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Someone get this man a newpaper, or at least an Us Weekly

I know Robert Novak isn’t exactly “hip,” but I didn’t think it was possible for someone to be so thoroughly disconnected from reality. His column this week is about a movie called Bella, in which a pregnant woman decides to – wait for it – give birth. This, Novak says, “offers hope for the beleaguered antiabortion movement to reverse the political tide running against it.”

Now, Novak himself notes that there are no tirades against abortion in the film. It seems relatively apparent that it was made with a conservative bent, but I’m not sure how having a baby somehow strikes a blow to the pro-choice movement, given that childbirth is, you know, a reproductive choice.

But we’ll give Novak the benefit of the doubt and assume that he thinks any movie which shows a woman giving birth is a point for the anti-choicers. Which is why I’m confused as to how Bella is any different from nearly every other movie released this year, most of which include women who are pregnant, giving birth, or living with children, and very few of which portray abortion as a valid medical decision.

I suspect that the differences lies in the fact that the main character in Bella is not only pregnant, but unmarried, poor and Mexican. In other words, the kind of woman that men like Robert Novak assume account for all the abortions in this country.

But after that’s established, the rest of the column spirals into such confusion that I’m wondering if Bob is playing a little trick on us because it’s Thursday Opposites Day at WaPo. To wit:

The loss of numerical strength on Capitol Hill reflects a public relations and political victory by the abortion lobby. Republican politicians tend to give only lip service to the issue, typified by President Bush’s silence on abortion. Republican candidates have accepted support from pro-life forces — and then kept quiet about abortion, leaving the field open to pro-choice advocates.


Say wha? Sure, President Bush has been silent on abortion, if by “silent on abortion” you actually mean “declaring the anniversary of Roe v. Wade ‘National Sanctity of Human Life Day‘.” And Republicans have indeed given only lip service to the issue, if by “lip service” you mean “passing all kinds of restrictive legislation that makes it far more difficult for women to get abortions, and unconstitutionally banning an abortion procedure.”

“Bella,” unknown to the general public, has generated excitement and anticipation in conservative Catholic and other antiabortion circles. The problem is getting the film in theaters around the country for its public premiere early next April. That is never easy for an independent film with no box-office names, but the problems are magnified when its message runs counter to the social mores of Hollywood.

Because the “social mores of Hollywood” promote abortion at every turn. Which is why I can think of exactly one recent film that portrays abortion in a non-judgmental way (that film would be High Fidelity), without moralizing or lecturing or agonizing. I’m sure there are others, but it would be hard to argue that abortion is flippantly promoted in Hollywood today. How many actresses do you know of who have spoken publicly about their abortions? How often have the words “Celeb Abortion Craze!” graced the covers of Us Weekly and People? By contrast, those magazines survive off of spotting baby bumps and getting pictures of celebrity children — and even argue that pregnancy is the new hot look, and is good for your career.

They may be shallow, and I may feel bad for their kids, but I wouldn’t say that the Hollywood standard is to promote abortion and shun childbirth.

But even with the Toronto prize, which in the past has led to Academy and Golden Globe awards, it is hard to get the film in movie houses, and it may be necessary for the filmmakers to form a distribution company. The avowed reason for the difficulty is the inexperience of the director and a cast with names unfamiliar to American moviegoers. But the film’s producers say the same left-wing Hollywood establishment that attacked “The Passion of the Christ” is sniping at “Bella,” which lacks a Mel Gibson in support.

Hollywood is indeed hostile to religious films right now.

If the crucifixion in “The Passion” was hard for non-Christians and some Christians to take, “Bella” on one level is a drama without religious overtones. But while the audience at Monday’s screening was moved to tears, reaction from a commercial theater audience — including women who have chosen an abortion — could be different. The pro-life movement hopes, in the absence of effort by supposedly pro-life politicians, that it will point to a different way to deal with an unwanted pregnancy.

Because pregnat women have never learned that they could give birth if they wanted to.


