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Aggressive Measures

MySpace is being sued in the wake of a sexual assault.

MySpace’s age verification practices come under attack by the plaintiff’s attorneys. The site requires users to be at least 14 years old, asking for name, date of birth, e-mail address, sex, and country of residence. However, it does not attempt to verify the information, which is the basis for the lawsuit.

In a statement, MySpace chief security officer Hemanshu Nigam said that the site takes “aggressive measures” to protect its members and encouraged all Internet users to use “smart web practices” and “have open family dialogue on how to apply offline lessons in the online world.”

While I sympathize with the fourteen-year-old and her family–because, my God–I’m not entirely sure that there is a better approach than the one MySpace is advocating.

MySpace has come under increased scrutiny lately. Federal legislation was recently introduced that would regulate access to that and other, similar sites from public computers in libraries and schools. Sponsor Rep. Michael Fitzpatrick (R-PA) has called social networking sites aimed at younger users a “feeding ground for child predators,” and it’s all but certain that this case will provide more ammunition for similar criticism of the site and strengthen calls for regulating access to it by children.

As the friend who sent me the link put it, is there any way to regulate access by sexual predators instead?

And is a sixteen-year-old that much less likely to mistake predation than a fourteen-year-old, or less deserving of protection?

I am leery of this for a few reasons. First of all, subcultures need the internets. If I had been unable to go online for information and support, I would have been deprived of a vital resource. Second, subcultures tend to be under much heavier scrutiny, and tend to face disparate-impact dangers from legislative and policy definitions of obscenity, sexuality, and explicit content. Third, some of the protective information and support resources available to young women must be explicit in order to be useful. A teenager seeking candid advice about unplanned pregnancy or sexual abuse could likely have her network choked off by measures established to protect her. Look at the way wingnuts talk about Planned Parenthood.

From a follow-up link (sent by the same friend), it looks as though MySpace is working to make it more difficult for predators to operate. I wish it hadn’t taken three (reported) assaults and a lawsuit to prod them into action. It’s not as though the spectre of sexual assault facilitated by the internet is a new development:

The site will also stop showing advertisements for certain products–like online dating sites–to those under 18.

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Next week, the site will restrict how users older than 18 can contact those aged 14 and 15. Older users sending a message asking to become friends with younger users will have to enter the recipients’ actual first and last names or their e-mail addresses, rather than simply their user names.

(snip)

MySpace will also start to allow all members to designate their profiles as private and thus available only to their named list of friends. MySpace had allowed and encouraged those under 16 to set their profiles to be private, but profiles of anyone older than that have been available for any visitor to the site to read.

It doesn’t look like they’re doing much about verification, though:

Parry Aftab, the executive director of WiredSafety, a group that promotes online privacy for young people, dismissed the change in the contact rules for those under 16 as ineffectual.

“Kids that want to do the open stuff will set their ages to 16,” she said. MySpace does not verify users’ ages.


10 thoughts on Aggressive Measures

  1. The site will also stop showing advertisements for certain products–like online dating sites–to those under 18.

    Hallelujah! I browse MySpace every once in a while (when I’m really bored) and that is the one thing that gets on my nerves other than all of the porn stars. Those adds look like soft-core pornography, in my eyes, anyways.

  2. I’m not a habitue of MySpace, but if they’re like the ones I’m thinking of, it’s not just you.

  3. I don’t see how, under current privacy laws and so on, one could do a real age verification. Would you have to give a driver’s license number or something?

    When I was in Korea a lot of websites required people to enter their government ID number (not exactly a social security number, but everybody has one), and that took care of age verification, I believe. When I set up an email account there, even though it was free, I got a phone call with my verification code, which I suppose was done to fool spoofers. But I just don’t see those sorts of measures being accepted in the US.

  4. I don’t see how, under current privacy laws and so on, one could do a real age verification. Would you have to give a driver’s license number or something?

    The Homeland Security answer to that seems to be, “If you don’t like it, you can stay home/offline.” So it might well be a possibility; I know that stringent expression and filtering measures have been passed, and those frequently intrude on private use as well. Plus, minors.

