Someone should pay me to be an advice columnist. I will definitely stay under the word limit. Here, let me help you all out:
My fiance wants to marry a virgin. DUMP HIM. Ohmygod dump him. Especially dump him since you’re not a virgin and he thinks women who aren’t virgins are filthy whores.
Your boyfriend jackhammers you for four minutes before falling asleep, and won’t make an effort to sexually satisfy you even when you’ve been asking for several years? DUMP HIM, ohmygod dump him, and quit saying he’s amazing and selfless. He is the worst.
He strongly disagrees with your right to have an abortion and he does stuff that you aren’t comfortable with or consenting to? DUMP HIM, because Christ, what an asshole.
You’re welcome.