58 thoughts on Someone get this man a newpaper, or at least an Us Weekly

  1. Wow, what color is the sky in Robert Novak’s world? The only movie I’ve seen recently that even touched the abortion issue was Fast Times at Ridgemont High (yeah, took me long enough to see it), and that was the one think that wasn’t treated humorously. And as for Hollywood hating religious films, I guess the upcoming “Nativity” doesn’t count.

  2. National Sanctity of Human Life day? Man, I’m glad I missed the celebration for that one. (But don’t blame me, I voted for Konos! Hehe.)

    I remember reading an article not too long ago about abortion being the last frontier in television. How it’s so convenient that pregnant women either have miscarriages or they end up having babies that they didn’t know they wanted. (Except “Sex and the City”, wasn’t there an episode where they mentioned an abortion?)

  3. The pro-life movement hopes, in the absence of effort by supposedly pro-life politicians, that it will point to a different way to deal with an unwanted pregnancy.

    An alternative to abortion is carrying the child to term? C’mon, you gotta be kidding me. Those church people sure are smart, I wonder what they’ll come up with next eh?

    If only Hollywood would stop sending those subliminal messages through the teevee that keep telling me to think about human rights, conservation and feminism. Novak help me!

  4. Cider House Rules is all about abortion. But I can’t think of too many. Certainly, there are more pop culture representations of women who go through with unwanted pregnancies than who don’t.

  5. Vera Drake was a Mike Leigh joint, a typically cheery affair from him. And let’s not forget Diane Keaton yelling it was an ABORTION at Al Pacino in The Godfather Part II.

    And let’s not forget Veggie Tales. I forget how it worked there.

  6. And you know, since The Wind that Shakes the Barley, which won Cannes, hasn’t got a U.S. release yet, I don’t think you need to have some sort of religious conspiracy theory about why this one might have trouble getting distribution.

  7. Cider House Rules presented it in an agonizing way, but had the intellectual honesty to demonstrate that if you really think about the issue, you have to be pro-choice because of the persistent problem of women being human. There was a Mike Leigh film about a woman who is a hero for procuring abortions. And “Sex and the City” presented abortion as the morally correct choice for women unexpectedly pregnant who really feel they should not have children. You know, they were realistic about it.

    Meanwhile, in the real world, one in three women have at least one abortion in their lifetime. Pro-choicers need to flaunt that number because it reminds people that anti-choicers want to throw one in every three American women in jail. Also, and this is why the near-blackout on the reality of abortion in movies makes me bananas, a lot of people have no idea how many women they know have had to get abortions. I have a fairly good idea, but then again, most female friends aren’t cagey with you when you’re an adamantly pro-choice feminist blogger.

    High Fidelity, the book and the movie, is the only big media presentation of abortion where the male role in it was presented realistically. Granted, he was still a fuck-up—in like nearly every abortion story, they make the father a fuck-up to justify it—but his fucked-up-ness was not cartoonishly over-the-top. He wasn’t a rapist or a wife-beater. In fact, it’s arguable that his girlfriend would have done it anyway even if he did marry her, which I liked. The issue wasn’t the abortion at all, but the fact that she was so unhappy with him that she couldn’t tell him.

  8. Also “Solaris,” I’m thinking the new version which is the only one I saw, has abortion as an issue, and the procedure itself is not really called into question as that she didn’t tell him she was pregnant in the first place, etc etc.

    Good movie.

  9. One part of Jesus’ Son was about the female lead (as I recall) aborting a pregnancy. Little as I remember about the movie, I think it killed the relationship, but it wasn’t a healthy relationship to begin with. Like in High Fidelity, I guess.

  10. Six Feet Under had an abortion subplot when Claire got pregnant. Her biggest issue was getting a ride to the clinic.

  11. Of course, as someone mentioned months ago, part of the reason why the abortion debate is so confused is that nobody is actually “pro-abortion”. Outside of Mr. Garrison on South Park, nobody is hoping to get pregnant just so they can have an abortion.

