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Hot For Jesus

If you’re gonna go for religious indoctrination, might as well get ’em young. I wish I could tell you that this is a joke. One section is Habu’s Corner, in which an elephant dressed in a sari is surrounded by the words,

Hey, Habu…
How many gods do you have?

Habu says: ‘I don’t know… I lost count!’

Wouldn’t you rather have just one God who loves you a bunch than a bunch of gods that don’t love you at all?

Jesus loves everybody, even the unsaved like Habu! Remember to pray for Habu and others like him that they may find Jesus and accept Him into their hearts!

Hey, brown people, your gods don’t love you! And neither do your parents!

But Jesus loves you, so much that he’ll even warn you about atheists:

Spiritual Safety Tip

What should you do if you find an Atheist?

[Picture of a goat in pajamas] Atheists such as crotchety old Mr. Gruff think they’ve got it all figured out…

…but then why are they always so sad?

If you find an Atheist in your neighborhood,
TELL A PARENT OR PASTOR RIGHT AWAY!

You may be moved to try and witness to these poor lost souls yourself, however
AVOID TALKING TO THEM!

Atheists are often very grumpy and bitter and will lash out at children or they may even try to trick you into neglecting God’s Word.

Very advanced witnessing techniques are needed for these grouches. Let the adults handle them.

Thank god for Lambuel, the adorable lamb of god, and Just 4 Kidz (the Z stands for Zealousness for Jesus!)

Good Riddance

Sixty-eight members of the Pakistani parliament are threatening to vacate their seats if their country changes its regressive rape laws.

And “regressive” is a generous description. The current law requires that a woman charging rape must produce four witnesses to the crime — a near impossibility for any rape survivor, let alone any victim of a crime in general. If she fails to prove the case, she can be convicted of adultery, which can be punishable by death.

Maulana Fazalur Rahman, a leader of the Islamic coalition, said Tuesday that lawmakers in his group would vacate their seats in the National Assembly if the government tries to get the assembly’s approval to change the law.

“We will render every sacrifice for the protection of the Shariah (traditional Islamic) laws,” he said at a news conference.

What a brave, upstanding man, deserting his privileged position as a member of Parliament in order to continue the promotion of sexual assault and the institutionalized abuse of women. He should be proud.

via Feministing.

Oral Fixation

An economist tries to explain the rise in oral sex among teenagers. Thankfully he doesn’t get all Caitlin Flanagan on us, but his hypotheses aren’t exactly ground-breaking:

Schoolchildren are now bombarded with information about the risks of sex, particularly HIV/AIDS. Oral sex can be safer than penetrative sex: It dramatically reduces the risk of contracting HIV and reduces the effects of some other sexually transmitted infections (although you can still pick up herpes, warts, and thrush). An infection that might have made a girl infertile instead gives her a sore throat.

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Defending Marriage

And by “marriage,” we actually mean “the right to beat the shit out of your partner.”

When a raft of state defense of marriage amendments (DOMAs) passed in 2004, observers (including yours truly) warned that such amendments would not just ban gay marriage but also imperil domestic partnership agreements, next-of-kin arrangements and domestic violence protections for unmarried people. Right-wing backers dismissed such concerns as left-liberal paranoia. Well, I normally love to say “I told you so,” but in this case it brings me no pleasure. Nonetheless, I told you so.

Ohio was one of 11 states to pass DOMAs in 2004, and pundits alleged then that “State Issue No. 1,” as it was called on the ballot, played a major role in John Kerry’s defeat. Whatever the case may be (and let’s hope the ballots are still around to see), one immediate fallout is clear: domestic violence protections for unmarried women.

