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Jackie the Ripper: Where Are All The Female Serial Killers On TV?

This is a guest post by Christina Paschyn. Christina blogs at http://www.femitup.com/. She is a multimedia journalist and journalism lecturer currently based in Doha, Qatar. Her work has been published by Women’s eNews, the Pulitzer Center on Crisis Reporting and TIME.com and has appeared on CNN and Euronews, among other publications. You can view her reportage at http://christinapaschyn.com/. She plans to pursue a Ph.D. in communication and gender studies.

Dexter is entering its final season and that means soon we’ll have to say goodbye to TV’s favorite serial killer. The show is such a hit because its plot is unique. Instead of recycling the standard detective-chases-bad guy trope, the show’s writers gave us the righteous anti-hero Dexter, a serial killer who only kills other serial killers and evildoers who deserve to die.

But if you’re wondering where you’ll get your weekly dose of gore when Dex finally goes off the air, never fear. You’ll still have your share of psychopaths to watch thanks to Fox’s The Following, NBC’s Hannibal, BBC’s The Fall and CBS’ The Mentalist. True, these follow the more traditional approach, but at least it’s something, right?

Dexter, TV's favorite serial killer. Even on this innovative show, women still make up a large portion of dead people.
Dexter, TV’s favorite serial killer. Even on this innovative show, women still make up a large portion of dead people.

Serial killer dramas are popular for the same reason action films always earn a lot of money at the box office. They may give us the chills, but at the same time they also deliver a cathartic release. Men and women equally enjoy them, which tends to surprise researchers. I guess they think all the guts and gore would put women off, but I’m proof that’s not true. I grew up on gritty and frightening dramas like The X-Files. (the fact that Gillian Anderson plays the lead detective in The Fall excites me to no end!) And today I watch The Mentalist religiously.

The truth is, women watch these shows because, just like men, they want to feel like a badass. We live vicariously through the characters. Who among us would actually want to meet a serial killer in real life or watch them brutally slit the throat of an innocent person? Hopefully, none of us would. But for an hour each week, we can imagine that we have the guts necessary to hunt down the next Hannibal Lecter. Or – and this is everyone’s dirty little secret – we can imagine that we are him.

That’s really why serial killer dramas are so successful and why decades later, people still find the chilling murders of Jack the Ripper and the Zodiac Killer so fascinating. We struggle with minor but frustrating injustices daily. Some guy with road rage nearly drives us off the road, a boss or teacher criticizes us publicly, or we watch the news and see so many innocent people in the world getting screwed over by corporate greed and our racist and sexist society. While we would never physically pick up a knife and go to town with it, for an hour we get to imagine we too are pursuing a righteous cause just like Dexter. That we too have the courage and the insane drive to bring justice to the world in a way that really gives the bad guy exactly what he deserves. Or maybe, like Red John, Hannibal or Joe Carroll, we want to believe people can be afraid of us – that we have something inside of us so angry and wild that one day those jerks who piss off will cower in fear. Or maybe we just dream about having enough charisma to persuade dozens of followers to do our bidding.

Whatever our motivation, the point is many people in America glamorize serial killers – don’t deny it, that’s exactly what we do in these shows – because we secretly want to stick it to the man as well. No, we don’t necessarily want to kill innocent people (at least, I hope you don’t). But we like to imagine what it would be like to hold the power of life or death in our hands. We want to let our rage surge out of us with a devil may care attitude. We want to exert power and control over others and strike fear into the hearts of our enemies. Deep down, that’s everyone’s biggest fantasy, and, thankfully, most of us have enough sense to know living out that fantasy would be disastrous for all involved. So we are content to get our catharsis via the TV instead.

The problem is, that kind of catharsis comes easier for some than others, particularly men. What’s the one thing all the serial killer shows have in common? The killers are men and the victims are predominantly women. The first and fourth season of Dexter featured him hunting down serial killers who killed prostitutes and random women. Red John on The Mentalist prefers to slice up women; the men he kills are simply collateral damage. The Following starts off with Joe Carroll butchering the female victim who got away before he got locked up in jail. And The Fall is about a married father who, you guessed it, kills women in Belfast. That’s all these shows are ever about. Even when the killers have female devotees, like in The Mentalist and The Following, they still don’t seem to mind that their male idols have an unnatural hatred for women.

There are several reasons why women make up the majority of victims on these shows. For one, male serial killers are more prevalent in real life and they really do tend to target women more. Just look at Jack the Ripper, Son of Sam, The Hillside Strangler, The Dating Game Killer – the list goes on and on. Many of them also rape their victims, like Ted Bundy, Bobbie Joe Long and Michael Bruce Ross, which only goes to show there is a strong element of sexual domination and misogyny at the heart of these psychos’ attacks. But misogyny as a motivation is never truly discussed or analyzed in the media when a real-life killer is caught. Nor is it explored in the serial killers dramas that make up prime-time TV. American society takes the murder of women for granted, both in real life and on the screen, as if it’s the most natural thing in the world.

Experts estimate that by age 18, the average American has watched some 19,000 hours of television and seen some 200,000 acts of violence and 40,000 murders on the small screen. And much of that violence is violence against women (Professor Sheida Shirvani, Ohio University. PowerPoint presentation on Gendered Media, 2013). This extends beyond the shows listed above and includes nearly every single cop drama that ever existed, such as Law and Order: SVU, Criminal Minds, NYPD Blue...the list goes on and on. The point is violence against women is just expected in America and is normalized even more by the media. Perhaps the producers and writers of these shows are oblivious to that reality. Maybe they too have been saturated with images of violence against women that they don’t even think twice about including it in their own shows. Or maybe they do so deliberately to live out and promote their own misogynistic fantasies. Regardless, the consequences are deadly. As Jackson Katz in his brilliant documentary about the media’s distortion of masculinity, Tough Guise, explains, the end result is teen boys who are socialized to believe violence against women is normal and it is how men prove they are tough and in charge:

The media’s unquestioning attitude toward violence against women is detrimental to female audiences, too. According to Julia T. Wood in her book about gendered socialization, Gendered Lives: Communication, Gender, & Culture, it teaches us this is women’s fate in life – that violence against our sex is as American as apple pie and we just have to suck it up. But on a more basic level, it also prevents us from enjoying quality television. Women get no cathartic release from gory TV – we don’t get to relax and let our aggressive desires play out on the screen because we are constantly and continuously reminded TV shows aren’t being made for us. No, they’re being made for men. Men are the heroes, the antiheroes and the villains on prime-time TV and women exist to play usually one role and one role only: victim.

We also know those women being butchered on fictional TV could just as easily be us in real life. That’s why I had to stop watching Dexter after the first episode of the fourth season – I saw myself in the unsuspecting woman John Lithgow’s demented character picks to slice up naked in the bathtub (because, of course, he has to sexually humiliate her as well!). It’s also the reason why I have to take a break periodically from watching The Mentalist. All I ever see are women being raped and butchered on TV. So how can I possibly identify with any of the female characters on these shows? And where is my catharsis? I want to feel like a badass too, but the media makes clear that as a woman I don’t get to experience that luxury. I just get to live my life in fear.

Some media pundits are fed up with the gender imbalance and preponderance of dead women on TV. The Hollywood Reporter’s Tim Goodman, in his review of The Following, criticizes the show’s premise, what it says about media corporate interests and American society in general:

The Following, which premieres Jan. 21, was in production long before that. But Fox always has been keen on the fact that the shocking amount of blood and violence in The Following is earning the show — prematurely, lazily and incorrectly — comparisons to gritty cable fare. That means there’s tacit approval from Fox that slashing up women (and a few men along the way), carving their eyes out and letting the blood roll down into the gutter is acceptable. That’s where it might be misjudging the mood of the country.

He goes on to compare it with the CBS show Criminal Minds, which, he says, also relies far too much on brutalizing women:

…Criminal Minds is just a show that most people, including ex-star Mandy Patinkin, believe is ruinously violent, not some grand piece of art. As Patinkin told New York magazine: “The biggest public mistake I ever made was that I chose to do Criminal Minds in the first place. I thought it was something very different. I never thought they were going to kill and rape all these women every night, every day, week after week, year after year. It was very destructive to my soul and my personality.”

So how do we correct the situation? Personally, I think we need to stop showing women just as victims on TV and start developing well-rounded female antiheroes and villains instead. And with that I ask the question, where are all the female serial killers on TV? Seriously, why hasn’t Hollywood given us a recurring, female psychopath lead? One, say, who literally sticks it to the man every week?

Sure, men may outnumber women in the real-life serial killer department, but there are still plenty to get inspiration from. Like Aileen Wuornos, who went on a shooting spree, killing the men she claimed had tried to rape her. Or Phoolan Devi from India, who allegedly formed a gang to kill men who had brutalized women (maybe not so much a serial killer, but you get the picture). Need more inspiration? Here’s a whole website devoted to exposing the history of “misandry” by telling the sordid tales of female serial killers who targeted men, like Vera Renczi and Viktoria Foedi Rieger. (Don’t think the irony is lost on me that I am using a paranoid Men’s Rights site to make my case.)

By the way, before anyone accuses me of hating men, let me make this clear: I don’t hate men. I’m happily married to one. And I don’t think women should collectively revolt and kill men or that any man, innocent or not, deserves to die at the hands of a sadistic killer. I certainly don’t think serial killers (male or female) and vigilante justice are good for society. But I am pissed off that women bear the brunt of violence on TV. How is that empowering for us? How can I possibly enjoy TV when that’s all I see these days? Where is the gender balance?

I anticipate some readers may criticize me for the above statement. They may say the solution to balancing out the disproportionate amount of violence against women on TV is not by showing women committing murders or killing men, but by canceling all blood-and-guts dramas instead. I disagree. I don’t think violence will ever disappear from TV. And I don’t think it necessarily should. As I said, TV serves a purpose – it gives us a safe way to release all of our pent-up aggression. The problem is us women don’t ever get to release our aggression because we don’t get to lose ourselves in gritty programs that affirm the dark fantasies of its twisted female characters. Men certainly do, all the time. That’s why so many women get raped and butchered on TV. And nobody questions it or calls them out on their misogyny and sexism. But women getting raped and killed by men is just normal, right? It’s standard, expected and accepted. But heaven forbid if a woman should do the same, all hell would break loose.

Geena Davis, in an interview about her spy film The Long Kiss Goodnight that was recently reprinted in an article in Ms. Magazine, said it best when she explained why women DO need to experience the adrenaline rush of seeing women behaving badly on the big screen:

Thelma and Louise had a big reaction, there was a huge thing at the time, that, ‘Oh my god, these women had guns and they actually killed a guy!’ … That movie made me realize—you can talk about it all you want, but watch it with an audience and talk to women who have seen this movie and they go, ‘YES!’ They feel so adrenalized and so powerful after seeing some women kick some ass and take control of their own fate. … Women go, ‘Yeah—fucking right!’ Women don’t get to have that experience in the movies. But hey, people go to action movies for a reason; they want to feel adrenalized and they want to identify with the hero, and if only guys get to do that then it’s crazy.

Unfortunately, such films are few and far between for women. The only female serial killer character I have come across in recent years is the one Mia Wasikowska played this year in Stoker. Other than that, there was Monster back in 2003, which told the story of Wournos. On TV, I guess Dexter’s girlfriend last season, Hannah McKay, is kind of cool, but she’s not as good as Dexter and seems kind of emotionally weak. Plus, she’s just a temporary romantic foil for the main character; who knows if she will even return for the last season. So I ask again, why can’t we have a female Dexter on TV? Like one who hunts down and makes misogynists pay for the rape and torture they commit? Let a woman stick it to the patriarchy for once!

