Shameless Self-Promotion Sunday April 26, 2009 Cara It’s a little bit late today folks, but self-promote away. Leave a link in the comments to something you’ve written this week, along with a brief description. Be specific — don’t just link to your whole blog.
I’m skeptical that Justice Breyer is convinced that it’s constitutional to strip-search eighth-graders. I’m annoyed that student newspapers are buying into shoddy anti-student studies promoting alcohol hysteria. And I’m appalled that a Washington high school is suing two teenage girls who it kicked off the cheerleading squad for taking naked photos of themselves on their cell phones.
(Il)legal drugs and me People like to tell me that pot can help pain as though I’d never heard of such a notion. I get into my family history, my particular condition, my relationship with the drugs able-bodied folks have the most contact with (pot, booze, tobacco), and why these suggestions are so fucking insulting. “Low self esteem: A man-made disability“ Digging into a Dove commercial by that title. I’m still sort of slack-jawed, honestly.
I was doing a bit of writing in anger this week, I really need to find another way to deal with stress. One about how the state of NC is now the first to base insurance coverage on BMI’s. The other was a rant based on some comment crap that was dropped in a story about a 10 year old with breast cancer so I Called Bullshit.
Women As A Tool TO Justify Transphobia: New England is currently working on House Bill 1728 which bans discrimination based on gender identity or expression in the areas of employment, housing, credit, public accommodations and public education. In order to defeat this bill opponents have chosen once again to raise the supposed dreaded spectre of “men in womens bathrooms”. Stay At Home Mother Not Considered A Professional: On Bring your child to work day a stay at home mom is told that her children would probably spend the day watching tv and not learning anything. Matthew McConaughey On Black Women: Apparently all black women are fat and wear tight dresses, so of course this make us not cover worthy. The Craigslist Killer Is Just A Normal Guy:When white men are accused of serious crimes unlike black men they are not made representatives of their race. We Sure Loves Us Some Chicken: Popeyes runs out of chicken after a special and the media uses the opportunity to perpetuate the myth that all black people love chicken.
post on the two latest casualties of th Anti-Gay movement http://mzbitca.wordpress.com/2009/04/21/change-of-plans/ new FML Fail http://mzbitca.wordpress.com/2009/04/25/fml-fail-the-new-catch-22/ just because we have justice for angie doesn’t mean we are done. http://mzbitca.wordpress.com/2009/04/26/our-work-is-not-done/
I posted a picture of an issue of Allure magazine which I took the time to mark with post it notes every single full page ad. Wrote about one of my friend’s absurd views about chivalry and argued that he was being sexist. My thoughts on the book Skinny Bastard that comes out tomorrow. It’s by the authors who wrote Skinny Bitch. Wrote about how some well-off men are dealing with losing their jobs and spending more time with their kids. And posted about an interesting article about how Michelle Obama is working to carefully craft a certain image of herself, focusing on her more domestic qualities.
Fluffier posts: Trip to Philadelphia. Calamine is rusty sunscreen! A bad idea for candy. Serious post: From Shakespeare to Stumble Upon, the male gaze is everywhere. A post about the intersection of the male gaze and the concept that male=default, female=weird subgenre of male.
I wrote about a community theatre adaptation of Ellyn Spragins’ edited collection of letters, written by 40 famous women, including Maya Angelou, Ann Curry, Olympia Dukakis, Naomi Wolf, etc. Five local actresses sat comfortably on cozy sofas, while taking turns reading letters written by older women to their younger selves. The reading reminded me of Pink’s powerful song, “Conversations With My 13 Year Old Self”.
I kicked off the “Acting Out” edition of my blog this week with the following: – Problems with Marriage – Critiquing Glow magazine, May 2009. I get Glow magazine because I signed up for it with my Shoppers Optimum card, and I kinda like it. – Race in Cartoons – Random Story about my oldest teddy bear. – Name issues, which tie in with language issues. – One of my race issues. More as I go along. – My ally issues. On the original LJ (Redux edition), I wrote a brief rant on the responsibilities of friends when out drinking. It was in response to the Professor Foxy column at Feministing last week and I just got so mad at the number of “well, other people aren’t responsible for your actions” bullshit.
Against Earth Day – http://blog.elizabethkateswitaj.net/?p=1020 Skin Art – http://blog.elizabethkateswitaj.net/?p=1024 Chicago Police Assault Autistic Boy – http://blog.elizabethkateswitaj.net/?p=1038 A Review of Elina Hirvonen’s When I Forgot – http://genderacrossborders.wordpress.com/2009/04/24/review-when-i-forgot-elina-hirvonen/
I wrote about Angie Zapata’s murder and called for more awareness of transgender issues by feminists. Remembering the T in LGBT
Pepsi: Funding the evil homosexual agenda: Another right wing “family” group gets upset because, heaven forbid, Pepsi actually has good GLBT policies. The racial double standard: When a black couple adopts a white child, they have to constantly deal with the public assuming they’re kidnappers.
