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What to do about sex work

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As I mentioned earlier, today is International Sex Workers Rights Day. I have a huge backlog of emails and stories that I intend to cover, and I only hit a few of them today, which is why I didn’t get to writing about sex work — but I hope you checked out some of the blogs I linked, since they’re all way better at writing about it than I am.

Plus, sex work is one of those topics (like blowjobs, porn and bikini waxes) that is no doubt a feminist issue, but that inevitably degenerates into ugly fights. That’s not a great reason to avoid talking about it, but it probably is a good reason for me to defer to those who know more about the subject than I do. So I’ll just point out that sex work is as diverse as any other type of labor, and there is no singular sex worker narrative — not all sex workers are exploited girls from developing nations, any more than all sex workers are high-paid call-girls living fabulous and fun urban lives.

But many sex workers are talking and they are organizing. This week, there was an online forum about sex work, trafficking and human rights. It’s well worth checking out. Here are some of the most important points that emerged:

* Sex work must be destigmatized and ultimately decriminalized in order to protect sex workers, their clients, and their communities.

* Negative attitudes toward sexual freedom itself are part of the problem and need to be addressed at the individual and cultural levels.

* Sex work meets the economic needs of the people who perform it and meets social, sexual, educational, and emotional needs of those who consume it. The problems with sex work lie not in the work itself but in the cultural stigma surrounding it, and in the exploitive economic systems that sex work, along with most work, is performed.

* There is a huge divergence between the reality of “human trafficking” and the portrayal of it by media and political figures. This divergence includes hugely inflated numbers based on studies with flawed methodology; an over-emphasis on “sex slavery” at the expense of more common labor exploitation, like manufacturing of consumer goods and domestic help; and a paternalistic view of sex workers and migrant workers in general as the “other.”

* U.S. anti-trafficking policies actually make it harder to find and help real victims because resources are diverted to antiprostitution efforts, which do not help the majority of real trafficking victims. Those efforts also interfere with public health projects in other countries by refusing USAID money to any group that does not actively work against prostitution.

* Human trafficking needs to be understood in the context of international (and intra-national) labor migration patterns and in the context of global inequality. Much of what we call trafficking begins as voluntary migration from one economically depressed area to a less depressed area. Barriers to legal migration make those workers vulnerable to other human rights abuses.

* Politicians and media personalities scapegoat sex workers and their clients in such a way as to direct attention away from larger social and economic problems like poverty, consumer culture, racism, sexism, and the growing gap between the wealthy and everybody else.

* Sex workers are not a homogeneous group and they should not be treated as one.

* Research that relies on poor methodology needs to be publicly criticized. Policy should be directed by reliable, valid research.

* Academic researchers, activists, sex workers, and consumers need to talk to each other and listen to each other. And policy makers need to listen to all of them!

Sex work is a difficult feminist issue, but that’s no excuse for ignoring it. It’s also no excuse for comments that obscure the humanity and autonomy of sex workers. So let’s discuss it, but let’s remember that we aren’t talking about sex workers here — sex workers are already part of the conversation. We should be listening, we should be engaging, and we should be learning.

And I really hate using the word “we” repeatedly here, because it makes it sound like there’s a difference between “us” here at Feministe and “those” sex workers over there, but I can’t think of a better way to phrase it. Hopefully the larger point is getting across, and you’ll all excuse the awkward wording.


27 thoughts on What to do about sex work

  1. I’m going to suggest that folk who are really interested in the issue also seek out the blogs of, well, women who were forced into prostitution in order to get a rounded view. They are out there.

  2. The problems with sex work lie not in the work itself but in the cultural stigma surrounding it, and in the exploitive economic systems that sex work, along with most work, is performed.

    This is such a good point. It’s worth noting that sex work is generally understood to be performed in a lot more exploitative and/or coercive conditions than other kinds of work like “practicing law” or “writing for a newspaper” or even “waiting tables.” (Maybe the whole general understanding is wrong, I don’t know — but clearly there are huge problems for many sex workers.) Perhaps, if you’re talking about “along with most work” it’s more comparable to agricultural labor — obviously not stigmatized in the same way, but alongside rampant exploitation of migrant/undocumented labor, some people get paid fairly, like the work and would choose to do it regardless, etc.

    If you look at it with this lens, I think it’s easier to understand that not only the cultural stigma and shame about sex, but the other things mentioned such as criminalization and punitive criminal-justice measures targeting sex workers are aiding and abetting the overall exploitation even as they seek to stop it. Of course, I think a lot of smart people writing on the subject have grasped that about criminalizing and punishing exploited sex workers, especially “obvious innocents” like kids.