    However, given the mindset of “there must be two sides to every issue”, the actual pro-choice side is replaced in the minds of many, and not just whackos like Novak, with a strawman pro-abortion side. That is, people like Novak really do feel that our side pushes women to have abortions for fun and profit. They really do (sometimes in a fit of projection from how the religious right operates, with its evangelism) think that for every woman that has an abortion, for every troubled youth who is convinced s/he’s gay, our side gains “converts” and hence money, power, etc. At some level, it’s Manichean: they are trying to have an army for God and feel that we then must be trying to raise an army for the Devil. Given the Gnostic influences on their side, it makes it doubly interesting considering the discussion here (or was it on Pandagon) about the Devas vs. the Ashuras …

  12. Hollywood is indeed hostile to religious films right now.

    And Christian films in particular, not.

    For all the flack about Hollywood, et al’s “war on Christmas”, as they pointed out on Talk of the Nation yesterday, there are many Christmas films, but where are Hannukah films, etc?

  13. Pro-choicers need to flaunt that number because it reminds people that anti-choicers want to throw one in every three American women in jail. – Amanda Marcotte.

    Pardon me for bringing soterology into this, but too many Americans do not really care how many people are in jail, because according to their fundamental belief system, we are all sinners and hence all belong in jail, c.f. this post from the Good Rev. RMJ and also look at my comment thereafter.

  14. For all the flack about Hollywood, et al’s “war on Christmas”, as they pointed out on Talk of the Nation yesterday, there are many Christmas films, but where are Hannukah films, etc? >>>

    Well, there was “Eight Crazy Nights”, which I never saw and heard I’m probably best off not seeing. Yes, glad there’s no War on Christmas this year, it seems….whew, the Gentiles are safe!

  15. Has anyone ever seen El Crimen del Padre Amaro with Gael Garcia Bernal? Excellent film concerning illegal abortion in Mexico.

  16. On last night’s Scrubs, there was a storyline about the main character JD knocking up his very new girlfriend, another young doctor. The emphasis of the plot was on how he freaked out and was avoiding her so there wasn’t really any discussion of options, but it just seemed like that this automatically meant that he was going to be a father.

    I sat through the whole show waiting for someone to mention abortion. It didn’t happen. It just annoys me that the media won’t even present this as an option. It is so unrealistic that a woman in her mid-to-upper 20s at the very start of her career and not in a very stable relationship wouldn’t even think about abortion. Maybe it will come up next week but I’m not holding my breath.

  17. If I remember correctly there was an abortion subplot on “Everwood” about two years back. It was controversial and teh producers got around it by not having the main character, who was the town’d doctor, perform the abortion but another doctor. But I believe the girl did have an abortion.

  18. If I remember correctly there was an abortion subplot on “Everwood” about two years back. It was controversial and teh producers got around it by not having the main character, who was the town’d doctor, perform the abortion but another doctor. But I believe the girl did have an abortion.

    And didn’t she die an episode or two later?

  19. Actually Fast TImes at Ridgemont High has one of the most positive portrayals of abortion that I can think of in film. The sperm donor is an asshole, true, but the Jennifer Jason Leigh character does what she needs to do without any wailing and gnashing of teeth. Usually movies and sitcoms, when they want to introduce it as a plot point, shilly shally around for a while until the female character in question has a miscarriage thus obviating the problem — they can’t let the nice girls make that choice, even if the don’t want her to end up pregnant.

    I found the abortion subplots on Six Feet Under hugely problematic — Nate’s meeting his dozens of dead “children” and Claire’s finding the dead Lisa taking care of cute little dead baby. I realize that the show is about folks running into dead people — but my hackles were raised by Claire’s expunged bag of cells being represented by a snuggly newborn, or, heck, by Nate’s legions of pre-teens and adolescents and toddlers.

  20. I sat through the whole show waiting for someone to mention abortion. It didn’t happen. It just annoys me that the media won’t even present this as an option. It is so unrealistic that a woman in her mid-to-upper 20s at the very start of her career and not in a very stable relationship wouldn’t even think about abortion. Maybe it will come up next week but I’m not holding my breath.

    Yeah, one of the many things that drove me away from this season of the Gilmore Girls was the complete lack of abortion discussion about Lane’s unwanted pregnancy.