  5. MySpace isn’t required to take any measures at all to verify age, is it? There are plenty of ways that people can interact online without doing anything to verify their ages – instant messaging, blogs, etc. So how can they be held responsible for not taking more measures than they have voluntarily chosen to take?

    Also, I don’t understand the basis of the suit – the linked article says the girl is 14 and that MySpace requires users to be at least 14. Was she 13 when she was raped? Or is the issue that the rapist lied and said he was younger? The article isn’t clear.

  6. Raise your own damn kids people! Don’t expect anyone else to do it for you! It’s a tragedy, but MySpace should not automatically be blamed. The operators of MySpace are not babysitters OR child-porn peddlers. Though I agree those dating ads need to go.

    Overall, there is no fool-proof way to ensure your kid stays safe. Just ask my parents. I was molested by a relative, a person they trusted. But you CAN and SHOULD educate your kids about the dangers of being too trusting in any venue, online or otherwise. Why do I have the feeling that the adults in that girls’ life did nothing of the sort?

    These situations are never 100% preventable, but, you know, attempting to “fix” the situation by suing MySpace isn’t the best way to handle things.

  7. The internet is not all that different from other forms of communication. They met online, yes, but the actual incident didn’t occur online. Isn’t it a parent’s job to keep an eye on their children, and make sure they don’t randomly meet and interact with potential predators wherever they may be? If she had met this guy in high school (which, given his age, is entirely possible) or at the mall, would that institution have been responsible, or would the onus to supervise their daughter still fall on the parents? If she hangs up a phone call with someone they don’t know, they’d be expected to ask, “who’s that?” – not sue the phone company because it might be a predator.

  8. I have a MySpace account and I am 42 years old. I don’t have it so I can act as a predator; I have it because I want to see what my children are doing on the internet and who they are communicating with.

    I know that I cannot be with my children 24 hours a day, but I know that I can monitor their online activity, and see who their friends are and the comments they leave. It is not a secret that I have an account, they know that I have it so I can see what is going on.

    This generation has grown up in such a radically different manner, courtesy of the internet, and because they still believe that they are invincible and no one can hurt them, they publish their entire life story out on the web. I continue to iterate that they are not always as safe as they think they are.

    My eldest daughter, who is 19, finds it offensive that employers use Facebook.com or MySpace.com to see what potential employees are doing in their off duty hours. She says that this is not the reason these websites were created. Well they weren’t created as a singles bar for sexual predators either. The police in my town use MySpace to find out where the underage drinking parties will occur. And even still, the kids don’t see the harm in publishing personal information that makes them prone to those who want to exploit their naivete.

    I can understand that these parents want to find someone to blame. But you know, folks, the MySpace people didn’t pay for your kid’s computer or their internet connection. Police your own household, parents.

  9. It’s true: kids are way too free with their information. Scariest are those “surveys” that go around so that you list everything about yourself and then kids post them on their blogs! Parents really need to take control, educate, etc. The internet is like a gigantic party always raging. What parent would allow their child to spend as much time unsupervised at some unknown party full of strangers as they do online? And the new protections are worthless: (from common sense) http://www.commonsenseblog.org/archives/2006/06/myspace_restric.php

  10. The internet is like a gigantic party always raging.

    I know this is just a little throwaway comment, but it’s a fascinating and strange one. It makes the Internet sound WILD and CRAZY and DANGEROUS!!! Which it really isn’t.

    It’s more like the world in general than a party; it can be used for good and evil; it’s big and available and amazing. In the same way that you don’t lock your kids in their rooms to protect them from the world, you don’t refuse to allow them to use Internet, and you don’t terrify them so that they’re too scared to use it. (Which isn’t to say that there aren’t good reasons to limit or supervise access.) Instead, you teach people–kids, adults, everybody–how to handle it. Kinda like sex ed.

    And surveys aren’t “scary.” They aren’t brilliantly intellectual or particularly useful, either, but they can be fun, and 99.999% of the time they’re completely harmless.

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