Or make her the villain. Whatever. Just show me something different than men killing women all the time. (FYI, what I don’t want to see is women psychopaths just killing other women, because that defeats the entire purpose).

I posed that question to my best guy friend recently and he said, “I don’t think there’s a market for that sort of thing” and “you shouldn’t take these TV shows so personally.”

Well, sorry buddy, but you’re wrong. As I already said, women love thrillers just as much as men. They also purchase more than half of movie tickets. That’s right, women see more movies than the teenage boys industry execs are constantly trying to cater to. It’s also a lie that female-protagonist led movies and TV shows make less money than films with male main characters. In fact, when controlled for budget, female-led movies make just as much money. And movies with larger budgets make more money regardless of the sex of the main character (The Status of Women in the U.S. Media 2012. Pg. 10).

So there certainly is a market for this type of thing, both on the little and big screens. And I have to take the plethora of male serial killer shows personally because they serve as constant reminders television execs couldn’t care less about women’s desires, and that male writers, producers and directors think of women as little more than corpses and body bag fillers. So Hollywood, it’s time to wake up and give women what we really want. Give us Dextress.

 

Featured Image: Mia Wasikowska in Stoker. Photo courtesy of Nuvo.net.

Dexter Image: Courtesy of http://shpintv.com/dexter/

Learn more about female serial killers: http://www.lsu.edu/faculty/jpullia/femaleserialkillers.htm

http://listverse.com/2012/12/29/10-american-female-serial-killers/

http://mentalfloss.com/article/20143/8-prolific-female-serial-killers

 

References:

Carbone, Gina. The Most Popular TV Series Among Women Is…You May Be Surprised. Wetpaint.com. Feb. 26, 2013. http://www.wetpaint.com/walking-dead/articles/the-most-popular-tv-series-among-women-is-you-may-be-surprised

Derr, Holly. Where Have You Gone, Sarah Connor? MS. Magazine. June 11, 2013. http://msmagazine.com/blog/2013/06/11/where-have-you-gone-sarah-connor/

Goodman, Tim. The Following: TV Review. The Hollywood Reporter. Jan. 8, 2013. http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/review/kevin-bacons-tv-review-409642

Katz, Jackson. Tough Guise. Media Education Foundation. 1999

Shirvani, Sheida. PowerPoint on Gendered Media for Coms 4200 class. Ohio University. June 2013. Cengage Learning. 2010. http://www.amazon.com/Gendered-Lives-Communication-Gender-Culture/dp/0495794163

Wood, Julia. Gendered Lives: Communication, Gender , & Culture.


248 thoughts on Jackie the Ripper: Where Are All The Female Serial Killers On TV?

  1. Huh. Interesting.

    As I said, TV serves a purpose – it gives us a safe way to release all of our pent-up aggression.

    I think it doesn’t work that way. Generally, watching agression somewhat increases our own agression, not ‘releases’ it.

    (Although it might absorb your time until the night so you don’t act out on random people instead, i guess)

    Ah well. The level of violence against women in TV slowly rises, as does the number of women protagonists, so i guess eventually it might reach the levels of men victims/villains an we will have the opportunity to watch all that blood and gore in equality paradise 😀

    1. I think it doesn’t work that way. Generally, watching agression somewhat increases our own agression, not ‘releases’ it.

      Do you have a source for that? I think I’ve heard this claim made often in the context of violent video games, but the studies I have read about seem to reach ambiguous or contradictory results.

        1. I would imagine if you have a genuine predisposition toward violence, normalising that violence through a lot of violent media would tend to be a problem.

          But I don’t think there’s anything proving that violent media encourages aggression in general (I certainly could be wrong).

          I do think the saturation of violence in media is not great, but that doesn’t mean that the best solution would be no shows like this at all.

        2. IIRC there is a statistically significant correlation between playing violent video games and a temporary increase in aggressive behavior. There are also some really boneheaded studies that show that aggressive people prefer violent games and the more you play video games the less productive other areas of your life are.

  2. Not sure how long she sticks around for (since I haven’t watched every episode yet), but there is a recurring female psychopath character in the British series Luther. Worth checking out.

  3. If you’re going to base an article on personal impressions of the motivations for watching gory TV, I don’t think that is a basis for framing the article as encompassing the motivations of all other people as well.

    When talking about your own experiences, I think there is a rather serviceable pronoun “I” that does not depersonalize personal feelings.

    The truth is, women watch these shows because, just like men, they want to feel like a badass. We live vicariously through the characters. Who among us would actually want to meet a serial killer in real life or watch them brutally slit the throat of an innocent person? Hopefully, none of us would. But for an hour each week, we can imagine that we have the guts necessary to hunt down the next Hannibal Lecter. Or – and this is everyone’s dirty little secret – we can imagine that we are him.

    The truth is, I watch these shows because, just like men, I want to feel like a badass. I live vicariously through the characters. Would I actually want to meet a serial killer in real life or watch them brutally slit the throat of an innocent person? Hopefully, no. But for an hour each week, I can imagine that I have the guts necessary to hunt down the next Hannibal Lecter. Or – and this is my dirty little secret – I can imagine that I am him.

    I think personalizing a subjective perspective allows the audience to relate to me as a person with that perspective. If I pluralize a personal perspective, I assume a particular relation with the reader, and is a more coercive way for me to communicate my point of view.

    1. Thank you, A4.

      Or – and this is everyone’s dirty little secret – we can imagine that we are him.

      We want to let our rage surge out of us with a devil may care attitude. We want to exert power and control over others and strike fear into the hearts of our enemies. Deep down, that’s everyone’s biggest fantasy,

      No, actually, it isn’t. I’m sure the writer is being deliberately hyperbolic and knows that what she’s saying isn’t literally so, but I always find that kind of universalization to be incredibly annoying, and unnecessary.

      1. I agree. Film and television often is quite good at getting the viewer to identify – if only momentarily – with the villain. I feel physically unclean, revolted with myself, after watching grotesque acts of violence where I was meant to identify with the perpetrator. It doesn’t give me an adrenaline rush.

      2. Your words echoed in my head while writing this DonnaL, because you were kind enough to explain the same thing to me several times in the past.

      3. Definitely. And especially in cop shows – I watch them, yes, because it’s a fantasy. But to harm other people and bring ruin to my enemies and blah blah blah, that’s not MY fantasy. In shows like SVU and whatever, my fantasy is that the cops always care and they (nearly) always catch the bad people.

    2. Same here. I actively avoid this type of show because I have pretty much the opposite reaction to them. Please don’t erase me.

    3. Exactly. I don’t know where the author got the idea that “everyone” wants to be the serial killer.

      I love these types of shows and pretty much any book that starts with a dead body and a bunch of clues. That’s because I love to unravel a puzzle, not because I get off on dead bodies or wish I could decide who would live or die.

      Annoyed.

  4. I agree, and I would extend this to books, as well. You can find action/adventure books with female heroes (they do tend to be marketed towards women, but they exist).
    Female villains? Now, that’s another story. Because a woman can be a plucky young hero with more luck than wit, but the big bad? Let’s get real! No way a woman could be powerful and scary enough.
    Give us a female Voldemort, I say!
    (This said, I loved Belatrix Lestrange, but she was only a lieutenant, so not good enough for me.)

      1. Well, that’s getting into the evil witch trope, which is a whole nother thing with its own set of highly problematic material…

    1. No. There are many, many stories with female villains. See: a huge number of fairy tales (think versions of Snow White, Sleeping Beauty, Cinderella, Hansel and Gretel- some of this female villains are supernatural/ witches and some are not) and books by awesome female writers like Catherynne Valente, Patricia McKillip, Robin McKinley, Cassandra Clare, etc.

    2. Actually, for a specifically female serial killer villain, check out Lawrence Sanders’s novel The Third Deadly Sin, published in 1984.

      One book does not counter the argument of the author; it’s just a decent book as is the Deadly Sin series.

      Also, I always assumed that there were so few female serial killers in fiction because the FBI profilers who first described the phenomenon initially didn’t believe that women could be serial killers. The guy who founded the Behavioural Analysis Unit (Douglas, I think) initially didn’t think women could be sociopaths/psychopaths at all.

  5. Um, the second season of Dexter was not about Dexter hunting down a serial killer who targeted prostitutes and random women. It was actually about the exact opposite of that.

    SPOILERS AHEAD

    That was the season when the target of the major serial killer investigation was “the Bay Harbor Butcher”–Dexter himself. The major conflict mostly involved Doakes and his investigation of Dexter. The “villain,” (though this term gets a little complicated for this season) was Lila, and while she only gets the chance to kill one person (a man, incidentally), it’s implied that she had the potential to become a serial killer and would have “become” Dexter if he hadn’t killed her before she got that far.

    I haven’t seen the entire series (maybe you were thinking of the third season?), but I found it a little odd that you mentioned S2 to support your point when S2 actually provides very strong contradictory evidence.

    1. Hi Brennan, yes, thank you for catching that. I was confusing my seasons. I will correct that on my site.

      1. And FYI, I had been thinking of the first and fourth seasons. It was in the latter where we saw Lithgow’s character kill the woman in the bathtub and the mother of two.

        1. And as a side note, I never saw Lila as being remotely comparable or equivalent to Dexter.

        2. Oh, and let’s not forget about the fifth season, which introduced us to a serial killer group dedicated to raping and murdering women.

          But my point extends beyond Dexter and includes the preponderance of female victims on other popular serial killers shows, listed in my post above.

    2. I don’t think the author said that specifically about season 2. Also, Lithgow’s character does kill seemingly random women!

    3. Oh, and let’s not forget about the fifth season, which introduced us to a serial killer group dedicated to raping and murdering women.

      Well, yes, let’s not forget about the fifth season – which introduced us to a serial killer group decidated to raping and murdering women. And one of their (lady-type) victims, who gets catharsis/heals by, uh, murdering all of them.

      1. Yes, but the fifth season’s Lumen wasn’t a serial killer. Nor did she end up being a recurring character. She also heavily depended on Dexter to rescue and help her. I don’t know, her storyline wasn’t all that empowering for me.

        1. Plus, she disappeared after the 5th season and she stopped killing after she got HER revenge. She doesn’t keep on fighting to avenge OTHER women victims. It’s all very individual. Maybe I would appreciate her more if she got her own spinoff and we saw whether she keeps going after other women-hating men.

        2. Maybe that proves audiences can only handle images of women committing violence against men in small doses? I doubt Lumen would ever get her own show.

        3. I’m honestly not even a Dexter fan (I did enjoy that season though), I just think it’s dumb to talk about the plot of the 5th season without mentioning Lumen

  6. So I ask again, why can’t we have a female Dexter on TV?

    I think it’s because the vast majority of female serial killers (in the popular FBI sense) don’t kill in ways that make for exciting television. They tend to take caregiver roles and they usually kill by poison or suffocation. Very occasionally you get ‘black widows’, but again, they aren’t showy. Aileen Wuornos stood out just because she was so different from the norm. If our fictions spring from real life, then there is slightly less to work with, as inspirations go. It’s also true that most male serial killers aren’t as clever as the ones on TV, so I agree that there is room to take creative license.

    Stories you might like:
    The novel “Portrait of the Psychopath as a Young Woman” by Edward Lee and Elizabeth Steffen seems closest to what you’re talking about plot-wise for a female Dexter (except in the book the killer is obviously mentally ill). “Ms .45” is a film from 1981 about a woman who becomes a spree killer after being raped. The story examines the casual misogyny all around the protagonist and she doesn’t limit her revenge to her actual attacker. “Serial Mom”, while comedic, does feature a woman motivated to kill the rude.

