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Creature Comforts and Other Weekend Reads

CREATURE COMFORTS: We see a working dog at the grocery store about once a week that has really fascinated my son Ethan. The dog has shown up over the last few months with various folks who appear to be training or actively working with the dog in his harness to navigate the bazillion carts clogging the aisles and get his subject through checkout and back to the car.

Because it’s been such an interest for E, it was serendipitous that an article on the very subject showed up in the NYTimes this week about the apparent controversy over working animals. The controversy surrounds the definitions of “disability,” “working animal” and the “tasks” they perform, as well as the ability of the animals’ subjects’ ability to describe why the animals are necessary on outings to stores, restaurants, and on public transportation, even though their subjects may not be the most qualified to describe their needs and tasks in clinical terms. Dogs appear to be most socially acceptable to public officials, over other working animals such as miniature horses and primates, and are doing what they can to make dogs the only acceptable working animals.

My most pressing question after reading this excellent article is why an animal who is not a dog but is trained, disease-free, happy, and well-treated, should be prevented from helping an individual with a mental or physical disability gain better access to equal opportunity?

*** UPDATE: Evil Fizz points out in the comments that the author of the article, Rebecca Skloot, is also a blogger who is updating and answering questions about the article here and here. Of particular interest is an impressive video on the training of Panda, the working horse pictured above. ***

ALSO ON ANIMALS, but really about shitting on single moms (again), Dear Prudence rounds up her best and worst of 2008 and singles out young, single moms as irresponsible rubes that don’t understand their own impulses even as she’s being criticized for doing just that in the original article. If you read the original, the subject is “Pitbulls and Toddlers Make Me Nervous When They Hang Out Together,” but Prudence reads, “The Real Issue is That The Toddler’s Mom Gave Birth Before I Am Socially Comfortable With Single Parents, So Let’s Make The Dog Thing About That.”

The biggest lesson learned is not to write Dear Prudence if you’re a parent before the age of thirty.

WHAT WOMEN WANT: At Jack & Jill Politics, the results of a survey by YWCA on what women want from the Obama administration.

THE AGE OF INNOCENCE?: At Body Impolitic, thoughts on porn and the passing of Bettie Page.

WOMEN, AGING, AND WORK: Octogalore on Jennifer Aniston “feeling at ease with her age” when that means getting naked for a photo-shoot, and on women in positions of political power when they are placed there rather than being elected.

MENSTRUATION RULES MY SHOPPING HABITS: Marketing brown diamonds as “chocolate diamonds,” because women will buy anything chocolate.

A CLASS ABOVE: A college education may move out of reach for most of the U.S. Also, an international conversation on women, motherhood, and workplace mobility.

DO IT FOR THE KIDS: For nature-lovers and ecoists, this picture- and trivia-heavy blog may become one of your new favorites. My nine-year-old and I talk about the pictures and ideas featured on an almost nightly basis.

ONO, RACISM, AND SEXISM, OH MY!: And finally, if you haven’t been following Cara’s series on Yoko Ono, you really should be. Even though I’m not a die hard Beatles fan like Cara is, I’m absolutely fascinated by her analysis of Yoko Ono’s place in history and how easily Ono’s story narrates commonplace sexism and racism in action that ultimately colors Ono’s own legacy as well as that of John Lennon’s. [Intro, Part I, Part II, Part III, and more in queue.]

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Things to make your blood boil

As if the news today wasn’t depressing and soul-crushing enough, I have some more tidbits for you:

A Georgia woman was jailed for refusing to remove her hijab when entering a courtroom.

An article about a transgender golfer feeds into all kinds of gender stereotypes (the article literally ends with the line, “As a sensitive women, Lawless knows what it’s like to lose. After falling 1 yard short in the 2007 semifinals and being eliminated, she had cried. Cried herself a river, just like the girl she always wanted to be”), and the comments are full of hate and transphobia.

Female genital cutting is widespread among the Kurdish population in Iraq. Some women and girls who have had their genitals cut are speaking out. The pictures are deeply troubling, but worth a look if you can stomach it.