  21. I think the first abortion mention I ever saw in a film was in Cabaret. I can’t remember what was said about it, but she left with her fur coat and came back not pregnant, without her fur coat.

  22. And didn’t she die an episode or two later?

    And they say post-abortion syndrome is just a loony-fundamentalist lie…

  23. Actually Fast TImes at Ridgemont High has one of the most positive portrayals of abortion that I can think of in film. The sperm donor is an asshole, true, but the Jennifer Jason Leigh character does what she needs to do without any wailing and gnashing of teeth.

    Not only that, but JJL’s brother (the lovely Judge Reinhold) provided support in an ideally unobtrusive way. If I remember right, he says just enough to JJL about it that it’s clear he understands what’s happened, has taken it in stride and passes no judgment. A very cool older brother indeed.

  24. Gah! I hate lack of abortion discussion on shows, or that it’s always A Bad Thing that makes the girl (irresponsible girl, not woman) regret it the rest of her life, or that she runs out of the clinic at the last minute and happily has a baby. I guess abortion can be kind of pointless in a plotline, especially when many of these tv shows lack the emotional maturity to portray the complexity that surrounds it for a lot of women. But just completely ignoring it? Do they think people will stop watching if it’s even mentioned?

  25. Todd Solondz’s Palindromes deals primarily with unwanted and wanted pregancies and abortion. It also includes a pretty vicious critigue of Operation Rescue type domestic terrorism.

  26. Re: Everwood
    Everwood’s show about abortion in the first season (so about four years ago) shows Kate, an 18 year old who was sleeping with her piano teacher (who is also Ephram’s teacher). She gets pregnant, and I can’t remember exactly what happens, but I think her father runs the guy out of town or he decides to flee. Kate goes to Dr Brown, the hero, who performed an abortion in medical school but never again since his specialty is brain sugury. His nurse, Edna, yells at him for something or other when he decides not to perform the abortion, and Kate is sent to Dr Abbott, who is Catholic. Dr A is the son of a small-town doctor who left him his practice under the condition Dr. A would help girls with this problem. He performs the abortion off camera and then goes to church to confess his sin.

    I liked the fact that Kate was upbeat (though listening to the commentary, the female writer wanted her less upbeat). It was a fairly positive portrayal. The first season is on DVD and there is a recap of the ep 1.22 on telelvisionwithoutpity.com.

  27. General Hospital just dealt with the abortion issue. An 18 year old girl got pregnant when a condom failed. While many of the adults around her were horrified at the idea that she would consider abortion, apparently her father was quite supportive, and while there was a bit more agonizing over the decision than I would think would happen in real life, in the end the show did not back down, she had her abortion and is moving on with her life. I tuned in because I had heard this storyline was going to be dealt with – overall, I thought they did a good job. As it turned out, the young woman playing the girl is a talented young actress.

  28. Last night I was watching a Korean film called Sex Is Zero that has a decent (in an impacting people’s thoughts kind of way) storyline regarding abortion. It is a black comedy/drama about a group of college kids kind of on similar to American Pie, except much wierder (at least to american eyes). This would be the movie I would show to a pro-lifer, in particular the ones who think women go and get abortions for a lark and throw a party afterwords. The main female character has an abortion. It is graphic, not gore, more like thrusting the uncomfortable truth forward. You see her face when she enters the exam room, her physical and emotional pain afterwords and her dealing with it from a social standpoint when people find out. It’s a good movie although if you don’t watch much asian cinema it may be kind of confusing, well worth renting though.

    They really do (sometimes in a fit of projection from how the religious right operates, with its evangelism) think that for every woman that has an abortion, for every troubled youth who is convinced s/he’s gay, our side gains “converts” and hence money, power, etc. At some level, it’s Manichean: they are trying to have an army for God and feel that we then must be trying to raise an army for the Devil.

    So true its scary.

  29. I think I’ve said here before that I didn’t find the lack of abortion-discussion regarding Lane’s pregnancy particularly problematic. I don’t believe that Lane would have considered having an abortion, and I think that her friends would have known that. (Her husband, I guess, might be a different story.) I did, however, have big problems with the flashback to Lorelei’s pregnancy, which did include discussion of abortion. The people who brought it up, though, were Christopher’s evil parents, and it was clear that their wanting Lorelei to have an abortion was part and parcel of their general evilness. No half-way decent character even suggested that this 16-year-old maybe should consider not having a baby. That struck me as a tad unlikely.