    1. Stories you might like:
      The novel “Portrait of the Psychopath as a Young Woman” by Edward Lee and Elizabeth Steffen seems closest to what you’re talking about plot-wise for a female Dexter (except in the book the killer is obviously mentally ill). “Ms .45″ is a film from 1981 about a woman who becomes a spree killer after being raped. The story examines the casual misogyny all around the protagonist and she doesn’t limit her revenge to her actual attacker.

      Some years after the Montreal massacre in 1989, I came up with a fragment of a plot; a speculative “what if” type scenario involving a female counterpart to Marc Lepine. Of course the major difference would be that unlike Lepine’s perceived ruination of his life by women/feminism (which were just a product of his twisted psyche), this female character has suffered real harm and damage by men in her life and the system of patriarchy. Consequently, she goes on a shooting spree in a space that for her represents the essence of patriarchal culture – ie a sports bar, a frat party, strip club etc. Killing and wounding several men before turning the gun on herself, leaving a letter explaining her actions and how the patriarchy and men in particular drove her to this…and the larger cultural debate or fallout that ensues.

      I’ve never seriously attempted to write it, because of it’s controversy. But to me, it’s neither far fetched nor a totally unbelievable premise for a story, given the reality of both patriarchy and post modern cultural reality.

    2. My partner and I have been watching (re-watching, in my case) I Claudius this week. If you want a female serial killer, you couldn’t do much better than Livia. That show was hugely popular in its time, and has held up well over the years, and the performance of Sian Phillips was a big part of that. I’ve got the Acorn 35th anniversary release box set from last year, $30 from Barnes & Noble.

      1. Bearing in mind, of course, that it’s based on every last bit of Roman gossip or innuendo, rather than convincing history. In other words, great fiction, yes – a portrait of the real Livia, no.

        (I loved the series, but I’m always squicked out by how historical fiction trashes people’s reputations.)

        1. Yes, absolutely good point. People should watch it, if they do watch it, with full knowledge that it is a freely fictionalized account of historical figures. I’m reading the show (haven’t read the book) to be rather satirical; there are a lot of parallels to what is going on in the USA today, or maybe I’m just reading those into it.

          Julia (the Elder) is another character in IC that suffers this treatment — unfortunately, but not surprisingly to anyone on this blog, that often happens to women historical figures in fictional works. Lucretia Borgia is perhaps the most famous and egregious example. Anyway about Julia: the other night, I was watching a very interesting program the other night about the archaeological excavations on Ventotene (ancient name Pandateria) where Julia was exiled. One of the interviewees was Annelise Freisenbruch, who wrote a book titled First Ladies of Rome. (another book I’ve got to add to my wish list — sigh, so many books, so little time) She said that it was much more likely that Julia was involved in some political intrigue and that the charge of adultery was just a cover.

        2. So with you about Lucretia Borgia. Her bad reputation’s made of whole cloth.

          I hadn’t known about Julia the Elder and the adultery charge likely being a cover until yesterday – I was pleased to see Wikipedia’s caught up with that, too. 🙂

          Another woman whose reputation comes almost entirely from her enemies is Marie Antoinette. The “let them eat cake” story was invented by Rousseau, iirc, and wasn’t even about her: it was about Marie Terese, Louis XIV’s first wife. (Charming of Rousseau to make up crap about someone dead a century, if he did it.) So far from being the Rich Bimbo (not to mention Evil Lesbian Harlot) her enemies made out, Marie Antoinette gave away plenty of her household money to charity, so much so that there’s a letter – genuine, afaik – where she’s telling her daughter there’ll be no Christmas presents that year, because mama’s spare money has gone to people who need food.

          One of many reasons I do not like Bastille Day …

  7. Hm! I loved the movie the long kiss goodnight. However, I do agree with you about the killer shows and movies. Most of them have male leads and kill more women the men. But, I don’t agree with you about books. Karen Chances books, Mike Shepherds Kris Longknive series, J.R. Rains Samantha Moon Series and Mercedes Lackey all have good strong female leads! It would be nice if Hollywood would look at these books and then make a movie or several from them. Instead of rehashing story lines from before I was born. It seems like all they do nowdays is reuse story lines from before instead of getting new ones! It would be nice to see it from the other side with new story lines.

  8. As I said, TV serves a purpose – it gives us a safe way to release all of our pent-up aggression.

    I don’t agree that this is a positive thing. We don’t need more women “safely” releasing our pent-up aggression. In my opinion, what we do need (among other things) is more women organizing to “collectively revolt and kill men.” We need our aggression for us to destroy patriarchy; we don’t need to release it in innocuous ways that leave the power structure unscathed. But with your caveats about not hating men (although honestly, why shouldn’t we hate men, given the patriarchal society we live in and how murderous it is toward women?), you seem to indicate you’re more interested in symbolic representations of aggressively confronting male misogyny than actually aggressively confronting male misogyny.

    1. We shouldn’t “revolt and kill men,” we shouldn’t “hate men”, because “men” is a category comprising half the human race and it is ridiculous and obviously false to assume that every person who falls into a category that broad is worthy of hatred, or of killing. I mean, come on, there are men who comment here and blog here at Feministe.

      Am I misunderstanding you?

      1. Yeah, the use of quotation marks around “collectively revolt and kill men” is confusing. I hope that means it’s some sort of joke in poor taste, and not a serious suggestion?

      2. Like pretty much everyone here, you read the word “every” into my comment even though it wasn’t there. I’m not surprised. Expressing intense hostility to people in privileged groups is seldom looked favorably upon. No feminist will ever be taken seriously in the mainstream, not even in the leftist mainstream, unless she goes to great pains to establish that she does not experience any significant “hatred” toward men.

        But the reality is every liberation movement that has achieved any great measure of success has (to some extent) involved killing people. It’s not the only useful tactic out there, but it’s something that winds up happening during a period of intense social upheaval. We live in a violent society. When men stop murdering women, then I will stop advocating that women should forcibly defend ourselves against male violence.

        1. So LotusBecca, who will you be killing first? How will you be channelling your aggression towards real world violence that dismantles patriarchy?

          Surely you are not just someone who just thinks it’s exciting and edgy to advocate for liberational murder on the internet. That would be pathetic and mundane.

          I can understand not wanting to discuss the particulars of your violent crimes on the internet, so I ask only for hypotheticals.

          Hypothetically speaking, who might you target for assassination? Or will the murder be left to those other people and you will simply advocate for them? Perhaps you will make a sign and stand next to busy roads?

        2. Allow me to suggest that when “pretty much everyone” misunderstands what you are trying to say, the fault lies in the way you expressed yourself, not ten other people’s reading skills.

        3. This whole thread is a hot mess. I agree with A4. I can’t tell whether you’re just being an internet tough guy or whether you’re serious; I hope to god it’s the former because it scares me that there are people walking around spouting this sort of bullshit about how all manner of violence is justified come the revolution.

          You know what, LotusBecca? It’s true that violence is often a part of legitimate political struggle. There have been plenty of revolutionaries, whom I admire, who committed acts of violence (including less than admirable acts of violence). But you haven’t earned the kind of violence you’re advocating. You have articulated no theory under which such violence would be justified, except for vague handwaving about self defense or political struggle. I’m with A4: I’d like to see you name the people, the individual human beings, whom you think we all ought to get together and assassinate. If you can’t do that, then all I can conclude is that you’re mouthing off in a thoughtless and irresponsible way on the internet. Which I hope to god is the truth.

        4. I’m with A4: I’d like to see you name the people, the individual human beings, whom you think we all ought to get together and assassinate.

          LOL. Are you kidding me? You want me to call for assassinations of individual human beings on a internet blog open to the public (and to the NSA)? Are you being for real? Uhhh sorry. . .I actually take politics seriously.

          There’s nothing particularly unique about advocating for violence (in a general sense) as a useful political tactic. It happens all the time in many different types of radical spaces, and it has happened for thousands of years. Perhaps you need to get out more.

          And no, you have no idea who I am, and I’m not obligated to post a 100 page theoretical political manifesto before I write a four sentence comment on a blog (my initial comment). If people feel free to casually mouth off about their pro-men, liberal political opinions, then I’m going to also casually mouth off about my critical-of-men, revolutionary political opinions. Don’t presume this means I’m not serious or committed or haven’t thought this stuff through in real life.

          Finally, you must be very privileged if you are scared of the thought that people as powerless and harmless as me exist. I have actual oppression and actual violence to worry about, and I can’t get too worked up about the cooked-up “risks” that political dissidents pose in the minds of the FBI, MRAs, Republicans, and people who think like them.

        5. If people feel free to casually mouth off about their pro-men, liberal political opinions, then I’m going to also casually mouth off about my critical-of-men, revolutionary political opinions.

          Phwee. Saying all men shouldn’t be randomly killed is being “pro-man”? I guess your definition of “transphobic feminist” is now officially only restricted to Janice Raymond and a couple of religious fundamentalists? Since, you know, someone who thinks you’re a fake and a “man” and a “rapist just by existing”, but who doesn’t actively advocate the murder of all trans women, is “pro-trans women” now, by that definition.

          Don’t presume this means I’m not serious or committed or haven’t thought this stuff through in real life.

          Well, I was giving you the benefit of the doubt, but if you’ve thought things through and this is what you arrived at, you’re being willfully blinkered and shallow-minded, and that’s pretty much all there is to it.

          Also, any time you want to work with “real oppression”, I’ll take an apology from you for whitesplaining repeatedly to me and amblingalong on this/other threads. Thanks.

        6. Also, any time you want to work with “real oppression”, I’ll take an apology from you for whitesplaining repeatedly to me and amblingalong on this/other threads. Thanks.

          I apologize for repeatedly whitesplaining to you and amblingalong on this and other threads. When I implied that you and he were opposed to POC defending yourselves against white violence I didn’t view it as an insult. A lot of POC activists whom I personally admire, like Gandhi and Martin Luther King, were entirely pacifistic even in regards to self-defense (as you obviously already know about them). This pacifistic approach isn’t something that I as a woman take in my feminism. . .but I don’t believe it’s my place to judge the tactics that people who are oppressed in ways I’m not take to their liberation struggles. So I’m fine with POC pacifists. But intention isn’t magic. My assumption that you were against violent self-defense was inaccurate, and you viewed it as an insult. And so, for all intents and purposes, it WAS an insult. I need to be more careful about the assumptions I make about you in the future. I know there have been several other times when you called me out for being racist on here, and I think you’ve raised legitimate points when you’ve done that. It’s very possible there’s other times I’ve been racist, too, and you haven’t had the spoons to call me on it. I’m sorry for that, and I think any time I’m being racist or whitesplaining that’s messed up, and I should know better by now.

    2. what we do need (among other things) is more women organizing to “collectively revolt and kill men.”

      I literally facepalmed.

    3. Will you be establishing objective criteria for identifying who is a man and therefore deserving of murder, or will you simply kill all the self-identified men?

      1. Will you be establishing objective criteria for identifying who is a man and therefore deserving of murder, or will you simply kill all the self-identified men?

        The word “all” is nowhere in what I wrote. Obviously I’m not arguing in favor of a genocide of all men. What a ridiculous question.

        Furthermore, I find your question offensive, given who you are (cis, if I remember correctly) and given who I am. I’m not sure if you’ve forgotten this, but I’m trans. Please don’t snarkily talk to me about “objective criteria about determining who is a man.” I know all about such objective criteria. I’m not sure if you’re consciously trying to say “you’re a trans woman! you’re such a hypocrite for talking this way!” but I don’t particularly appreciate a cis person condescending to me about the contradictions of gender and gender identification.

