A reader writes in about getting involved in her new neighborhood. She prefaced this email with a note saying that it might sound stupid and borderline “please educate the white girl,” but she wants to emphasize that she’s asking the question in good faith and is sincerely looking to have a discussion about gentrification, race and community involvement.
I am a white female, almost 26, and moving into a predominantly black neighborhood in August with my (white) husband. The side of the city alone tends to scare both my white and black friends and acquaintances alike, and this block in particular has a particularly bad reputation. I’ve lived in this city nearly my entire life, in various different neighborhoods, and have gone to inner-city public schools throughout the entirety of my education, so the problem isn’t a fear of black people or an overt racism that I have to overcome (I obviously acknowledge the white privilege I have and try my best to keep it in check), but a worry about how to become involved in my community without coming off as “the white girl that wants to save the black people.”
The landlords (who have lived next door for over two decades) have raved about the neighbors and their involvement in the betterment of the community. I would very much love to be involved in community organizing, no matter how informal, and appreciate the idea of what the landlord called “porch parties,” where we all walk up and down the block, meeting and having a beer on each others’ porches, getting to know everyone, ensuring a safer neighborhood by sheer numbers alone. I would like to, for once, actually know who my local congressional representative is and meet with other neighbors to discuss our issues as a community, and I think I’m personally at a point in my life where doing something with immediate results is actually something I have the motivation for.
How do I participate in the community, made up of predominantly African-American people, when it comes to negative issues that, while they affect me as a fellow resident, especially affect them? How do I make sure that I don’t get the wrong idea across? Without looking like a martyr who moves in to save everyone, or a proponent of gentrification? I’m so hyper-paranoid about giving any of my new neighbors the wrong idea, that I’m afraid it will do much more damage than good.
Any suggestions or thoughts?
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