In late August, Ohio’s Citizens for Community Values (CCV), a right-wing organization devoted to promoting “Judeo-Christian moral values,” filed an amicus brief on behalf of an alleged domestic abuser. For the past 25 years, Ohio’s domestic violence law has covered married couples as well as unmarried and divorced individuals. According to CCV, such protections run afoul of Ohio’s DOMA, which bars the state from recognizing any legal status for unmarried people that “intends to approximate the design, qualities, significance or effect of marriage.” If CCV has their way, “persons living as a spouse” (i.e. unmarried, live-in partners) would no longer be protected under Ohio’s domestic violence statute. Apparently, it’s more important for CCV to preserve the distinction between married and unmarried couples (and pre-empt gay marriage) than it is to prosecute domestic abusers. So much for Judeo-Christian values…

Is anyone actually surprised?

“The Equal Rights Amendment on Steroids”

Sounds good to me — but then, I’m a radical socialist feminist* trying to push my radical agenda of universal human rights on innocent bigots everywhere.

CEDAW is “the Equal Rights Amendment on steroids,” said Mrs. Wright, president of Concerned Women for America. “This is getting the U.N. involved in our homes, our families, our marriages.”
Though signed by President Carter in 1979, CEDAW has never been ratified by the Senate, but activists on the U.N. CEDAW committee are using the treaty to enforce an agenda of population control and homosexual rights on other nations, Mrs. Wright said.
The CEDAW committee has “told China they must decriminalize prostitution,” and “told Mexico to change their laws against abortion,” and even told the governments of Muslim nations that they must interpret the Koran according to CEDAW, Mrs. Wright said at the monthly luncheon of the Conservative Women’s Network, co-sponsored by Heritage and the Clare Boothe Luce Policy Institute.

She’s right, CEDAW is certainly threatening. I mean, just read the crazy radical ideas that it promotes:

The Convention defines discrimination against women as “…any distinction, exclusion or restriction made on the basis of sex which has the effect or purpose of impairing or nullifying the recognition, enjoyment or exercise by women, irrespective of their marital status, on a basis of equality of men and women, of human rights and fundamental freedoms in the political, economic, social, cultural, civil or any other field.”

By accepting the Convention, States commit themselves to undertake a series of measures to end discrimination against women in all forms, including:

* to incorporate the principle of equality of men and women in their legal system, abolish all discriminatory laws and adopt appropriate ones prohibiting discrimination against women;
* to establish tribunals and other public institutions to ensure the effective protection of women against discrimination; and
* to ensure elimination of all acts of discrimination against women by persons, organizations or enterprises.

Total insanity.

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Tag-Team Parenting

A report (pdf) from the Center for Economic and Policy Research examines the differences in the division of household labor and parenting across socioeconomic lines. According to the report:

— Less educated parents are more likely to work evening and night shifts. Among working mothers without a high school degree, only 58.5 percent have a day shift.

— Within two-earner, married-couple families with young children, the most common kind of childcare is formal daycare (29.4 percent), followed closely by relative care (27.3 percent), then parental care (25.5 percent). Lower-income two-earner married couples are more likely to use parental and relative care than higher-income families.

— While 27.1 percent of married mothers use parental care, only 10.3 percent of single mothers report parental care as their most common kind of childcare.

— Low-income mothers are more likely to report that they work their current schedule to address childcare needs (41.5 percent) compared to those in the top income quartile (30.0 percent).

— The older a family is, the more likely it is that the spouses have similar schedules.

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Like a Virgin

For all the fetishization of virginity among social conservatives — the pledges, the purity rings, the purity balls — there’s little recognition that this is something only young girls and young women are supposed to be concerned about. Nobody really gets excited about adult women keeping their virginity — possibly because social conservatives expect women to marry young.

But there are a significant number of adult women who are still virgins into their 20s and 30s, and not all of them are trying to hang onto their virginity. In fact, many of them would really, really like to lose it, but as they get older, they find that more and more, they’re viewed as freaks who have something wrong with them, who might get too attached or who might invest too much in the experience:

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Ah, Monarchy.

It always amuses me that some of the most progressive and scientifically-advanced countries in the world still cling to their monarchies, even as figureheads, supporting their lavish lifestyles with tax money and public property that could be put to better use elsewhere — I mean, with Queen Elizabeth II probably the richest woman in the world due to her ginormous worldwide real estate holdings that she only has because she inherited them after her predecessors grabbed them through force of arms and oppression, is it really necessary for the government to support her?