    4. Ha-ha, I TOTALLY get what you’re saying, LotusBecca. What a surprise.

      I love the shocked reactions of the readers who live in a world in which raping, mutilating, slicing, torturing, and killing women is not only TV’s largest form of entertainment, but also the reality in which women live, worldwide, every day. Yawn. But – kill MEN! What? How dare you suggest such a thing! Why, some men read this very blog!

      The willful blindness is stunning.

      1. It’s not “willful blindness.” It’s recognizing that the solution to the terrible things women endure is not to suggest that we should increase the levels at which men endure those things.

        1. Power exists. Men have power over women and already use violence against women all the time. And the way you confront power is not by politely ersuading it to be nicer to you but by fighting back against it, through violence when necessary. Patriarchy will not end unless women give ourselves license to defend ourselves against our oppressors. To draw an analogy, pretty much every country that white people colonized was only able to kick those white people out after a certain degree of bloodshed. In a similar way, men will not willingly step down from their dominant position in society. For patriarchy to be abolished, a certain degree of bloodshed will need to occur.

        2. First of all, I’m not sure how old you are, but there have a been some pretty radical shifts in our society over the last few decades- shifts that were essentially violence free. If you really believe violence is required to end kyriarchy, I’m not sure how you can explain all the various violence-free ways that kyriarchy has been weakened (from the big historical stuff like voting rights down to societal shifts like changing attitudes towards gay people). There’s a painful amount of shit left to deal with, but we’ve taken some small steps- and other countries have taken larger steps- and they’ve largely been accomplished through coalition building, protest, political activism, negotiation, etc., not by assassinating pro-life Senators.

        3. Incidentally, that should read “violence free on the part of the people working to improve things.” Obviously there was/is a shit ton of violence directed at the oppressed groups.

        4. There was plenty of violent resistance, especially in the 60s and the 70s, but more recently as well. Most of the progressive changes that happened wouldn’t have happened without the violent resistance, in my opinion. I’m not saying violence is the answer; it’s part of the answer.

          1. Just popping up a preemptive clarification to Jill’s heads up, because I’ve seen this misunderstanding come up over and over on different blogs – “putting X on mod” does not mean that they are barred from commenting or that their submitted comments will be automatically deleted. It means that “auto-modded” comments are filtered into the moderator approval queue rather than appearing immediately on the blog – so a better term for how it works is “pre-moderation”.

            If LotusBecca wants to continue arguing her stance while eschewing the advocacy of violence against others, comments abiding by these guidelines (and other Feministe guidelines) will be published once a moderator is able to examine the moderation queue.

      2. But – kill MEN! What? How dare you suggest such a thing!

        Well, yes. Key word suggest, as in advocate, that people should commit violence against men. Who do you see coming in here and advocating that people commit violence against women and getting a yawn in response? And if the answer is “no one,” where did your supposed double standard just go?

        1. Mindlessly watching TV shows and paying money for movies that objectify women and glorify violence against us is tacit advocacy of same, whether you’d like to believe it or not.

        2. Mindlessly watching TV shows and paying money for movies that objectify women and glorify violence against us is tacit advocacy of same, whether you’d like to believe it or not.

          Well, watching TV shows and paying money for movies are not things that people do through the medium of Feministe. If you’re specifically referring to the OP, I think it’s pretty clear that she is mindful about the way she consumes media depicting violence against women, even if you don’t agree with her ultimate conclusion that what’s needed is more balance in terms of the kinds of perpetrators and victims depicted.

          Again, I don’t see the double standard you seemed to imply in your first comment. Who out of the people upbraiding LotusBecca for advocating indiscriminate violence against men is being “willfully blind” to the problem of violence against women in media?

        3. Mindlessly watching TV shows and paying money for movies that objectify women and glorify violence against us is tacit advocacy of same, whether you’d like to believe it or not.

          OK, so to repeat the question- who here is advocating mindlessly watching TV shows that objectify women or glorify violence against them?

        4. Mindlessly watching TV shows and paying money for movies that objectify women and glorify violence against us is tacit advocacy of same,

          Considering my current show of choice is Shingeki no Kyojin, I am currently tacitly advocating the near-extinction of the human race by giant junkless human-eating Eldritch Abominations.

          ….I’m weirdly comfortable with that.

          So, if I understand your attitude correctly, it is correct and appropriate to advocate the murder of 49% of the humans on this planet for their oppressive actions. And yet, if I were to say that I want you dead for being straight, white and more cisgender and abled than I am, I imagine that would bother you a little? Or is (assigned) gender the only oppressive axis worth committing genocide for in your opinion? Very curious to know your reasoning, since I personally feel less oppressed by men as a (perceived cis) woman than by cishets as a non-straight genderqueer person.

        5. I believe that is exactly what the author is suggesting, but in “fantasy.” Her entire post laments the dearth in “The entertainment” of women who kill scores of men

        6. @mac
          That’s okay, I plan on spending this weekend advocating the near-extinction of the human race by giant dimension-hopping monsters who then get punched by giant robots.

        7. Maybe Chataya is talking about Pacific Rim? New movie about alien-punching giant robots.

        8. alien-punching giant robots

          Driven by Idris Elba!

          Somewhere out there is a very happy person with a really specific fetish they never thought would come true on the big screen…

          Ah, Idris Elba. ♥

        9. I’m half-way curious to do a rule 34 investigation of that mac.

          While we’re on the subject of blockbusters none of us will see since we comment on this blog, I want 1000% more Heimdall in Thor 2. My skating rink for winter will be made of the tears of white supremacists everywhere.

        10. I want 1000% more Heimdall in Thor 2. My skating rink for winter will be made of the tears of white supremacists everywhere.

          I LOLed out loud, Willemina.

          (off-topic: really love your name! I remember reading it in a book, though spelled with an H, and making squee noises about how pretty it was….)

    5. If we’re killing men because patriarchy, we can kill white people because racism, right? And straight people because heteronormativity, and trans people because cissexism, and able-bodied people because ableism?

      I’m just curious, LotusBecca, how many people you think will be left alive after we purge everyone who holds any privilege.

      My guess is zero.

      1. Heh, I should have scrolled. MTE; where does the murder advocacy end? I’m visualising some sort of Hunger Games dealie. I’m a genderqueer bisexual disabled non-neurotypical low-income WOC, so I’d probably survive the heats, but I suppose I’d get knocked out at the finals for being high-caste and having educational privilege…

        Oppression Death Olympics, woohoo!

      2. If we’re killing men because patriarchy, we can kill white people because racism, right? And straight people because heteronormativity, and trans people because cissexism, and able-bodied people because ableism?

        Right. I support the ideas of Malcolm X and the Black Panthers. I support people of color killing whites to defend themselves when this becomes necessary. I also support the ideas of the Bash Back movement. I support queer folks killing straights to defend ourselves when this becomes necessary. See also: CeCe McDonald, a person who if I recall correctly, amblingalong, you had a problem with, but who in my mind is a hero.

        1. Patriarchy is a ploy of all men to supress/enslave/kill all women.
          So every man would be a legitimate target for self defence?
          Just to make sure I didn’t misunderstand.

        2. Right. I support the ideas of Malcolm X and the Black Panthers. I support people of color killing whites to defend themselves when this becomes necessary.

          You are doing some major goalpost moving by suddenly reducing your position to ‘killing when necessary for self-defense.” I mean, I support that in general, regardless of social groups. But that’s not what you initially said.

        3. You are doing some major goalpost moving by suddenly reducing your position to ‘killing when necessary for self-defense.” I mean, I support that in general, regardless of social groups. But that’s not what you initially said.

          Word. Becca, your initial comment made NO reference to self-defense, and it’s pretty insulting that you’re stating that POC on this thread (you do remember that amblingalong and I are not white) are recommending that POC not defend themselves against murderous white people, when we really said that we don’t think it’s moral to kill white people indiscriminately.

        4. I cannot, cannot abide people far removed from what violence, particularly widespread violence brings, so casually advocating it.

          I used to live in Northern Ireland, where people were killed for various causes. It was shit. Not “cleansing, purifying violence” but a disgusting and shoddy waste of human life, both the killers and of those they killed. *

          I currently have family living in Syria. Do you think they feel Syria is a better country for having 100,000 dead people in it? Short answer – no.

          I know, I’m probably spoiling your fun with my non USian examples. Boo hoo.

          *USian people – please do not start pontificating on Northern Irish politics and how you feel that it was fine and dandy for some people to die, just no.

          1. I put this warning at the bottom of the thread, but putting it here too: Just a reminder that advocating violence and murder really violate Feministe’s commenting policy. Future comments that promote violence or murder will be deleted and the user banned.

        5. I cannot, cannot abide people far removed from what violence, particularly widespread violence brings, so casually advocating it.

          No shit, and word to everything you said, Safiya. And seconding the “plz not talk about N. Ireland”; I remember how the last thread on the place went down.

    6. I can agree that some people almost deserve to be murdered, and can likely be persuaded to drop the almost, but cannot approve of the effect that committing the murder has on the character of the murderer.

    7. Kinda think she’s talking about tv shows should have women collectively revolting and killing men instead of symbolically destroying men. As the plot.

      1. You think that LotusBecca is just talking about the need for more cultural representations of women collectively perpetrating violence against men? I don’t see that as the most natural reading of her post, especially given the last part about rejecting “symbolic representations” of female violence in favor of “actually aggressively confronting male misogyny.”

        1. How many shows do you know of portray women aggressively confronting male misogyny or revolting and rising en masse to kill men ? I can’t think of any off the top of my head. Personally I’d have liked Thelma and Louise much more had they run over the men chasing them instead of driving off the cliff.

        2. I appreciate your sympathetic interpretation of what I said, pheeno, but Anon21 is closer to identifying my actual meaning. Although your idea of TV shows where women collectively revolt and kill men sounds great.

          I’m not advocating genocide of all men. I’m not advocating hate crimes where men are killed just for being men. Obviously. And even if I were advocating such things (which I’m not. Obviously.) there is no way such things would ever happen. To imagine such things are in any way even remotely possible enough to be worried about frankly strikes me as to sinking into MRA land.

          What I was talking about is women collectively revolting and killing men particularly implicated in the functioning of patriarchy (again this would be obvious to anyone who has an understanding of how politics actually works). Perhaps this would include killing rapists; perhaps this would include assassinating certain government officials. What I’m talking about is supporting the real things that happen in the real world when oppressed people try to defend themselves. Life isn’t a fairy tale. Women don’t need to purge themselves of aggressive impulses by watching serial killers on television. We need to channel our aggressive impulses into social action so that we can have a world where we won’t have to feel aggressive anymore. To accomplish this, I support marches; I support boycotts; I support strikes; I support civil disobedience; I support acts of sabotage; and yes, I even support killing men in certain circumstances. Apparently this scandalizes all of your very refined liberal, peaceful, pro-men sensibilities.

        3. To accomplish this, I support marches; I support boycotts; I support strikes; I support civil disobedience; I support acts of sabotage; and yes, I even support killing men in certain circumstances. Apparently this scandalizes all of your very refined liberal, peaceful, pro-men sensibilities.

          It doesn’t scandalize anything of mine. Nor would it have, if that had been remotely what you said.

      2. That’s an extremely strained reading, Pheeno. I just don’t buy it.

        Becca, your comment would fit right in at gendertrender, if it weren’t for, you know, one thing. If something I were advocating dovetailed so well with the views of people like that, it might give me pause.

        1. I dunno, I could very well be wrong but I was reading it in the context of tv shows and female characters.

        2. I dunno, I could very well be wrong but I was reading it in the context of tv shows and female characters.

          Pretty sure Becca specifically said that wasn’t the case here:

          you seem to indicate you’re more interested in symbolic representations of aggressively confronting male misogyny than actually aggressively confronting male misogyny.

          Emphasis mine.