Oh, joy. PETA is trying to convince us that violence against women is sexy (again). But they still don’t seem to realize that they’re probably making people think that violence against animals is sexy, too. Should anyone feel so inclined, I also have a post that’s a brief roundup of some vegan anti-PETA stuff.
I wrote a few things this week at the new “Acting Out Edition” of my blog: – Race in Cartoons – Random Story about my oldest teddy bear. – Name issues, which tie in with language issues. – One of my race issues. More as I go along. – My ally issues. In the “Redux Edition” I responded to a sentiment I found really irritating at a Professor Foxy thread, namely, the sentiment that “people aren’t responsible for you when you go drinking”.
Over on my pop culture blog, in honor of Shakespeare’s birthday, I wrote about the six best (IMO) Shakespeare films and eight more I love in spite of their flaws (many of them having to do with gender). I also blogged about the connection between media objectification of women and the Advil-strip-search debacle and complained about a classist car ad. And finally, on a political note (because it’s another horrible “man has argument with wife, opens fire” story) and a personal one (I knew one of the victims, Ben Teague, one the kindest and best people I’ll ever know): Georgia professor sought in shooting death of wife, two others. Please keep the victims’ families in your thoughts. Our community is really shaken up by this.
Great review of the debacle that is the new movie “17” by one of our awesome new youth bloggers, Jill: http://www.amplifyyourvoice.org/u/Jill/2009/4/25/Is-This-Really-What-17-Year-Olds-Need-to-be-Taught-Again-and-Again-and-Again
It was a slow week for me; my finals are kicking into high gear. 1. More Gender Journey Notes: further thoughts on the gender issues I’ve been having; I made a lot of progress, resulting in some concrete decisions about my gender presentation. 2. There is no world before WWII: thoughts on my family and my inherited Holocaust trauma.
A comment on a mailing list by a transwoman caused me to ponder a 1970s alternative to pink blankets/blue blankets and recall Marlo Thomas promoting “Free to Be, You and Me” I called the piece “Green Blankets” Considering it is Earth day Week I thought that might be appropriate for a discussion of the backlash against gender/sex equality that has happened in the years since. http://womenborntranssexual.com/2009/04/26/green-blankets/
I wrote a post about people’s inability to talk about periods: http://callingonyou.wordpress.com/2009/04/21/menstruation-you-can-say-it/
What’s new on Women’s Glib: I saw a lovely anti-rape poster in San Francisco. I talked to the manager of a drugstore where condoms and over-the-counter contraceptives were kept in the very back of the store and about a foot and a half off the ground. Phoebe came across some history textbook sexism. Should sexting be illegal? This teen says no! And diamonds are not Shira’s best friend.
Bea Arthur Tribute: Maude’s Dilemma Pioneered Reproductive Rights Before Roe v. Wade http://snipurl.com/grnh8 Oprah declares herself to be weave-free but that doesn’t stop the policing of black women’s hair in The Racial Politics With Black Women’s Hair http://snipurl.com/gpfm4 White Rapper Asher Roth decides to revive the Don Imus insult to BW, apologizes, then lies and says someone else had hacked into his Twitter account in You’re So Lame Award of Shame – Asher Roth & Larry Summers http://snipurl.com/gkwp Overachieving HS student has to convince her parents she can not only get accept to Oxford but figure out a way to pay for it. Why do expectations betray our best efforts? Sometimes Parents (And Others) Just Don’t Understand http://snipurl.com/gj2ds
Hello! I would like to have couple friends like these: about Jennie Garth and Peter Facinelli on Chelsea Lately. This is one reason I like Free Radio: about weight differentials among women and men in Hollywood. She will Bea missed. about the loss of my favorite Golden Girl. Enjoy!
my thoughts on the new movie Obsessed: http://filthygrandeur.blogspot.com/2009/04/obsessed-hot-interracial-cat-fight.html on my own whiteness: http://filthygrandeur.blogspot.com/2009/04/on-my-own-whiteness.html connotations of “terrorist”: http://filthygrandeur.blogspot.com/2009/04/language-of-racism-todays-word-is.html feminist analysis of robert poe’s Return to the House of Usher: http://filthygrandeur.blogspot.com/2009/04/legacy-of-poe-return-to-house-of-usher.html adam lambert wears eyeliner: http://filthygrandeur.blogspot.com/2009/04/adam-lambert-nail-polish-and-eye-liner.html
http://combatqueer.typepad.com/my_weblog/2009/04/object-of-his-evangelism.html One of my officers likes the young women. Instead of trying to bed them, he likes to try get them into Heaven. It’s ridiculously creepy.
