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Sex Work Activism: Topic One, Harm Reduction.

Okay, so, since I set up my overview yesterday, I guess it’s time to get to the nitty.  So, I’m going to start with harm reduction, which, yes, I advocate.  Here is where I am coming from with the term, because it is not a solid thing that everyone sees the same way.  So, here we go, this is my manifesto, I suppose you could say…

 

When taking on a harm reduction stance, one:

 

-Accepts, for better and for worse, that the sex industry is part of our world and chooses to work to minimize harmful effects rather than simply ignore or condemn them.

-Understands the sex industry as a complex, multifaceted thing encompasses a vast range of activities, and acknowledges that some aspects of the sex industry are clearly more dangerous than others, and those working in the sex industry may have vastly different needs.

 

-Calls for the non-judgmental, non-coercive provision of services and resources to people who are involved in the sex industry and bases those provisions around the wants and needs of the sex worker/ prostituted person.

 

-Ensures that sex workers/ prostituted people and those with a history in the sex industry have a real voice in the creation of programs and policies designed to serve them.

 

-Affirms sex workers/prostituted people themselves as the primary agents in setting the course of their lives, and seeks to empower them to share information, support strategies and resources which meet their actual needs.

 

-Recognizes that the realities of poverty, class, racism, social isolation, past trauma, education, abuse and other social inequalities affect both people’s vulnerability to harm and capacity for independent operation.

 

-Does not attempt to minimize or ignore the real potential harm and danger associated with the sex industry.

 

-Does not attempt to minimize or ignore the choices and agency of those involved with the sex industry.

 

And there you have it, because simply put, I do not think the sex industry is going anywhere anytime soon, so thusly, I (personally, me here) think that focus should be placed on the people in it…and there is much that needs to be done and can be done from a harm reduction perspective.  It is simple fact that prostitutes working in places like Chile have difficulty gaining access to something as simple and potentially life saving as a condom, and it is a simple truth that many of them will go ahead and work with or without them because they have to, so I figure it’s best to try and see that they have them.  For me there is no moral or feminist thing here, it’s a matter health and welfare…I’d rather have that prostitute working with a condom than dead, or spreading potentially deadly diseases, and that is exactly what can happen when such basic things are denied. Yes, one should then go further and see that such people have access to other resources, including towards working to transition out of prostitution if that is their desire, but basic needs must be met first.  And yes, it goes way beyond that, in every level of the sex industry.

 

I had the opportunity to attend a sex workers conference in Chicago this summer, one which had a wildly vast assortment of sex workers at it, from all aspects and levels of sex work, and two things became apparent immediately:  we all have needs, and they are vastly different.  The white, middle class professional domme working out of her home as a second job in Ohio is going to have vastly different needs and faces vastly different harms than the transwoman of color who works a stroll in Baltimore (and yes, I met several people that fit both those kinds of descriptors there).  Male sex workers have different needs than female or trans sex workers.  But, since we’re all…you know…working? Needs need to be met.   And something I had always believed was proven as solid fact for me there…in the here and now, while there is sex industry, treating it or the people in it in a monolithic fashion does nothing to help anyone.  Harsh?  Perhaps.  True, yes, I do think so.  And I was not alone in that observation.  The needs of a porn performer are not the needs of an erotic masseur are not the needs of an independent escort are not the needs of a street based worker are not the needs of a stripper are not the needs of trafficked person forced into an illegal brothel.  But all those people are working, and it’s my stance that we should make that work as safe as possible, while helping those who wish to transition out to do so, hence, I embrace the harm reduction mode, because frankly, it seems to be what sex workers…and no, not just me…want in place.  And yes, most harm reductionists seem to support decriminalization, but we’ll go there later today or tomorrow… ‘cause that’s a whole ‘nother ball of wax and controversy, isn’t it?

 

 

 

Is harm reduction 100% effective?  No, but nothing is.  However, people involved in the sex industry are people, with different needs and concerns, pretty much like everybody else, and (to me) the harm reduction mode seems to be the one, perhaps the only one, that most recognizes that, especially in a time in the world where the elimination of the sex industry seems about as likely as the Stanley Cup being held in Hell.  Also, err, ahem…with harm reduction, while some might see it a bit like putting a band-aid on a shotgun wound, there is, at least…

 

 

 …a plan. 

 

 

At the end of the week, I shall be posting a list of Sex Workers Rights groups, many of which hold  harm reduction stances, and why yes, I do encourage you to check them out.

 

 

 

And now, as I am wont to say, fin and fire at will.

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37 thoughts on Sex Work Activism: Topic One, Harm Reduction.

