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Remembering Coretta Scott King

How do we remember one of the greatest civil rights activists of our time? By paying lip service to her “dignity” or her “faith”? Or by using her passing as an opportunity to advocate for those same the things she did?

Some conservatives are shamefully attacking liberals for not knowing “how to act at a funeral,” because a select few Democrats actually bothered to address political issues in their speeches about a political figure’s life and legacy. Here’s the deal: People who dedicate their lives to social justice probably want that mentioned, and not in vague terms. Lord knows I will never do as much in my life as Coretta Scott King did in hers — not even close — but if I achieve 1/100th of what she did, it had damn well be talked about at my funeral. And if my funeral is a place where people are actually paying attention to what’s being said, someone had damn well better say what I would have wanted the world to think about. Activists value action. It is not only appropriate but absolutely necessary that King’s funeral served as a platform to get the word out about the goals she spent her entire life working to achieve. In death, her ideals were given a wider audience than they had been offered at just about any single point in her life. Those who knew her, and who understood the legacy she truly did leave, said what they believe she would have. That is how you do someone honor, not by throwing a few laudatory adjectives their way.

So when I read about Kate O’Beirne’s comments on Hardball, I was appalled. Since I hadn’t seen the episode myself and couldn’t find a transcript, I watched a video excerpt of the show. Just so we’re all on the same page, here’s what was (in part) said:

Video of Rev. Dr. Joseph Lowry at King’s funeral, saying, “We know now there were no weapons of mass destruction over there. [Standing Ovation] But Coretta knew and we know that there are weapons of misdirection right down here. Millions without health insurance. Poverty abounds. For war billions more but no more for the poor.”

Matthews wants to get into the politicization of the funeral. Cynthia Tucker of the Atlanta Journal says, “Let’s remember that Coretta Scott King was a political figure herself, and she was an anti-war figure. She was perhaps an anti-war figure perhaps before her husband was, and when he protested the Vietnam War she was right there by [his] side.”

The conversation turns to Jimmy Carter’s speech, which mentioned wire tapping.

Colbert King of the Washington Post responds, “Jimmy Carter touched a nerve when he mentioned wiretaps, because the civil rights movement undestands all too well what that was all about.” He refers, of course, to the fact that Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. was wiretapped by the federal government, and that the government went so far as to send Coretta one of the tapes in an effort to put a strain in their marriage.

Video of Jimmy Carter:

Carter: “It was difficult for them personally, with the civil liberties of both husband and wife violated when they became the victims of secret government wiretapping and other surveillance and issued harassment from the FBI.”

The other panelists discuss whether or not it was appropriate to being up politics at King’s funeral. Cynthia and Colbert assert that it was, because the funeral served in many ways as a speaking event. Politicians were present, and King’s life was a politicized one — it would only follow that attention should be directed to her political causes.

To which Kate O’Beirne responds:

Kate: “Both were completely inapprorpiate. Just because politicians are present… it’s not a convention or a campaign event just because former presidents are there … liberals don’t seem to be able to keep politics away from furnerals.

It was reminiscent of Senator Wellstone’s funeral. And look what we’re talking about. We’re talking about Reverand Larry’s [note from Jill: I swear she said “Larry” and not “Lowry,” but I could be mistaken] cheap shot about the war, regardless of whether or not Coretta Scott King held pacifist views, and we’re talking about former president Jimmy Carter’s cheap shot … if it’s possible for him to be a worse former president than he was a president, then I think he’s achived that.”

[Note from Jill: What was that about cheap shots?]

Chris Matthews: Was there something inaccurate in what they said? Either he or Dr. Lowry?

Kate O’Beirne: “It doesn’t matter. It doesn’t matter if they were reading fatcual material to make a cheap political point. It totally is contrary to the spirit. we are not talking about Coretta Scott King and the incredible legacy of the Kings, and her incredibly dignified life, which this runs counter to I might add. We’re talking about these two political characters.”

Colbert King: “Of course that legacy was non-violence. And you can’t come to a funeral where you eulogize Coretta Scott King and not talk about non-violence and the presence of violence in the world. You can’t come to a celebration of the life of Coretta Scott King and [not] talk about civil liberties, and the infringement on her civil liberties by her own government. You cannot do that and be true to the King family.”

And I just fell in love with Colbert King. Steve Gillard said it best — Kate O’Beirne is vermin. And idiotic vermin, if she actually believes what she’s saying. As John from AmericaBlog writes in a must-read post,

I say this because you know it’s only a matter of hours before the Republican Swift Boating of Rev. Lowery and Coretta’s funeral begins. How dare a black man not know his place at a funeral, they’ll say. As if the Republican party and its surrogates have any right whatsoever to speak on behalf of Mrs. King, to tell black America what they can and cannot do to honor one of their most revered leaders.