        3. Donna, my view on GenderTrender is that even a broken clock is right two times a day.

          I choose my political positions based off what my logic, intuition, and life experience tells me will be the most effective in creating a just, free, equal society. I don’t choose my political positions so that they are the exact opposite of whatever people on GenderTrender think, as much as I despise most of them and their transmisogynistic bigotry.

        4. Pretty sure Becca specifically said that wasn’t the case here:

          I had read it in the context of TV and characters. That’s where I was bopping along thinking the whole thread was about so that’s how I read it. Instead of watching women symbolically destroy “the system” on TV, watch them actually aggressively confront misogyny.

          The abrupt shift from TV to real life wasn’t caught.

      3. Given LotusBecca’s comment:

        Right. I support the ideas of Malcolm X and the Black Panthers. I support people of color killing whites to defend themselves when this becomes necessary. I also support the ideas of the Bash Back movement. I support queer folks killing straights to defend ourselves when this becomes necessary. See also: CeCe McDonald, a person who if I recall correctly, amblingalong, you had a problem with, but who in my mind is a hero.

        she doesn’t seem to be talking about TV shows, and unless she’s had a bad case of Sarcasm In-joke Fail, she seems to be saying killing is fine. Not sure why it has to be specified about what groups are okay for this; isn’t killing as a desperate measure in self-defence the generally accepted idea anyway? Though I’m none too sure what level of “becomes necessary” is involved here.

    8. why shouldn’t we hate men, given the patriarchal society we live in and how murderous it is toward women?

      Because the patriarchy is a power structure that oppresses women, not a synonym for “men.” I wouldn’t call it very anarchistic to say that men as a group deserve hatred. But that’s just me.

      Pardon me if somehow you didn’t mean to say that hating men as a group is acceptable, but that was very disappointing to hear from you in any case.

      1. Not to mention that patriarchy can be pretty bloody murderous to the “wrong” sort of men, too – though given LotusBecca’s comment about “queer folk killing straights” maybe gay or bi men get an Honourary Not Men pass in this arrangement?

        1. maybe gay or bi men get an Honourary Not Men pass in this arrangement

          Yes, I’m very curious. If a cis straight Chinese woman, a trans straight white man and a cis gay black guy disagreed on politics, whose murder would Becca support as being most social justicey? Or is there just, like, a magic 8-ball that determines who’s most death-deserving on this particular day? Does it have an “eh, not really feeling the blood and gore right now, maybe try rational discourse” option?

        2. Mac – apparently now it’s Ebil Politicians who are legit targets for assassination. Whether women who’re (presumably) right-wing pollies are legit targets as well I’m not sure, but Lotus “obviously I’m not advocating genocide, OBVIOUSLY” Becca is doing some nice goalpoast shifting work here.

      2. I am perfectly OK with the fact that some women hate all men. I don’t share those feelings, but I understand where they are coming from. Women hating men, given the way things are under patriarchy, makes a lot of sense. In a similar way, I can see why a person of color would hate all white folks or a disabled person would hate all able-bodied people. Being oppressed really, really sucks. It’s a natural survival mechanism to overgeneralize about the people oppressing you. Women’s hatred of men is responsible for a net total of zero problems in the world. Now as for men’s hatred of women. . .

        1. Even if it’s just an instinctive overgeneralization as you say, hating men not only makes no sense given the nature of the patriarchy, but it also serves as just another form of bigotry. Such a view (and I understand that you don’t hate all men, given your words) makes the problem of misogyny about men as a group rather than what it actually is: a power structure that treats women like garbage. This is true despite the fact that one could more readily sympathize with someone who is bigoted against men because of the injustice ze has dealt with at the hands of individual men than someone who is bigoted against women because they’re all weak and inferior. As you know, there’s a difference between being able to find a motivation understandable in some ways and supporting or condoning it.

          Of course, there are some men who take advantage of their privilege deliberately to treat others like shit, but they have a choice in doing so, and countless men refuse to do so as far as I can tell. I see a lot of men, even some outside of feminist circles, who want to give up their privilege and refuse to take advantage of it in at least some major ways. And so in addition to the fact that bigotry against men is still bigotry (even though it’s not institutionalized like misogyny), I don’t think it’s fair in the slightest to frown upon male allies who sincerely care about dismantling the patriarchy.

        2. Such a view (and I understand that you don’t hate all men, given your words) makes the problem of misogyny about men as a group rather than what it actually is: a power structure that treats women like garbage.

          You’re not about to find me saying “Let’s hate all the men,” let alone “let’s kill all the men,” but for all practical purposes, in most of my life, yes, it is about “men as a group,” and I’m uncomfortable with sublimating the many ways that individual men have hurt the individual me into this idea of “patriarchy: the power structure that victimizes everybody!” And while hating all men is bigotry, it has been repeated ad naseum throughout the blogosphere that automatic suspicion of men is often a matter of survival and quite frankly, you won’t find me apologizing to anyone for that. And yes, that includes men who are not “patriarchy conforming.” I was raped by a nerd who had been bullied throughout his childhood.

          Also, I would submit that there are plenty of men who are not making a conscious decision or choice to “take advantage of their privilege” but are simply doing so because it is easy, affords benefits to them, because that is all they have known, and because that is what most men they have seen do. Whether or not they should be held morally accountable for those actions, I do not know. But whether or not a man understand that he is a raping me, I am still being raped.

          I don’t mean to be the “WAHHH TEH MENZ ARE MEAN” wet blanket of the bunch, but I also want to register how I sometimes feel icky when the whole “patriarchy is about power not individual men” gets pushed.

          I mean, obviously, there are many men in my life that I love and respect and who are oppressed even more than me, but I feel like I shouldn’t have to add this as a stipulation on a feminist website.

        3. Thank you Miranda. You totally hit the nail on the head of what was bothering me in this comment thread – particularly the comments directed at Becca. In my everyday life, the agents/enforcers of the patriarchal power structure ARE mostly men, and erasing that experience sounds a little too close to apologism for individual acts of oppression, privilege wielding etc

        4. Gretchen, LotusBecca started out talking about killing men, had a bit of a detour into killing various oppressor groups’ representatives with a “when necessary” caveat, then went on to politicians and the like.

          She was talking about murder.

          Since when is saying “advocating murder is not cool” erasing that yes, commenters here do know men overall are the group who benefit from and enforce (knowingly or not) patriarchy?

        5. I was mainly responding to the idea that to be male is to be an oppressor. But I agree with you that framing it as purely a matter of power in the way you object to is problematic; it’s not like there’s no such thing as an individual man who uses his privilege to oppress women. I apologize if I came off as insensitive in some way.

        6. Erm…but to be male is to be an oppressor. To be white is to be an oppressor. To be a non-native USian to be an oppressor. To be rich is to be an oppressor.

          It’s not an evaluative statement of a man’s personal morality. It’s a statement about where someone stands relationally on a certain power axis.

        7. Look, I mean, I don’t want to get in a flame war over this if I’m purely complaining on semantic grounds. You know what I mea, right?

        8. Look, I mean, I don’t want to get in a flame war over this if I’m purely complaining on semantic grounds. You know what I mea, right?

          I just used the word “oppressor” in an imprecise way. I was certainly using that word in an evaluative sense i.e. I was saying that not all men consciously decide to oppress women. When I read LotusBecca’s comment, I thought she was implying that all men should be hated because they all deliberately conspire to keep women at a lower status than theirs, so I responded to that point. Please note that I didn’t think, anywhere in this thread, that you shared LotusBecca’s view of men – I was specifically addressing her view only.

          Anyway, I apologize for not making myself clear. And I understand your views perfectly fine. Things like this happen sometimes. =P

        9. Erm…but to be male is to be an oppressor. To be white is to be an oppressor. To be a non-native USian to be an oppressor. To be rich is to be an oppressor.

          But wouldn’t that definition mean that everyone is an oppressor (since after including a few more axis of oppression, virtually everyone is privileged in some aspect)?

          I think you are right that it is just a question about semantics (ie structural analysis vs judging personal morality), but it seems to me that with such a wide definition the term becomes almost pointless and void of meaning.

        10. I prefer to say something like “privileged class” instead of “oppressor class” because for some reason the latter seems to imply some kind of deliberation – as though people in that group always consciously conspire to oppress another group. I know that’s not what’s intended when people use the word “oppressor” in such a way, but that’s how it comes off to me.

        11. Conscious intent doesn’t matter. The consequences are the same, and intent isn’t magic. White people not intending to deliberately oppress me are still oppressing me and are still in the oppressor group. They, as a group, are benefiting from NA oppression. They, also as individuals, are benefiting from NA oppression/genocide. That doesn’t change simply because some of the white people aren’t consciously, deliberately killing us.

        12. @pheeno honestly, after reading your comments here over the years, I don’t see how any voluntary migrants to/residents of North America aren’t de facto oppressing native peoples by existing. I recognise that that places me in an oppressor class myself. Which tbh doesn’t bother me in and of itself. I mean, I want to get better at not taking advantage of it, and ideally work to dismantle it, but I’m not going to whine and moan about how it’s so haaaaaard to be oppressed for something I didn’t doooooo.

        13. Eh, you two are right. My reason for feeling slightly reluctant about using it doesn’t really make any sense – especially since it’s an accurate term.

        14. @mac- That’s why the term in Indigenous activism is colonizer. Colonizer doesn’t just refer to the people who showed up in boats 500 years ago, and one can be a colonizer without being in an oppressor group.

        15. @pheeno makes perfect sense to me! I know other (desi) Indians who would grumble at ever being classed as colonisers, because we’ve been colonised ourselves, many times. But I’m of the opinion that ignoring one’s own shit in favour of screaming that white people are the only! bad! people! EVAR! is pretty counterproductive to actually creating any kind of equality.

        16. (sorry about the late, possibly unread reply, timezone issues!)
          @The Kittehs’ Unpaid Help
          Yes I do understand what LotusBecca said, I did read it.
          And yes I do know she was talking about murder.
          And…well, maybe not as she intended, but I do get it. I live in a place where non-violent models of resistance are pushed and glorified constantly but, have, in the past 20 years, achieved absolutely nothing except to create corruption and ultimately delegitimise justice movements as opportunism. I don’t think that violence is an illegitimate tool against oppression, in fact it seems integral.

          I was responding very specifically to certain comments that were all “it’s not men, it’s the PATRIARCHY” ie, don’t hate the players, hate the game. Which – and I am not saying this was the intent of the commenters – does sound like erasure. Because it washes away the accountability of individual actors with ‘oh, but they don’t know any better’, or, even worse, frames it as bad apple syndrome.

      1. Well, i was being facetious. Lotus is obviously way too far off the rocker to take seriously (for me personally).

        1. Can we leave the ableism out today? Whether Lotus has a mental illness or not is completely irrelevent to the correctness or appropriateness of what was said. Calling them “off the rocker” for what they said is not cool.

        2. Hm, i’m not native speaker and ‘off the rocker’ is not a phrase i use often. I was searching for something meaning ‘so far away from acceptable/reasonable/sensible worldwiev/viewpoint/opinions that it is hard to take seriously’, and ended with the above phrase. Sorry.

        3. It’s okay TMK, I hope I wasn’t too harsh. There’s just this trend of people saying “anyone who supports/does X violent act is crazy” and I assumed that’s what you meant with “off her rocker”.

    1. I’m not a radfem. Radical feminism is an ideology that holds the root cause of all oppression in society is men’s domination over women. That’s not something I believe in. I also don’t agree with the typical radfem positions on sex work, BDSM, or trans people. . .just to pick out a few topics, oh, completely at random. I admit I’m an extremist, but I’m not a radfem.

      1. Actually, i sort of remember that you were transwoman, so i did not believe you were a radical feminist when i wrote the above remark.