A lesbian woman is gang-raped in San Francisco. She appears to have been singled out because of her sexual orientation.

A Republican seeking to be the next chairman of the RNC sent out a Christmas CD to Committee members of various songs lampooning liberals, including “Barack the Magic Negro.” Please, dudes, keep it up. Catering only to old straight white men is a strategy that cannot possibly fail.

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People who deserve a special place in Hell

I know Thanksgiving is tomorrow and we’ll all be getting extra-thankful, but today I’d like to list a few people who I’m not thankful for.

AIDS denialists. The South African government could have prevented the deaths of 365,000 people, but President Thabo Mbeki’s bought into AIDS denialists’ claims — another “victory” for ideology over science. I’m at least heartened to see that Mbeki’s successor has taken a more progressive track and is fighting the spread of HIV.

Religious fundamentalists who attack schoolgirls with acid. At least ten of them have been arrested. Women who speak out — or little girls who go to school — are threatened, attacked, maimed, raped and sometimes killed.

Brazilian law enforcement, which is targeting abortion providers and women who terminate pregnancies. Some 150 women have been charged with the crime of abortion; thousands of women had their private medical records publicly released; and some of the accused were forced to undergo invasive medical procedures to gather evidence. I suppose, though, that they’re just doing what the Pope says. The “pro-life” nation of Brazil has one of the highest abortion rates in the world; across Latin America, 5,000 women die every year and more than 80,000 are hospitalized after clandestine abortions. And Brazil has the fifth-highest youth murder rate in the world (with four “pro-life” nations beating it out). Not sayin’ that a country’s abortion policies influence the murder rate (this isn’t Freakonomics); am sayin’ that if they really value life, dealing with an obscene rate of youth murder may be a better place to start than arresting women who terminate pregnancies. Just sayin’.

Dudes who take (and get off on) “up-skirt” shots without the woman’s consent.

Army higher-ups who don’t give a rat’s ass about domestic violence. “Honey, we are not going to bring a soldier back who beat on his wife a couple of times or because you feel things weren’t done correctly. He is over there fighting for his life” is not a good enough response.

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The Good, The Bad, and the Weirdly Interesting

A Monday morning link round-up.

The Good:

Christiane Amanpour, one of my personal heroes and favorite reporters, finally has her own show.

Saudi Arabia’s first “all-girl” rock band is making (underground) waves (not really sure why the group is “all-girl” when the “girls” are in college, but I’ll let it go this time).

The Bad:

A woman was murdered and two others wounded in a New Jersey church, when the woman’s estranged husband showed up and gunned them down. She had a restraining order against him and had moved from California to New Jersey to escape his abuse.

A 14-year-old boy was killed by his mother’s live-in boyfriend, who she was in the process of getting a restraining order against.

“Human rights activist” claims that it’s ok to harass women — as long as they’re Israeli. Yeah, no.

Teh Gays are coming! TO YOUR TOWN!

The Weirdly Interesting:

Pink and Blue: Photos of kids who will only play with gender-specific toys.

The nine most disturbingly misogynist ads of all time. I think the first is my favorite, for sheer oh-my-god-that-is-horrific factor. via Jezebel.

I cannot help loving this video. Damn you, Beyonce, for making such fun anti-feminist feminist songs! Damn you for your glorious, glorious music videos, whether you’re imitating Jay-Z and playing with baby alligators or partaking in an ass-slapping Fossean nightmare. And damn you Justin Timberlake for wearing a leotard and high heels almost as well as B. Enjoy:

Stuff to Read

RED SEX, BLUE SEX. Evangelical teens and sexual activity. Margaret Talbot looks at sexual activity in red states and blue states, and the ideologies behind it. It’s a fascinating read.

WHAT CAN I DO? Amanda on how able-bodied people can help to create accessible solutions for disabled people.

