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How to Create a Feminist Burlesque Scene

I’ve been privileged enough to spend a good portion of the last two summers involved in creating a queer neo-burlesque scene in Mexico City with an amazing group of talented individuals. It all started two years ago when a group of new chilango friends found out I did burlesque and arranged for me to perform at the Festival Lésbico in Mexico City. I’d never performed for such a huge lesbian audience before, and it stands out in my memory as one of the best shows of my life. The crowd was amazingly supportive, cheering and hollering for more, offering me heartfelt congratulations as I walked off the stage, and eagerly talking to me and asking me questions after the show.

It was due to the success of that performance that my friends and I planned for me to teach a burlesque workshop in Mexico City the following summer, which was my first time teaching a burlesque workshop, as well as my first time teaching exclusively in Spanish. A friend of mine who had taught burlesque workshops in New York told it to me straight, “Teach from your experience, from your strengths. If you’re not a great dancer, don’t teach them how to dance. Teach what you know.” It was excellent advice, and in addition to teaching a bit about the burlesque history and what I believe are the elements of an interesting and entertaining burlesque act, I also tried to work conversations about feminist burlesque into the workshop.

I was so proud of the acts that were spawned by that workshop, and remain awed by the creativity and bravery of the participants, many of whom had never been on a stage before, let alone done a strip-tease before. Even more impressive than our “recital,” however, was the burlesque troupe that grew out of this workshop when the participants decided to continue performing after I had gone back to New York, producing their own shows in a city that doesn’t exactly have a surfeit of queer-friendly performance venues.

This summer, I was invited to join this group on a mini-tour to Oaxaca City, sponsored and organized by queer arts collective Luzónica, during which, two important things happened:

1) Our group participated in several interviews with local newspapers, during which we really tried to address this idea of performing burlesque that was feminist.

2) During our big show, almost all of the female performers were hasseled and/or groped by male audience members as we traveled from the stage to the dressing room.

These events got me thinking once again about what feminist burlesque means in the first place. First of all, I’m not one of those people who believes that burlesque is inherently feminist, just like I don’t believe that sex work is inherently feminist, or that motherhood is inherently feminist, or any other complicated activity/institution/tradition is inherently feminist. You can work to make them feminist. You can approach them from a feminist perspective (whatever that means). But they are not inherently feminist.

As the grandmother of modern musical theater, vaudeville, and striptease, burlesque has a complicated history. If we trace its origins back to the 19th century, burlesque started out as a form of theater for the working classes that would parody aristocratic traditions such as operas and other “high brow” art forms. Overtime, the role that women’s bodies and sexuality played in selling “burlesque” to the masses increased little by little, from featuring women wearing flesh-colored tights (racy in the 1860’s), to “belly dancing” and other “sexy” dance moves, to the type of striptease anyone who has seen Gypsy is familiar with. The “neo-burlesque” scenes that exist in so many American cities today draw from this rich history, but also have the opportunity, and, I believe, the obligation, to differentiate themselves from the parts of it that are ugly and unjust.

So, here’s a draft of my manifesto-in-progress about what it means to create a burlesque scene that is feminist.

Tips for Burlesque Performers

  • There is a long history of using racist stereotypes in burlesque themes and costumes and music. This is a part of burlesque’s history that we need to depart from. This means, if you’re not of Chinese ancestry, don’t do a “China Doll” number. If you’re not Native American, don’t do a “woo woo woo woo woo coyboys and Indians” number. If you’re not Latina/West Indian, don’t do a “Carmen Miranda”/”island girl” number. And, finally, if you’re not Black, don’t do a “primitive/savage” number, or an “Aunt Jemima” number, or a “ghetto princess” number. You can’t defend this by calling it “classic” or an “update on a classic.” At best, it’s culturally appropriative, at worst, it’s incredibly racist, no matter that you’re “not a racist” or “didn’t mean it that way.” Don’t take advantage of the fact that most burlesque audiences (in New York, anyway) are white (and apathetic/ignorant about racism) to perform your racist act. Just don’t do it. It’s fucked up, it’s not funny, and it’s lazy artistry. As a community of performers, we can and must do better than this.
  • If someone you’re performing with is doing a number you think is racist, don’t just ignore it. Just because the audience loved it doesn’t make it OK. Have a conversation with them telling them how you feel. Don’t be afraid of being “politically correct.”
  • Don’t be afraid to make your acts more political! Sure, it’s not for everyone, and not every act can (or should) have a “message,” but a well-constructed number that is fun, sexy, and also says something is something to be proud of. Don’t force it, but experiment with working one into your repetoir if it makes sense.
  • Be respectful of sex-workers. I mostly mean two things by this. First, being a burlesque performer does not make you a sex-worker (although, of course, there are performers who are both), so don’t go around claiming sex-worker identity just because you do burleque. It’s different. Second, don’t insult strippers just because being a burlesque performer is different from being a stripper. You are not better than a stripper just because you don’t take off all your clothes, or because you think you are more of an artist, or because you are not “in it for the money,” or whatever you are telling yourself to that effect. We can coexist supportively.
  • Strut your stuff and have fun. There are few things as awesome to see as a woman (no matter what age, shape, or size) enjoying her sexiness and working it on stage.

