A reader writes in:
Hi Feministe – I am an avid reader of your blog, but I’m not sure where to direct this question. My mother, who is in her early 50s, recently ended an abusive 20+ year marriage. In an attempt to get back on her feet again, she has been reading many self-help books for women. When I look at the literature she has chosen, I cringe. I can find nothing in this material that conveys a truly empowering, feminist message. I want to provide her with alternatives, because I’m afraid this literature (ie, Dr. Phil and company) will only serve to perpetuate cycles of abuse.
I know that you’re not a “Q and A” site, but I would love a response from an honest, trusted source.
Suggestions?
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