In aid of offering a feminist take on film, I started a Mini-Marathon of Cult Horror Movies about Female Monsters — because it occurred to me that in Hollywood, even most of the monsters are male. In watching a lot of very cheesy films, I started to uncover fascinating themes — a subgroup of Bitchez From Outer Space who all want to have sex with men from Earth; yet another subgroup of films about women whose desire for youthful beauty leads them to experiment with questionable quack science experiments. Each of these plots says a lot about 20th century ideas about women, and offers reasons why men need to be on their guard. But without a doubt, my favorite subgroup has proven to be films about how My Mother Made Me A Monster. Not only are these revealing of deep antifeminist anxieties, but they’re actually pretty good films. Please read more and tell me what you think!
Prompted by a post elsewhere on the evolution of the bible, I wrote about my understanding of the relationship between the bible, the church, and the Holy Spirit. And I said Thank you, Sister to some of the many vowed religious women (aka nuns) who have been influential in my life.
“Graffiti With Punctuation”: A Narcissistic Anniversary Post – a summary on my experiences of one year of blogging about racism, sexism and fat phobia.
I heard a tinkling sound like ice, lesbian hearts were breaking all around me… Donna Summer at Karate Camp A determined man and the ‘feminazis’ speak truth to power until a pedophile is brought to justice… A Nice Old Guy
Michael Ogg is totally dependent on home health aidse. A dumb mistake put him in the hospital, and understaffing nearly did him in. Some things you can’t outsource… Essential Skilled Workers Must Not be Cut
Talking about Mommy Wars like the red herring that they are, and just because I don’t have enough controversial things to writing about, I looked at breastfeeding vs formula “swag bags” in response to a Mother Jones article. If those are too soul-sucking, I also did a write up (mostly colorful pix) of this year’s PRIDE in my town.
This week I took a look at ABC’s Suburgatory: http://www.nerdyfeminist.com/2012/05/suburgatory-not-bad.html?m=1
I am co-organising an event for ‘Clit Rock’ which is on Sunday May 27th in London, UK; a night of music, education & fun at The Lexington in Islington. Clit Rock’s mission is to raise awareness and funds for Daughters of Eve (who are committed to preventing and eradicating Female Genital Mutilation aka FGM), we are an artistic and celebratory show of support and solidarity with those affected by FGM. Clit Rock aims to put on regular events to educate and entertain (whether via music, spoken word poetry, or drama), as well as raise money for Daughters of Eve to help them continue with the vital work they do. Their and our ultimate goal is to help bring about an end to FGM. WHEN: Sunday, 27 May 2012 :: 19:00 until 23:00 WHERE: The Lexington :: 96-98 Pentonville Road, N1 9JB Raffle and Merch Stall! Dancing! Stomping good live music! Spoken word poetry! Clit Rock introduction from Daughters of Eve! More details here: https://www.facebook.com/events/307711645966488/ BUY TICKETS HERE: http://daughtersofeveclitrockepisode2.eventbrite.com
One small step for a better world: get to the point (person) – if we want positive change, we have to focus our efforts on the person with the power to bring about the change we want: http://humaneconnectionblog.blogspot.com/2012/05/one-small-step-for-better-world-get-to.html Engaging others with compassion & acceptance: http://humaneconnectionblog.blogspot.com/2012/05/what-humane-world-looks-like-engaging.html
Today was a busy week in blogging! I had a giant SQUEE reaction to both of my countries of citizenship getting something right in the same week (France electing a socialist president, and Obama endorsing same-sex marriage). Then I tried to figure out why, if I never buy books, I now have so many book that I have to hide them in my closet (complete with bonus cat pictures, because I have no shame). I wrote a letter to Roger Ebert explaining why his “Women are Better than Men” blog post was not only incorrect, but highly problematic. In the past few weeks, I have discovered that yes, in fact, American Idol is still biased towards men. So in preparation for next week’s finale (where a woman might win for the first time in four years), I wrote a post about it. Finally! Anyone going to WisCon? (the Feminist Science Fiction convention). Here’s my schedule! (with bonus remarks about what WisCon is and why it is awesome).