Sure, she throws a good state dinner, and she and her family provided a real shot in the arm to London during the Blitz, but what real value is she giving back to England these days?

I’ll say this for the English, though: they long ago got over the idea that the monarch *must* be male, and got a couple of their most effective and longest-serving monarchs in the bargain, back when being the queen meant exercising real power. The Swedes did them one better and have dispensed with the requirement that every male in line to the throne must be disqualified before reaching the women — they changed their rules of accession so that the first-born heir, regardless of gender, would take the throne.

But that still doesn’t get around the problem of inherited power turning queens and princesses into wombs of the state, pressured to produce an heir or be considered a failure. Such retrograde notions of a woman’s worth have had a distressing effect on Crown Princess Masako of Japan, a well-educated, kick-ass international diplomat who reluctantly left her career to marry Crown Prince Naruhito and has been under such intense scrutiny for her failure to produce a male heir (she has a four-year-old daughter who, under current rules, may not become Empress) that she has suffered from stress-related illnesses like shingles.

Things had gotten to the point that the government was considering changing the Imperial Household Law of 1947, which limited the succession of the Chrysanthemum Throne to direct male descendants of the Emperor. Until today, neither Naruhito nor his younger brother, Fumihito, and his wife, Kiko, had any sons. Naruhito and Masako had one daughter, Aiko, and Fumihito and Kiko had two. Today, Kiko had a son, securing the line for one more generation and pushing the issue of a more equitable succession and a recognition of a women’s equal ability to be figureheads for an empire that no longer exists to the back burner. And it’s too bad, because there was some support for allowing Aiko to become Empress, though, predictably, there was opposition from those who worship the Y chromosome:

The proposed bill had stirred unexpectedly fierce opposition from Japan’s conservatives, who argued that the male-only succession was the Chrysanthemum Throne’s defining characteristic. Japan has had eight empresses in the past, but they did not have offspring who succeeded them.

Instead, the throne reverted to a male relative who was related on his father’s side to a previous emperor. That, conservatives argued, had always guaranteed the purity of the male bloodline — or, in more modern terms, the male Y chromosome.

According to this logic, conservatives did not oppose changing the law to allow Princess Aiko to ascend the throne but refused to countenance a revision that would allow her offspring to do so. The Japanese public overwhelmingly supported Princess Aiko’s ascension, according to polls, though support for a matrilineal line dipped by a few percentage points.

Among possible solutions to the succession crisis, conservatives proposed that other branches of the imperial family, abolished during the post-World War II American occupation, be resurrected to find a relative of the emperor with the right Y chromosome. Prince Tomohito of Mikasa, 60, a cousin of the current emperor, argued for the revival of the concubine system, which in the past had made plenty of child-bearing women available to the emperor.

One good thing that may come of the birth of a baby boy: the pressure on Masako may finally relent.

The birth may also end the psychological drama surrounding the royal family, especially Princess Masako. When she gave up a career in diplomacy to marry the crown prince in 1993, she was heralded as a modern Japanese woman who could perhaps even modernize the imperial institution. But the princess was soon confronted with the reality that she was now expected to do only one thing: bear a male heir.

When the couple finally had a child, it was a girl, Princess Aiko. The Imperial Household Agency, the powerful bureaucracy that oversees the royal family, kept up the pressure to have another child, and Princess Masako eventually slipped into a depression.

Her plight led the crown prince to hold an extraordinary news conference two years ago, in which he stated that he would not let his wife be sacrificed for the greater good of the monarchy. “There has been a move,” the prince said, “to deny Masako’s career and personality.”

Ya think?

Princess Kiko, the daughter of a university professor who never had a career before marrying, has become the darling of the Japanese media. By contrast, Princess Masako has increasingly become a target, routinely criticized by the conservative media for her supposed selfishness and lack of common sense.

Sounds like “Don’t Marry A Career Woman,” Japan-style.