  1. Nothing to argue with here. Harm reduction, whether among MSMs for HIV prevention or crystal meth users, has been proven to work time and time again. For those who say that giving people more information (eg, on how to use crystal meth safely) makes them more likely to use, I say…find me the peer reviewed journal articles and I’d be happy to go one on one with you.

  2. I may seem incredibly naive when I say this but: I honestly don’t understand how anyone could be against a harm reduction stance unless they can provide a legitimate and implementable alternative for those working the sex industry. As it is I cannot think of anyone who can. And while that is the case, and as long as we have people who do not want an alternative how can anyone in good conscience deny a course of action that makes women amd/or people in general safer?

    Like I said, incredibly naive but my first thought upon reading was “Well this is a non issue, surely nobody is actually against this”. I am fully aware that I will be proven wrong.

  3. Ren, if you have the time/inclination, can you include some Canadian, UK and Australian groups as well as American ones in your Sex Workers Rights Groups roundup? Or can we email/comment with some in our respective necks of the woods?

  4. Ren, this is a great post.

    While I’m sure there are some people who disagree with harm reduction (I work in public health, I don’t know any of those people) reading each bullet with another group, ie, farm workers instead of sex workers, makes it clearer how universal and important these principles are.

  5. Thanks so much for this, Ren.

    I struggle hard with this one in working with teens from urban environments:

    -Does not attempt to minimize or ignore the choices and agency of those involved with the sex industry.

    I feel very conflicted about the kind of sex work that tends to manifest itself in my community (namely stripping, video modeling). Not supporting the workers themselves (that should be a given), but wondering what do I say to a young girl who thinks the *only* way to get the life she wants is to use her sexuality to get head? I have a couple of friends who went into sex work for different reasons, and both of them are happy with their choices and the work allows them a freedom and autonomy that other jobs do not. But a lot of the young women I speak to buy into the different images that are put forth, that being a stripper or being a video model is a quick way to marrying a baller. And while I do not want to underestimate their abilities to make their own choices, I have to wonder if they are making an informed choice.

    I do not believe in demonizing sex workers at all, so I often feel like I am arguing two sides against each other. And while some people (like Melyssa Ford, the video model) speak frankly about making money with her body from a business perspective, and is one of the voices I tend to point to who routinely discusses a long term view of the industry (the good, the bad, the long term planning, the brand building), I am not sure what else I can do. I want to frankly discuss the issues and problems with the career path, but not come off as being anti-sex work. How do you handle this? And do you have any other resources (sorry if I am jumping ahead) to deal with that aspect of the business?

  6. It’s hard to see how anyone could disagree with that approach. It’s just common sense. But then again, people seem so easily seduced into thinking that if they just wish hard enough, absurdly unlikely shit will just–poof!–happen.

  7. LP: The best thing I can think of (and what I try to do) is get those young women to talk to the women who have gone there before them. When I hear someone say “I want to be in the sex biz”, I do try to sit them down and say…”Okay, here is what it can really be like, and oh yeah, listen to her, read her, and talk to her”…because even if one’s experiences IN the biz are not bad, the biz itself comes with a SHIT TON of baggage. But all you can do, really, is inform them. If a gal is determined to strip, ect., chances are, she will.

  8. Ren, that’s exactly the tack my mother took when, at 20, I told her I was considering stripping. One of her friends had worked in Vegas for a long time, and this friend and I sat down and talked for a while about her experiences. I realized that stripping isn’t about prancing around and being pretty — it’s functionally a sales job, and a pretty stressful one at that! Not to mention the frequency of troubled people in the industry and the clientele, and the psychological grind of being around that even if you have spectacular self-image and boundaries (which I did not).

    Regarding harm reduction and its opponents, I have frequent arguments with a Catholic friend of mine about this. He’s in seminary right now, and naturally believes that condom usage is sinful and wrong. As a consequence, he supports the whole let’s-not-give-them-condoms-even-though-condoms-help-keep-people-healthy thing. There’s no, “Well, this is a necessary evil”; there’s no, “Well, this is bad but it’s better than the alternatives”; it’s just, “This is bad, so I won’t support it, regardless of the consequences of that moral stance.” Absolutely infuriating.

  9. I agree with you here, and I’m glad to see there is a following concerning the well-being of sex workers. Hooray to you for speaking out about it.

  10. @KMTBerry – Baller is a catch all term for guy with money/connections. Basketball player/rapper/director/promoter/ad exec – people you meet if you run in those circles.

  11. I have to admit, at first I couldn’t see how a harm-reduction plan could be something to fight over – and then, like Hot Tramp, realised that there are plenty of people out there who think it’s worse to wear a condom than, say, contract AIDS *cough*thepope*cough*. That doesn’t give me a whole lot of hope, but your post does. Thanks.