What You’re Really Saying When You Say that Suicide is “Selfish”–http://brutereason.net/2012/05/16/what-youre-really-saying-when-you-say-that-suicide-is-selfish/
The Problem with Female Werewolves: In this piece we look at the way gender is treated when the supernatural in question is a female werewolf. Review of Dark Shadows : This week we look at the latest vampire movie starring Johnny Depp. By doing so, we have saved you time and money if you were considering seeing it in the theater. Game of Thrones, Season 2, Episode 7: A Man Without Honour : A recap and review of the latest episode of Game of Thrones. Review: City of Lost Souls, Book 5 of the Mortal Instruments Series : Cassandra Clare has released her latest book in the Mortal Instruments series and so of course we have thoughts on it.
Woops, link didn’t work. http://brutereason.net/2012/05/16/what-youre-really-saying-when-you-say-that-suicide-is-selfish/
We know that you are feeling the anticipation for True Blood and so: HBO’s ‘True Blood’ Season 5 Trailer We also have a trailer for Teen Wolf Season 2 The first 10 minutes! Once Upon a Time, Season 2, Episode 22: A Land Without Magic : We of course had some thoughts on the season finale. Wednesday Reboot: Highlander : Yes we have a look at the movie which started the tag phrase, “there can be only one.”
This week at re:Cycling, Chris wonders if the menstrual revolution has stalled; I wrote about how the FDA has appropriated the work of women’s health activists in its self-congratulatory celebration of National Women’s Health Week; guest writer Dr. Jerilynn Prior explains why it’s important to own the naming of women’s midlife reproductive transition, a.k.a. menopause; and in our regular weekend links, we’ve got how to be gynecologically prepared for the zombie apocalypse, an awesome fashion photoshoot with periods, and more.
It’s Just Me [diet talk, fat shaming] — I kind of hate it when people assume: 1) that because I am fat, I am trying to lose weight; 2) that there is something wrong with me because I’m not actually losing weight. I’m also getting ready to start a Summer DVD Review Series… And Giveaway, focusing on yoga and fitness videos that are body-positive and (reasonably) fat-friendly. Athletes, Pain, & Stating the Obvious — Reacting to an article on athletes and pain tolerance as someone who is both an athlete and a person with chronic pain.
I continue my groundbreaking coverage of the asshattery of Glenn Grothman. http://noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz.wordpress.com/2012/05/15/glenn-grothman-still-biggest-asshole-on-the-planet/ Don’t ban sex offenders from the Internet, okay? http://noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz.wordpress.com/2012/05/13/sex-offenders-banned-from-internet/
This week at Mama Nervosa, we share an excerpt from a forthcoming memoir by Shell Feijo called Pigs are People, Too: Experiences of a Fat Woman in America. Shell is an amazing writer and hopes this will be a manifesta against fat phobia. Lauren writes about moving out of her office after quitting graduate school. Jen writes about prioritizing her own writing despite many commitments, and how she will never be a Tiger Mom.
My band is playing a fundraiser on June 2nd for the InTransit Empowerment Project. The show will be at the Lincoln Tap, 3010 N Lincoln Avenue in Chicago. We’re raising money for their awesome InTransit Youth Theatre, “a youth focused theatre group for young activists. It is a positive, identity affirming environment where immigrant and refugee youth can receive support, artistic training, and where they can express themselves through the arts.” For $30 you get a 4 hour all-you-can-drink wristband so you can support immigrant and refugee youth while you get drunk. They express themselves, you enjoy yourself! Not a drinker? Thats cool, too! C’mon out to the show, theres no cover but you can always make a donation to InTransit. Even if you can’t make it, invite your friends through the facebook link below. The bands are Sutured Psyche (hard drinking hard rock), The Peekaboos (laid back indie rock), and Grandpa vs. Grandma (groovy roots rock). In Transit’s Youth Program. Facebook Invite for the show. You can hear all the bands playing here, too!
This week on the Provider Project: Kelly’s post about “Taking Direct Action to Reclaim Health Care” Amy highlights the important column in USA Today urging civil disobedience by doctors against attacks on reproductive heath care “Birth Control On Demand, Without Apology, and Over-the-Counter!” by Lily
On January 8 of last year, we in Southern Arizona — and people all over the nation — were shocked when so many people were injured or killed during an assassination attempt on Rep. Gabrielle Giffords. Ron Barber, who headed Giffords’ office in Tucson, was among those wounded in the shooting, and now he is running in next month’s special election to choose a candidate to complete her term. Our exclusive interview with Ron Barber was posted on Wednesday, focusing mainly on where he stands on the “War on Women.” He will be an advocate for choice, and we hope to see him continue Gabby’s work in Washington while she focuses on her recovery. Yesterday, May 19, was National Asian & Pacific Islander HIV/AIDS Awareness Day — we posted a piece in observance of the event. Some of Arizona’s first Asian Americans were Chinese immigrants who arrived in the late 1800s, often working as miners alongside European immigrants. Today, Asians and Pacific Islanders are the fastest-growing group in Arizona.
