Shameless Self-Promotion Sunday January 9, 2011 Jill Post a link to a post you’ve written this week, along with a short description. Make it specific – don’t just link your whole blog.
I had a really scary incident at school that I wrote about where I was sexually harassed by a homophobic colleague. I wrote about what he said, and there will probably be an updated post this week about how it was dealt with, including on how I am coping with what was said (he thought his penis could cure me of being gay) and having to see him again. This was a more nostalgic post about the wage gap that reminded me of a life changing lecture by one of my favorite profs.
A Shot at Democracy A political shooting is more than an assault on human beings, it’s an undoing by bullet of what the people chose by the ballot. Season of the Gun Where were you on November 22, 1963? It was the beginning of a decade of assassinations. Let that never happen to our country again. Won’t be Okay If Gabrielle Giffords makes a miraculous recovery, it will be a feel-good story, but don’t be fooled. Traumatic brain injury, the signature wound of our two wars, is a devastating loss.
Sara Kruzan, Human Trafficking, and the Criminal Justice System: http://michelleg3399.wordpress.com/wp-admin/post.php?post=502&action=edit
I wrote a review of Nancy Milford’s biography of controversial feminist poet Edna St. Vincent Millay. A celebrity in her day, Millay is largely unknown today. Savage Beauty: A Review
Hey y’all, I am linking to to a reflective post I wrote recently talking about wealth in a global context and how easy it is to forget that on a global scale, I am rich. The idea behind my blog is that I will write a post and donate a dollar to an organization on a daily basis. If you read some of my early posts from last year, this idea evolved from the belief many have that the little they could afford to give would not make a difference, so I donate a dollar a day and share it with my readers just to remind us all that every little bit helps and there are so many great charities we could be a part of. I am trying to grow and increase my blog this year, so I would love it if some of y’all came and checked it out. 🙂 http://changeyoucanafford.blogspot.com/2010_12_26_archive.html
Oops, I put the wrong link above! This one should work: Sara Kruzan, Human Trafficking, and the Criminal Justice System: http://michelleg3399.wordpress.com/2011/01/06/sara-kruzan-human-trafficking-and-the-criminal-justice-system/
How the Witches’ Pyramid helps me structure my response to the Arizona shooting. What kind of leadership are Christian conservatives praying for? The kind that lets a Navy officer put out videos so inappropriate that he’s relieved of command?
This week I wrote two posts about the perpetual war between mostly post-op women with a transsexual history and the transgender as “umbrella” advocate. How it is self destructive on the part of both sides and how both parties disrespect each other. http://womenborntranssexual.com/2011/01/06/post-transsexual-women-and-transgender-inc/ and one imploring people to stop with the trashings http://womenborntranssexual.com/2011/01/08/enda-isnt-going-to-happen-for-at-least-three-years/
This week on Political Flavors: Former New York Governor Paterson’s commutation of John White’s sentence A Review of The Meatball Shop on the Lower East Side of New York City Eco Friendly Cosmetics Reviews My letter to Bug Selig asking him to move the 2011 Major League Baseball All Star Game out of Arizona because of SB1070
This week I wrote a short post on why Johnny Weir’s coming out is still important, and I also blogged about transitioning from a pop culture blogger to maybe something a little more meaningful.
I was fired for being trans – Unfortunately, the title kind of says it all. “You were fired for being trans?!” – And yet, the employer who fired me is confused as to how that could have possibly happened. Artist statement – I’ve been working on an artist statement for some grants, and here’s my first draft.
Hard to believe the new year is barely a week old… Misogyny Gets Off To A Great Start in 2011 http://www.feministpeacenetwork.org/2011/01/07/misogyny-gets-off-to-a-great-start-in-2011/
Yeah, I Think I’ll Pass On This One: Grumbling about why I won’t be seeing the upcoming Green Hornet movie. Pregnancy Not-Quite-Scare: What went through my head when I briefly suspected I might be pregnant. What ‘Counts’ as Sex: When you ask someone “What’s sex?”, turns out you’ll get a plethora of answers. Here’s my take on it. If You Say ‘Retarded’, I Will Judge the Shit Out of You: Explaining why I don’t like the word ‘retarded’ in any context.