  12. Latoya — re your question “but wondering what do I say to a young girl who thinks the *only* way to get the life she wants is to use her sexuality to get ahead?” I think in addition to Ren’s suggestion of having to talk with sex workers who’ve gone before her about the pros/cons, a couple other steps to:

    — have her talk with folks who might be able to guide her about her specific question, are there other options for the life she wants. Career counselors, or women who are in other areas in which she may have an interest, whether that’s publishing, retail, business, whatever.

    — have her talk with former sex workers about whether sex work is a good way to achieve her goals. If her goals are to meet a baller (new one for me, thanks) and have more than a weekend-er, then maybe not. If it’s to put away some income with a specific goal in mind, then maybe so. If there’s no second income or other safety net and she is going in with an openended idea that maybe this can be her long term career — well, if she spoke to this former stripper, I’d have a few words of caution on that one.

    — if after that she’s still into it, then I’m with Ren that she’ll probably go for it. You should still caution her to keep a “Plan B” door open, ’cause quick money can be really easy and nice at 20, and even 30, but saving enough of it to live the kind of life she seems to want from when she ages out of the biz onwards — not quite so easy and nice.

  13. Another roadblock to the harm reduction is the fact that at this point sex work is illegal. There is a lot of mentality that they chose the lifestyle they should have to suffer the consequences. I see this in addictions as well with safe needle exchanges, HIV lectures, or hell even providing them affordable treatment. Another issue is one that was recently linked to at Feministing where harm reduction strategies were being used in Africa and the gov’t seized the list and arrested those who had used the service. I would like to say the same thing wouldn’t happen in America but you never know what steps will be taken. As it is, when you are worried about not being arrested, espcially when you know the system will not be good to you, you will be very careful on what programs you enroll in so as not to incriminate yourself. Look at the horrible way the DC Madam’s case was handled.

    http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/africa/7568146.stm

  14. This post is great!
    Harm-reduction is pragmatic and effective human-rights based approach to dealing with shit that, in my country anyway, we’ve pretty much tried to sweep under the carpet until recently. And look! It’s predominantly women (sex-work) and poor people (drug-users) who most benefit from harm reduction!

    I’m all for Utopianism as long as it’s kept on paper as a brain exercise. The minute that shit gets translated into normative arguments that actually negatively affect people’s lives, then I’m bothered. I’m particularly bothered because working from an abolitionist perspective without incorporating harm reduction is essentially telling sex-workers/drug-users/whoever that they have to shut up and put up until the revolution happens. It’s always those with the least political power who are fucked over by that Utopianism.

  15. -Does not attempt to minimize or ignore the choices and agency of those involved with the sex industry.

    Maybe the classical liberal in me is rearing it’s head, but isn’t that kind of the core of the issue? Virtually all of the objections I hear to harm reduction or decriminalization of ANYTHING revolve around this basic belief that so many people have that they know better, that their judgment should be inflicted on others, that people ought to be punished for making decisions that someone with power disagrees with. Its the social equivalent to corporal punishment: what I say goes and if you break the rules you’re gonna get smacked.

  16. Of course awesome post REN. I completely agree that the first thing that we need to do is listen to sex trade workers and validate their experiences. If you have not been in that position you have no idea what you are talking about and are just moralizing. I believe in arming people with the things that they need to protect themselves. The condom is the single greatest prevention to many sexually transmitted disease and it is naive to believe that people will stop engaging in activities because some find it reprehensible.

  17. “-Accepts, for better and for worse, that the sex industry is part of our world and chooses to work to minimize harmful effects rather than simply ignore or condemn them.”

    Ren,

    I think this is probably one of the best very general outlines I’ve seen on how to best handle improving the lives of sex workers. Honestly. My only caveat is simply that while I accept that the sex industry is here now and as such we should do all we can to help, not cause further harm, I don’t accept that the sex industry is inevitable. It’s just something that I am not ready to lay down (no pun intended) and accept.

    I myself came really really really fucking close to entering the sex industry, both in porn and as a prostitute (like having the rented hotel room close) both because it was at the time virtually the only choice I had and because I am a highly-sexual person and so thought I might even enjoy it. The last thing I wanted, or needed, when I was in that position was someone condemning me. Luckily, the only person who knew how close I came didn’t condemn me. That person accepted and was willing to support any choice I made, even if that person didn’t necessarily think it was the best thing. That person was and still is my best friend on the planet.

  18. @Ren and Octo –

    Thanks for the advice.

