In the middle of a rather marvelously frightening piece detailing the background of the now-infamous “Dimitri the Lover,” tigtog quotes PUA (see) Chris as saying:
As an aside, I find Community advice towards relationships preoccupied with power dynamics and the guy always having the upper hand
That’s one hell of an aside. It pretty much sums up the entire PUA community, of course, but it’s also a rather tidy wrap-up of how many men approach relations with women (intensified where sex is involved, but also family, work and social relationships) across mainstream society. Considering it came from a (quasi/former) PUA himself, I’m damn impressed.