A party that doesn’t have a single African-American member of Congress has no right lecturing black people about knowing their place.

And you know that lecture they will.

He’s right. Just wait; this will be all over right-wing sites and papers. Post what you find in the comments.

They’ll be all over Coretta and Lowery, with the help of the media they’ll trivialize her funeral, her death, the honor being paid to her, by claiming her funeral was all a big stunt, a big act, one big political opportunity for the Democrats to abuse a poor old dead woman, they’ll say.

But that’s because the Republican party, and increasingly the media, have no clue about black America, about progressives, about civil rights, and about what it means to be a committed activist who actually cares about our country and the direction its heading. If Coretta, on the occasion of Martin’s death, could launch (and continue) a decade’s-long campaign for equality and justice in his name, we should only be so honored to do the same to mark her passing.

Perhaps I’m wrong. Perhaps the old white men of the GOP (read: Ken Mehlman) and their media enablers will sit well enough alone. Perhaps. But I doubt it. Coretta Scott King and Martin Luther King, and the legacy they leave behind, is far too dangerous to the right-wing extremists that run our country. They’ll have to do something to mar Coretta’s legacy. I have a hunch this will be it.


19 thoughts on Remembering Coretta Scott King

  1. “…and we’re talking about former president Jimmy Carter’s cheap shot … if it’s possible for him to be a worse former president than he was a president, then I think he’s achived that.”

    Ha! Kate O’Beirne isn’t fit to lick Jimmy Carter’s boots. Neither am I, for that matter, but I don’t run around trashing the man’s legacy, either. The world could use more people like Carter and Coretta, and much fewer people like this asshat.

  2. Politics has no place at this funeral? But, wasn’t the whole life of the King family about politics, freedom, and equality? How could you possibly talk about this woman and her life and completely avoid what she stood for?

  3. How could you possibly talk about this woman and her life and completely avoid what she stood for?

    Easy if your whole political platform thinks it’s bullshit and your presence is for decorum’s sake.

  4. How could you possibly talk about this woman and her life and completely avoid what she stood for?

    “Coretta Scott King: A Snappy Dresser Who Will Be Missed.”

  5. Nothing wrong with talking about Coretta’s work – in vigorous terms – at her funeral. She’d have no doubt wanted that. Nothing anybody said at the funeral seemed particularly out of line. (A Julian Bond-style “Republicans are Nazis” rant would have been out of line.)

    However, the question of “what’s right and wrong” and the question of “what plays in the sticks” are two different questions.

    Just as with the Wellstone funeral, the Democrats come across as tone-deaf, crass, and obsessed with political point-scoring. And Just as with the Wellstone funeral, it’s going to end up costing them votes come game day.

    BTW, Jill – Kate O’Beirne is vermin?

    Just my $0.02.

  6. Why is it that I’m reminded of all the Republican politicians bloviating piously about Gawd and country at Pat Tillman’s funeral, so that they were shocked, shocked! to learn that Pat was a Chomsky-reading atheist who thought the Iraq war was “fucking illegal?”

    Would it have anything to do with the fact that the Administration knew full well at the time of his funeral that he was killed by friendly fire, but they needed a recruiting poster boy, so they didn’t even tell his family for over a year?

  7. I’ll take a line from the O’Bierne wikipedia:

    “In Women Who Make the World Worse, O’Beirne rails against the late Betty Friedan and the feminist agenda, while as a baby-boomer herself, she became one of the glaring beneficiaries thereof when she abdicated motherhood of her two young sons in 1986 to become a Washington insider.”

    So yeah, I’m going with vermin.

  8. I agree with Jill. And I think the conservatives would, too, if they imagined the tables turned – if Phyllis Schlafly died, I’d bet the ranch that they would fully support right-wing political speech at her funeral.

  9. She “abdicated motherhood” by pursuing her career? Sounds like an incredibly sexist assumption the anonymous Wikipedian is making.

    And you’re buying into it, and accepting that patriarchal framing of O’Beirne’s (complex) life trajectory, just because you disagree with her about some things?

    I think that when you find yourself declaring that ideological opponents are subhuman, you need to take a big step back and get some perspective.

