Shameless Self-Promotion Sunday April 12, 2009 Jill Post a short description of something you’ve written this week, along with a link. Make it specific — don’t just link to your whole blog. And happy Easter!
Slow week for me. All I’ve got is a post on where we draw the line when it comes to engaging with people we probably won’t agree with, and when we declare our allies are no longer allies. (Or, perhaps, never were to begin with.) (Just for the sake of full disclosure, in the post I link to a call to boycott both Feministe and Feministing. Clearly I haven’t answered that call, but I do think it’s something we should be talking about.)
Sometimes Disability Is A Shared Identity: Looking at how a chronic illness can affect those around you. Boo Yaa It’s Period Time: Looking at how the advertising industry creates fear about vaginas to sell us products we don’t need. Beauty As Power The Declining Commodity: Looking at how women are treated as we age. PeTA: We Employ Teh Minorities: A conversation with PeTA in which they defend their racism, homophobia and sexism as a legitimate path to raising awareness about animal rights. Turkish Reporter Wears Black Face To Report On Obama: We have heard endless about the presidential pooch but of course blackface barely made the news. Nice and post racial aren’t we.
this week I wrote about my tendency to pick apart every little detail from the night before, as part of an attempt to understand my anxiety.
I wrote a letter to NPR about what I felt was irresponsible reporting about new studies about “brown fat” and weight loss.
This week, I wrote a blog post about about The Emancipation Network. T.E.N. is a grassroots organization that works to empower survivors of human trafficking, teaching them skills and selling their handicrafts through T.E.N’s “Made By Survivors” store so that they can become self-sufficient. I’m hosting a blog giveaway for a necklace from T.E.N. in the hopes of raising awareness for the cause. If you’d like to check it out, you can do so by clicking here. Thank you for giving me a spot to post this!
Some reviews this week… Black Male Outsider: Teaching as a Pro-Feminist Man: Lemons’ book highlights his classroom strategies to challenge students to confront the interrelated forces of racism, sexism, classism, and homophobia, often through teaching black, feminist literature. He also highlights how he worked to encourage students to come to a deeper understanding of the ways white supremacy has shaped American culture. Dating Jesus: A Story of Fundamentalism, Feminism, and the American Girl: Though Susan Campbell and I come from different flavors of fundamentalism, all of the experiences she writes about ring true. I suspect they would ring true for all women who were raised within a patriarchal religion (fundamentalist or not), as well as women who may not have been raised with any religion at all, but recognized prejudice in American society just the same. Labor Pains and Birth Stories: Essays on Pregnancy, Childbirth, and Becoming a Parent: The undercurrent of their stories hints at class differences and whether they could afford international adoption or uninsured fertility treatment. Their individual voices speak a multitude of languages: different cultural practices and observations, how their pregnancy was viewed by their communities, how much support and education they were given throughout their process. Pray the Devil Back to Hell: Imagine all the worst atrocities that can be committed against women. Think of all of the greatest evils that stain a country with corruption and greed. Then, in the direst of situations, imagine how a group of women could change the face of blood and hopelessness. This is the story of Pray the Devil Back to Hell. Natalie Tran – CommunityChannel: The reigning queen of Australian YouTubers, she is a young, fresh-faced woman with self-deprecating humor who picks on the mundane snags of life that often get under our skin. It’s a Seinfeld approach to humor, except this channel features a smart-mouth Vietnamese woman who begins each video with a quirky wave and smile.
I wrote about Jacqueline Hassink’s book Car Girls, which looks at ideas of beauty around the world through the lens of the auto show model. Also, check out my roundup on bra news—the over the shoulder bolder holder is having a moment.