I wrote a followup to my post about how to spot an abusive jerk, incorporating people’s comments. It includes a “life-altering” relationship test involving the use of Fiona Apple’s second album: http://talulahmankiller.wordpress.com/2009/04/20/dude-people-read-this-thing/ And I found a 100+ year-old book on the history of Japan. Written entirely in words of one syllable, because that was supposedly a valid learning tool. Hilarity ensued: http://talulahmankiller.wordpress.com/2009/04/21/re-writing-history-in-words-of-one-syllable/ And this last one is a little old, but deals with the slapstick comedy that results when the near-blind momentarily lose their glasses: http://talulahmankiller.wordpress.com/2009/04/17/nerd-love-averts-nerd-tragedy/
Britain’s Next Top (Anorexic) Model – I’m not buying the do-gooder spin. Is hooking up optimal? – giving the hook-up debate an economic spin.
I conjured up the spirit of Emma Goldman to ask why our society still has so little empathy for sex workers. And in response to the strip-search-in-schools case before the Supreme Court, I noted that both boys and girls are being violated; such searches are related to gender mainly insofar as contempt for children’s bodily integrity is one legacy of patriarchy.
This week in Evil Slutopia: ~Vice President Biden was honored at a symposium on the 15th anniversary of VAWA, so of course we had to add that to our Joe Biden Feminism Watch. ~We also had to add Fox News and right-wing radio host Glenn Beck to our list of people who can suck it. We’re still recovering from researching that one. ~We still haven’t parted with the issue of Cosmo that we bought on the way home from Boston recently, so this week we wrote about how Cosmo will keep you safe if you’re a woman living alone, and also addressed the fact that Cosmo apparently thinks sports are icky.
I talk about the difficulty of quantifying attraction. And last week, I discussed the impact on a culture of importing too much media, and importing too little.
This week over at Fourth Wave, Brianna considers the case of Susan Boyle and LibertyKay explores the idea of advocacy and the Western woman
Recession talks and who they most often affect http://feministcatalyst.blogspot.com/2009/04/who-pays.html and http://feministcatalyst.blogspot.com/2009/04/is-there-echo-in-building.html
I wrote about female sexual empowerment, and what it doesn’t look like by responding to some ads I didn’t like in my post Peta:Blurg. I also wrote about my first reactions to sexual violence growing up in That’s Me.
This week at City of Ladies: I wrote about why the United States should have had a role in the UN Conference Against Racism: The Divided Nations Brian wrote about Miss California and giant gay-repellent umbrellas: This Week in Sexuality (I stay up late and refresh and refresh to try to be near the top of comments, and what do I get? :P)
I’ve got a post on a vital piece of information I keep forgetting to include in my medical history. Also, some people need to get off my lawn, or I might have to stop going to live shows.
A handful of reviews from the week… Boyfriend University: The premise is both insulting and intriguing: “Take advantage of your man and learn while you can.” The authors offer details of their personal dating history and all of the invaluable information they gleaned from the men they spent time with. Auto repair, how to smoke a cigar, how to play beer pong, kick in a door, fix a clogged toilet, and barbeque anything. Wannabes, Goths, and Christians: The Boundaries of Sex, Style, and Status is about the ways in which three groups of young adults in the United States test, push, and break the boundaries of an identity that paradoxically remains largely invisible, yet overwhelmingly dominant: “Whiteness.” Sex Trafficking: Inside the Business of Modern Slavery: In one of the most devastating passages of the book, Kara locates sex slavery at a “massage parlor” in Los Angeles. The young woman he meets was trafficked from Thailand with promises of a job as a waitress. Once in the U.S., she was told that she owed $20,000 to the “massage parlor” owner she was sold to, which she would earn by having sex with several men a day. Handmade Nation: The Rise of DIY, Art, Craft, and Design: Levine gives a brief introduction and makes some intriguing statements that piqued my curiosity about the history of this movement and the idea of thinking about craft as a politicized feminist phenomenon. From a feminist perspective it was interesting to read that ninety-five percent of the crafters Levine interviewed were women.
I went a bit postal at a writer on AfterEllen.com in After Ellen’s “The Trouble with “Bisexual”” and why I am not a Cheeto, including the part where I say Bisexuals are not Cheetos. We don’t come with an expiration date. It’s not like we go bad if we are not used in a timely fashion. I don’t know where this idea came from, which I often see banded around in the lesbian and gay portions of our community, that if you haven’t been actively dating both sexes concurrently and very currently, we are not really bi. And then I got cranky at Jessica Valenti for an lame attempt at a Goddess joke that doesn’t play well with Wiccans in Feminist Weddings, the “Goddess”, and Jessica’s latest article at The Guardian – which is a look at feminist Wiccan weddings. Jessica and I are cool though, cuz she totally apologized in the comments.