  10. Okay, i knew someone was going to bring up the Wellstone funeral – and despite the fact that this post isn’t about that… I think it is important to correct it. As a Minnesotan I have to take a stand on this one. Anyone who actually was at or watched the funeral knows that the entire funeral was a very appropriate affair that paid tribute to an amazing man – including his role in politics. ONE PERSON made a mistake in their speech. It was this ONE moment – out of hours of footage – that the media and republicans began to shout about. (Excerpt from The Nation’s Joe Conason: “His devoted supporters, including his two surviving sons, were understandably overwhelmed by the immediate pressures of trying to hold on to his Senate seat. His conservative adversaries, in Washington and elsewhere, were tempted by the opportunity to misuse his memory for their own purposes–to diminish his liberal colleagues, to emphasize liberalism’s quixotic frustrations, to reiterate the complacent perspective he rejected.”)
    Yes, I agree there is a difference between remembering a man’s politics and shameless lobbying – but at the same time there is a reason that people like King and Wellstone spent their entire lives involved in activisim and politics – it is that they hoped to change the world. So what is so wrong with addressing the issues they devoted their lives to? Nothing. Could it potentially be that Republicans are worried that these issues could be taken seriously – so they attack in the only way they know how – on non-important issues like others’ decorum? Sure makes for nice sound-bites on tv… liberal media what?

  11. However, the question of “what’s right and wrong” and the question of “what plays in the sticks” are two different questions.

    And the question of, “How might our opponents twist this to their advantage through self-serving dishonesty” is yet a different question.

    “In Women Who Make the World Worse, O’Beirne rails against the late Betty Friedan and the feminist agenda, while as a baby-boomer herself, she became one of the glaring beneficiaries thereof when she abdicated motherhood of her two young sons in 1986 to become a Washington insider.”

    I think it’s making the point that by the sexist calculus Friedan spent her life struggling against, O’Beirne is a deeply irresponsible woman whose children should be put in foster care. The fact that O’Beirne is able to be a “Washington insider” without being castigated for not being a Cleaver-esque housewife is evidence that O’Beirne should be a wee bit more grateful to the Friedans of the world.

    I think that when you find yourself declaring that ideological opponents are subhuman, you need to take a big step back and get some perspective.

    Oh, Robert. I want to say, “You’re so much smarter than that,” but then, that’s why you keep pretending you can’t read, isn’t it? O’Beirne doesn’t deserve harsh words because of her ideology. She deserves them because of her hypocrisy. She’s made a career out of spitting on the women who made it their mission to allow women to have careers. And, gee, talk about politicizing a eulogy.

  12. The fact that O’Beirne is able to be a “Washington insider” without being castigated for not being a Cleaver-esque housewife…

    Yeah, instead she’s being castigated for not following the same party line you do. Big improvement, there. Women’s choices are valid and powerful…as long as the women, you know, say the right things while making the choices.

    I have no objection to “harsh words” being directed at O’Beirne. I might disagree with the harsh words; might defend her against ’em, but harsh words are part of the game. Calling human beings vermin is not “harsh words”. It’s dehumanization.

    My motive here is not to score points or to make Jill feel bad for (again) internalizing the anti-humanist sentiments of her packmates. My motive is to see a minority viewpoint remain relevant and contributory to the overall discourse. Feminism has things of value to add to the cultural conversation. Those ideas will not be heard when their spokespeople marginalize themselves by using language that, by common assent to standards of decency, has been ruled out of bounds. The larger community is already predisposed to blow off what feminism has to say; using the language of dehumanization will simply turn that predisposition into a dispositive predecision to ignore. I don’t want to see that happen.

    Dostoevsky, via Solzhenitsyn, taught us that “the line between good and evil is drawn not between nations or parties, but through every human heart.”

    Dehumanization is evil. Please don’t be evil.

  13. Well, I thought the whole thing was pretty disgraceful and bad-mannered.

    Democrats (and liberals) come across as obsessed and childish and bad-mannered people who would stoop so low as to use a funeral to score cheap political points. Even my independent-minded friends thought it spoke very badly of Democrats.

    This will probably hurt Democrats’ image with the public and hurt them on election day. And because of this, it was just a stupid thing to do.

  14. I’ll think twice when Coretta Scott King’s family condemns it.

    It’s their call. Not O’Bierne’s, not Bush’s, and not any political party. But I sure as hell hope that my friends and family honor my beliefs and my activism at my funeral.

  15. I’ll think twice when Coretta Scott King’s family condemns it.

    Precisely. Nobody but the family really has any right to decide what’s appropriate and inappropriate at the funeral. And if indeed Democrats were trying to score cheap political points at the funeral, it’s no more appropriate for _Republicans_ to score cheap political points in the aftermath of the funeral.

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