Your weekly dose of “God Bless the ACLU”:
We’re all aware of the stigma about drinking during pregnancy. Every bar in America is adorned with a sign warning pregnant women of the dangers of alcohol while pregnant. But at a bar near Chicago, a warning wasn’t enough. Michelle Lee was hanging out at a neighborhood bar near her parents’ home, chatting with some friends. She was approached by a bouncer, who pulled her aside.
“Can I ask you a personal question?” The bouncer asked, “Are you pregnant?”
Lee said yes. (At 8 months along, she figured there was little doubt). Then the bouncer asked her to leave.
NOPE. Bars can’t kick you out because you’re pregnant. The bouncer cited potential liabilities if something happened — if a fight broke out, for example — but it’s unclear to me why the bar would only be liable if a pregnant woman was injured. It’s not totally out there to suspect that the problem wasn’t potential liabilities, it was the bouncer’s general view that pregnant women shouldn’t be in bars (even though this particular pregnant woman was drinking water).
Being a woman who is also pregnant doesn’t mean that you give up your right to participate in society. It doesn’t mean that strangers get to kick you out of establishments that offer food and drink. Coffee isn’t especially great for pregnant women either — can we kick ’em out of Starbucks? We should probably add “Do not enter establishments that offer alcohol, coffee, cured meats, tuna, or potentially under-cooked animal products” to Natalia’s instructions on how to be a nice pregnant lady who doesn’t offend polite society.