Glossy bitchiness gives television the high ratings it desperately needs: Gordon Ramsay, Simon Cowell to an extent have made their careers by appearing tough and straight-talking but isn’t how they act…”bitchy”? Or is it because they are men that it is purely just aggressive behaviour? Is bitchiness reserved solely for girls? Mean Girls gave an interesting but at times silly looking at the concept of bitchiness. In the film, Regina George only comes across powerful to other people because of how horrible she was. Why do women have to be mean to other people in order to be seen as ‘strong’? Is it the patriarchy’s fault or do we simply just want to climb over each other to be on top?
Workplace environments are noted as being key places for bitchiness and bullying to fester. A year ago, a person was paid £800,000 ($1,641, 537) for workplace bullying. That case happened in London and the victim claimed to have suffered a nervous breakdown. The amount of money that Helen Green, the victim, got was one of the highest payouts in UK history I believe. Does bitchiness stem from bullying or are they separate entities?
According to this article, Only ten per cent of employees said that they would complain to a superior if they became a target of workplace bullying, with four in five workers saying that they had no confidence that their complaint would be treated seriously. What are the main reasons that would stop someone from making a complaint? Is it seen as a ”betrayal” or are you deemed a ”snitch”? These labels are ludicrous. Why is a betrayal to stand up for yourself? Then again, the hypontic power that humans can have over other humans is incredible. I can’t imagine what it must have been like for these people who suffered such terrible bullying.
In my opinion, the desire for power through control seems to be what lies at the core of the publicised bullying incidents in the workplace. That archaic view that ”survival of the fittest” is only achieved through hurting other people clearly still thrives. Bullies are insecure and weak, seeking out their ‘prey’ because they need to abuse in order not to lose. Has anyone been a victim of bullying and bitchiness…how can both realities be curbed in our societies?