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Gender and Education

The New York Times gives us an article with the alarmist title, At Colleges, Women Are Leaving Men in the Dust. The situation isn’t nearly as dire as it sounds, naturally.

Department of Education statistics show that men, whatever their race or socioeconomic group, are less likely than women to get bachelor’s degrees — and among those who do, fewer complete their degrees in four or five years. Men also get worse grades than women.

And in two national studies, college men reported that they studied less and socialized more than their female classmates.

Small wonder, then, that at elite institutions like Harvard, small liberal arts colleges like Dickinson, huge public universities like the University of Wisconsin and U.C.L.A. and smaller ones like Florida Atlantic University, women are walking off with a disproportionate share of the honors degrees.

It is not that men are in a downward spiral: they are going to college in greater numbers and are more likely to graduate than two decades ago.

Still, men now make up only 42 percent of the nation’s college students. And with sex discrimination fading and their job opportunities widening, women are coming on much stronger, often leapfrogging the men to the academic finish.

“The boys are about where they were 30 years ago, but the girls are just on a tear, doing much, much better,” said Tom Mortenson, a senior scholar at the Pell Institute for the Study of Opportunity in Higher Education in Washington.

So everyone’s doing better. But because girls are doing even better than the boys, it’s panic time.

Of course, no one is bothering to write massive articles in the New York Times about the racial gap in education — that’s not as sexy as the idea that selfish women are taking away what young men rightfully deserve — but at least they’ll get a paragraph or two:

The gender differences are not uniform. In the highest-income families, men 24 and under attend college as much as, or slightly more than, their sisters, according to the American Council on Education, whose report on these issues is scheduled for release this week.

Young men from low-income families, which are disproportionately black and Hispanic, are the most underrepresented on campus, though in middle-income families too, more daughters than sons attend college. In recent years the gender gap has been widening, especially among low-income whites and Hispanics.

When it comes to earning bachelor’s degrees, the gender gap is smaller than the gap between whites and blacks or Hispanics, federal data shows.

All of this has helped set off intense debate over whether these trends show a worrisome achievement gap between men and women or whether the concern should instead be directed toward the educational difficulties of poor boys, black, white or Hispanic.

“Over all, the differences between blacks and whites, rich and poor, dwarf the differences between men and women within any particular group,” says Jacqueline King, a researcher for the American Council on Education’s Center for Policy Analysis and the author of the forthcoming report.

There you have it: The racial and socioeconomic differences dwarf the gender differences. And yet all I’ve been reading about since this report came out are the gender differences and the “boy crisis.”

“The idea that girls could be ahead is so shocking that they think it must be a crisis for boys,” Ms. Mead said. “I’m troubled by this tone of crisis. Even if you control for the field they’re in, boys right out of college make more money than girls, so at the end of the day, is it grades and honors that matter, or something else the boys may be doing?”

Of course, the gender difference in college enrollment rates between low-income and higher-income families has fairly obvious roots. If you’re wealthy, the kind of job that you’re expected to have, and that you see as within the range of your abilities (and indeed, the kind of job that you believe you deserve) probably requires a college degree, regardless of your gender. But if you’re poor, the landscape changes. Low-skilled jobs which are traditionally male, on the whole, pay much better than low-skilled jobs which are traditionally female. Working construction, or as a sanitation employee, or a fisherman, or even as a janitor, often pays more than working in elder care or as a nurse’s assistant or a childcare provider. Low-income women know that if they want to make money, they have to get that degree. Young men often have other options presented to them.

“I hate to be cynical, but when it was a problem of black or poor kids, nobody cared, but now that it’s a problem of white sons of college-educated parents, it’s moving very rapidly to the forefront,” Dr. Kleinfeld said. “At most colleges, there is a sense that a lot of boys are missing in action.”

It’s still a problem of black and poor kids, and still, no one cares. You aren’t cynical, you’re realistic.

On each campus, the young women interviewed talked mostly about their drive to do well.

“Most college women want a high-powered career that they are passionate about,” Ms. Smyers said. “But they also want a family, and that probably means taking time off, and making dinner. I’m rushing through here, taking the most credits you can take without paying extra, because I want to do some amazing things, and establish myself as a career woman, before I settle down.”

Her male classmates, she said, feel less pressure.

“The men don’t seem to hustle as much,” Ms. Smyers said. “I think it’s a male entitlement thing. They think they can sit back and relax and when they graduate, they’ll still get a good job. They seem to think that if they have a firm handshake and speak properly, they’ll be fine.”

I wonder how much the family issue plays into it. Perhaps it does, and I’m just naive. But I’ve never felt motivated to do well because I want to establish myself as a career woman before I have a family. I’ve been motivated to do well because there are a lot of things that I want to accomplish in my life. It has nothing to do with getting things out of the way. But perhaps I’m an anomaly here.