Last week I was struggling to articulate why I feel consent is critical but not sufficient. I finally got it down to twenty-five words or less. Actually a lot less: Decision and Respect I’m still not done posting about respecting consent vs. respect for the person making that decison, but I think it’s an important point to get across in discussion with men. figleaf
i share a poem of Baudelaire’s (my namesake): http://filthygrandeur.blogspot.com/2009/04/youd-entertain-universe.html a happy birthday to baudelaire: http://filthygrandeur.blogspot.com/2009/04/happy-birthday-charlie.html a sonnet to my vagina: http://filthygrandeur.blogspot.com/2009/04/soft-pillows-of-flesh-tucked-unseen.html
This week, I finally got around to posting some reflections on WAM!2009. Also two quick posts on recent news stories about healthcare, good and bad. And a feminist-heavy links list of stuff I’ve been reading on the net.
I wrote a little about my experience coming into BDSM and how I’ve been getting much more into dominating / switching. I hope to follow this up with a post about cultural reasons I think that I never thought about dominating before, but that’ll be later. http://clarissethorn.wordpress.com/2009/04/09/storytime-with-clarisse-have-i-always-been-a-domme/
I wrote a brief piece on the use of the word “tranny” and how my attitudes on the subject have changed over the past months. In addition, I’ve been updating my page of thoughts on, and links to, trans fiction.
It was a busy week for me — I started a new solo blog. Here are some highlights: 1. Sex Is Not The Point: A response to the idea that polyamory is good for everyone. 2. Nerds, Jews And Gender Conformity: A short musing on the intersection of antisemitism and the gender binary. 3. Does my haircut make me a better feminist? On the idea that some kinds of gender presentation are more feminist than others. 4. On Religion And Asking The Right Questions. A post about the christocentrism of the everpresent atheism vs theism conversation, and about how the “Is there a God?” question isn’t actually important. I also wrote a follow up, clarifying what questions are fundamental to my religious practice (since the God one doesn’t much trouble me).
I wrote a piece about people criticizing women for “letting themselves go” after giving birth. Also, parents are in an uproar over a sex education website aimed at 10-12 year-olds. And a woman who was raped four years ago in a deserted subway station while an MTA worker stood by and watched is taking her story public.
I wrote a piece about Debbie Wasserman Schultz which provoked some discussion about whether it is appropriate to “hide a diagnosis” when it could advocate for others. Another one about Working through treatment and the increased unemployment among people with disabilities . I was out of town last week and fortunately had a couple of wonderful women guest blog, Wendy Harpham who has been a patient and a doctor and Debra DeMers, oncology nurse and two time survivor.
A group of women at my school just started a blog about body positivity. I wrote a piece about the terms we use to describe the vagina and how they are disconnected with our actual experience of our own bodies called, “I’m pretty sure I don’t have a fluffy sausage wallet between my legs. http://happybodies.wordpress.com/2009/04/08/im-pretty-sure-i-dont-have-a-fluffy-sausage-wallet-between-my-legs/
I’ve been writing mostly on the local city council elections and supporters of one councilman are harassing me online including posting the neighborhood I live in so I’m counting the days until the election is over and done with. They did the same thing last year when he ran for supervisor. But taking a break from that mess, I wrote last week on retention of female police officers. It’s part of an ongoing series. This orginal article provides more details on the issue of female officers in my city’s department. As you can see by the comments it attracted, not everyone was happy about it. One commenter accused me of forcing the police chief to kidnap women to be officers and placing the department in great peril. He continued with this: Unfortunately because of people like you crying about the number of female officers on the street the department has made the situation worse by tenderly helping certain females through training by placing them with FTO’s that are not proactive. Instead of having these females working the Eastside arresting parolees or chasing down “gangsters” in the Arlanza area they are gingerly driving around taking their safe little report calls. The way a number of our female officers get tenderly helped through training just makes the force dangerous for them and dangerous for their beat partners when they get on their own. I mean how many times do you have to be re-phased through training before you pass the FTO program. I am sure it was getting tough finding weak FTO’s to pass these females. I will be writing more postings on the FTO program actually. I’m currently researching some information I’ve received about the treatment of female officers there.
I fumed about how a local rape trial is being played out in the media instead of the courtroom, practically neutralizing the impact of rape shield laws.