Critique of Capitalism for Kids and The Shocking Truth about the Origins of the Republican Tea Party BlueHighwayPublishing.com
Hey yous. I wrote about how June is being launched as Sex Worker History Month, with a weird side-ramble into my inappropriate crush on Rebekah Brooks.
I stumbled across and then addressed another misconception about women reacting to sexist humor: Misconception: Women can’t take a joke.
This week I wrote about that tumblr everyone’s been talking about; and this post includes a handful of good links about asexuality.
In aid of offering a feminist take on film, I started a Mini-Marathon of Cult Horror Movies about Female Monsters — because it occurred to me that in Hollywood, even most of the monsters are male. In watching a lot of very cheesy films, I started to uncover fascinating themes — a subgroup of Women Monsters From Outer Space who all want to have sex with men from Earth; yet another subgroup of films about women whose desire for youthful beauty leads them to experiment with questionable quack science experiments. Each of these plots says a lot about 20th century ideas about women, and offers reasons why men need to be on their guard. But without a doubt, my favorite subgroup has proven to be films about how My Mother Made Me A Monster. Not only are these revealing of deep antifeminist anxieties, but they’re actually pretty good films. Please read more and tell me what you think!
I wrote about the evils of pubic hair removal… http://www.gappytales.com/2012/05/women-do-you-wax-your-bush-just-say-no.html
Triggers for rape and violence and really, really bad language, in some cases in all-caps. Offending the offenders: What to say to “You oppress my oppression of you”. http://thedelphiad.wordpress.com/2012/05/18/were-offended-that-youre-offended-youre-oppressing-our-oppression-of-you/
This coming Wednesday, May 23rd, I will host a free webinar called “Skinny dipping with snapping turtles: careers in academia.” This webinar is in general about challenges early career academics face and it will include some highlighting of gender specific challenges. If you’re considering an academic career, or if you believe your institution can treat its young researchers / assistant professors / phd students better, this webinar will include tips for you. Sign up for free and join the discussion. Hope to see you there!
We’ve been having a debate about affirmative action for male students in Norway. Our national “Committee on gender balance in research” has recently come out in support of affirmative action for the under-represented gender in academic programs skewed worse than 30-70. The specific question that triggered the debate was weather boys should be given extra “points” for admission to nursing programs — just because they’re boys. This debate is discussed in “A sex point or two for male nurses.”
Attachment Parenting. Or as the rest of us refer to it… parenting. http://guerrillamom.blogspot.com/2012/05/attachment-parenting-or-as-rest-of-us.html
I wrote a five-part series on The Modesty Myth, the myth that women can prevent men from lusting after them and that the state of a woman’s soul is partially determined by what she wears. Part I: I really struggled to write these posts with optimism on how we can redeem the good parts of modesty (self-respect, confidence, owning one’s body and style, etc.) with the horribly legalistic, judgmental, and incredibly body-shaming aspects of modesty, which gets even messier from the faith perspective with people shouting prooftexts at one another. Part II: How modesty is based on a shameful view of the female body and how it contributes to the sexual objectification of women and girls. Part III: How modesty upholds the double standard of sexual purity between women and men and how it contributes to unhealthy body image among women and girls. Part IV: How modesty seeks to police – and control – women’s bodies and how it negatively affects men, too. Part V: I share 6 potential solutions, including treating women as fully human, stopping slut-shaming, and encouraging both men and women to stand up against those in faith communities who teach that women can prevent men from lusting after them (which is undeniably false).
So, this isn’t really *self* promotion at all, but in case you hadn’t heard, the perpetually awesome Anita Sarkeesian at Feminist Frequency is raising money to do a “Tropes vs. Women: Video Games” series, over at Kickstarter: http://www.kickstarter.com/projects/566429325/tropes-vs-women-in-video-games The response has been very good, and she’s just $92 away from having her 8th video funded! So, if you feel comfortable with donating & have the means, I thought I’d let you all know. (I’m not in any way affiliated with the project, just a random youtube subscriber.) In case some of you aren’t familiar with Anita’s work, here is one of my favorite videos: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CrmRxGLn0Bk And here’s one from her Tropes vs. Women series for movies/TV: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tnJxqRLg9x0
“The Virgin Orgasming Blushing Bride: A Trip to Sephora“–A short post that’s generated some long comments. What do you think?