Tips for Burlesque Producers

  • Hire an M.C. who knows how to control the crowd and can set a supportive, fun, light-hearted tone. This is so important in making sure the audience has fun and the performers have fun and feel comfortable. The ideal M.C. should be able to teach the audience (if they are new to burlesque) how to cheer and be a good audiece, as well as what is not acceptable behavior and what the consequences will be. And, they should be able to do this in a way that is funny and makes the audience feel at home. I admit that these M.C.’s are hard to find, but they are important and great and they will make your show go smoothly by setting a tone that is supportive and fun. (Also, if most of your performers are women, try to mix it up between men and women M.C.’s. There are some great female M.C.’s out there that should not be overlooked!)
  • If you are producing a burlesque show, it is your responsibility to create an environment that is safe and comfortable for your performers. That means having staff on hand ready to deal with excessively drunk, aggressive, or abusive audience members. And by “deal with,” I mean “kick out.” Burlesque performers are hardly delicate flowers who live in fear of being crushed, but we don’t like to be heckled, groped, harrassed, followed to our cars, or otherwise made to feel unsafe or uncomfortable. Anyone giving the performers (or women or queer people of people of color in the audience) a hard time needs to be ejected and banned from future shows. Plan for this just in case.
  • Look at how the space you are using is set up. Are performers given adequate privacy when they are changing their clothes? Do performers have to walk through a crowd from the stage to the dressing room? If so, is someone on hand to escort them if the crowd is a little “grabby”? Maybe you know your crowd better than some of the guest performers, so use your expertise to see what changes need to be made to accomodate performer safety and comfort.
  • Different performers have different policies regarding photographs of their performances. Some want as many photos taken all the time, in all states of undress. Others are fine with photos as long as they don’t end up on pornographic websites. Others like to have some control of what photos are taken and what they are used for. Others still just want a copy of whatever photos are taken to use on their own websites and publicity. Again, burlesque performers aren’t delicate flowers. We are realistic about nude or semi-nude photos of us getting slapped up on the internet. But, if you are producing a burlesque show, as a courtesy, check with performers in advance about their own photo-policy preferences and decide ahead of time what the policy will be. Or, if you have a specific photo-policy in place, make sure invited performers know what to expect in advance, so that those with photo-limits will be able to decide whether they feel comfortable performing at your show. Also, make sure audience members are aware of your photo policy and that it is appropriately enforced.
  • On a related note, ask performers whether they are OK with documentary photographers or videographers coming back stage to take pictures. I can’t tell you how often this happens, often with no warning.
  • Take a good long look at who you are inviting to perform. If they are mostly white, mostly skinny, and mostly young, then you’ve got some work to do. I’m not talking about tokenism. (Simone de la Ghetto has incorporated critiques of tokenism into her performances.) Reach out to performers who fall outside mainstream (Dita Von Teese) standards of beauty. (No disrespect meant to Dita, but there are many talented performers out there who don’t have “perfect bodies” or white skin.) But don’t just reach out. Really look at what you can do to make the burlesque show/scene you are creating more friendly to performers that aren’t the average (white, thin, young, able-bodied). In case you were worried, know that audiences really do like all different kinds of beauty.
  • Look at your audience and your location. If your show is in Bed Stuy, but your audience is all white, then you’ve got some work to do. Where are you advertising? How are you advertising? What are you doing to make sure people of color are welcome at your show? (Not having performers or M.C.’s who trade on racism in their acts might be a start.)
  • On that note, if you know a performer does racism numbers, don’t ask her to perform in your show. Or, if you absolutely must invite that performer, explain that your show doesn’t allow racist numbers and that they aren’t welcome to perform certain acts. Maybe they’ll get the idea.