This week, I wrote about not being an ass about being privileged. I was going to write more along that line but then a cat showed up at my back door, and I got a bit distracted. Kitty!!
This week at Paradigm Shift NYC: “Blackened Blues” – http://www.paradigmshiftnyc.com/2011/01/blackened-blues/ “An Interview with Feminist Media Maven, Jennifer Pozner” – http://www.paradigmshiftnyc.com/2011/01/an-interview-with-feminist-media-maven-jennifer-pozner/ “Powerful Women Changing the World” – http://www.paradigmshiftnyc.com/2011/01/powerful-women-changing-the-world/ We also have posts about great upcoming events! Rock Out for Roe! Party to Benefit NYAAF – http://www.paradigmshiftnyc.com/2011/01/rock-out-for-roe-party-to-benefit-nyaaf/ “Powerful Women Changing the World” – http://www.paradigmshiftnyc.com/2011/01/powerful-women-changing-the-world/ The Athena Film Festival: A Celebration of Women and Leadership – http://www.paradigmshiftnyc.com/2011/01/the-athena-film-festival-a-celebration-of-women-and-leadership/ Work Study: Sex Work and the New School Student – http://www.paradigmshiftnyc.com/2011/01/work-study-sex-work-and-the-new-school-student/ NOW-NYC and Feminists for Choice Tweet-Up – http://www.paradigmshiftnyc.com/2011/01/now-nyc-and-feminist-for-choice-tweet-up/ Rape New York: A Series of Public Dialogues – http://www.paradigmshiftnyc.com/2011/01/rape-new-york-a-series-of-public-dialogues/ Poetic People Power @ The Art at Bay Gallery – http://www.paradigmshiftnyc.com/2011/01/this-sunday-poetic-people-power-the-art-at-bay-gallery/
I’m currently working on a project about feminists who blog about pop culture – if you work on pop culture (broadly defined), or know anyone who does, I’d love for you to fill out the questionnaire I’ve developed/let me know about folks who you think might be interested… you can find more information about my project, and how to be in touch with me, here: http://backoncarriesstoop.blogspot.com/2011/01/call-to-feminist-bloggers.html Thank you!
This week at Once Again, To Zelda: A gallery of Portraits of Canadian Women from the ’70s http://2zelda.blogspot.com/2011/01/portraits-of-women-1974-1977.html Alex’s reaction to a recent bit on Colbert about Obama’s endorsement of the Declaration on the Rights of Indigenous Peoples http://2zelda.blogspot.com/2011/01/really-colbert-really.html The uphill battles Feminism faces in the blogosphere and elsewhere http://2zelda.blogspot.com/2011/01/not-to-harp-on-about-feminism-or.html and finally, some Bossanova-tinged protest/funk/soul/jazz tunes that are warming us up on a chilly Sunday afternoon! http://2zelda.blogspot.com/2011/01/sunday-songs-blame-it-on-bossa-nova.html
Rape as (non-negotiated) Power (and not about gender) Rape as (non-negotiated) Power (and not about gender) A blog post about the dynamics of power and socialisation, rather than innateness, as a cause for rape.
Vote for Pro-LGBT Miss America Contestant! http://queersunited.blogspot.com/2011/01/vote-for-pro-lgbt-miss-america.html Tell NM Governor Martinez to Honor AG’s Finding on Marriage http://queersunited.blogspot.com/2011/01/tell-nm-governor-martinez-to-honor-ags.html N.Y. Post Releases Insulting Column on Elton John & Partner http://queersunited.blogspot.com/2010/12/ny-post-releases-insulting-column-on.html Textbooks4Change – Buy Textbooks and Fund EQUALITY! http://queersunited.blogspot.com/2010/12/textbooks4change-buy-textbooks-and-fund.html
I filed something in the Disgruntled Adolescent Complaint Department about age privilege concerns here at feministe and other major progressive blogs.