  30. Coperad asked, “Sex and the City, wasn’t there an episode where they mentioned an abortion?”

    Yes! I loved that episode of Sexy and the City. It was episode 59, which is entitled “Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda.” The basic plot synopsis for that part of the episode from the website is:

    Miranda tells Carrie that she’s pregnant from having unprotected sex with Steve and his one ball. Miranda doesn’t want the baby and doesn’t want to tell Steve. Charlotte, however, can’t seem to get pregnant no matter what bedroom techniques she tries. When she finds out that Miranda is pregnant and is going to have an abortion, she’s so upset she storms away. Carrie and Samantha admit that they’ve both had abortions – Carrie after a one-night stand with a waiter in the ’80s. Carrie tells Aidan about Miranda and swears him to secrecy. Aidan is appalled that Miranda isn’t going to tell Steve. Carrie lies to Aidan about having had an abortion herself.

    My favorite thing about that episode, other than that the writers dealt with the issue of abortion in a realistic (rather than romanticized or stigmatized) fashion, was that Carry asked Samantha, “How many have you had?” rather than “Have you had an abortion?” For me, that was so profoundly refreshing. Carrie’s lying pleasantly to Aiden about the subject without regret was also really refreshing. You can’t handle the truth, Aiden. My experience has been that the dialogue on the subject includes only those fighting for the right to choose and those fighting against the right to choose; no one is talking about actually having had an abortion(s).

    Zenmasterw also brought up the movie Palindromes by Todd Solondz, and abortion is definitely an important topic in the film. I hope at leasta few of you of you have also seen this movie, because I have a big question about it: Why do you think Solondz had so many different actresses play the protagonist? I have two theories: 1. to show that the experiences that protagonist has in the movie could happen to any girl and 2. to show the audience that they react differently to the protagonist and her situation depending on the way she looks. What do you all think?

  31. I can’t remember where I read it, but there was a scene in “Cider House Rules” that didn’t make the final cut, where the Michael Caine and Tobey Maguire characters are faced with an 11 year old girl who’s dying from trying to induce an abortion.
    Also, I don’t know if anyone’s seen it but “Things You Can Tell By Just Looking At Her”, where Holly Hunter is a career woman having an affair with a married man. She becomes pregnant and is completely confident about having an abortion (the doctor is played by Glenn Close), but becomes upset after having the abortion.

    Jane at #38: I haven’t seen Palindromes (personally found Welcome to the Dollhouse unwatchable), but I read somewhere a long time ago that it’s supposed to be a parody of the abortion debate. The girl’s “pro-choice” mom forces her to have an abortion and the “pro-life” family that she ends up with bombs abortion clinics and kills people.

  32. Jane: If I recall that exchange from Sex and the City correctly (and, somewhat shamefacedly, I am pretty sure that I do), it’s Samantha who asks Carrie “How many have you had?” And Carrie looks back at her, semi-horrified, and says, “Uh . . . ONE.” Then Samantha very unabashedly admits to two.

  33. Definitely, Jane — I saw the movie with a friend of mine and he was very uneasy about the younger characters, whereas he was much less engaged Jennifer Jason Leigh’s part in the role, because he didn’t see anything particularly offensive about it. Meanwhile I was nodding my head, ‘uh huh, uh huh, exactly’.

    I also thought, because the trajectory of the story seemed to be a kind of collage of so many Lifetime movies or ‘crisis center’ horror stories, that the constant actor-switch emphasized the melodramatic aspects of those stories — kind of parallel to when soap operas switch actors for a continuing character.

    Abortion on BSG has been discussed here previously, but I still don’t know how I feel about all that (its portrayal on the show, not the discussion of said portrayal).