Tips for Burlesque Audiences

  • First of all, at a burlesque show, cheer like crazy whenever you see anything you like. Do everything you can to show the performers that you think they are beautiful, brilliant, and talented.
  • Don’t only cheer for performers that are skinny, white, with little waists and big tits. One of the best compliments I ever got was from some random guy after a show who said, “Thank you for making me think something is sexy that I never thought was sexy before.” He was talking about my armpit hair. So, keep an open mind. I’ve been blown away by the different kinds of sexiness I’ve encountered in burlesque shows over the years, from performers I never expected to blow me away.
  • Similarly, if you are a straight guy, and there happens to be a male performer (gay or straight), don’t groan with disappointment or murmur something homophobic to your buddy. Ditto if there is a performer who is a queer woman. Burlesque is pretty damn gay. Get over it.
  • Needless to say, don’t grope, heckle, or harrass the performers. If you want to grope someone, you should be paying them a lot more than what you probably paid to get into that burlesque show. If you have a tendency to do this when you drink, and if you have a tendency to drink when you go out, then do us all a favor and stay sober or stay home.
  • Needless to say, respect the photo-policy. It doesn’t matter if you are an “artist” or a “journalist.” When you are at a burlesque show you are a guest. Treat your hosts and their rules with respect.
  • If you’re going to write a review of a burlesque performance, focus on the artistry, creativity, and talent of the performers more than just descriptions of their bodies. After all, it’s not talent that gives someone a specific weight, height, or cup size, but it takes talent to keep six hoola hoops up in the air, to dance en pointe as you undress, to twirl tassels on your ass, or to turn a disgraced children’s show host into the vehicle for a burlesque act. Give credit where credit is due and don’t bother mentioning who has cellulite or who has big tits.

As feminist burlesque performers, producers, and audience members, we have an obligation to create a neo-burlesque scene that is safe for all women and queer people and otherwise socially responsible.

So, that’s my manifesto-in-progress. It’s far from perfect, far from original (and I suspect I am mostly preaching to the converted here), but it’s a synthesis of some things I’ve been thinking about. I welcome comments, questions, and additional tips, as well as stories of amazing burlesque performances they have seen. Please link to artists when possible to give them credit. Also, share your stories of challenges you have faced as burlesque performers or producers in trying to create burlesque that is feminist.


19 thoughts on How to Create a Feminist Burlesque Scene

  1. This is really cool… I honestly had/have no real idea what burlesque is, beyond what I learned from this and Wikipedia, so if anyone could direct me to interesting links, YouTube videos, etc. I’d appreciate it!

  2. I want to like burlesque. But I don’t. It’s just a class-privileged hipster fad to me, whether it has a long history or not. Ooh, look at how retrosexual we are!
    I guess part of this attitude springs from my (male) ex being all gungho about burlesque, especially the queer/trans variety, but simultaneously knocking my attitudes toward things like makeup.
    Actually I’m suddenly realizing that there are a lot of feminist-related things like this that I resent him for.
    I should probably not comment on anything until I’ve resolved these issues.

  3. “…if you’re not of Chinese ancestry, don’t do a “China Doll” number. If you’re not Native American, don’t do a “woo woo woo woo woo coyboys and Indians” number. If you’re not Latina/West Indian, don’t do a “Carmen Miranda”/”island girl” number. And, finally, if you’re not Black, don’t do a “primitive/savage” number, or an “Aunt Jemima” number, or a “ghetto princess” number…”
    I agree that you shouldn’t make fun of cultures other than your own. Frankly, maybe it would be better to find humorous ways to entertain without making fun of anyone’s culture, even the one you think is your own.

    So who gets to claim Belly Dance or “Middle Eastern Dance?
    Can we ask women who are not Middle Eastern or North African to stop Belly dancing?
    What would that do to the “Tribal Dancers” who like to tell the history of bellydance from their (fantasy) perspective?

    I get where you were going with your train of thought, but, why not include Middle Eastern and North African Dance.
    As U.S. citizens
    what dances does that leave us?
    Should we only dance “American Dances”?
    And what would those be exactly?

    Can we make fun of being American of U.S. citizenship? Which aspect of Americana do we poke fun at without offending?

  4. Also wanted to say,
    Keep on keepin’ on.
    Your experience of Burlesque is not the only experience of it. for some performers it’s a way to make a living, while being an artist, a performer, maybe a dancer.
    For some us it was a way to sell out.
    For me it was my time with Exoticsploitation. On that stage, I processed all the exotic b.s. I had endured just being an American who is not Anglo.
    I am of questionable ethnicity, meaning, I get asked what I am every single day.
    As a performance artist and traditional as well as modern theater writer, director and performer, burlesque was a way to make some money, and exploit the fact that I can pass for several “exotic” types/ fantasies.