This week I wrote about my husband’s and my challenge to cook and eat exclusively from the adult curriculum from Cooking Matters, a national organization that teaches strategies for healthy and economical eating to low-income families and individuals. There are five posts: To Bake Or Not to Bake?, Two Out of Three Ain’t Bad, Breakfast Like a King, Just Throw Something Together, and A Little More…Something. I introduced the challenge last week, and I hope to have a wrap-up posted by the end of today.
Link not exactly working, try this: https://womensglib.wordpress.com/2011/01/08/disgruntled-adolescent-complaint-department/
2010 a retrospective – I’m back to blogging about the intersections between feminism and female sexual dysfunction. Just a reminder: Yes you can be a feminist and still have FSD, the two are compatible. This post is a look back at some of the stuff that went down on the blog during 2010 so if you need some catching up, don’t miss it.
This week on Yes Means Yes Blog: Jaclyn’s tour de force post, quick on the heels of her appearance opposite Naomi Wolf on Democracy Now, The (Nonexistent) Terrible Horrible No Good Very Bad Consequences Of Enthusiastic Consent. If you’re looking for an update on the Prop 8 litigation in California that doesn’t assume you remember all the twists and turns, or understand the differences between the various court systems, this is for you. It has been a few weeks since we put up a SSPS comment. Here’s a few from recent weeks: Combat and the Politics of Masculinity, about the last-ditch attempts to create a haven of must-pretend-to-be-het within the military after legislation cleared the way for DADT repeal. Growing: An Example, a positive remark on Michael Moore’s about-face on rape apologism under the pressure of Sady Doyle and all the amazing people who contributed to #mooreandme. Better Trans 101, in which I merely boost the signal of Asher Bauer’s new-style Trans 101.
Everett Bogue’s “Far Beyond The Stars” Blog Is My 1st Pick for 2011 http://bit.ly/hg9zpk Who’s Getting It Right: On The Upside With Mary J. Blige & Jennifer Hudson http://bit.ly/i4iGUn In 2011 You’re Free To Be Your Best. Here’s How To Do It. http://bit.ly/dOIlXV Are You A CAN Or CANNOT PERSON? http://bit.ly/idkrc4 Male Gold-Diggers & Dysfunction: On The Flip Side With Alicia Keys & Whitney Houston http://bit.ly/iiMJ0n
A Ban on Mini-Skirts and Pseudo-Liberals http://clarissasbox.blogspot.com/2011/01/ban-on-mini-skirts-and-pseudo-liberals.html Boys Don’t Cry but Girls Should? http://clarissasbox.blogspot.com/2011/01/boys-dont-cry-but-girls-should.html
I wrote about the Giffords shooting in Arizona yesterday, but I wasn’t willing to get all sexist and ableist about it, like a lot of other people out there seemed to do… http://transplantportation.com/2011/01/08/the-politics-of-violence/
How A Poem Became The Best Music Criticism I’ve Read In The Last Three Months — on a poem in the Oxford American’s annual music issue, and what makes good music criticism.
Kissie Catastrophie is back at ethecofem! She wrote about whether or not porn can be feminist. Douthat’s abortion fail was a fail for so many reasons beyond even the obvious. Some thoughts on the word “bitch,” and other gendered insults. People around my age (27) weren’t around for any of the major assassination, or attempts, of the 60’s or even early 80’s in the US. Some reflections on politically-motivated assassination attempts, from a “Millennial” perspective.
“Girls Like the Bad Boys (The Good Guys Say) A few “bad boy” characters I like, and one that I like to dislike. Shiki, Mrs. Strangeworth and “The Possibility of Evil” I make a stab-in-the-dark comparison to Shirley Jackson’s writing, and the ending of an anime series.
The ex who sexually assaulted me and men right’s activists decide to gang up on my blog: http://anthonybsusan.wordpress.com/2011/01/06/harassment-on-the-blog/#comments, http://anthonybsusan.wordpress.com/2011/01/07/moving-forward-redux/#comments, http://anthonybsusan.wordpress.com/2011/01/08/dear-mens-rights-activists/#comments. It’s a prime example of victim blaming and the irrationality of the men’s rights movement. I hope to return to the original purpose of my blog this week.