  34. General Hospital just dealt with the abortion issue.

    Days dealt with it a couple of years ago, but definitely not in a good way. The girl gets pregnant, has an abortion because her boyfriend has said he doesn’t want kids and she’s afraid he’ll leave her if she’s pregnant (but she doesn’t tell him), gets an infection, and loses the ability to have children. She regrets her decision, the boyfriend finds out (way after the fact) what happened and leaves her for ‘killing his child and lying about it’ and she’s devastated. They dealt with it horribly, but the one good character in that whole thing was her mom, who was very supportive throughout the whole thing. I haven’t watched in over a year, so I have no idea what’s happened to the character since, but I can’t imagine it’s good.

    And Dirty Dancing is the first time I ever remember seeing anything to do with abortion in a movie. Not that I noticed when the movie came out (I was too young to really know what was going on), but watching it later, I was really surprised by how ‘abortion neutral’ that movie was. In fact, positive even, what with the botched back alley abortion and the mostly non-judgemental doctor taking care of her.

  35. oudemia,

    You may be right about the Sex in the City conversation happening in that order, but I don’t remember anyone being semi-horrified. Regardless of my selective memory, the scene is still refreshing. Three cheers for Samantha the Unabashed.

    exangelena,

    I have to ask–why did you find Welcome to the Dollhouse unwatchable?


    While we’re on the subject of fictional representations of reproductive dilemmas, I need to vent. I saw this really disturbing episode of Law and Order today in which a pregnant woman and her husband are in a car accident that kills the husband and causes the wife to miscarry and fall into a coma. While the wife is in a coma, her mother pays an orderly to “have sex with her” (rape her) so that she will produce a grandchild. Of course, for most of the show you don’t know the comatose woman’s mother paid the orderly to rape and impregnate her daughter, you just think that the orderly did it of his own volition and that the woman’s mother just decided to allow her comatose daughter to carry the baby to term.

    So, like, for the whole show I kept yelling at the TV, “How can you want your comatose daughter give birth to a baby whose father raped her while she was in a motherfucking COMA?” (Yes, I’ve seen the movie Talk to Her AKA Habla Con Ella.) And then you find out that the mother paid the guy to do it, and it’s just too much. And then you remember that there actually are people in this country (in my condo highrise!) who think that even women who are raped while they are in comas should not be given abortions. And then that, actually, is what is too much. I hope that wasn’t one of those Law and Order episode that was based on real events.

  36. Girl, no you did not just bring up Talk to Her. The development/treatment of the women characters in Almodovar’s films deserves, at the very least, its own post and, at most, a dissertation!

  37. His column this week is about a movie called Bella, in which a pregnant woman decides to – wait for it – give birth. This, Novak says, “offers hope for the beleaguered antiabortion movement to reverse the political tide running against it.”

    Wow. This sounds like that claim that the Britney-spears-on-a-bear-rug statue is pro-life because it shows a “young mom” putting “career before family,” or whatever that brouhaha was.

  38. I don’t know about worldwide statistics, but there is this:

    At current rates, about one in three American women will have had an abortion by the time she reaches age 45.

  39. What about China Beach? Episode was called “Holly’s Choice”. If I remember right, (and this was in 1990), the episode unfolded backwards, starting with the abortion and going back through the story of how she got pregnant, etc. Holly was played by Rikki Lake (of John Waters “Hairspray” fame).

    Don’t forget Maude.

  40. Jane – I hope I’m not dragging this thread off topic, but here goes.
    I think it’s a matter of perspective/personal taste, but I simply found Welcome to the Dollhouse too unpleasant to take. Dawn Weiner (the Heather Matarazzo character) seemed to have absolutely nothing in life and everyone treated her like crap, for no fault of her own. Perhaps some people would disagree with me, but I felt like the director had very little compassion for her and seemed to almost relish all of the horrible things that happened and the power he had to shock the viewer. Furthermore, it seriously troubled me how a lot of viewers and critics saw the movie as funny, I thought it was incredibly sad and depressing. I’ll just add that I’m not necessarily a fan of romantic comedies and “light” movies. However I don’t enjoy movies whose only value seems to be how much they can disturb the viewer. Maybe it hit a little too close to home – not very long ago, I was an unattractive, awkward, unpopular adolescent, and I hardly found that time of my life entertaining and amusing.