        Yet, the ‘kill all men’ trope is common within radical feminism, so what you wrote suited that disguise. You don’t have to be radical feminist to use radfem disguise. Eh, in any case your original comment was stupid, offensive and counterproductive (to the feminist or in fact any progressive) goals.

  9. One of my complicated-yet-favorite movie scenes is in 300, where the Spartan Queen, Gorgo, stabs the man who raped her and then betrayed her. And if you look at how she stabs him, she clearly cuts into his dick, upward into his stomach, and then makes it very clear she’s raping him with the knife, repeating back to him the words he said to her the night before.

    I don’t just want women to be tough, murderous, and violent as men, I also want to see my men thoughtful, emotional, and sometimes, victims. Again, I like 300 because, in the film, Leonidas is more emotional and gentler than his wife, in many ways–she encourages him to murder the Persian messenger, she tells him to come back with his shield or on it. She upholds the male cultural ideals better than he does, and drives him to live up to them. Again, complicated, SO PROBLEMATIC IN SO MANY WAYS, but I still see a glimmer of what I want in her and in that film, especially with the gratuitious naked male bodies everywhere, with their chests exposed and faces covered, FOR ONCE THE GUYS WITH HOT BODIES AND NO FACES.

    I was obsessed with serial killers when I was younger, and I love Dexter. I play the Batman Arkham games religiously because I love the experience of being someone big, and strong, and beating people who goddamn deserve it.

    I want to see a world with a female antagonist, where she’s not in a corset, or a catsuit unzipped to her navel, or heels five inches high–she is nicely dressed, with business casual slacks, practical shoes, and a stiletto in her bag. She’s older, not incredibly skinny (I’m skinny but I’d like to see more variety in women on TV because all the skinny women makes me want to be skinnier). I would watch that till the crows come home.

    1. Yeah, it would be nice to have a non-sexualized, female antagonist. I don’t need to see another evil femme fatale using her sexuality to make her cunning schemes work.

        1. I’m gonna contextualize something for you, given your previously stated feelings.

          Tinfoil Hattie thinks Twisty Faster is the bees knees and commented under the same name at IBTP for a very long time.

    2. The irony of quoting 300, a movie about hordes of men murdering other men and wishing for men to be shown more often as a victims is nice.

      But i guess Karak means more of a personalized victim not a redshirt, and more ‘pure’ victims (as in not engaged in similar level of violence and not portrayed as evil). That seems to be happening much. much rarer, compared to the wholesale slaughters that are usually shown on action movies.

    3. Again, I like 300 because, in the film, Leonidas is more emotional and gentler than his wife, in many ways–she encourages him to murder the Persian messenger, she tells him to come back with his shield or on it.

      I haven’t seen 300, so take this with a grain of salt. But there’s this whole concept of whetting–women encouraging men to pluck up and go take vengeance or be a TWUE MAN or whatevs–that’s basically a trope in Icelandic saga, and from what I’ve read, it’s been found to have existed as a social institution in ancient Greece and also currently in Albanian feud structures. I hesitate to say whether or not it’s actually empowering; I’ve read quite a few analyses that argue it’s all about just making the men look better and that the evil whetting females get to represent the “ruthless” or “nastier” emotions associated with killing. Haven’t seen 300, so don’t know if that’s the same thing, and I don’t want to take away how you experienced it. Just throwing in what I know about whetting and how I feel about it–in the sagas, every time I see it, it grosses me out a little bit.

    4. I’m not sure 300 is the best example to use karak, yeah I always find it nice to see a lady kicking arse, but the film was so deeply racist it kind of negated any enjoyment I could get out of it.

      1. The film was very racist, yes, but I feel it had a subversive element to the HOO-RAH WHITE STAND IN FOR GREEKS elements.

        The scene where Leonidas asks, “Spartans, what is your profession?!” and every single one saber rattles? Every one?! is cool on first watch but disturbing later. They call themselves “Free men” and mouth that they are the only people who have real freedom, but they all look the same, do the same thing, and have the same thoughts, desires, and aspirations. The land of free men has no individuality, and more than that, the Western world is descended culturally from the Athenians, the non-soldiers.

        The Persian Empire is displayed as the place of freaks, but, frankly, I’m more of a freak than a hoo-rah soldier, and sure, I’d like to punch people while lookin’ good but I’d much rather be myself in the incredibly tolerant Persian Empire, which tolerate everything but intolerance. Where would you really rather live? Sparta or Persia?

        I mean I could be giving the film much more analysis than I should. And, like I said before, it’s very problematic and I respect people who just say, “No, I can’t stomach through X, Y, and Z bullshit for the rest of it”.

        But I kind of want to write a paper on how I think it’s secretly subversive and undercutting the pseudo-neo-Spartan ideology at every turn.

        1. Sorry karak, i’m in a totally different timezone so I don’t know if you will even see my reply. I do get what you’re saying, and at first watch I really enjoyed 300, if anything for the mesmerising visuals. But…well, it’s just one of those things. I live in the Middle East, and seeing those faceless, violent and, ultimately, incompetent ‘savage’ Persian marauders, just played into too many modern media tropes for me. If I thought that even 50% of the audience viewed the film with the same critical lens, I wouldn’t be so icked by it.

        2. I think it’s secretly subversive and undercutting the pseudo-neo-Spartan ideology at every turn.

          Maybe that’s how you read it, but I very much doubt that’s how the people who made the movie intended it by essentially portraying the Persian “hordes” as faceless and non-human. Without any attempt at all at authenticity or making any of them (like the ridiculous Xerxes character] look remotely Persian. Not that Persians were necessarily so completely different ethnically from Greeks.

          In answer to your question, I would have chosen living in the Persian Empire over being a Spartan (of any gender) 1000% of the time. Especially if I were still Jewish, given that if I recall correctly, the Persians continued to treat the Jewish communities very well after they conquered Babylon. (Leaving aside, of course, the whole story of Esther!)

        3. God knows, the history of imperial ancient Persia is hardly free of oppression and suffering, but ancient Persia pioneered religious tolerance and Cyrus in particular appears to have been an admirable leader. In contrast, Sparta was a tiny cultural backwater that managed to dominate the Peloponnese by instituting the most repressive slave state in all Greece, thus freeing up its fighting-age citizens to engage in perpetual military exercise. Unlike most of the rest of the ancient world, slavery in Sparta was based on the perpetual subjugation of a particular ethnic group, the Helots, who could never win manumission.

          Wow, some choice.

          (that said, Athens was also pretty nasty if you didn’t have the luck to be born a citizen. It’s just that Athens gave us some of the greatest philosophers in the Western world, and was a home for learning and art – it had redeeming qualities.)

        4. Responding to everyone: I completely validate the perspective that the “icky nonwhite people!!!” vibe was strong in this one.

          I shamefully admit I haven’t read the graphic novel yet, but the author is someone known for having a lot of themes in his work that underscore the obvious message for the more subtle, questioning ones, which is why I even bother to look for ones in the first place.

          Donna L, I’m a little ambiguous, again, about the Persian hordes. I completely see the racism in the movie (I mean Christ almighty why are the Greeks always white, seriously?) and it made me angry, but the Persian army was insanely, insanely huge–the Immortals were so named because they’d fight 10,00 strong, half would die, and they’d pull those guys from the reserves to be 10,000 strong again.

          Ignoring the fact that Cyrus was an incredibly enlightened leader, he led a fucking terrifying army of conquering with diverse abilities and the numbers to literally shake the ground as they walked. They were no hoard, they were a human machine, meant to terrify, awe, and imply that each member was more than human, as part of the collective of one of the greatest empires this world has ever seen.

          To face them would have been to face monsters.

          But, of course, the filmmakers found it necessary to take this interaction and graft our pre-exisiting racial stereotypes about nonwhite people being things and white people being individuals, which is funny, because Cyrus probably had more Aryan-looking people in his army than the goddamn Spartans did, so it’ a load of shit designed to appeal to the lowest form of lizard brain.

          The film is problematic. I feel it has a enough merits to be worth arguing in it’s favor, I don’t feel that the merits are worthy enough to convince everyone that it’s a good movie with cool stuff and not, as Ebert put it, racist “Olympic war porn”.

  10. This was a very well written, OPINION about the writer’s observations. I think some of you are reading too much into things. She has a very valid point overall.

  11. ” … the medium of feministe … ” has an entire post up about serial killers, women not killing enough, mutilated women, etc. Now, I’m sure all the commenters here eschew popular TV shows and movies. Nobody here watches cable, or porn, or summer blockbusters. Probably this post was written for the benefit of all the silent commenters who secretly enjoy depictions of woman-as-object-of-violence.

    1. Feministe has a post up critiquing the media trope of women-as-victims-of-violent-crime. Not endorsing it.

      And it’s great that you know all the media that Feministe commenters consume, which allows you to deduce that they are “tacitly advocating” violence against women, which allows you to point out that they have no standing to challenge or critique LotusBecca’s explicit advocacy of indiscriminate violence against men. But for those of us who don’t have access to all this secret information, it helps to show your work.

      1. Oh, sorry, I left out a crucial additional secret fact: that when the commenters who were getting on Lotus Becca’s case do consume misogynistic media (as you know they do), they do so mindlessly.

    2. Now, I’m sure all the commenters here eschew popular TV shows and movies. Nobody here watches cable, or porn, or summer blockbusters.

      AND we’re all at least 23% less sanctimonious than you!

      Truly, our accomplishments are versatile and accomplishful.

    3. Now, I’m sure all the commenters here eschew popular TV shows and movies. Nobody here watches cable, or porn, or summer blockbusters.

      I don’t watch them. Thank you very much for sneering at the very possibility that anyone might, in fact, not like that stuff, as well as the assumption that those who do watch any of it do so mindlessly.

      You’re generalising just as much as the OP. Well done.

  12. Oh, and before I forget, I totally wanted to do a shout-out to female mass-murderers/serial killers in Bollywood! Ek Hasina Thi is a pretty viscerally satisfying movie, and I think there was one made about Phoolan Devi, too. (Bandit Queen? I can’t rmemeber its exact title.) Also Khoon Bhari Maang. *grin* Just in case OP or anyone else wants some “raargh fucking men and their fucking patriarchy, let’s fuck their shit the fuck up” action.

    1. It is Bandit Queen, Macavity. And it is a good movie, although it does deserve a huge trigger warning, as her story is not a pretty one.

      1. Oh my, yes. Actually, the other two deserve trigger warnings, too (sexual assault and violence). And thanks, shfree. Half the reason I haven’t seen it is that I can’t casually watch sexually violent material.

        1. Yeah, watching Bandit Queen was a terrible, terrible idea. Even though she’s fucking awesome, I can only remember the terribly realistic rape scenes. 🙁

    2. I was really uncomfortable about this article’s characterising Phoolan Devi as a serial killer. Devi was a political revolutionary who later went on to become an elected member of the Lokh Saba. Comparing her to Wuornos does her, and the people she fought for, a huge disservice.

      1. I don’t think that was the author’s intention. She did write in the post that Phoolan Devi is not an actual serial killer. I think she included her to make her point that women also feel/experience aggression and can enact violence in a way that challenges our patriarchal society. Ultimately, I think that is the type of character the author wants to see more on TV.

        1. Honestly, I would like to see more characters like that, too. The author is right that so much of TV just shows women as victims in need of being rescued. And they’re typically a supporting character, not the main character of the show. Why are we so afraid of women showing any type of righteous anger on TV, particularly in a way that challenges a society’s patriarchy and misogyny? When this is shown at all, I feel the character ends up being put back in her place and made to see the folly of her ways (even in shows that don’t involve violence, but just show a woman complaining or advocating for feminism in any way). But the male characters are never forced to confront their misogynistic ways (even in crime shows when the criminal is eventually captured). So men get to keep on killing women on tv without any complaint.