    When I danced Afro-Brazilian style Samba, it wasn’t making fun of it.
    Same with Belly dance, and any other “exotic” (to folks of U.S. heritage anything not blond seems to be “exotic” or other).

    I know a lot of women who enjoyed Burlesque. I know a lot of women who saw it as a job. I knew women who were overly proud and women who were ashamed of it.

    There are feminists in the biz, but, of course that does not make it a feminist biz.
    I appreciate what your trying to do here.
    Good luck.

  5. Though I applaud anything that will make these things more feminist, when these conversations come up, I always get depressed because there seems to be a tacit idea that the same-old, same-old re “sex,” “sexuality” (especially female sexuality), and women’s bodies as representations of those things are beyond questioning.

    It’s like, “YAAYYY!! We’re proving that fat women/WOC/disabled women/older women/etc. are sexy too!!” And that “proof” consists of the fact that the aforementioned women’s bodies are displayed in the same way that we nowadays usually only skinny, young, conventionally attractive women’s bodies displayed. I fail to see how that really helps anything.

    An example: once on Alas, I had an argument with a fat activist about the value of “Plus-Size Burlesque”. Her take on it was that it was liberating for fat women to “be sexy” in a way they usually aren’t allowed to. As a fat woman myself, I don’t see it that way: to me that’s no more valuable than defining feminism as making women equal to the current social status men have. Men are not my yardstick for personhood and mainstream, conventionally attractive female displays of “sexiness” are not my yardstick for sexuality. In both cases, all you’re doing is take a shit situation–no matter that it’s restricted to an elite–define it as “normal” then decide that you’re going to include the types of people who can fit into “normal.” So what? Normal is still pretty shit.

    Being a man in our world sucks. Being a conventionally “hot” woman in our society sucks. I want something a fuck of a lot better than that.

  6. Damn!! That should read, “In both cases, all you’re doing is take a shit situation–no matter that it’s restricted to an elite–define it as ‘normal’ then decide that you’re going to include more types of people into that definition of ‘normal.'”

  7. I REALLY appreciate the work you’ve done constructing these guidelines, and I REALLY hope they are listened to by all the performers out there.

    I no longer am interested in watching drag shows because (a) we did it in the 70s and it was a one-trick pony then, most of the time, hasn’t improved with age, but more because all of the points you made about race and racism in performance also apply to class. Yet classist representations abound, and in particular, skinny white academic “queers” LOVE to portray working class male stereotypes as sexual objects. I find it overwhelmingly offensive, and talking to/with them hasn’t helped — they claim artistic license, or the fact that they aren’t working full-time at the moment makes them “working class” (even with a whole lifetime of economic privilege behind them), or that it isn’t offensive to portray a target group of males as “hot” (i.e., feminism doesn’t apply here).

    I’ve come to realize, if these folks had to define so-called masculinity free of class, race and gender lies, they could not. The lies make the myth they are supposedly queering and help create the sexual charge whose origin no one is questioning. In my mind, that’s reinforcing the garbage, not helping me get free of it.

  8. I agree with Chops. As someone who has been personally involved, nay, submerged in the Boston “victoriana”/vaudeville/circus revival “scene” for several years, I gotta say, the more feminist I get, the worse the taste it leaves in my mouth. Back when I was a youngun, still discovering my sexuality in any way, the colorful contrast of making the most sexually repressed period in American/European history sexy was extremely appealing. It challenged a lot of the heteronormative and sexist stereotypes I was getting annoyed with, but now I see that it also brings in it’s own models of personality and behavior that are hard to deviate from and still stay “cool” with the group. Not only can you be as “sluttish” and queer as you like, you’re sort of required to be. Now that I’m more comfortable with my sexuality, I find the constant barrage of it kind of juvenile. It’s like “yeahhhh we get it.”

    I’m definitely not a prude and I don’t pass judgment on people’s actual behavior in their private lives, but I feel like women are so expected to be constantly sexy and raunchy (Female Chauvinist Pigs, anyone?) that the neo-burlesque image is just buying into a Patriarchy-approved model of existence anyway.

  9. Here’s a question that I need answered: what makes burlesque performers not “sex workers” and strippers “sex workers”? I can see where there might be some shades of gray in deciding what makes a sex worker and what makes someone who makes money using their sex appeal, but when I went to see burlesque, it did not strike me as being particularly different enough from stripping that one could be sex work and one could not be.

  10. In the words of burlesque performer The World Famous Bob, “strippers make money, but we spend all our money on costumes.”

    While I think that is a cute oversimplification about the differences between strip-club stripping and burlesque stripping, there is some truth to it. Strippers strip to make money. It’s a job. It might be a full time job, it might be a part time job, but it’s about earning some cash.