    For some reason this also makes me think… a lot of the baseline objections to legalizing sex work rest on the idea that capitalism + patriarchy + women’s bodies = unavoidable exploitation. The quote above points out that yes, quite clearly, capitalism + many forms of oppression + any relatively powerless body = unavoidable exploitation. No duh. The question becomes — in the near term where we can’t wave a magic wand and just extract capitalism, patriarchy, or oppression from the equation, what can be done to improve conditions? And by “improve conditions,” unfortunately what we really mean is “make this type of work only as exploitative as most other forms of work, which is to say, pretty exploitative.”

    I’m aware that I’m kind of just summarizing a common position, but I really liked the bullet points and hope that maybe the kind of “clearly laying out the issues” that they provide is helpful to people in arriving at a more nuanced understanding and opinion…

  3. Holly,
    I actually asked a similar question to what you are talking about in the next post down, but it is still on moderation for some reason. I’ll repose it to you because you are addressing exactly what I am curious about: the idea of legalization vs. decriminalization. I do see your point about increasing exploitation with legalization. Is there anywhere I can find more on the difference between the two? Which gives greater rights and agency to sex workers? Are there benefits to legalization? (Such as Amsterdam where there are unions.) Would legalization allow for more possibility of healthcare or a kind of minimum wage? Does decriminalization allow for better autonomy?

  4. Oh and to add to what I said above, I think (?) in Amsterdam sex workers are required to get regular medical check ups. This is something that would probably come with legalization, but not necessarily decriminalization I am guessing. Would these regular check-ups mean more emphasis on maintaining the health of sex workers or is that too much of an optimistic hope? Would this restrict their rights in any ways?

  5. Jesus, Ren. You don’t want people to start thinking you’re reasonable or something do you? (You know how well that’s working out for me…)

    As for my blog, I’ve actually made some of the old posts private (not deleted them), because it’s sort of like having large, open wounds out there for everyone else to pontificate about, and man does that shit get old fast.

    I especially love the fact that whenever I open my mouth, I’m accused of silencing others. (Amazingly, even when people who’ve done this to me realize they’ve fucked up, they rarely if ever apologize.)

    So fuck that. Not blogging about the issue again (except for the recent post honoring Aileen Wuornos, thank you for the apt comment, I replied earlier tonight), at this point my answer to anything on the topic is two-fold:

    1) Leave me alone, and wait for the book, and

    2) There are other books ahead of that one, in the needing-desperately-to-be-finished queue.

    WHAT, I’ve had OTHER experiences that define me? Whodathunkit?

    Case in point: When – okay I’ll say it* – Phyllis Chesler expressed admiration for my work, and agreed to write a recommendation for me for a literary grant. So I sent her a copy of the manuscript I was then working on, based on which she was to write the letter. She then sent them several glowing paragraphs about me (blind copying me on the email). And, in between such genuinely kind statements as “Marinelli’s literary vision and skills are subtle, deep, and heart-breaking,” was all this stuff about how I’d survived so nobly as a “sex slave” and blah blah blah.

    Okay, first: I have never once in my life used the phrase “sex slave” to describe my experience. I damn sure wasn’t a “sex worker” either – consent wasn’t at all part of the equation – but the term is at best imprecise in describing what happened to me. (Lost on some people: the fact that there are nuances in human experience.)

    Second (and this is the doozy): The manuscript I’d sent her, that was under consideration for the grant, had nothing at all to do with prostitution. (It concerned specific events in my life that preceded any of that.)

    (Shorter Chesler: Victoria’s a really great writer! Oh and also, she was a ho! But hey, she didn’t consent! Just thought you might want that additional information.)

    Any wonder I stopped applying for literary grants after that? And that I hardly ever send out work now?

    I will say this: What happened to me, hideous and as unambiguously non-consensual as it was, having other feminists use me to either prove or disprove their own agendas has been its own special kind of rape.

    And you know I don’t make such analogies lightly.
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    * This is something I’ve been trying to work up the nerve to articulate pretty much since it happened. (Thank you Feministe for unintentionally hosting my personal catharsis.) Which is a really, really long time. Talk about the subtleties of silencing, huh?

  6. Also re: this in my above comment (whenever it gets out of the mod queue)

    I especially love the fact that whenever I open my mouth, I’m accused of silencing others.

    The further insult is when I get bullied into declaring all the various things that happen to me (I call this the “Bleed On Command” mandate).

    When I refuse to take that bait, I get accused of being some fucking armchair academic/activist with no personal stake in the matter (which PISSES ME OFF TO NO END*).

    But when I do take the bait, and say no, this happened to me, that happened to me, etc. –

    Well, suffice it to say it’s like giving the same police report, for the same rape, every single time I speak on the subject. (Only there’s always more than one cop – nay, they travel in PACKS – and they ALL want a piece of me – and out of every other woman who’s had her own non-consenting prostitution experience.)