Chez Mudd is getting a pagan garden. I’m getting more active religiously. And today has been all Amazon Fail all the time (after the muse interlude). Amazon stripped the sales rankings from all the books they consider “adult.” This includes ALL GLBT titles and most erotic romances.
Last week I posted a series of reviews of the shows in the “Sex Education Show vs Pornography” series shown on UK Channel 4. Each show managed at once to have some very useful information about sex for teenagers, and yet miss out huge parts that were equally, or more, important. It also managed to propagate several myths while dispelling others, and their take on pornography wasn’t too enlightened either. (Link leads to a page with links to all the different instalments of the reviews). I only got around to finishing the review this Tuesday, which is why this is in this Sunday’s and not last Sunday’s shameless self-promotion. I editorialised a little on the role of the police in Ian Tomlinson’s death I posted a poem for International Poetry Month, that I wrote when I was just making my first move away from living with my parents: The Leap Finally, I enjoyed a guilty pleasure moment of humour at the expense of a porn mail-order catalogue that came through my door (the guilt is because the joke depends on gendered stereotypes…)
I spread the word about a call for submissions to a new anthology about disability and sexuality, and a Day of Silence resolution being introduced in Congress. I also had some fun with some Def Jam Poetry.
Over at City of Ladies this week, Brian wrote about Feminists for Life and I wrote about the implications of one common anti-abortion argument I come across. Faux Feminism? Conscience Vigilance (Also, @ 11 – sheesh, we have another Rebecca? :P)
I blog about the Great Amazon Deranking Fiasco, wherein Amazon removes the sales ranks from books considered too “adult;” de-ranked books then become harder to find (they won’t appear in the basic search), depending on whether or not they have a Kindle edition. (FYI: Of special interest to Feministe is the de-ranking of Yes Means Yes, which now automatically comes up with the Kindle edition in all searches.)
Been working on this post since Thursday, just finished. About the subtle ways that white, heterosexual, males are privileged in American society. Doesn’t even mention the wage gap or representation in government!
The truth behind the story of the counseling grad student who says she was expelled for refusing to “affirm homosexuality.” How Friday’s student occupation and arrests at NYC’s New School played out on Twitter.
This week in Evil Slutopia: ~We put together a WAM! Book List, since we could have filled an extra suitcase with all of the great books we saw and heard about there. (We also got caught up on everything that happened while we were out.) ~We bought an issue of Cosmo for our train ride to Boston, and of course we got a couple of blog posts out of that reading experience – a reply to their article about things you should never apologize for, and some thoughts on their use of the term “male post-partum depression”. ~We created a Dixie Chicks playlist for Sean Hannity, since he’s such a big fan. And we discussed Bill O’Reilly’s misguided rant about Eminem’s latest video. ~We reevaluated terms like “support” and “bipartisanship”, thanks to Meghan McCain. ~We gave a quick shoutout to Go Sisterhood. ~And we wrote Gay Marriage Makes Adam And Eve Cry, about the reaction of the right-wing group Concerned Women for America to the marriage equality bill passing in Vermont.
In the wake of the Iowa, Vermont, Washington D.C., and Swedish announcements about same-sex marriage, I wrote But we are winning… on how evil creeps who compare same-sex marriage to bestiality are losing – the game, the argument, their “war”. I wrote, thinking about a friend’s funeral, attended by the pastor who officiated at his marriage: “And I thought, for my friend as well as for myself: We got to do what not many people ever do. We live in a better world, a kinder and more generous and less hatefilled world, than the one we were born in, than the one we grew up in. We helped build it, this better world: it’s part of your legacy, as a gay activist, it will be part of mine.” (Also, I did Maggie Gallagher lolcats. Nom nom nom!) I noted, also, that Obama now has till May 11th to decide if he is for or against torture – that’s when the British lawyer representing Binyam Mohammed goes on trial. On a slightly less serious note, I wrote about how Jennifer McCann, the Vegan Lunchbox Blogger, has turned to the dark side and is now equating “being thin” with being healthy. Finally, I wrote about how an LGBT bookstore in my home town got closed down by a big chain, which then – just like Amazon this weekend – tried to stuff all the queer books back into the closet.