    Ren –

    Yeah, I’ll do that. I was trying to think of women who walked that route and are famous who I could point at, but I should probably look closer to home.

    Octo –

    Yeah, I do try to do that. For example, we are in DC where there are a lot of women making bank working for the government and metro – not necessarily as glam but it is a means to one of the ends. And you didn’t know the meaning of baller, either? THat’s an old word – been around since at *least* 10 years. Man…I’m probably going to have to pay royalties to Urban Dictionary as much as I’ll be linking to them.

  19. Faith:

    “I don’t accept that the sex industry is inevitable.” Okay. You don’t have to. Shrug. One day, perhaps, there may be no sex industry…in the mean time…

    Well, it’s the mean time I am concerned with.

    LP- I’m in the DC area, if I could be of any help, lemmie know.

  20. Excellent post, Ren. My own concerns are the usual ones–imparting financial skills to women, learning to invest and save money, etc, because the realities of age and appearance will certainly impact these women even more than most of us. It’s not a job you can keep forever (but then, neither is standing up all day).

    My own observation is that when someone makes a lot of cash in one hour or day (sex workers, professional gamblers, dope dealers), the temptation to spend it ALL AT ONCE is just very great, since one doesn’t necessarily know when the next big sum will be coming in. (This is also due to the marginal, illegal status of these activities, driving operations underground and making them very iffy and irregular.) So, they sometimes rake in huge amounts of money at once, or in one day, and then, poof, it’s gone.

    Teaching sex workers about money market accounts and stuff, would be a good thing.

    (God, that makes me sound like some Ayn Rand Republican!)

  21. Hey Ren – you know me, I’m a dedicated harm reductionist in working with teens in the sex trade. I really think it’s important to promote harm reduction not in this reluctant, ‘oh I guess I’ll put up with it’ kind of way. I believe passionately in harm reduction and use it every day in my life. Harm reduction is an amazing philosophy for anyone looking to reduce all kinds of harm in their life, instead of models based on purity and abstinence.

  22. @Daisy
    You cannot include gambling in that list. It is an addiction. They don’t save because they cannot save. The high and adrenalin rush come from losing not from winning.

  23. Renee, there’s a difference between professional gamblers and addicted gamblers. There are people who make a very good living playing (mostly) poker professionally. They tend to play only games that can be consistently won with skill (which is more or less confined to poker in most North American casinos), whereas addicted gamblers may be more likely to prefer games of pure chance.

  24. Great post, Ren. Those points are well thought out and hit the major practical points of an industry that I agree will always exist. We need to decide whether we prefer an underground, shameful, often coercive and dangerous industry or a more open, regulated, and transparent industry supported by public health initiatives.

    And this is where the disagreements come in. I also look at Ren’s list and say “How could anyone disagree with this?!?” because it seems to make common sense from a harm reduction and public health point of view (not to mention the pragmatic view of humanity that says people will always be willing to pay or be paid for sexual behavior). However, many people see this as a stark MORAL issue and hold the utopian or religious conservative opinion that sex is only for married straight people who want to make babies and those who engage in sex outside of those parameters should be punished by consequences from legal sanctions to public shame, STDs, and unwanted pregnancies. You can’t reason with that group and they hold a lot of sway over political leaders who are loathe to look like they have soft morals when election time rolls around.

  25. I caught this post on alternet and want to congratulate you on articulating what i would have hoped was obvious – but is clearly not.

    There is not much i have to add to the many points made above – except that i would like hear more of your ideas and insights

    Brian Charles

  26. Renee: You cannot include gambling in that list. It is an addiction.

    Often it is, but not for everyone. I have known professional gamblers who retired very wealthy. Most of the “world series of poker” folks are affluent and their gambling is a hobby, like playing the lottery. For others, it’s their whole “job”–the way they actually earn their living.

    I’d compare this to sex workers who choose this for a living vs someone who does it for “Christmas money” or extras like a new car or tuition.

    The movie ROUNDERS is interesting in that one of the guys (Matt Damon) can handle it, while his friend (Ed Norton) can’t:

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rounders_(film)

    I loved this movie! I’d like to see a movie about strippers or sex workers that was as respectful about the different motivations people have for choosing their lifestyle.

  27. Daisy,

    Yeah, silly me. I did that.
    I made a shit ton of money one night and went Cuhrazy spending it on groceries, past due bills, past due rent, shoes for my son, school clothes for my son and even the expensive medicine I needed to take in order to breathe.
    Silly sex worker with no idea about money- yeah, that was me.

    Ren,
    You rock! Lovely post. What a truly lovely call for compassion / harm reduction.
    Thank you.

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