someone’s tried to whitewash those days. No one ever talked much in Birmingham about Dynamite Hill where the Klan bombings routinely happened, or down 4th Avenue North where the police dogs and fire hoses were turned on demonstrators. We tried to pretend that it had never happened. We never substituted a gauzy fantasy for the truth.

  5. I am a white European woman. I used to feel ashamed whenever I was confronted with portrayal of blatant racism in movies, specifically movies that depicted a time ‘long gone’. I felt guilty. Confused too. Why did I feel guilty of something I did not do?

    After reading feminist blogs for a couple of years I realised my feelings of shame and guilt were not really ‘shame and guilt’. I think it was what I now understand as discovering my privilege(s) that come with me being a white woman. Privilege in itself implies that I benefit from something while others don’t. Privilege is always at someones expense.

    Now I feel ashamed that I used to be worry about my uneasy feelings about being associated with the oppressor. It suddenly dawned on me that my uneasy feelings are incomparable to the thoughts and feelings of people that are the actual victims of racism and oppression.

    I think that if one was to make a stand against racism out of guilt, one is not helping, on the contrary. It means you’re more concerned with your own welfare and peace of mind than with the people you’re actually trying to help. Doing the right thing does not make you a hero.

    Once I realised that, I see racism everywhere and every day where before I would not even have noticed it or even might have denied it happening.

    It is my first comment ever on here and I hope it makes sense.

  6. Like clockwork, “Even The Liberal” New Republic has run a defense of the film (no link; the article’s that awful). A note to the snotty Hitchens wannabes at TNR: contrarianism for its own sake is dickishness.

  7. When I saw the trailer for this film, I had to check a calendar to make sure I hadn’t awakened back in 1992. I thought White Messiah movies were done by now, over with, passé, recognized as infantilizing, patronizing white self-congratulation fests and consigned to the dustbin of history.

    Not going to watch this one, not even illegally.

  8. anon:

    awesome essay. for future reference, it’s Fannie Lou Hamer. not Hammer.

    Oh, shit! Thank you! I’ll correct it ASAP.

  9. Great post. I’ve read the book (picked it up in an Irish airport and noticed that it had won some awards – had never heard of it prior) AND then I was forced to see an advance screening for work. Note that the movie is worse. Even those few characters who ARE conflicted in the book (Skeeters mother for example) are given the saccharine Hollywood treatment. The lynching of the young black man in the book (which encourages the maids to join Skeeters cute little side project) is glossed over in the film.

    It’s revolting that producers are so cynical (or audiences so obtuse) that even the breathiest, rosy, white-centric assessment of the civil rights movement from a female perspective needs to be toned down.

    When we exited the cinema, there was enough “What the fuck was that shit?” from the audience to tell me I wasn’t alone in my thinking.

  10. vivasixy: It makes all the sense in the world.

    I was alive during the times described, which makes me even angrier at the misrepresentation and the White Knight/Lady theme.

  11. oldlady:
    You don’t know how glad I am to read this, in addition to Jill’s previous post.I have given the Association of African-American Historians’ Statement to several friends/acquaintances (white) who saw the movie and loved it and completely disagreed with the criticisms.

    Is there a link to the statement?

  12. If movies like the The Help and The Blindside are the lowest common denominator, then we still have a long way to go in real life.

  13. I don’t plan to read The Help. The reviews of it, though, are prompting me to re-read books I read years and years ago with a new perspective and (I hope) a little more maturity and awareness. I remember loving The Cay and To Kill a Mockingbird, but I read them both in classrooms that were 100% white and taught by a white teachers so I’m sure our education on them was limited.

  14. Uggh, the whole premise of the book turned me off completely. The fact that people think the book is somehow good or actually reflective of the time is baffling and scary. BLACK PEOPLE ARE NOT YOUR LITERARY PROP.

  15. Thank you, thank you, thank you! I thought I was alone. I own an indie bookshop & when asked for my opinion of Help am honest, but preface my review by stating that EVERYONE ELSE seems to like it & this is only MY opinion. I hated it and resented its superior tone. This book struck me as racist and patronizing, despite hype to the contrary. Apparently not everyone perceives it that way.

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