The male entitlement idea is interesting, though. She’s right — college-boudn men grow up with the understanding that they will get a job, and that their abilities and talents won’t be questioned. This is one of the first generations in the United States where it’s completely normative, and even expected, for girls to go to college. I think whether it’s conscious or not, young women feel the fire under our collective asses. We see that there aren’t a whole lot of female CEOs or university presidents or law firm partners; we know that we just won’t fit into the boys’ club as easily, and that our achievements have to speak for themselves, because personality and connections aren’t going to cut it.

There is also an economic rationale for men to take education less seriously. In the early years of a career, Laura Perna of the University of Pennsylvania has found, college increases women’s earnings far more than men’s.

“That’s the trap,” Dr. Kleinfeld said. “In the early years, young men don’t see the wage benefit. They can sell their strength and make money.”

Yup. College admissions officers try and balance the gender disparities by admitting men who are academically less successful than women who are also applying — and then they laughably deny that it’s affirmative action.

In his effort to attract men, Mr. Massa made sure that the admissions materials included plenty of pictures of young men and athletics. Dickinson began highlighting its new physics, computer science and math building, and started a program in international business. Most fundamental, Dickinson began accepting a larger proportion of its male applicants.

“The secret of getting some gender balance is that once men apply, you’ve got to admit them,” Mr. Massa said. “So did we bend a little bit? Yeah, at the margin, we did, but not to the point that we would admit guys who couldn’t do the work.”

“Is this affirmative action?” Mr. Massa said. “Not in the legal sense.” He says that admissions to a liberal arts college is more art than science, a matter of crafting a class with diverse strengths.

Admissions officers taking characteristics other than academic success into account in the admissions process in order to have higher numbers of previously under-represented groups — since when is that not affirmative action?

But, the boys say, don’t worry too much about them — they’ll still end up on top.

Still, men in the work force have always done better in pay and promotions, in part because they tend to work longer hours, and have fewer career interruptions than women, who bear the children and most of the responsibility for raising them.

Whether the male advantage will persist even as women’s academic achievement soars is an open question. But many young men believe that, once in the work world, they will prevail.

“I think men do better out in the world because they care more about the power, the status, the C.E.O. job,” Mr. Kohn said. “And maybe society holds men a little higher.”

And as if that wasn’t enough, the Times follows up with the heartwarming story of educational institutions spending all kinds of money to tempt boys to come to their campuses. How, you ask? Through better academic programs? A new science center? Recruiting well-regarded professors?

No, by throwing a whole bunch of money at football.

Now, I support college sports. And clearly these schools are meeting an existing demand for football teams. But it’s quotes like this that bother me:

“I could have started a spiffy new major of study, spent a lot of money on lab equipment and hired a few new high-powered professors,” Dr. Boyle said. “I might have gotten 25 more students for that. And I couldn’t have counted on that major still being popular in 15 years.

So much for education — we’ve got a business to run here.

I will give colleges credit for including more blue-collar sports teams, though.

“Hockey, lacrosse and tennis players, they all have money and 1,500 SAT scores,” said Mr. Kemp, who brings about 70 players a year to Utica. “Those kids are going to college somewhere. But I come across high school football players from blue-collar backgrounds, and as seniors in high school, they’re not sure what they’re going to do. They’re considering a college here or there. But if you give them a chance to keep playing football, then they get motivated to come.”

And once they come, he said, “we kind of trick them into seeing that getting an education is the real benefit.”


16 thoughts on Gender and Education

  1. Interesting article and post. I think the part the annoyed me the most was the statement that women work harder because they want to get their career “out of the way” so that the can “settle down” and have kids.

    I worked a bit in college and then quite a bit harder in law school and then worked my ass off during my jobs before I stopped working, in part to care for my kids. But, my decision to stop working was a sudden one. Had you asked me before my first was born whether I planned to stay at home, I would have vehemently stated that that wasn’t even an option–my career meant too much to me. (Of course, afer I had her, my perspective changed immensely, but that’s another debate for another day).

    So clearly my motivation for working hard was not so that I could get it out of the way before kids. And, I suspect that many other women are just like me. To assume that we all have plans to stay at home with our kids when we’re in our late 20s and early 30s as early as our freshman year in college is ridiculous. Not many college students are thinking that far down the line.

    I suspect that women are just more mature than men at that stage of life, and thus make better decisions about when to hit the books and when to party. Party they do, but I’m guessing many women at that point are better able to strike a balance that results in decent grades.

    I agree with you–the article seems to offer a strange perspective on the issue.

  2. “So everyone’s doing better. But because girls are doing even better than the boys, it’s panic time.”

    Come on Jill. You’re better than this.

    If we experienced economic growth and the rich got a disproportionate share of the wealth, you’d be complaining. If we increased public spending and a disproportionate share of the new money went to address male concerns, you’d be complaining. If life expectancy increased and a disproportionate share of the increase went to whites, you’d be complaining. Fair shares matter, even if everyone’s lot is improving.

    The irony is that racial and class differences also out weighted gender differences when women were behind and feminists were campaigning for improved access. Do you think they were terribly misguided?

  3. So everyone’s doing better. But because girls are doing even better than the boys, it’s panic time.

    I agree with Nik. It’s also worth noting that there should be something interesting in the general dynamic of female achievement outpacing male achievement in, for instance, reading comprehension, especially since we keep being told that men and women are, like, totally the same.