Nothing particularly feminist from me this week, but I do have: LiveJournal for people who don’t have a LiveJournal A guide/introduction for people visiting blogs hosted on LiveJournal clones, who may be used to other blogging platforms.
I didn’t write these, but it seems like the best place to draw Feministe’s attention to it: Amazon is removing the sales rank from LGBT-themed books, on the grounds that these books are “adult.” Even if they contain no erotica whatsoever. A growing list of books that have gotten this treatment. Note that Yes Means Yes is on the list. This matters because sales-rank visibility can help to drive sales.
Shamelessly promoting Blog for Fair Pay Day on April 28 — when we’re asking people to blog, tweet and post to Facebook about pay equity for women and urge the Senate to pass the Paycheck Fairness Act. You can get the details and sign up to take part here.
This week i wrote a post on Passover and one last night on female bullying, which i’ve experienced a bit lately at work and with some old college “friends.”
My thoughts on the teen sex show on this week’s Oprah. http://snipurl.com/flg06 When Transgendered People Are Assaulted Why Do People Make A Joke Out It? http://snipurl.com/fiez9 Queen Latifah Goes Back to Hip-Hop Roots http://snipurl.com/fi2ed New Blog Post On: Holiday…Celebrating Lady Day http://snipurl.com/fgc0g New Blog Post On: That Old Objectification Song http://snipurl.com/ffuxv New Blog Post On: Ladies Get It From the Horse’s Mouth http://snipurl.com/fcesf New Blog Post On: Hipster Racism Strikes Again http://snipurl.com/fbxfu
Another edition of FML FAIL http://mzbitca.wordpress.com/2009/04/11/fml-fail/ post on using females bodies to sell objects http://mzbitca.wordpress.com/2009/04/08/its-more-important-to-objectify-women-than-to-be-practical/
I muse on maleness and a bit on whiteness, and the ambiguity of desire versus envy, as well as fear, that I feel as a genderqueer woman towards the male form: http://toomanyfeelings.tumblr.com/post/95478752/men Feedback greatly desired.
I did a bunch of posts this week, but here are just a few. My letter to a guy who had “I love boobies” bumper stickers on his car, among other things. I suggest some other bumper stickers he may enjoy… “Dear Misogynist (Bumber Sticker Edition)” http://quitthecompromise.blogspot.com/2009/04/dear-misogynist-bumper-sticker-edition.html My personal story involving eating disorders and how veganism actually led to my recovery and was not another manifestation of disordered eating… “Veganism, Eating Disorders, and a Guy Named Giles Who Doesn’t Get It” http://quitthecompromise.blogspot.com/2009/04/vegetarianism-eating-disorders-and-guy.html On this week’s episode… “Law & Order SVU is Pushing It… Again” http://quitthecompromise.blogspot.com/2009/04/law-order-svu-is-pushing-it-again.html Also, not mine, but the 21st Carnival of Radical Feminists is up: Part One (http://demonista.wordpress.com/2009/03/23/sorry-carnival-of-radical-feminists-pt-1/) Part Two (http://demonista.wordpress.com/2009/04/06/21st-carnival-of-radfems-part-2/)
I wrote about muslim women in sports from my personal experience with it (running in the Sahara in the Peace Corps) to athletic stars who are muslim women: http://genderacrossborders.wordpress.com/2009/04/07/muslim-women-in-sports/
Participated in the Blog Against Theocracy this weekend. Here’s the link to all of the great posts. http://blogagainsttheocracy.blogspot.com And then a link to my post on the Separation of Church and State. http://nicki2377.blogspot.com/2009/04/it-wasnt-supposed-to-be-this-way.html I really need to learn how to make the linky things lol….but here they are for your cut and paste pleasure! Nicki
On my personal blog, I wrote about Amazon Rank being full of fail, a pesticide industry group criticizing Michelle Obama for planting an organic garden, and the latest episode of Dollhouse. At Gender Across Borders I considered Dubai’s injustices in a global context and reviewed The Ordeal of Elizabeth Marsh
I was in a roll today: Post about makeup and the Great War that surrounds its use or lack thereof. Post about a reason why I support comprehensive sex ed: to protect children. Also, a post on the qualitative difference between a video of the Pussy Cat Dolls and a dance scene from one of Aishwarya Rai’s movies.