THE MOMIFICATION OF MICHELLE OBAMA. Rebecca Traister is one of my favorite feminist writers, and she nails it in this article. What I particularly like about it is that it’s not over-simplified — she recognizes that the media has a hand in shaping Michelle’s image, but that Michelle herself is a smart woman and presents a certain face to the world (and makes certain choices). Traister also recognizes that Michelle, like all of us, is caught in a world that makes conflicting demands on women, and especially on working mothers — to be the perfect mom, entirely selfless and dedicated 100% to your children, while still working just as hard (or harder) than the guys in the office. Of course, women rarely have the built-in support system that working men have (that is, a wife).

NO SENSE OF IRONY. Nancy on why it’s not ok to support Proposition 8 and then hide behind the Constitution. Yes, you have your right to free speech and your right to vote, and you can use that right to take away civil rights from other people. But then you don’t get to whine when those other people use their First Amendment rights to call you a jackass and boycott your business. Best line: “No sense of irony, straight guys. But hearing them play the you’re-the-real-bigot-for-punishing-me-for-exercising-my-right-to-free-speech card just got on my last gay nerve.”

NEW MEDIA, SAME OLD STORY: Women’s voices are muted on the Huffington Post. Just a tiny PSA: HuffPo does accept submissions. I know a lot of you are great writers, so consider submitting more formal blog posts to them. The best way to get it on the front page is to have some sort of news hook — make it relevant to the events of today, and make it something that will get people talking.

REPRODUCTIVE HEALTH ESSAY CONTEST. Write about reproductive health, win a trip to DC.

BATTLE FOR THE BRAINS. Why playing the dumb card failed the GOP.

ANTI-CHOICERS DON’T CARE ABOUT LOWERING THE ABORTION RATE. Shocker.

THE BARRIER THAT DIDN’T FALL. Women report discrimination and inequality at work, at home and in the media. Men don’t seem to notice, even while almost 40% of them say that a male is “naturally more suited” to carrying out the duties of the presidency.

Jesus Had Two Daddies, A Weekend Reader

DO I HAVE TO PUT A RING ON IT?: A guest blogger at Post-Bourgie writes on Beyonce’s new song, “Single Ladies,” specifically noting that “in her songs, Beyonce celebrates the oppressive power dynamic that exists between men and women, while simultaneously trying to imply that women can utilize the subordinate position in a heterosexual romantic relationship to empower themselves.” Like The Rules for the MTV crowd.

AWESOMENESS: A couple of weeks ago when Cara said that Sociological Images was an awesome new blog, she wasn’t kidding. I find myself bookmarking more and more of their posts by the day to write about here, then finding little more that I can add to their already great commentary, for example, this recent post on Baltimore’s HonFest and representations of gender and class, this post on how The View is redefining the idea of “women’s issues” on daytime television, and gendered Motrin ads (because they “feel our gendered pain,” and not in the PMS-y, I’m-about-to-rip-out-my-cramping-uterus-OMFG way).

MARRIAGE MATTERS TO US,” Terrance writes, “us” being black gays and lesbians:

Anti-gay marriage amendments and ballot initiatives like Proposition 8 only harm Black gay and lesbian famlies, many of whom are already economically disadvantaged. Cannick may think marriage equality is “secondary” to other issues, or can wait until others are addressed. But that also means that thousands of our families will continue to suffer injustice, economic and otherwise, indefinitely and without remedy.

For them, inequality is a daily burden added to the rest: making ends meet, putting food on the table, keeping a roof over their heads, and simply providing for their families.

For many of our families, equality is not a “luxury,” as Cannick calls it. It is justice.

IN OTHER NEWS, Bitch PhD discusses the passing of Prop 8 and future strategies for framing gay marriage as an equality issue.

CLASS MATTERS: Robert writes on visual class indicators, and how one colleague makes the case that gender and race are more obvious a marker than social class when it come to, say, a job interview. But is this so?

FIRST WIVES CLUB: Octogalore analyzes the public personas of Michelle Obama and Cindy McCain.