    Most of the burlesque performers I know make next to nothing doing burlesque. Maybe cab fare. Maybe zilch. Maybe enough to replace a worn out piece of costume. (All of that, of course, is true for strippers on an off night too, especially with stage fees…) Those burlesque performers that do make money (and more power to them) are usually paid a lot because they are scene as artists, which, unfortunately, most strippers are not. The audience is usually a lot more respectful towards the performers at a burlesque show than the audience in strip clubs are towards strippers, so burlesque performers don’t have to deal with nearly as much shit. People think strippers are “just whores.” Burlesque performers get a free pass as “artists”.

    Is this fucked up? Yes. Could/should you consider strippers artists? Yes. If not artists, maybe athletes? At any rate, it takes a lot more talent to hoiste yourself up a pole with your legs above your head than it takes to do what I do on the burlesque stage.

    What I’m saying is, strippers have to deal with a whole different set of issues, work hazzards, stereotypes, and general bullshit than burlesque performers have to deal with. (I know because I worked as a nude dancer well before I did burlesque.) And until that stops (and I hope some day it does), burlesque performers shouldn’t go around co-opting “sex worker identity” unless they also do sex work.

    A really smart woman I know introduced me to this idea of “the fallacy of the line.” The idea is that just because you can’t figure out exactly where to draw the line (what is the difference between two performers wearing almost the same costume doing almost the same strip tease, but what if one is in a theater in the west village owned by hipsters and the other is in a strip club in queens owned by the mafia…) doesn’t mean the line doesn’t exist.

  11. @Crys T “Men are not my yardstick for personhood and mainstream, conventionally attractive female displays of “sexiness” are not my yardstick for sexuality. In both cases, all you’re doing is take a shit situation–no matter that it’s restricted to an elite–define it as “normal” then decide that you’re going to include the types of people who can fit into “normal.” So what? Normal is still pretty shit.

    Being a man in our world sucks. Being a conventionally “hot” woman in our society sucks. I want something a fuck of a lot better than that.”

    Right on! well said!

  12. Anna,
    I went from theater to Burlesque to Stripping.
    I agree with your comment and have plenty to say on the subject as well.
    I wrote about my choice and experience here:
    http://i-muse.livejournal.com/24486.html

    One of the major differences, that was valid in my choice, was the anonymity of stripping. To make a decent living in burlesque, one has to publicize. That didn’t work for me as a single mother.

    As for drawing the line, I will never understand how a stripper (especially during the table dance and stage only era’s) is a sex worker, but, Halle Barry goes much much further than the law allows a stripper, with Billy Bob, and she is not a sex worker? He is not a sex worker?
    Either are any other mainstream actors who are doing a lot more sexually, and even portraying prostitutes. Like Julia Roberts in the tub with Richard Gere. Richard Gere who played a gigolo – they had simulated sex in those films
    …why aren’t they sex workers?
    I’ve been on mainstream film and HBO TV sets- working in the crew.
    Male actors wear a sock on their dick and the women wear less, much less than a Big Daddy’s issued g-string (famously small g-string) and dry hump, often to the point of actually cuming…
    how is that not sex work?
    Not judging it as bad, just wondering how the line is drawn?
    It’s not based on how much money they make or BurlyQ’s would be sex workers too…

    I just don’t get who draws the morality line and how.

  13. Good post. I dipped a toe into burlesque a year or so ago, and I enjoyed it and found the atmosphere very supportive and celebratory yet I still can’t get rid of the doubts I have about i. I suppose it’ll be one of those things I can never quire make my mind up about.

    I thrashed it all out in an article http://www.thefword.org.uk/features/2007/08/can_burlesque_b if it’s any interest to you.

  14. As for ‘why isn’t burlesque seen as sex work’ The one thing that I keep thinking is, burlesque is seen as a more ‘middle class’ activity. Most performers do it for a hobby and it tends to be linked to the more general club scene as opposed to a specific ‘strip joint’ . I guess strippers are seen as sex workers because the public image is one of women needing to do it for money and it’s seen as a more ‘lower class’ occupation. I suppose there’s a fair bit of class-ism and snobbery involved.

  15. Hi i’m Shortstaxx a 41 year-old comedic burlesque performer and a feminist. i’m working on creating activist, feminist and politically progressive burlesque acts. i really like your piece here! good stuff. it’s encouraging to see other burly-gurls and bois who want to go beyond entertainment, titillation and cheesecake (not that i’m opposed to those things at all!) and say something important and relevant. Cheers!

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