This week, at Douche, Bag and Shoes: The constraints of modest femininity and the gender politics of arrogance: http://douchebagandshoes.blogspot.co.uk/2012/05/politics-of-arrogance.html Fashion, femininity, feminism and fiscality. The Economics of Fashion: http://douchebagandshoes.blogspot.co.uk/2012/05/economics-of-fashion.html
Strip for This is my personal blog about stripping, anarchism, feminism, sex, etc. Disheartened with the stripping biz slowing down this Spring, and what financial failure sometimes does to my self-esteem; I must never fear, however, for goth night at a weird Steampunk bar will cure what ails me.
Your Gender is Not OK – cis men get a pretty hard rap in queer spaces. And why do we even still have spaces that welcome trans men, but not cis men…? Mr Spock takes on Transmisogyny – Transmisogyny makes no sense logically, and demonstrates a shocking lack of empathy Time – I try to define what the experience of feeling suicidal feels like. TW! P-p-p-panic! – O HAI INTERNALISED BIPHOBIA. Dating a cischap makes me feel like a bad queer.
At The Sartorial Nerd, I broke down a few life lessons we can learn from The Hunger Games’ Katniss Everdeen. One of our writers discussed the problematic DC comics, Voodoo, their only title with a WoC as the main character. And finally, TSN reviewed Mass Effect 3. Spoiler alert: it’s a damn fine game.
For everyone worried about comments getting stuck in moderation: It happens a lot on Shameless Self-Promotion Sunday, since the comments tend to be more link-heavy and thus more spam-looking to our filters. As always, we try to get in and clear out the filter promptly, but it doesn’t always happen as promptly as we’d like. Your patience is appreciated. – Mgmt.
This week Oklahomans for Reproductive Justice wrote about: Unlearning all the toxic things we were taught about STDs in sex ed: http://ok4rj.org/2012/05/stds-a-public-service-announcement/ Periods! : http://ok4rj.org/2012/05/good-lorde-enough-with-the-periods-already/ Medication abortion restrictions and anti-gay happenings in our state, including Congressman James Lankford being a-ok w/ employment discrimination: http://ok4rj.org/2012/05/rodeo-round-up-the-one-where-we-push-back/
Last week on Kiss My Wonder Woman we talked about Once Upon a Time, female superheroes who deserve their own movies, and Calvin and Hobbes. This week we’re going to be covering more female superheroes, some young adult fiction, and more!
“Wonder Woman Wields A Speculum,” “Fifty Shades of Healthy Sex,” and “Chloroform, Cocaine, Dilators, and Electricity: The Medical Profession and the History of “Fixing” Female Sexual Dysfunction” Just three examples from our blog, Nursing Clio. A site written by gender and medicine historians. Check us out at http://nursingclio.wordpress.com/ and like us on Facebook!
At Keep Your Bridges Burning I posted a couple quotes from Samuel Delany’s Times Square Red, Times Square Blue, about sexism in seventies porn films (his arguments aren’t the obvious ones) and about the way porn seems to have broadened the sexual horizons of the mostly working-class, mostly straight audience. It’s a great book, I think I have more quotes in the queue. I think there’s also a review of the new Stephen King book over there, too.
I wrote a post about the intersection of my identity as a lesbian and a feminist. It’s a topic I hope to come back to to talk more about the objectification of women and the male gaze, but this first instalment focuses on why I identify as a feminist. when-feminists-attack.blogspot.com
This week at Yes Means Yes Blog, the final part of of the There’s A War On series, Part 7: There’s A Crack In Everything, That’s How The Light Gets In.
Minister of Finance Jim Flaherty thinks Canadians on EI should take whatever jobs they can get. I say, fuck that. “Are there no Burger Kings? Are there no Wal-Marts?”
Here’s what we wrote about this week at Muslimah Media Watch: Tasnim looked at the life of Isabelle Eberhardt, a Swiss traveler from the 19th century. Merium wrote about Maria Toor Pakay, a Pakistani squash player. We hosted a guest post by Sarah Farrukh, who reviewed the book The Good Muslim. And Friday had our usual list of links about Muslim women in the news this week, compiled by Anneke.
I wrote a short post about how to shut down body-shaming talk and get a laugh at the same time. Sometimes you just don’t want to give a lecture on loving your body, but you don’t want to make your friend feel awkward.