On Naomi Wolf in the BBC World Have Your Say show, the anonymity of rape survivors and the idiocy of the idea: http://feminismandtea.blogspot.com/2011/01/sexual-assault-survivor-suck-it-up-or.html
I’m sorry for linking my whole blog, but I can only use my phone today, so I can’t get the URL for the single article. However, the top article (Daily Mail Fwap-ometer goes into overdrive) is a look at an article from the right-wing tabloid press in the UK, who on one hand, attempt to posit themselves as forces for morality and decency, yet on the other, use any excuse to print multiple pictures of young wonen in states of undress. They also have a horrific track record when it comes to promotion of healthy body image (made clear by the article I discuss).
Oh, also, I just posted one my of semi-weekly “what I’m reading” posts. A collection of some notable things I’ve found this week int he blogosphere, and in the news.
All on tumblr: A belated New Year’s Resolution I yelled at my first trolling Anonymous commenter “Perspecitve”, my first post on a new blog called “Sheepish Personal Updates.” It’s short, and about dealing with people in crisis. On “Fuck Yeah, Gwendolyn Brooks” I wrote something quick asking for feminist interpretations of “The Mother.” Another installment of Reading In the Mecca
Stupid Christmas Songs: the title speaks for itself. A Message To Christmas Warriors: What are the War on Christmas people afraid of? On Gay People Being Held To A Special Standard of Goodness: In response to a postsecret.
A post on Miss Massachusetts 2010, a Harvard graduate, poet, and pianist, and whether her being such an impressive woman is representative of beauty pageants in general.
Queering the Kitchen and the Eco-feminist Case for Veganism: http://vegansexual.blogspot.com/2011/01/queering-kitchen.html
Let them eat mahimahi fillets: a follow-up to my previous post about food and intersectionality issues with disability, gender, and money. –IP
At the Abortion Gang, we wrote about the connections between Dr. Tiller’s Assassination and the shooting in AZ.
Third-wave feminist witchcraft part three http://wisegrrrl.com/2011/01/05/feminist-witchcraft-part-three-just-some-thoughts/ third-wave feminist witchcraft part four http://wisegrrrl.com/2011/01/08/third-wave-feminist-witchcraft-part-four-theory/ feminists are whiny? http://wisegrrrl.com/2011/01/07/are-feminists-whiny-privileged-men-talking-about-feminist-efforts/
I wrote about my reactions to learning that a pick up artist shot a woman in the face at a party: http://lovelettersinhell.blogspot.com/2011/01/so-pick-up-artist-has-allegedly-shot.html And then clarified my feelings about guns: http://lovelettersinhell.blogspot.com/2011/01/what-i-think-about-guns.html
This past week on Man Boobz, my anti-misogyny blog: A post on a Gun-loving pick-up artist guru who allegedly shot a woman in the face A post on a Men’s Rights campaign to defeat feminism by, er, putting posters above urinals in public bathrooms. I ran across someone who claimed that “Jezebel is the Andrea Dworkin of feminist websites,” so I wrote up a goofy little quiz to see if people could tell if I was quoting Jezebel, or Dworkin. A post about an MRA goofball suggesting that guys get fake-gay-married in order to protect themselves against alimony claims if they later marry a woman. Also recently: reflections on the Giffords tragedy, and a guy who built a vibrator bomb.
There was a story out of Arizona recently where a Catholic bishop essentially excommunicated an entire hospital for providing an abortion to a woman who would have died without it. I highlighted a journal article investigating how other Catholic hospitals have dealt with the same circumstance – horrifyingly, not all of them as rationally as the one in Phoenix. http://www.daylightatheism.org/2011/01/abortion-care-at-catholic-hospitals.html
Tom Horne, new AG of AZ, has been called “The Bull Connor of the 21st Century”. You know what caused the Dec.26 hurricane blizzard in the US Northeast? UNIONS!
This is a post with a sketch I did in a coffee shop today, as well as some musings about how sometimes it can be hard to help someone without inadvertently hurting them.
