A pregnant woman in Brooklyn kept track of how often people gave her their seat on the subway. The results? People give up their seats a lot! Except on the G train, where people are bastards (probably because they’re mad they have the ride the worst train in the city — understandable). And men and women give up their seats at roughly the same rates.
So it’s kind of weird that the article is titled “Pregnant Commuter Tracks Subway Chivalry.” And also that the formerly pregnant woman announces that “chivalry is not dead.” I’m pretty sure this is just evidence that being a polite and decent human being isn’t dead, and that New Yorkers aren’t actually huge assholes. It’s polite and decent for people to get up for pregnant women, old people and people with physical disabilities. It would be “chivalrous” for men, as a class, to get up for women and let us all sit down just because we’re women. That would also be stupid. Don’t do that (unless I’m carrying like 3 heavy bags, and then you should totally do that). What would not be stupid, however, would be for men on public transportation to learn how to sit with their knees together, and to not take up two seats because they have to let their balls air out.
But no, getting up for a pregnant woman on the subway is not chivalry, especially when the stats show that women do it about as often as men. It is just something you should do because it’s decent and right (it is also making yourself feel morally superior). Except when you ruin someone’s day by offering them a seat and then figuring out they aren’t actually pregnant (as I have done at least once).