But it’s probably worth mentioning that his church promotes a view that domestic violence isn’t grounds for divorce. It’s a more “liberal” view than some other churches — Saddleback basically says that if you’re being beaten “regularly,” you may have grounds for separation (but not divorce), where as other churches assert that you either bring beatings on yourself or they’re part of wifely submission — but as Kathryn Joyce explains in her article, the entire submissive wife framework enables abuse, and makes it much more difficult for women in those churches to get out of abusive situations.
The good news is that Christian women are forming and disseminating Biblical justifications for leaving abusive relationships. The bad news is that influential mega-churches like Saddleback seem not to have taken notice.