Just one post this week, after returning from my holidays, in which I discuss my New Year’s Resolutions.
this week started off with my thinking about how much I had been journaling about my parents and as a result wrote about the love lessons I learned from my father http://www.inspiritual.biz/inspiritual-reflections/2011/1/3/love-lessons-from-my-father.html and then in The Zenful Kitchen I wrote about how my relationship with the kitchen and food has changed over time. What was once a place where I self abused with my compulsive overeating has now become a place where I have become my own teacher and am using it as a space for personal and spiritual healing http://www.inspiritual.biz/the-zenful-kitchen/2011/1/5/it-is-more-then-just-a-kitchen.html and of course I have been writing in my journal for the last seven days. Hard to believe I am more then halfway through this nine week writing adventure. This week, I reflected on the following topics: surrender — http://www.inspiritual.biz/stirring-my-spiritual-waters/2011/1/3/week-3-day-6-surrender.html rewarding yourself, flowing with the water — http://www.inspiritual.biz/stirring-my-spiritual-waters/2011/1/4/week-3-day-7-rewarding-yourself-flowing-with-the-water.html receiving knowledge through emotions — http://www.inspiritual.biz/stirring-my-spiritual-waters/2011/1/5/week-4-day-1-receiving-knowledge-through-our-emotions.html body sensations and intuitions — http://www.inspiritual.biz/stirring-my-spiritual-waters/2011/1/6/week-4-day-2-body-sensations-and-intuitions.html releasing overwhelm — http://www.inspiritual.biz/stirring-my-spiritual-waters/2011/1/7/week-4-day-3-releasing-overwhelm.html developing clarity — http://www.inspiritual.biz/stirring-my-spiritual-waters/2011/1/8/week-4-day-4-developing-clarity.html and standing up for what we believe — http://www.inspiritual.biz/stirring-my-spiritual-waters/2011/1/9/week-4-day-5-standing-up-for-what-we-believe.html
After a hiatus of a couple months, Men Dare Do! is blogging again, with a post from this week called discussing how traditional notions of sexuality affect the cis het man’s sexuality.
Jeff: After a hiatus of a couple months, Men Dare Do! is blogging again, with a post from this week called discussing how traditional notions of sexuality affect the cis het man’s sexuality. …And my html tag is bad. The link is here: http://mendaredo.com/2011/01/04/male-sexual-agency/ The title if “Male Sexual Agency.”
I wrote a post last night about teenagers, Tumblr, the Internet, and my own personal history of having online friends and a separate “Internet life:” http://purplishblog.wordpress.com/2011/01/08/why-back-in-my-day-or-an-informal-study-of-the-adolescent-subculture/ I’m excited to read what y’all have posted here!
A post on an article that talks about women’s arms in a rather unfortunate way. Another one on an article about the secrets men keep. Ugh.
Sarah, Sharon, & The Shooter Jared Lee Loughner is clearly a nut who went around the bend. That said, how much easier is it to take that step when you have, not just other beady-eyed trolls on the internet reinforcing your paranoia, but mainstream political figures claiming that elected officials are conspiring to destroy the country, kill grandma, and planting the seeds for looking to bullets when you lose on the ballots? http://errport77.blogspot.com/2011/01/sarah-sharon-shooter.html
This week, I blogged about queer cliques and breaking out of the group mentality. I am struggling with my upcoming move to “the global south” (for lack of a better phrase), and have been looking into critiques of voluntourism and settling into being okay with relocating my queer, Western self to a community in (hopefully) Africa. Also, a short bit on gentrification in my community to round it all out. I’m new to blogging (well, back in the day I did Xanga and Livejournal, but that was more diary-like than anything else), and trying to write more things of substance. Thanks for reading! amanda
