I have a dirty, dirty confession to make. I have a sick love of reality TV shows. Specifically: Project Runway, So You Think You Can Dance, American Idol, Dancing with the Stars, Hells Kitchen, and Top Chef. I know I shouldn’t support the Fox shows, but it is such a guilty pleasure. Yup…I even pay for DVR so I don’t miss anything.
Nigel Lythgoe, the executive producer of and judge on So You Think You Can Dance regularly makes pervy sexist comments about the scantily clad young dancers on the show. I’ve learned to live with this and at least feel like the playing field is equal when the other judge, Mary Murphy, or one of the female guest judges make similar comments about the men. To be fair, Nigel does also make fun of one dancer, Joshua, for having a huge booty, and frequently comments on the mens’ abs with joking envy. Now all this offensive- but-not-enraging sexism aside, I was appalled…APPALLED…when Nigel made this joke on Wednesday night. By appalled, I mean PISSED OFF. Why do men feel like they can get away with this shit?! Watch the video after the jump.
If you’re not interested in watching the whole video (though the choreography, as well as Cat Deeley’s reaction to Twitch, is worth critiquing), skip to 2:08 to see the comment by Nigel I am referring to. It kind of helps to watch the dance to put it in context, though…
Nigel – WTF?! I couldn’t believe he made a (cloaked, I suppose) rape joke on a “family-friendly” nationally syndicated TV show. And that everyone thought it was hilarious! “Hahaha. The dance was about a woman trying to get in the door, but Nigel is saying that when women come to his house, they bang on the door to get out but he won’t let them.” How fucking funny… Then he had the audacity to sexually harass Mary Murphy in a situation where she obviously had to play along or look like a big party-pooper. It was disgusting and tasteless. And I was about to take a deep breath and move on until they REPLAYED the clip of Nigel’s rape-affirming joke on last night’s elimination show. Apparently, the producers of Fox thought it was pretty clever and, given that Nigel is the executive producer of So You Think You Can Dance, he must have amused himself, too. So I decided right then and there…that I needed to hear from you that this is as outrageous and mysogynist as I feel it is…and that the feminist community needed to recognize what a douchebag Nigel Lythgoe is. Everybody should write Fox and tell them that jokes about victimizing women aren’t funny.
Thoughts? Rants? Reality TV confessions?