IRONICAL: This Christmas, highlight your faith with the American Family Association’s burning cross on your lawn! No, really.

JESUS HAD TWO DADDIES: Scenes from the nationwide protests here, here, and here.

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#44: Thoughts From Around The ‘Sphere

JJP links to this article on Alternet showcasing thoughts on the impending Barack Obama presidency by black leaders such as Maya Angelou, Spike Lee, Toni Morrison, and others. Maya Angelou, initially a Hillary Clinton supporter, says,

I never thought I’d see a black president in the White House in my lifetime. I didn’t even dare dream it. I feel like a child approaching Christmas, you can’t believe election day is finally here. It’s been so long since we’ve had people — Asian and black, white and Spanish-speaking — come together and say YES. Some did during the civil rights struggle but not as many as today. What it means if Mr Obama is voted in, is that my country has agreed to grow up, and move beyond the childish idea that human beings are different.

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Stuff to Read

Too much good stuff, too little time to blog about it all.

One of my favorite pro-choice writers, Cristina Page, covers birth control as a campaign issue.

I Voted by Justin Krebs. Just reading this made me tear up.

Republican Party hate-mail in Florida, by Michael Hussey. And Republican fund-raising emails joke about killing Obama.

Renee takes Republicans to task for their own Palin-related sexism.

Some I really miss Seattle.

Matt Ivester, the owner of Juicy Campus (a gossip site wherein anyone can post anonymous hateful and defamatory comments about their fellow students), says that the ladies are just “going to have to start developing a sense of humor.” The site has posts with titles like “Biggest Whores” and “Sorority Sluts,” wherein the full names of female students are posted. The people doing the posting are allowed to do so anonymously. Ivester says he’s hoping to add photos and video soon. I for one hope he gets his ass handed to him in court some day soon.

Echidne has a multi-part series on why she is a feminist, and it’s a must read. Part I: The Right to Go Out; Part II: Planet of the Guys; Part III: Our Father Who Art in Heaven; Part IV: The Invisible Women; Part V: The Female Body as Property; and Part VI: The Longest Revolution.

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Random Weekend Reader

SINCE I’M BROKE and the economy has been tanking I’ve been perusing a lot of economics blogs. One of my new favorites is Queer Cents, a blog that talks money management with a focus on and around the queer community. Pros: posts on topics such as how to buy dresses when you look like a man, ways to avoid medical bankruptcy, and how to write letters to fix your credit report. Cons: many of the writers assume you have money to throw around in the first place. Still, great advice and worthy of the blogroll.

FOR OTHER COOL economics blogs, see Feminist Finance and her posts on things such as saving your money on stuff like diamond engagement rings and how parents approach girls and boys on saving or spending their allowances.

ANOTHER ROLL-WORTHY BLOG that I’ve been salivating over is Post-Bourgie, a group blog that deals with politics and pop culture through the lens of, well, this: “suddenly [we were] smack dab in the middle class, surrounded by scores of self-congratulating Negroes who patted each other on the back because they were about something and self-congratulating white folks who patted themselves on the back because they had black friends. But damn it if we didn’t love the sushi!” Contributor Jamelle guest blogged at Feministe over the summer and in addition to keeping up his own blog, is writing good stuff about, say, black perspectives on gay marriage. Other excellent posts that I’ve been saving that I’ll never find time to write about include this one on why the ladies love Don Draper (of Mad Men) and why marriage is a flimsy cure for family poverty.

NEWS ON ABORTION: Lynn rounded up a huge list of news and blog posts on abortion and the law.

IT’S KIND OF tacky to link to a post on celebrities without makeup, but I think BitchPhD makes a good argument in favor of, in that, “it really is a lovely collection of candid pictures of women of all ages, women whose faces you know, looking like–well, looking like women you know. Many of them are beautiful, a couple are average-looking, most are above average (after all, these *are* women whose livings depend in part on their looks). It’s a nice reality check nonetheless: these are women whose *jobs* are to present images of extra-human beauty, and what we usually see when we see them is: them working. When they’re not working (at their job of looking amazing) they look like . . . real people.” And like she says, don’t read the captions or the comments unless you feel like trashing your computer and swearing off the internet.