  4. I’d phrase the female side of the issue as being both about fear and responsibility. Desperation too.

    As a female, you get out of college, and many people still presume you’re looking to be a teacher or hold some type of pink-collar job. If that’s not what you’re looking for, you have to prove yourself over and over again. You need to prove yourself in college, you need to prove yourself in your early years at your job, to a degree that many males never have to. And you’re fighting against the perception that you’re just doing this until the kids come.

    But I was also just subject to the opening shot in the Mommy wars this weekend from a group of SAHMs (mainly former career women) that I generally respect. So, my thoughts are all a bit jumbled up.

  5. college men reported that they studied less and socialized more than their female classmates.

    hmm, I wonder why women are doing better than men. Must be that the educational system is geared towards female learning. How unfair can you get.

  6. As a black woman, I was programmed from a young age that education is the key to success. I am second generation college educated and though my father didn’t complete college, my mom has 2 master’s degrees and thinking about going back for her doctorate. My brother is a 3rd year architecture major and I have noticed that while education is stressed my parents are more lax on him (our 12 year age difference may have something to do with that too). My brother has an 8 month old daughter that my parents (and I) help support. If that would have happened to me, I could imagine the outrage.

    I think that because so many black kids are raised in single parent home, black girls see that education is the way to be able to take care of yourself, since oft times the male figure may or may not be in the home. I know many of my friends who own their own homes and many times out earn their partners (significantly) if they have a partner. It really is a double edged sword in many cases.

  7. frumiousb beat me to it, but it bears repeating.

    And in two national studies, college men reported that they studied less and socialized more than their female classmates.

    I agree, guys, it’s REALLY UNFAIR and it’s totally a problem when people who work harder do better.

  8. Why is it that when women leave our professions to raise children, it’s an individual, personal choice, but when boys choose not to go to college, that’s a national crisis?

  9. Tiffany, I agree. Even when folks are in a two parent household, often the man doesn’t make enough money for a woman not to need a good stable job.

  10. I was wondering when y’all were going to get around to hitting this article. (I knew you would eventually; I was just surprised you hadn’t done it sooner and ended up spending a fair-sized chunk of time looking for Jill’s email address so I could bring the story to her attention.)

    Either way, thanks for getting it out there and for putting so much thought into your responses to the article.

    I have to admit though that I was a bit disappointed in one thing; you seemed to miss the principle point of the article, or what my reading of it led me to conclude was the principle point. The big thing that’s been swirling around with the “boy crisis” is the notion that schools are somehow failing boys and that women are doing things to hold them back. The Times article expended quite a bit of time debunking that assertion, pointing out repeatedly that – where differences exist – they are mostly ascribable to different work habits and varying levels of commitment to the pursuit of academic excellence.

    I could go on for a while on that topic, having observed it in action more times than I can count over the last 10 years, but I don’t want to clutter up your comments page. If you’re interested, I have my own thoughts on the article over on my blog.

  11. Oh, if posting the link in my comment was a breach of blog etiquette, I apologize. I’m still green enough not to have all of the ins and outs of polite blogging worked out.

  12. how much of a crisis can it be for guys if the women work harder, but the men still earn more money? isn’t that how it’s often been in the past? i just read somewhere else (sorry, no link) that women earn less compared to men than they did 10 years ago, even when comparing within fields. yeah, education for its own sake is great, but do people really value education so much more than money, such that the issue of men lagging in education is more important than women lagging in pay?

  13. JM, I don’t know about most people, but as an absolute abstract matter, I think education is more important than pay (which explains a lot about the career and educational choices I’ve made).

    That doesn’t mean, however, that men lagging in education is more important than women lagging in pay. I think both are equally important and deserving of attention. The big difference between the two, however, is that when it comes to education, the recipient can make a difference by changing their attitude and practices. Where pay is concerned, well, that’s institutional and societal. I can’t make my employer pay me as much as an equally qualified and hard-working man simply by changing something about myself.

    So, the approaches are different. If we want to improve men’s educational performance, we have to teach them individually to value education. If we want to improve women’s pay, we have to teach society to value the work women do. The latter, I think, is likely the harder task.

    Sorry for babbling so much. I have a son and a daughter, and education is critically important in our household, so this is a big issue for me. I just recognize it’s my job to make sure my son develops a good work ethic. It’s not society’s job to coddle him or give him extra attention if he doesn’t want to work as hard as the women do.

  14. It’s also worth noting that there should be something interesting in the general dynamic of female achievement outpacing male achievement in, for instance, reading comprehension, especially since we keep being told that men and women are, like, totally the same.

    …who said men and women are totally the same? Feminism doesn’t argue that. It just says that, despite any physical differences, men and women should have equal legal, social and political rights.

  15. I was annoyed by the tone of this article, that men can slack off in college and STILL get more money and do better than any hard-working, 4.0 GPA woman. Why on earth should we worry about them academically if they can “get away with it” and women can’t?

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