  41. Hey nobody’s mentioned Degrassi, the old one anyway. I remember one particular episode where one girl discovers she’s pregnant after not always using condoms with her boyfriend, she’s pretty devistated about it. She has a conversation with Spike, who did keep her unplanned pregnancy, about abortion, Spike says she never felt abortion was an good choice for her. It’s pretty clear this girl doesn’t want the kid, and she gets hassled at the abortion clinic when she goes in, but she does go through with it. I think she is supported by her twin sister, but the details are vague, it’s been awhile.

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  43. Oooh, I forgot about Degrassi. In the Next Generation, the ones currently playing on the N, Manny gets pregnant and wants an abortion. She has one, the whole school finds out, and she break up with her boyfriend because he wanted to create a family and she realized she was too young. Her best friend also doesn’t like her choice but yells at the boyfriend because she should have the right to choose. It played in Canada but was banned in the US, on the N, and for a while could be found on youtube, which is how I saw it.

  44. I did, however, have big problems with the flashback to Lorelei’s pregnancy, which did include discussion of abortion. The people who brought it up, though, were Christopher’s evil parents, and it was clear that their wanting Lorelei to have an abortion was part and parcel of their general evilness. No half-way decent character even suggested that this 16-year-old maybe should consider not having a baby. That struck me as a tad unlikely.

    I kind of agree with you, though I think the thrust of that scene was they were making decisions w/out Loralei’s input, and every suggestion was unappealing — as for “Why doesn’t she just get rid of it?” — well, it’s horrifying because Christopher’s father doesn’t take into account whether she herself would want to get rid of it. He’s thinking only of how this reflects on his son and his parenting. But I agree it could have been handled way better.

    As for the Sex and the City representation of the abortion issue, what I really liked about it was not just the matter-of-factness about it (and it was Samantha who non-chalantly said, “I’ve had two. Carrie, how many have you had?”) but how obviously they made it an issue on an individual basis. Samantha was very calm about it and didn’t regret her decisions, but indicated that it wasn’t easy for her (“It’s not exactly something you post on the dorm activity board.”) and Carrie indicated that she regretted it (Miranda: “When did you feel normal again?” Carrie: “Any day now.”) but that it was the right decision.

    What? It was just on TBS the other day!

  45. The portrayal of abortion in the movie Dirty Dancing has been mentioned, and I’d just like to point out that this movie made me pro-choice because it made me think. Or, ya know, that particular subplot did. The movie as a whole wasn’t exactly Oscar-worthy.

    I was eleven or twelve when I first saw that movie, and anti-abortion in an unthinking sort of a way. And then I saw how the other dancer has an illegal abortion and suffers complications because the guy who performed it was incompetent. And she won’t let anybody call for an ambulance or drive her to hospital because she knows perfectly well they’ll call the police. And the main character fetches her father, a doctor, who takes care of the girl and doesn’t call the cops (thus potentiallly risking his medical license). And I guess it’s a few days afterwards that the dancer says Jerry Orbach’s character stopped by recently to check up on her, and told her she would still be able to have children in the future. And she’s happy about that. She’s thrilled, in point of fact.

    And that’s when it hit me that she didn’t have an abortion because she was a mean person who didn’t like babies, but because she COULDN’T have a baby under the circumstances with which she was faced. The guy who’d gotten her pregnant wanted nothing to do with her, and once her pregnancy became obvious she would lose her job. Thus losing her ability to provide for *herself*, let alone any future children. But just because she couldn’t have a child at that point in her life didn’t mean she hated the *idea* of babies. Maybe she would want to have children once she was married and financially stable. And she was happy that she still had that option.

    Which, remember I was eleven or twelve at this point, pretty much blew my mind. I mean, this girl wanted an abortion so badly that she was willing to break the law. What’s more, she was willing to risk bleeding to death because the consequences of anybody official finding out she’d had an illegal abortion seemed so bad to her (she’d definitely lose her job, and she might well go to prison). But under other circumstances, she might have been happy about hte pregnancy. It’s not bad women who have abortions, it’s women whose life circumstances are such that staying pregnant does not seem like an option. And the person best situated to judge the circumstances of their life is the person LIVING that life, i.e. the pregnant woman.