I WANT TO make my conservative and/or racist family members watch this video, but I’m afraid the mention of the AFL-CIO will scare them off even more — even though it brought me to tears. Mostly I want to know how blue-collar, working folks’ unions became a scary feature of The Left.

JOHN COLE FOUND a picture of Todd Palin, first dude of Alaska, holding a sign at a McCain rally stating, “Charles Manson was a community organizer.” Also, it might be good for the McCain-Palin campaign if they could spell their national attack ads correctly. [UPDATE: The Todd Palin pic is disputed in the comments below.]

WHAT DO WOMEN want from the next president? Carmen of Racialicious breaks it down.

TERRENCE WRITES on how bullying affects children and how we should deal with bullying as parents and as activists.

THERE IS A serious cell phone bias in political polling which may not be accounting for the youth and/or technically savvy vote. Some are talking about the Bradley effect this election cycle, but with people dropping land lines like hotcakes I wonder if we won’t be talking about the cell phone effect in 2012.

DEAR WHITE VOTERS, this is what McCain thinks of you.

ORLY? Freakonomics author says that mixed-race children are “better-looking.” What exactly is the determinant for attractiveness? And what of the fact that very few of us meet/fail the one-drop rule? Ruling: study is annoying as hell, and the determinant for “annoying as hell” is “because I said so.”

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Linky linky

’cause I’ve been collecting these stories for a couple days.

Fellow guestblogger Renee hits one out of the park: No More Penis Envy. I think I scared my cats laughing so freakin hard.

I am not sure if Nezua is guestblogging this summer but I am sure some of you remember him from last year. He wrote a piece this weekend on age, power, culture, authority and respect that takes a little longer to chew on, but the flavor is rich and the savor lingers long.

A bunch of parents in Fairfax County, Virginia, raised $125,000 to sue the school district for reworking the boundaries so as to integrate the local schools (on an economic basis). The kids were assigned to South Lakes High School, but the parents wanted them to go to the richer Oakton High. It will surprise precisely none of you, of course, that OHS is also whiter. (SLHS: 46% white, 20% black, 16% latin@ and 11 asian. OHS: 67% white, 11% black and latin@.) They argue on the basis of SAT scores for the schools overall, but here’s the thing: when you run the results for white kids in both schools, the SAT outputs are, respectively, 1730 and 1734. This is true on a general basis; in schools that are socioeconomically diverse, minority and poor kids do much better, and white kids do about the same. But, well, what do you really think those parents were suing over? Were they fighting for the right kind of education? Or were they fighting for the right kind of people?

Sir Charles taps into his righteous anger:

So much of the general public, including most of us in the blogosphere, are completely removed from the danger and physical difficulty of this kind of work.  That’s why you hear people talking about raising the Social Security retirement age to 70 — they have no idea what it’s like to hump it on a construction site for 30 or 40 years, no idea what it is like to pick up and lay down cinder block, one after the other for eight hours a day in 90 degree heat or 30 degree cold, no sense of what it takes to walk the iron or hoist re-bar or climb ladders and scaffolding when you’re 58 years old and your back is bad and your knees are screaming and your body is just broken down.  It’s easy for some asshole editorial writer or some glibertarian blogger to talk about working until you are 70 — but my feeling on this is that if the heaviest thing you lift every day is a cup of coffee or a bulky file — just shut the fuck up on this subject.

Preach it, brother.

And let’s wish Cara a happy belated birthday! She thought she was going to get away without mentioning it here, but ha-ha! I will catch up several days later and use my guest-blogging privileges to bring it to light! Take THAT, Cara! (Happy birthday, too. ;))

I have a post coming up that’s riffing off of the complaints in that post. In the meantime, let’s break out the little tooty toys and party hats, and I’ll go get the trick candles…