Wordless Sunday: The Sunday Papers: exploiting ANZAC Day imagery to sell sheets and footwear Double Carnival Reminder: Blogging Against Disablism Day, and DUFC First Birthday Plus, I made soap.
This week I wrote about Zac Efron’s new movie 17 Again, Disney Princesses, Jessica Valenti on the Today Show, and Torture.
Also, I cannot believe I’m having an argument on whether the patriarchy exists on my own blog. I mean. Wow.
Nothing too exciting this week. One post on (embarrassingly enough) how the body-swap episode of Angel gave me a useful metaphor on why I’ve been feeling so lousy about my transition. In addition, I had a random post about various things I’ve been thinking about, including getting groped at a party…
I reviewed bisexuality documentary “Bi The Way”, which we showed at my sex-positive documentary film series: http://clarissethorn.wordpress.com/2009/04/24/sex-positive-documentary-report-6-bi-the-way/ I posted a heartbreaking but inspiring letter that I received from a Sex+++ fan: http://clarissethorn.wordpress.com/2009/04/26/heartbreaking-but-inspirin/
I wrote about how the “Tell 3” campaign – to talk to three people about “what it’s like to be LGBT” – offends me. http://blog.corinnehoener.net/2009/04/personal-political.html
I’m analyzing at the “Someone Was Raped Here” graffiti popping up on Ohio State’s campus. Happy Sexual Assault Awareness Month
I got a bit religious this week, posting responses to a site called Conversational Atheist on Biblical references to slavery and Jesus’ sacrifice. I also posted some poems by Adrian Plass, evangelical Christian.
I didn’t think I’d have anything this week, but it just occurred to me that (outside its legal definition… and possibly inside it too) a big problem with “consent” is that it’s radically sexualized. Whereas respecting the decision behind consent, not to mention respecting the decision *maker* is scarcely acknowledged at all. I posted about that here. Amanda Marcotte illustrates the problem here figleaf
The authoritarianism of diets. A selection of posts on the torture memos: torture and psychology, torture and philosophys, torture and vivisection.
I’ve got some good stuff this week! A gender/racial analysis of the recent episode of “Bones”: The Girl in the Mask. Being a show I like, I was rather disappointed in this ep. And what I’m sure will become a semi-regular feature: People I Love Who have Done Shit I hate. Up on this post? Seth Rogen, and Nathan Fillion. Speaking of Nathan Fillion… I had an interesting couple nights that culminated in me writing this post: Sex Dreams and Nathan Fillion. And last for the shameless promoting… a pretty picture.
And since I wrote my previous SSPS comment, I’ve also put up this: Psychiatrists see reasonable adaptations to CFS, label it “cause” and “maladaptation”
It’s not rape if she changes her mind: Afghan edition looks at the rationalizations used to defend a law which allows husbands to control their wives. Responding to injustice that doesn’t just happen looks at how investigators shift the responsibility for their actions and inaction related to rape cases onto all those women who lie about rape.
Thank you for being a friend http://suchcoolstuff.blogspot.com/2009/04/thank-you-for-being-friend.html Women’s History_Mae West http://suchcoolstuff.blogspot.com/2009/04/womens-historymae-west.html Metalicious http://suchcoolstuff.blogspot.com/2009/04/metalicious.html Katie m. Berggren – Painting Intimate Moments of Motherhood http://suchcoolstuff.blogspot.com/2009/04/katie-m-berggren-painting-intimate.html i dream i can fly http://suchcoolstuff.blogspot.com/2009/04/idreamicanfly.html Sock Horror http://suchcoolstuff.blogspot.com/2009/04/sock-horror.html The sMacshop http://suchcoolstuff.blogspot.com/2009/04/smacshop.html
Feminist Media Review: Parks and Recreation about a feminist approach to the new sitcom, Parks and Recreation starring Amy Poehler. Mothers in Africa are Dying: Whose Responsibility is it? about maternal mortality in Africa. Book Review: When I Forgot by Elina Hirvonen, a novel about love, mental illness, families, and memory. Alcohol or a Corporate Prostitute? about African sexual dynamics within an academic institution. International Criminal Tribunal for Rwanda: Woman is Accused of Inciting Troops and Militia to Rape Thousands of Women about former Minister of Women and Family Affairs, Pauline Nyiramasuhuko about her crimes during the 1994 genocide in Rwanda.
The Whiteness Problem. Not really A Feminist Issue but perhaps relevant for some anti-racists hangin round here.
At Pink Scare, we discussed the so-called ‘Craigslist killer’ who committed violent crimes against women, which somehow surprise everyone because he’s so “clean-cut” and has such a bright future. How could such a nice, upper-class white man do such bad things? http://pink-scare.blogspot.com/2009/04/how-could-such-nice-upper-class-white.html