    And it also made me realise that when abortion is illegal that doesn’t necessarily mean that women stop having them. They’re just more likely to lose their fertility or their life as a result, because they’re driven underground, either attempting it themselves, or paying totally unregulated people to do it, despite the fact that maybe those people aren’t competent.

  46. Raincitygirl: awesome. If an eleven-year-old kid can understand these things, then what’s the problem with the forced-pregnancy people? Why don’t they get what’s so obvious?

  47. Oh actuallly, there’s a Law and Order Criminal Intent that deals with this guy who gets upset because his girlfriend had an abortion a long time ago and kills a doctor. It’s actually pretty good because Eames, who generally doesn’t get to do anything but stand there, gets very upset and wants to make sure that everyone involved is on the right side of the issue, which upsets the DA, who’s cleraly not pro-choice.

  48. Actually, the other twin from the original Degrassi is like, abortion is murder, we learned this in church (oh and the pregnant girl only had sex once with a junior camp counselor I think, and nobody knows about it, it’s the first day of school after camp) . She’s not at all supportive of the other twin’s decision (I saw this a few weeks ago on the N) even though the other twin pretty much feels she’s making the right choice the entire time, but then when Liz, Spike’s friend, is really nasty to the pregnant twin because um, I forget why, she feels like her mom might have terminated her pregnancy with her for some reason or something, the other twin is torn between her religious views and fitting in with the anti-choice kids at school and her sister. She finally comes around and the last scene is the two of them walking the gauntlet through the protestors into the clinic together. What’s really good is that Liz tries to recruit Spike to attack the twin even though Spike makes it clear that she’s pro-choice despite the fact that she went ahead and had Emma, but then on The New Generation when Manny feels she can’t go to her mom, she goes to Spike, and Spike, who is either pregnant or just had a baby, is very supportive and lets her know that no one can make her decision for her even though Emma is appalled by the idea of abortion (primarily because, like Liz, she’s thinking about Spike being like 13 and single when she was pregnant with her and also about how much she wants a sibling). Degrassi goes full circle.

  49. Ks… I actually watch Days of our lives and it just got worse. She ends up unable to have children b/c of the abortion and regrets it horribly, etc…
    I also liked the sex and the city episode because it covered a range of topics/reactions, from Samantha calmly admitting to two that she doesn’t regret, to Carrie talking about hers that obviously hurt her emotionally, but she knew in the end was the right choice for her, Miranda really thinking through her options and knowing that she could have chosen an abortion free of judgement and with her friends’ support but choosing to carry the pregnancy because it felt right to her. I even, honestly, liked the fact that they showed that Charlotte was so upset but in the end came around with a bouquet of flowers, apologizing and offering her support.

  50. General Hospital just dealt with the abortion issue. An 18 year old girl got pregnant when a condom failed. While many of the adults around her were horrified at the idea that she would consider abortion, apparently her father was quite supportive, and while there was a bit more agonizing over the decision than I would think would happen in real life, in the end the show did not back down, she had her abortion and is moving on with her life. I tuned in because I had heard this storyline was going to be dealt with – overall, I thought they did a good job. As it turned out, the young woman playing the girl is a talented young actress.General Hospital just dealt with the abortion issue. An 18 year old girl got pregnant when a condom failed. While many of the adults around her were horrified at the idea that she would consider abortion, apparently her father was quite supportive, and while there was a bit more agonizing over the decision than I would think would happen in real life, in the end the show did not back down, she had her abortion and is moving on with her life. I tuned in because I had heard this storyline was going to be dealt with – overall, I thought they did a good job. As it turned out, the young woman playing the girl is a talented young actress.

    It was pretty well done. One brother supported her whatever decision she made, her other brother, hooked on painkillers, went off on her. Her dad made everyone back off – especially the babydaddy’s wealthy family – so Lulu could make the decision herself. And her recent scenes where she got comfort and support from her mother were sweet.

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