This week I wrote about: A fantastic vegan restaurant in Portland, OR: http://marie-everydaymiracle.blogspot.com/2011/01/oh-my-portobello.html The fact that the Susan G. Komen Foundation spends $1 million/year defending its trademarks and threatening legal action against small charities: http://marie-everydaymiracle.blogspot.com/2011/01/susan-g-komen-foundation-spends-1.html My dismay at the homophobia I read on middle schoolers’ Facebook pages (and in their language): http://marie-everydaymiracle.blogspot.com/2011/01/dismay.html The pope’s statement (on Christmas Day) that pedophilia and pornography were “normal” in the 1970s: http://marie-everydaymiracle.blogspot.com/2011/01/oops-he-did-it-again.html My love for Epiphany in all its forms: http://marie-everydaymiracle.blogspot.com/2011/01/i-love-epiphany.html Why I believe that violent political rhetoric and hate led to the shooting in Tucson yesterday, in addition to the escalation in the number of police officers killed in the line of duty: http://marie-everydaymiracle.blogspot.com/2011/01/violence-and-hate-beget-violence-and.html
In my book blog, I wrote about Rock Paper Tiger by Lisa Brackmann, about an Iraqi vet living in China who gets wrapped up in intrigue and ends up on the run from the Americans and the Chinese. Ultimately, I found the book lacking, but the heroine, Ellie, was a spunky character: http://mariesbookgarden.blogspot.com/2011/01/rock-paper-tiger-ultimately.html A new edition of Huckleberry Finn will change the offensive words: http://mariesbookgarden.blogspot.com/2011/01/new-huckleberry-finn-and-tom-sawyer.html And congratulations to fabulous Nancy Pearl, Seattle librarian and author of the Booklust series, for winning “Librarian of the Year”: http://mariesbookgarden.blogspot.com/2011/01/go-librarians-and-nancy-pearl-go.html
I wrote this 101-level guide for the newly diagnosed as mentally ill. Unfortunately, in the rush of the holidays I had not noticed that my favorite disability blog had closed up shop (FWD), and I had suggested it there via email, so I would like to submit this here now in the hopes that it will reach some people who might need it. I hope it is found to be useful. http://naamah-darling.livejournal.com/483384.html
I wrote about the idea that women can’t be friends with women due to their inescapable bitchiness, and also can’t be friends with men due to the inescapable sexual tension, because women are just broken. (Bugger.) And also about sexist attacks on Ann Widdecombe (super-conservative UK former politician) and how sexism is still not okay when directed at sexist people.
I want to start out by shamelessly promoting Avedon Carol’s promotion of Marcy Wheeler’s point that if Antonin Scalia really believes the constitution doesn’t protect women and gay people from discrimination then he “sure as hell” can’t believe it supports the “personhood” of incorporated companies. Marcy Wheeler on Antonin Scalia’s Unlikely But Implicit Strict Originalist Repudiation of the “Personhood” of Corporations Ruminating on comments in a Sociological Images post about medicalization of male and female sexual function and dysfunction, I finally sank my teeth into a much-overlooked problem with making male libido the baseline for “normal” sexual desire: The No-Sex Class and Patriarchy’s Otherwise Paradoxical Indifference to Male Impotence and Low Libido Amanda Hess had a quibble with one element of Will Anti-Choice Activists Be as Frantic About Hormonal Contraception for Men? We Might (Finally) Find Out Soon. Admittedly her quibble was with the title point, but fortunately it’s actually not the main point of my post. There are a couple of other posts I’d shamelessly promote but I’m running out of space. And shamelessness. I don’t actually comment all that often on pop celebrities, though, so I’ll use that as an excuse to plug Adult Sexualization of Justin Bieber is Absolutely Not OK. He Isn’t “Just a Boy,” He’s Also Still Just a Kid! figleaf
I’m utterly late to this party, but I wrote something today (yesterday?) that I think is worth reading: Oh the irony; Congresswoman Gifford’s Life Saved by a Latino…in Arizona.
I wrote this essay on fatness, fat acceptance and sexual assault. Trigger warnings for the content about sexual assault.
I’m coming late too, but on Sunday I wrote a piece comparing the images and symbolism of crosshairs like what Sarah Palin used on her map of congressional targets, and actual map symbols. It turns out, Palin’s are definitely not map symbols. http://standpointsoc.tumblr.com/post/2672023549/is-there-a-difference-between-target-crosshairs-and-map