        2. Well, she did, but still, I don’t see how it works with the argument. You can’t say ‘I want to see characters like Aileen Wuornos and Phoonam Devi’ because they are fundamentally totally different people. I don’t see why Devi was even mentioned in this post, really.

  13. This has been an awesome thread and a really thought-provoking post.

    I actually think there are many truths on all sides here. I would like to see more diverse depictions of the awful people some people like to watch on television, and would totally tune in for a lady serial killer, because that would mean our cultural narrative would be by definition more inclusive. (And also, NGL, look at my handle. I love murder shows. The universalizing in the OP annoyed me too though, because I know many people don’t.)

    On the other hand, I also think that the acceptance of gratuitous violence (heh) against women is to a certain degree indicative of a comfort level with those things, for some people at least. I would really hesitate to take this too far though; recently I’ve mostly been watching Cartoon Network, and I wouldn’t want anyone to think I tacitly endorse a post-apocalyptic world where humans are extinct but candy-mutants run rampant.

  14. I couldn’t even finish this article. I’m sick to fucking death of shows about the rape and/or murder of women. I don’t identify with any of the characters, I’m long past the age of wanting to sit through any sort of gore, let alone “realistic” gore, and it nauseates me that yes, the misogyny of serial killers is treated, not as something to talk about, but as ENTERTAINMENT.

    So kindly excuse me from the “But for an hour each week, we can imagine that we have the guts necessary to hunt down the next Hannibal Lecter. Or – and this is everyone’s dirty little secret – we can imagine that we are him” statement and its ilk. I’m one of those people who don’t identify, and don’t gain carthasis or anything else from this stuff – I just find myself thinking of the real women who are raped and murdered every. fucking. day.

    1. Agreed. I just cannot do it. There is so, so much of it on TV, so graphically portrayed and I don’t want or need to see any of it.

      Women being hurt is not my entertainment. Small exception is made for martial art films, where there are some brilliant female protagonists and antagonists.

    2. The author was clearly talking about the audience who enjoyed these kinds of works in the “we”, not the “we” of six billion people on the planet earth or even the “we” of all comentators ever at feministe.

      I hate torture porn. I despise Hostel and The Human Centipede and all that crap, but I adore Dexter, The Mentalist, and many of the other shows she watched. And it fills some kind of need in my psyche, and I’m not alone, and I’d like to demand that the media my subconscious consumes lines more up with what my conscience believes. And I am thrilled to the point of butterflies imaging a storyline with a Murder, She Wrote star female character who is the murderer.

      So, like, not every post is going to press your buttons, and it’s okay to point that out, but for some of us it really hits home, and the fact that I watch fiction without ruminating on human suffering doesn’t make me some kind of inferior level of being, and I really do feel that’s what you’re implying here.

      1. Then perhaps she shouldn’t use phrases like “Or – and this is everyone’s dirty little secret – we can imagine that we are him” when she’s describing a subset of people. The article was phrased in a way that suggested everyone reading it watches those shows, however they go about it.

        1. Here’s the thing–inclusiveness and clarity is good in posts when we could harm and isolate other members of our community. The new post up about menstruation makes a point to talk about trans woman and men, because they’re often made non-existant and invisible in those kinds of conversations about how all women have periods and boobs and ovaries.

          Or, if you’re talking about cognitive and emotional things, it’s worth noting there are people who aren’t neurotypical and it’s okay to be like that, because, again, they are treated like invisible things. In conversations on sexuality, there should be a nod to non-heteronormative people and a clear explanation of who the author is addressing and what kinds of issues, because no, not every girl wants a boy, or even wants anyone.

          But when we are talking about TV shows the author doesn’t have to make this special, clear lines to make sure people who don’t like serial killer media are addressed and affirmed, because you’re not a group of people commonly treated like shit and subject to othering, you have a slightly different taste in media entertainment, and it’s frankly bizarre to me the need to say I DON’T WATCH THOSE when obviously some people don’t watch those shows and a little bit of article hyperbole is neither dangerous nor othering nor hurtful. You just seem hurt you didn’t warrant a completely unnecessary shout-out.

  15. [Content note: rape]

    Thirded. I’ve been told that I should watch movies like The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo, A Clockwork Orange, and Boys Don’t Cry, but I can’t handle watching rape scenes or anything close to them.

    I remember that incredibly disturbing part of The Wall in which a woman gets raped in her car, and all I thought after watching that scene was “Holy fuck, why was that necessary?” I can’t appreciate rape scenes simply because they serve to remind me about rape culture in one of the worst ways possible.

        1. What Mac said. And as a trans* woman myself, I’d be especially horrified by a rape scene in which a trans* man is being raped because I have fears of anti-trans* violence as well.

    1. Yeah. I rather enjoy the Game of the Thrones story in terms of court intrigue and fictional Medieval fantasyland politics. But all of the horrible sexual violence has precluded my enjoyment of the series. (Not to mention the totally gross racism/colonialism.)

      Anyway I real a really interesting post by someone about the defense, in the context of Game fo Thrones, “But that’s just how Medieval Europe/life/whatever is/was!!!” (although Westeros as Medieval Europe is so laughable I can’t even get my head around it) Her point was that, if you’re throwing in rape of women to be realistic, you’ll have to throw in some rape of dudes too. She wasn’t advocating for it, just pointing out that that’s the natural extension of that line of argument.

      1. I rather enjoy the Game of the Thrones story in terms of court intrigue and fictional Medieval fantasyland politics. But all of the horrible sexual violence has precluded my enjoyment of the series. (Not to mention the totally gross racism/colonialism.)

        I feel this way, too. I love the story, and love the characters, but more in spite of all the rape scenes than because of them.

        (Because of that, even though A Song of Ice and Fire is one of my favorite things ever, I don’t typically recommend it to people unless I know they don’t mind extreme violence.)

    2. I was able to handle the Swedish version of Dragon Tattoo, but I don’t ever need to see Boys Don’t Cry or A Clockwork Orange again.

    3. I read A Clockwork Orange and the language helps… insulate?… your psyche from the situations being described in the text. It’s one of my favorite books I like to re-read it every few months.

      There’s some movie that shows the scenes in reverse order, starting with the end of the film and working backwards to the beginning, and in it there’s a graphic, graphic rape scene that is actually meaningful and meant to disturb–apparently the director inserted some strange frequencies into the sound that isn’t consciously heard but causes nausea and vertigo in the listener. I can’t bring myself to even attempt to watch it. I’ve read reviews and it makes me start to feel sick and tear up.

      Requiem For A Dream has a non-traditional rape scene in the end–rape by coercion on a victim who’s seeking drugs and trades sexual favors in return for feeding her addiction. It made me cry watching it. I believe it’s an amazing, amazing film that is disgusted by what is happening to the woman, not by the woman, but I cannot watch it more than once.

      1. I couldn’t get past the rape scene in the book, and I’ve never watched the film version of Clockwork Orange. The end of Requiem for a Dream is one of the best film depictions of sexual violation I’ve ever seen; I’ve only ever been able to watch it once myself.

        1. I can’t watch the movie of A Clockwork Orange, I sat through some scenes but other I fast-forwarded, like when they’re raping the woman. I just.. couldn’t.

          Good movie, but full of no.

  16. if its any help I vaguely recall a movie with the main character of the mentalist as the main character who somehow obtains a list of every woman he will sleep with. The last name on this list being a female serial killer who I believe was killing misogynistic people of some degree (rapist frat boys is one example I remember) and in the movie the main character is gang raped by a bus load of girls while injured after a bike crash, this seems to be kind of what some people here want to see so you might be able to google it.

  17. Since it hasn’t been mentioned yet, I’ll point out that Kill Bill exists. That it’s extremely conventional in a large amount of ways (which is a Tarantino thing, but still), makes me think that it’s not so much the roles women have but the narrow range of tropes that are available to women characters that is part of the problem.

  18. I think we all miss a point here. These movies and tv shows are made for profit! And Sex sells! Look at all of the commercial’s! Even Kids toys have pretty women in them to Sell toys! So sex sells things. By using pretty women getting hurt they get people to watch and then they can sell airtime and make money. Lets be real here. 30 years ago most of this movies and tv shows would be allowed on air due to all of the blood, gore and sex. Now almost anything goes and soon even that thin wall will be gone. Do I agree, no frigging way! Heck I can remember the rape scene in “High Plains Drifter” that almost got it down graded to an “R” rating. And all they showed was some leg and let you image that sex was being done.
    Well about women killing just like the guys in the shows, I say ok, let them. Doubt it will happen. Hollywood and TV land isn’t ready for it yet.
    About Killing men. As a male I can say no. Matter of fact heck no! About killing rapists! Heck yes! However, I can one thing about it. Gandi! Work his way and get more people behind you.

    1. “Pretty women” =/= “sex.”

      “Hurting pretty women” =/= “sex.”

      Therefore, the issue is not that sex sells. If sex sells, where are all the ads directed at straight women?

      And rape =/= sex.

  19. one of the ways to backtrack from the violence against women trope is to “equalize” the victimization to include men. because yes, men are raped and murdered (maybe murdered more than women). and i truly believe there are serial killers who target males (ie, the craiglist killers who targeted indigent, homeless men). if the audience would get a realistic clue as to actual victimization, then young males might not be so gung ho on violence.

    also the deliberate titillation of women being assaulted and/or murdered is one of the reasons i no longer look at criminal minds. how can the writers be so clueless without an ounce of introspection? think of the slasher movies where the women are barely dressed and running with their breasts heaving? so obvious that a blind person could see it. so, yes the article author is correct in that these shows/movies are giving women audiences the finger. i’m tired of the 18-25 male demographic. (in my next novel, maybe they will be targeted for “sexual” reasons – just for a change of pace)

    1. “one of the ways to backtrack from the violence against women trope is to “equalize” the victimization to include men”… “if the audience would get a realistic clue as to actual victimization, then young males might not be so gung ho on violence.”

      …” so, yes the article author is correct in that these shows/movies are giving women audiences the finger. i’m tired of the 18-25 male demographic. ”

      Very well said, Sharon. You’ve captured my central argument exactly. Thank you! If you’re interested in learning more about the impact of sexualized violence on men and boys I recommend you watch the Jackson Katz documentary I included in my article.

      1. Clarification, meant to write the impact of media representations of sexualized violence against women on men and boys.

    2. I pray this push to “equalize the victimization” doesn’t mean that there will be yet more images of violence against men of color.

      1. why would that premise automatically mean that men of color would be targeted more than any other racial group of men? i know that this group is more often profiled by authorities but we’re talking about fictional “victimization.” as i have had three cousins brutally murdered (and yes i’m black) in the last couple of decades, i am not interested in seeing that on my television.

        1. why would that premise automatically mean that men of color would be targeted more than any other racial group of men? i know that this group is more often profiled by authorities but we’re talking about fictional “victimization.” as i have had three cousins brutally murdered (and yes i’m black) in the last couple of decades, i am not interested in seeing that on my television.

          Because images of the brutalization of men of color are already normalized, and you talk about “equalizing the victimization” in terms of gender, leaving out mention of race, class and other identifiers, I presume that that will effectively mean more images of violence against marginalized men, specifically men of color.