My reactions to the Binghamton shooting and the role of economic insecurity; my guest blogger Kate’s thoughts (and a subsequent discussion) on NIMBYism and “welfare queens”; and thinking about how to institutionalize squatting.
This week on Yes Means Yes Blog: My thoughts on the self-serving narcisist who sexually assaulted a woman and wants to be a presence in the feminist blogosphere, Kyle Payne. I celebrate/speculate about how the marriage equality dominoes will fall. Kendall McKenzie published a very long, thorough and good article on sex toys at Sadie, which I reviewed. I rushed out a post pointing to a mainstream commentary decrying abusive prosecutions of sexting under the child porn laws, but I missed a major part of the analysis and corrected it when Cara raised the issue.
Women’s History: Ada Byron Lovelace http://suchcoolstuff.blogspot.com/2009/04/womens-history-ada-byron-lovelace.html A rabbit girl http://suchcoolstuff.blogspot.com/2009/04/rabbit-girl.html Strangeling: The Art of Jasmine Becket-Griffith http://suchcoolstuff.blogspot.com/2009/04/strangeling-art-of-jasmine-becket.html Retro-inspired with a sexy, feminine fit, Joan Hand Stroh’s aprons have been featured in Shop Smart Magazine and on Good Morning America. http://suchcoolstuff.blogspot.com/2009/04/momomadeit.html Jessica just launched the Kunklebaby Organics Collection featuring hand-printed fabric with her artwork designs. Happy Baby-Happy Earth! http://suchcoolstuff.blogspot.com/2009/04/kunklebaby.html
An excellent quote from my medical student friend, a symbol of home among personal tragedy, and my amusing (at least in my opinion) correspondence with an official at the Savannah College of Art and Design: http://cannedartistshit.blogspot.com/2009/04/embroider-this-on-pillow-or-something.html http://cannedartistshit.blogspot.com/2009/04/beauty-among-death.html http://cannedartistshit.blogspot.com/2009/03/local-girl-makes-good-sticks-it-to-man.html
Two reactions to the recent marriage equality victories: The first one…may or may not involve MS Paint. The second one is a line-by-line takedown of that NOM ad. You know, the one with the storm of gayness and being scared of CGI gay lightning.
I just started a little blog as a place for me to ramble about links between academic analysis and pop culture, and here I do some thinking aloud about my problematic love of movies that tend to run counter to my feminist sensibilities.
I posted a translation of an article written about my work in Ma’arav Magazine by Israeli Art Historian David Sperber. Frida Kahlo at the synagogue: Maya Escobar and the young Jewish-American Creation In the first short film in the series she appears dressed up as the Mexican artist Frida Kahlo who became an icon within the feminist discourse. it is commonly argued that Kahlo had some Jewish roots. Escobar is dressed and made up as is famously attributed to Kahlo – the uni brow – while screaming “I am Frida Kahlo, you are Frida Kahlo, we are Frida Kahlo”. In agitation or in ecstasy she tears her custom, messes up her hair, wipes her make up off of her face and returns to being herself. In another short film in the series she carries on with a monologue of a jewish orthodox woman. The text here is so exact that for a minute the line between irony and slapstick to deep seriousness is blurred. In another short film the stereotypical Latin female as a sexual sensual object is presented, when here too the subject is moving between embracing the stereotypes and breaking them. Escobar is presenting different episodes that she had experienced herself and that deal with her hybrid identity as a woman, as a Jew and as a Latin American.
Why does PETA need to exploit women to save animals? Also, why am I not offended by Seth Rogen’s date rape joke??