I wrote about sex trafficking in Sweden, and the difference between how it’s reported inside Sweden and outside it: “There was no lack of buyers: Swedish sex trafficking trial concludes”
This week I wrote an analysis of the 2007 film ‘Hairspray’. http://canbebitter.wordpress.com/2012/05/21/hairspray-fat-is-a-feminist-issue/
A little light this week, and less direct thinking about gender issues. This was what was on my brain: – Mitt Romney on “Values” (Vomit.) – Alternative Social Networks to Facebook – Letter to a Fellow Teacher
Two posts this past week at Pseudonymous: First, a list of traits associated with adult survivors of abuse. Second, a conversation between adult siblings who survived a childhood with the same narcissistic/sociopathic parents.
I’m late, but maybe someone will find this. Ladies Rock Camp Vancouver is almost upon us, and I realized I had not written about it since I first became an organizer! My bad.
Personal reflections from my Portland to Chicago bus trip and the NATO protest. Faithhawks.blogspot.com
Ladies Rock Camp Vancouver I can’t help wondering whenever I see references to events like this, especially ones using phrases like “safe, supportive environment for women” — well, I think you know what I’m wondering.
I wrote about abuse, transmisogyny, and dysfunction in Dating from the Margins: I don’t like sex. Thanks for this, gudbuytjane. I may be open in discussing many aspects of my life as a woman with a trans history, but not this one, so much. So I’ll just say that this really resonated with me, although I can’t even really say for sure that I don’t like sex, because it’s been so many years since I’ve had it — I’m too afraid of the process, and of the near-universal rejection I would encounter, to try anymore.
Ladies Rock Camp Vancouver I can’t help wondering whenever I see references to events like this, especially ones using phrases like “safe, supportive environment for women” — well, I think you know what I’m wondering. I had a similar thought, Donna, and tracked down the main website for the event. On their policies page, I found this statement: Gender Policy Vancouver Rock Camp for Girls strives to create an empowering atmosphere for young women by challenging the stereotype that rock music is primarily played by men and for men. For this reason, it is important for our camp to create an environment where music is taught by women, for women, so that young women feel empowered to get involved in all aspects of music making. Our leadership positions are therefore open to individuals who identify as female, including trans women, in order to maintain this dynamic and present positive female role models. The organization welcomes the support of male-identified allies, and expects male-identified allies who would like to volunteer to respect the importance of leadership by women. Non-leadership roles are open to any individuals regardless of gender identity, and we are committed to maintaining an atmosphere of diversity, inclusion, and respect for all individuals throughout the camp. How well they actually do at including trans women is not clear, but there’s no explicit ban, as has happened so often. It might still be a good move on their part to be more proactive about advertising their trans-women-inclusive policy and ways in which they’ve lived up to it, given the nasty history of similar projects, if they really want to make sure than trans women and girls know they are included. Not knowing anything about this particular camp, it was definitely the first question that came to my mind.
In re: Ladies Rock Camp Vancouver, I was not sure at first what DonnaL was wondering about, but when I saw her second comment, I started to get the idea. And then Jadey helpfully quoted from our gender policy. I don’t know how to prove how well we do at inclusion. People would have to see and experience it for themselves, I imagine. All I can say is that our gender policy isn’t just talk. We put it in action. I’ve seen it in action at the Portland, Oregon, camps as well. I didn’t write the policy, and since I have a degree in English and am an editing nerd, I might be tempted to rewrite that paragraph. I don’t think the “therefore” makes sense, as though that sentence were an inevitable consequence of the sentences before. It might make sense to have an entirely separate paragraph to state what we mean by women. Thanks for the feedback!
A commenter on my “Sherlock” recap told me I should leave the subject to “those of us who understand it”. Was it a coincidence he thought he was talking to a woman? “The Reichenbach Fall”
I’ve been blogging about nurturing creativity lately. Ruminations about Elizabeth Gilbert’s TED talk on nurturing creativity: http://heartacheintobeauty.blogspot.com/2012/05/elizabeth-gilbert-on-nurturing.html Fueling the creative fire: http://heartacheintobeauty.blogspot.com/2012/05/fueling-creative-fire.html
I was domestically sex trafficked in Manhattan for ten years. A bunch of us trafficking survivors got together and started a leaderless online network for friendship, support and activism. Our network blog and my personal blog have had over 90,000 total hits in just three months. We are sisters and survivors. Nothing will come between us. We are http://www.survivorsconnect.wordpress.com http://www.secretlifeofamanhattancallgirl.wordpress.com