    Not at all unlike actual pimps screaming “Break Yourself, Bitch.”

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    * Sorry for shouting.

  7. Ack. Re: “things that happen to me” – was supposed to be “happened.” Not to be all OCD about the self-clarifications, but the distinction between present- and past-tense is pretty crucial here. (Feministe, feel free to edit that comment and delete this one if you wish.)

  8. this leads me to a question…
    what type of work does one need to do/have done to be considered a “sex worker”?
    obviously, prostitution and porn count. but i spent three years working in phones sex (and omg, the sick fucks), 5 years as a semi-pro Domme, and about a year as a “house mom” is a strip club (this job is babysitting strippers, telling them the look fine, helping costume changes, hair, makeup, breaking up fights, and stopping them from stealing from each other. its also supposed to be stopping them from doing drugs – with the caveat that i was to stop them in the building… which means i rarely had a drug issue.
    but does all of this qualify *me* as a sex worker, or just someone who worked in the sex industry. or is that an artificial distinction?

    and, for my actual though on it, i reccomend people read Heinlein. the man had good ideas on prostitution (heterae, those most respected professionals…)

  9. Thanks so much for letting people know about our forum! And thanks especially for your pressing feminists not to ignore the issue just because it’s a difficult one. Courage is so important!

  10. The question becomes — in the near term where we can’t wave a magic wand and just extract capitalism, patriarchy, or oppression from the equation, what can be done to improve conditions? And by “improve conditions,” unfortunately what we really mean is “make this type of work only as exploitative as most other forms of work, which is to say, pretty exploitative.”

    I think this is the core of the problem, eloquently stated, and it comes down to a common issue in feminism – that is, settling for the lesser of two evils for a while. Not that the sex work itself is an evil, rather that the conditions surrounding it and necessitating it as discussed above have obvious inherent problems. It seems to me to be something of a radical vs liberal feminism debate, or at the least a question of whether to ‘use the master’s tools to dismantle the master’s house.’ It’s painful, for me, to accept a system in which (almost always) women’s bodies are treated as commodities, sexual objects for sale. But instead the primary goal can be improving the conditions and safety for the range of different types of sex workers, and recognizing that anytime women are made safer and more human in the eyes of society, it is a step in the right direction. It’s certainly a difficult issue, and I don’t pretend to be an expert, but those are my thoughts.

  11. So let’s discuss it, but let’s remember that we aren’t talking about sex workers here — sex workers are already part of the conversation. We should be listening, we should be engaging, and we should be learning.

    Agreed, but the forum to which you link represents a tiny minority of unusually privileged sex workers, who have either been invited to join in or are self-selecting and moderated.

    The sex workers on that forum are talking a lot about trafficking, but trafficked women and children themselves are automatically excluded from their conversation – unless they are literate in English and have extensive internet access. Which they generally don’t. The summary post from Bound Not Gagged verges on trivialising the issue of sex trafficking at several points. I see no attempt here to listen to, engage with or learn from trafficked sex workers.

    Where are the voices of women and children who have actually been victims of trafficking? It is pointless to be having this conversation without them.

  12. Cathrine:

    Maggie Hays and several other radical feminists have extensive lists of information on sexual trafficking and stories of people forced into prostitution. Mind you, no one was barred from participating on the SITPS forum, yet you are correct in that it is hard….for anyone….to get trafficked persons to be able to actively participate in such events. However, I do think we all agree that victims of trafficking do need and deserve assistance and help when and where it is possible to give it, yet there is concern over the misuse of the word trafficking and how it is applied or solely used in terms of sex workers.

  13. “yet there is concern over the misuse of the word trafficking and how it is applied or solely used in terms of sex workers.”
    I t is not *solely* applied to sex workers, but the overwhelming majority of trafficked people *are* trafficked for the purpose of sex work, as opposed to domestic work, simply because that is not as profitable.
    This:
    “Human trafficking needs to be understood in the context of international (and intra-national) labor migration patterns and in the context of global inequality. Much of what we call trafficking begins as voluntary migration from one economically depressed area to a less depressed area. Barriers to legal migration make those workers vulnerable to other human rights abuses.”
    Sounds simply disingenuous. A migrant worker, who comes here knowingly to work as prostitute, is not trafficked, even if she deson’t get paid well enough and is not able to work in safe conditions. A woman who moves to another country thinking she is going to be a dancer, or dish washer or model or whatever, or as is the case in eastern European countries, Nepal, South-East Asian countries, etc, is abducted, and taken to another country and sold for sex *is* trafficked. Moreover, while it’s quite horrendous to be forced to pick straw berries, and not get paid, it’s quite another thing to be forced to have sex against your will. The second one is called rape, rape day after day after day.