I wonder how likely it is that a vacant lot north of Bryant Park will turn into an art gallery (post is actually from two weeks ago…). And on my professional blog, I link to some national coverage of transit cuts (which are impacting cities all over America). It’s good to see that advocacy efforts have gotten this meme into the mainstream, but boy is it sobering.
I blogged more than I expected to this week: She doesn’t get paid?, about Michelle Obama’s extensive free service for her husband and for her country. “Well, there’s not a lot of elections in China.”, about Rep. Betty Brown’s suggestions to Asian immigrants living in the United States. AmazonFail, or, Dirty! about the retailer position on teh gays and teh lesbians. I cannot process this animal feces anymore. about Seth Rogen’s oeuvre of misogynistic projects. Enjoy!
I reviewed one of the worst books I’ve ever read, which was insanely sexist. Basically, you’re either a young hottie sex bomb or a disgusting old woman. Wonderful. I also include some of the horrible purple prose in the book. It’s all quite hilarious, in a sad way. I discuss repetitive learning and low standards in university courses. I also talked about the story of a 13 year old girl with Fragile X syndrome suing a sperm bank for giving her mom donor sperm that caused the disease, and genetically why this is a horrible idea.
From a NY Times article by Nicholas Kristoff: “A distinguished philosopher, Thomas Taylor, reacted to Mary Wollstonecraft’s 1792 call for “the rights of woman” by writing a mocking call for “the rights of brutes.” To him, it seemed as absurd that women should have rights as that animals should have rights.” my (vegan) commentary: http://www.vegansoapbox.com/the-rights-of-brutes-are-now-mainstream/ And… Rape threats via meat promotion… Check out the rampant misogyny, heterosexism, and other fucked up shit said by anti-vegans: http://elainevigneault.com/worse-examples.html For example, YouTubers are telling me “Why don’t you shut up you old bitch, I’ll make you eat my meat.” It’s nothing new, really. I just got a bigger dose than usual this last week.
This week, we take a look at how a South African Muslim magazine has been revitalized by its new female editor, how a Canadian immigrant uses women’s bodies to prove the “I’m not like them!” spiel, how the Financial Times gets sidetracked in its story about Dubai horse-racing, how a Canadian documentary looks at Indian Muslims, and at the misplaced concern generated by the video of the girl being whipped in Pakistan. Plus: LINKS!
I posted an article, “Combating Child Labor – Some Lessons from West Africa” on http://mgjack.wordpress.com I also posted a few blog responses on human trafficking and my publication “The Sudan Curse.”
Check out my thoughts on Afghanistan’s new marriage (aka we hate women) legislation. I discuss the role of feminism and self-liberation within Afghan society, and whether we have the right to intervene in the cultural affairs of Afghanistan.
One of the “Kings of Werribee” gang rapists has gone public with a rap piece boasting about his part in the gang rapes and rape DVD sales. The press are calling it a “sex DVD”. Trigger warnings apply. And in the wake of some rather terrifying local press on what women “should” be “allowed” to do, I’m challenging feminists to support all aspects of reproductive rights, looking a bit more closely about deprecated birth choices including freebirth in Australia.
Given all the religious celebrations going on, I thought I’d try to discuss in more depth than I normally do how religions interact with, and form part of, patriarchy, and how their patriarchal nature distorts even the nice messages they convey. I did this for passover and for easter. And I found a striking example of how master-race ideology was shared by both sides in WWII.
I am putting together a play about abortion. I’m hoping to gather a collection of submitted (anonymous) monologues and write a play to be performed at my college’s Women’s Week. If anyone would like to submit their stories anonymously, please send an email to foxglovefinn54@gmail.com and/or join the Facebook group, “Silent No More: Women Speak Out About Abortion.” The stories can be personal stories of abortion. We would also love to have stories about helping friends/family deal with abortion, what it’s like to be a male helping a female partner through abortion, or even a story about an elderly relative telling their tale of abortion pre-Roe. All stories are welcome, basically. My undying gratitude goes to anyone willing to submit a story.
This is way late, but FYI, V’s post is pure trollage about how women are destroying video games, and it contains a lot of sexist, homophobic, and ableist language.