        2. this reply hierarchy is off. to answer, the other markers do need to be addressed but we still see more serial murders of women (and girls) than we do males of any color. again, this is talking about fiction presented on television and in movies. it’s all about the titillation and reaching that audience that finds the murder/abuse of women titillating. the murder of men doesn’t include that titillation factor, no matter the color, race or class. and unfortunately young men feel that it is “normal” to abuse young women, that it’s somehow natural.

          racism and classicism is a major factor in the actual abuse of black men (and women), and tptb know they would get a major push back if they consistently depicted men of color being serially murdered on television (although you may see an occasional storyline). men of color are more often than not portrayed as thugs and criminals and that has been “normalized” with viewing audiences. this is a deliberate objective i believe and reminds me of robert townsend’s insightful “hollywood shuffle.”

        3. and going back to “equalization”, i don’t mean a specific targeting of men of color when it comes to depictions of victims of serial killers. it would be a general presentation of men based on gender and wouldn’t have men of color any more vulnerable than those in the actual demographics (18-25 majority white) who seem enthralled in seeing women eviscerated. if they saw “themselves” as victims, then the depiction of violence wouldn’t be so titillating overall.

        4. and going back to “equalization”, i don’t mean a specific targeting of men of color when it comes to depictions of victims of serial killers.

          Right, I understood that from jump. I’m focusing on the anticipated outcome: the victimized men would quite likely be the very same marginalized men who are already targeted in the real and fictional worlds.

          men of color are more often than not portrayed as thugs and criminals and that has been “normalized” with viewing audiences.

          And their victims too are other marginalized men of color.

        1. it would be great if scriptwriters respected women enough not to always depict women as victims. but they are going to keep giving their audiences what they think they want. an equalization would be a pushback against the normalization of women as rape/murder victims. unfortunately fighting fire with fire is sometimes necessary. young males are the ones who are particularly susceptible to these fictional messages about women.

        2. i think we’re too far gone to ever “un-normalize” violence in the media (even with actual news, certain tropes are played up for audience titillation). it just isn’t going to happen therefore other measures must be taken. women are paying a higher price for the violence against women tropes in basic tv fare. young men again are so susceptible to these not-really-tacit messages and unfortunately they aren’t that introspective about humanity as a whole. pretty soon their still developing minds inculcate the idea that this is what “females” are; fodder for violence and sex. their self-interest needs to be piqued by putting them in the stead of the women they mentally debase and in some warped way, that actually may make them empathize with women overall. in their minds, if a woman and man can equally be victims, then maybe women and men stand on equal ground.

          i was trying to remember at least one movie where a serial killer targeted young males and i remembered a movie called “sheriffs” that was loosely based on the John Wayne Gacy case.

  20. Just a reminder that advocating violence and murder really violate Feministe’s commenting policy. Future comments that promote violence or murder will be deleted and the user banned.

    1. Just a reminder that advocating violence and murder really violate Feministe’s commenting policy. Future comments that promote violence or murder will be deleted and the user banned.

      I see some commenters advocating violence against, and murder of, fictional men in movies. But that’s not the same as advocating violence and murder IRL.

        1. Reread Becca’s comments; she’s explicitly advocating violence against non-fictional men for being men.

          Ah yes, my mistake,I thought she was referring to Donna’s comment right above this one…I didn’t bother scrolling back up.

        2. Steve, since you referred to my comment, I really, really — really — hope, particularly given what I’ve said elsewhere in this thread, that you realized that my statement (that it was a “relief” to learn of the existence of a show in which a female serial killer murdered men and ate their livers) was entirely sarcastic. Really.

        3. Steve, since you referred to my comment, I really, really — really — hope, particularly given what I’ve said elsewhere in this thread, that you realized that my statement (that it was a “relief” to learn of the existence of a show in which a female serial killer murdered men and ate their livers) was entirely sarcastic. Really.

          Yes, of course. Which is why I found it odd that Jill’s comment was directly underneath it. I thought she was saying that even making that joke was offensive.

          DO you really think I would have defended you otherwise?

        4. I didn’t think so, but I wasn’t sure — it just seemed so odd to think that Jill could have found anything wrong with my comment unless it was somehow taken literally.

  21. So I ask again, why can’t we have a female Dexter on TV? Like one who hunts down and makes misogynists pay for the rape and torture they commit? Let a woman stick it to the patriarchy for once!

    One only has to watch Deadly Women on Discovery to see examples of real female serial killers. The main problem is that the real life female serial killers aren’t thought of the in the same light as male serial killers. Most of the woman profiled killed many men – mainly for money – and some are portrayed as enjoying the killing. They are portrayed as evil, mainly because money was involved. But woman who killed for no apparent reason other than enjoyment are diagnosed as mentally ill, or having impaired judgement, while men are always seen as evil.

    Viewers might have a problem with an evil, female serial killer on TV not motivated by money, because society, including the majority of woman, sees them as sick more than bad. Wournos is a prime example of this, which makes her – in my mind – a bad example for this post. Many groups on the left sympathized with Wournos, citing her rough upbringing and poverty. Surely, she must be mentally deranged. While the killings were revenge for all the ill treatment in life she received, she couldn’t have possibly enjoyed killing those men. Charles Manson, on the other hand, had maybe a worse childhood; yet there’s not one ounce of understanding from even the most liberal groups – and I agree there shouldn’t be. And I do get that serial killers have severe personality disorders – one only has to listen to Manson’s insane rants to know that – but they know the suffering they are causing, which makes them evil.

    This extends to other areas as well. Women who have sex with underage boys surely must have mental issues, it’s not about sex. With men it’s all about sex. For woman that kill, it can’t be about the killing.

    1. That’s really interesting. I would be thrilled by a “female Dexter” cool, calculated, who admits she kills because she thinks it’s fun and enjoyable. I don’t want her to have been raped and killing for vengeance–killing for the sake of killing, and you’re right, I think a lot of people try to pathologize women differently from men when they commit “man crimes” of intense violence or sexual aggression.

  22. one of the ways to backtrack from the violence against women trope is to “equalize” the victimization to include men. because yes, men are raped and murdered (maybe murdered more than women). and i truly believe there are serial killers who target males (ie, the craiglist killers who targeted indigent, homeless men). if the audience would get a realistic clue as to actual victimization, then young males might not be so gung ho on violence.

    Good point. But you must have missed the all the notoriety surrounding Jeffery Dahmer, John Wayne Gacy, Arthur Gary Bishop, William Bonin (The Freeway Killer), Westley Dodd, Wayne Williams, etc, etc. But I do agree the large majority of victims are women.

  23. Jackie the Ripper: Where Are All The Female Serial Killers On TV?

    The Headline question has never intrigued me and I think a much more relevant question is:

    Why are all female killers/psychopaths on TV all portrayed in such a similar and stereotypical ‘crazy lady’ (not my term) way?

  24. so why not kickstarer your own female serial killer web show instead of telling other people what they ought to make?

        1. Because I have goals in life that have nothing to do with critiquing patriarchal norms?

        2. Why bother commenting to tell me about your goals

          I didn’t, I answered your question. You asked why would I ever do anything that isn’t “critiquing patriarchal norms” so I answered.

        3. You asked why would I ever do anything that isn’t “critiquing patriarchal norms” so I answered.

          That is actually the exact opposite of what I said. So…okay?

        4. Why not quote the exact opposite of what macavitykitsune said, instead of making sense?

          This game is pretty fun, I think we could play it all day.

      1. Because I have no desire to tell people what to write, which is why I didn’t, I asked OP why they chose to write what they did instead of filling the void they saw.

      2. Because I have no desire to tell people what to write, which is why I didn’t, I asked OP why they chose to write what they did instead of filling the void they saw.

      3. “Why not kickstarter your own blog instead of telling other people what to write about?”

        Excellent Jill, just excellent.

    1. so why not kickstarer your own female serial killer web show

      I could do it on the eight-hour flight I have on Wednesday. I could also do an identical one changing the gender of the serial killer. Then I could compare and contrast the reactions to both. Or I could have two glasses of wine and a Xanax and spend the entire flight in a daze.

  25. You haven’t actually watched Hannibal, I take it? Because if you had, you would probably have noticed that it has female serial killers and more male than female victims of serial killers. It also avoids the whole terror-porn trope where a show lovingly follows a woman as she screams in terror and attempts to flee the killer, stumbling and becoming ever more helpless for the camera, and writes its female characters in pretty much the same ways it writes its male characters — that is, without all the baggage intended to show a viewer that no matter how competent the character is, she’s still all properly feminine.

    Not to argue that it’s a feminist work for the ages, but it does a lot better on representational issues than you might think. And certainly a lot better than is suggested by lumping it in with shows like The Following and SUV.

    1. I like Hannibal but they’re raising my nerd hackles because they have violated canon.* I now watch it more like I’m spying to see how much wronger they’re making things so I can internet complain. As any nerd is wont to do.

      *I know most of the concept of the show violates canon, but as a nerd I maintain the right to have arbitrary boundaries of canon fuckery.

      1. This is where it pays to be the kind of geek who has a taste for anime and manga, and who is therefore used to the idea of multiple versions of canon with divergent continuities. You can, as they say, interrogate the text from a different perspective. From which perspective you can then go on to say that they’re not violating canon so much as they are remixing it. Which makes it fun to spot lines from the books that have been taken from one place or character and assigned to another, and compare the ways the lines function to a viewer who doesn’t recognize them with the way they function if you do.

        But I don’t mean to argue with your absolute right to watch with the end goal of internet complaining! I feel the same way about certain other adaptations of book material, so I understand all too well.

        1. But I don’t mean to argue with your absolute right to watch with the end goal of internet complaining!

          Man, without internet complaining I would do nothing all day.

        2. This is where it pays to be the kind of geek who has a taste for anime and manga, and who is therefore used to the idea of multiple versions of canon with divergent continuities.

          …not that that doesn’t cause flamewars in anime/manga fandom. I was there for the whole FMA: Brotherhood thing, and HOO BOY.

    2. I guess that’s your analysis. Others have disagreed, like this blogger:

      “Violence on “Hannibal” was primarily delivered by men and analyzed by men, with the female characters on the show interacting through the medium of male intervention or male gaze. Part of the joy of “The Silence Of The Lambs” lies in Clarice Sterling herself, who rails against such a male-centric approach in every moment of that film. “Hannibal” couldn’t have had that character, but it could have used that perspective.”

      http://blog.zap2it.com/frominsidethebox/2013/06/m-hannibal-season-1-review-mads-mikkelsens-lecter-and-hugh-dancys-will-grahams-dance-distract-from-other-shortcomings.html

      And this one:

      http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2013/04/05/hannibal-ken-tucker-on-his-lack-of-appetite-for-nbc-s-serial-killer-drama.html

      1. Zap2it also writes:

        “More problematically, the show showed a great deal of violence inflicted upon women without a strong cadre of female characters to shore up the living side of the gender equation.”

      2. Part of the joy of “The Silence Of The Lambs”

        Yes, it’s a well-made, well-acted movie. But it’s very difficult for me to associate “joy” in any way with a movie that is — notoriously — one of the most grotesquely and harmfully transphobic movies ever made.

        1. Yeah, no matter how much Harris tried to put big neon letters around the whole “JAME GUMB IS NOT TRANS*” part of the book, he was ill-equipped, ham handed and just not knowledgeable enough and should have made Jame just be more like the man he was based off of and left the whole Trans* part out of the book. Or maybe enforced any mention of that aspect in the movie.

        2. Yeah, one line from Hannibal about how “he thinks he is,” doesn’t counter every scene with a dressing gown and mirror.

  26. PLEASE USE SPOILER ALERTS.

    Sorry, but it’s really annoying. The Stoker reveal is a straight spoiler and it’s not foreshadowed anywhere else in the article.

    Thanks.

  27. Can’t believe no one’s mentioned Wire in the Blood. It’s on Netflix and has a ton of female serial killers — at least, more than any serial killer show I’ve ever seen, and I watch a lot of them.

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