  14. Well if men didn’t think they should have universal access to women’s bodies through the use of money then we wouldn’t have prostitution now, would we?
    How does commodifying women’s bodies translate to “sexual freedom”? Who’s sexual freedom are we talking about here?
    This is not about the female sex workers or their “morality” or whatever, this is about MEN and their perceived entitlement to women’s bodies.

  15. Moreover, while it’s quite horrendous to be forced to pick straw berries, and not get paid, it’s quite another thing to be forced to have sex against your will. The second one is called rape, rape day after day after day.

    Yeah, but the first one is called slavery. I understand what you’re saying about the uniqueness of sex work, but there’s no need to describe forced labor under brutal circumstances for brutal people–especially in this context–as being cheated out of a paycheck.

  16. I t is not *solely* applied to sex workers, but the overwhelming majority of trafficked people *are* trafficked for the purpose of sex work, as opposed to domestic work, simply because that is not as profitable.

    If we are talking about the U.S., that is simply false. The majority of trafficked people are trafficked into domestic service positions. A long list of sources and statistics on this point are available on the SitPS forum.

  17. If we are talking about the U.S., that is simply false. The majority of trafficked people are trafficked into domestic service positions. A long list of sources and statistics on this point are available on the SitPS forum.

    That really depends on how you define human trafficking. Personally, I would agree that the majority of trafficked people are intended for skilled or unskilled manual (not necessarily domestic) labour, not sex work. But that’s because I include indentured labour as part of trafficking. Most official statistics (eg those from the US Office of Justice) exclude indentured labour. In which case, Sojourner is correct. See here: http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/ovc/ncvrw/2005/pg5l.html

    Regardless of what statistics one uses on human trafficking, there are still large numbers of women and children who are trafficked for sex work. I’m offended by the language in the Bound and Gagged post that appears to be attempting to sideline or trivialise this situation. For instance:

    Much of what we call trafficking begins as voluntary migration from one economically depressed area to a less depressed area.

    So what if it begins as voluntary migration? It ends up as slavery. This comment attempts to make light of human trafficking. As does putting the term human trafficking in quote marks.

  18. “Yeah, but the first one is called slavery. I understand what you’re saying about the uniqueness of sex work, but there’s no need to describe forced labor under brutal circumstances for brutal people–especially in this context–as being cheated out of a paycheck.”

    Um, When did I ever say, it was “being cheated out of a paycheck”? Yes, I agree it is slavery. Just that picking strawberries against your will is not the same thing as having sex againt your will.

    “If we are talking about the U.S., that is simply false. The majority of trafficked people are trafficked into domestic service positions. A long list of sources and statistics on this point are available on the SitPS forum.”

    Uh, no I am not talking about the US, I’d like to see the stats, because it doesn’t sound right, however, I am talking about the worldwide trade in women. Did you notice I mentioned Eastern Europe, Nepal, East Asia? A long list of reports and statistics on this point are available through Amnesty International (amnesty.org, and aiusa.org).

  19. “sex work is as diverse as any other type of labor”

    Diverse how?

    With this phrase you wash away the severe abuses that happen uniquely in prostitution.

    The average age of entry into prostitution in the USA is 13-years-old and in New York City it’s 12-years-old. I can’t think of a single “type of labor” with disproportionately minority and poverty-stricken girl children filling the most lucrative entry-level positions.

  20. if men didn’t think they should have universal access to women’s bodies through the use of money then we wouldn’t have prostitution now, would we?

    – Lara

    Yes. Cos there’s loads of male prostitutes too. Loads of women paying lots of money for sex. Loads of men paying for men. Loads of women paying for women. You know, even other species have prostitution.

  21. Really? Loads of male prostitutes? Where? Walking the same streets as women, selling their wares to women?

    Heidi Fleiss wanted to start a brothel for women, and has met resistance from the Brothel Owner’s Association. A prostitute, under Nevada law, is referred to as “she” and has to have gynecological exams, etc. if I’m correct. It is simply beyond a lot of people’s comprehension that women may want to be the consumers of sexual services, or may actually be sexual people for their own pleasure. Not for money, not to please men, but for us. That’s pretty fucked up, right there.

  22. Even, hypothetically, if women started using men as walking dildos and paying for them, it is still a patriarchally-based oppression system in which not only sex is commodified, but the bodies of women and men are commodified. And just for your own information Geoffrey, as you seem to be clueless about prostitution or sexual oppression, most male prostitutes are practically homeless and starving young men who are used and abused by MALE pimps and johns. It is all tied to patriarchy and sexual (and racial and class) oppression.
    Stop trying to use your whiney “but what about teh mennnzzzz??!!” argument. We are talking about freaking thousands of years of rape, battery, and the systematic sexual oppression of women (and men of color, in some cases) and all you can wrap your mind around is men and their rights and privileges. I am so sick of it.

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