The Good News: Sexual satisfaction correlates with gender equality. Take that, anti-feminists.
The Bad News*: Men are generally more sexually satisfied than women. This is not surprising.
“Pleasure is not part of the story” in sexually conservative cultures in the Far East — China, Indonesia, Japan, Taiwan, and Thailand, Laumann said. “Procreation is the rationale for sex. Many women … characterize sex as dirty, as a duty, something they endure” — and often stop having it after age 50.
And therein lies the problem with making sex all about the babies, and describing marital sex as a “duty.” I’ll take hedonism over that any day.
*I should be clear here: I don’t think it’s bad that men are sexually satisfied. I’m quite happy for them. I just wish we were all more sexually satisfied, and that sexual satisfaction was equal across the sexes.