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Who’s oggling who now?

This collection of photos is captioned thusly:

Magnum presents a gallery about girl-watching all over the world—a truly universal activity. Be sure to read Troy Patterson’s “A Dandy’s Guide to Girl-Watching” in Slate.

Leaving aside everything skeezy about that description (and the far more uncomfortable “Guide” to watching “girls”), the photo collection itself offers an (unintentionally) interesting look at how we gender the act of watching itself — and who we assume does the watching and who is watched. Take, for example, this image:

A man in a bathing suit stands on an outdoor staircase. A woman dressed in a short and skirt sits at the bottom of the stairs and looks up at him.

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Coming Around Again

I’m Jay, and my usual haunt is Two Women Blogging, where I blog with two other women (and yes, we know the math is wrong. We can count; we’re just too lazy to change the name). This is my third time guest-blogging for Feministe. Thanks to Jill and Cara and Lauren and Chally and whoever I forgot for inviting me again.

I never quite know how to introduce myself, because it seems like whichever identity I mention first seems like the most important, and the others secondary, and I don’t see it that way. I try to bring my whole self to everything I do, and my whole self is everything I am. So I’ll describe, in no particular order, some parts of that “everything”.

I’m a white, fat, middle-aged, cis, hetero, married Jewish woman, adoptive mom to a biracial daughter known to blogland as Eve. I work full-time as the medical director of a hospice; I initially trained in primary care internal medicine and made the transition last summer after 20 years as a PCP. I’ve lived in a variety of places around the US but never anywhere else. I write about whatever catches my interest, including my professional experiences, the ways in which my feminism affects my interaction with pop culture, comic strips, Judaism and talking to my kid.

I have sporadic access to my computer during the work day, so comment moderation may be slow-ish. Commenters should know that I have little patience for going in circles and even less for derails. I love conversation, but I don’t like being yelled at.

I’m looking forward to whatever awaits us in the next two weeks!

who will survive this storm?

who will care for our children and our mothers?
who will stop the genocide of african american babies. when the infant mortality rate for black babies in the states is twice as high than whites and rivals some of the poorer countries in the world?
who will not turn their heads and speak of easier topics, but stay day after day, birth after birth to watch that our children, too, survive?
these are the questions that keep me up at night.

In comparison to white women, black women are 3.7 times more likely to die in pregnancy, four times more likely to die in childbirth and twice as likely to give birth prematurely, according to the Joint Center for Political and Economic Studies and the United Nations. Even though black women have babies with significantly lower birth weights than white women, African-born black immigrants have nearly identical baby weights to white women and Caribbean-born immigrant women also have significantly heavier babies than US-born black women.

In the American Journal of Public Health, Richard David writes: For black women, something about growing up in America seems to be bad for your baby’s birth weight.

* the biggest myth in dealing with race and infant mortality is that people think that it is the consequences of social economics
* infant mortality rates among college grad white women is 3.7/1,000; among college grad black women is 10.2/1000
* college grade black women have a worse infant mortality rate than white women without a high school education (9.9/1000), in other words black women lawyers, doctors, engineers have a higher infant mortality rate than white women who didnt finish college

a lot of people dont see birth as a political issue. but in talking about genocide, who is born is just as in important as who dies. and so many of us have not been allowed to even be born. or to survive to our first birthday. so many of us will die in childbirth or from complications thereafter.

from the moment that i found out i was pregnant with aza, i looked at the world differently. i started to ask myself, as i know countless mamas have before me, what do i need to do to make this world a place that i want my child to grow up. cause you know what they say, kids grow up so quickly.

and as i read and studied and watched during those quiet months of pregnancy, i came to certain conclusions. for instance that there is little chance for this culture, for this civilization, for this world as we know it to survive. we must figure out how to survive the fall of our way of life. i must teach my child the skills that she will need to not only survive, but to know freedom. and i realized that we are only free, when we are supporting another person’s freedom.

as she has grown up i can see more and more that this planet cannot sustain us, as we are. and frankly, even if everyone recycles, and drives hybrids, and eats local and composts, that isnt, that can’t stop the destruction of our landbase. it will not stop the genocide of our peoples, our species, our lives.

U.S. minority infants are born carrying hundreds of chemicals in their bodies, according to a report released today by an environmental group.

The Environmental Working Group‘s study commissioned five laboratories to examine the umbilical cord blood of 10 babies of African-American, Hispanic and Asian heritage and found more than 200 chemicals in each newborn.

“We know the developing fetus is one of the most vulnerable populations, if not the most vulnerable, to environmental exposure,” said Anila Jacobs, EWG senior scientist. “Their organ systems aren’t mature and their detox methods are not in place, so cord blood gives us a good picture of exposure during this most vulnerable time of life.”

and so i began to think intensely: what will stop the destruction of our landbase and our peoples? because whatever will do so, is what i need to teach my daughter and myself.

and when i mention the maternal and infant mortality rate im not asking for your pity. im not asking for you guilt. im asking: what will save my people, my mamas, my trees, my food, my spirits from being sacrificed before the altar of industrial civilization, so that eurocentric crafted bodies are allowed to live another day. because it is those of us on the margins, who will are the most vulnerable, have the least amount of resources or access, it is us who are razed, sterilized, imprisoned, enslaved, pressed into the service of defending those who never defended us. we are the ones who are sent to war. and it is to our homes and villages to where the wars are brought.

remember when bush said: we either go fight them over there, or we will fight them over here?
remember it was the iraqis who responded: wait. wait. how is that fair? you are going to fight them in our homeland, to so that you don’t have to fight them in yours?
a us american soldier who said after he shot an iraqi child: the parents shouldnt have brought their children to a battlefield.
and another american soldier who wrote in an apology: we shouldnt have brought the battlefield to your children.

this is the way it is the world over, battlefields brought to our children, before they can even learn to speak.

so i ask you again, who will stop the genocide of our people? who will speak up?

who will fight for our mothers and children, who will teach them to fight, who will learn to fight from them?

when people ask me why i am an outlaw midwife, i tell them, because revolutionaries are born everyday. if we let them be born.

Interview: Heather Corinna of Scarleteen

Do you know Scarleteen? You should know Scarleteen, as it’s the most comprehensive, inclusive, all-around best sex education resource geared at younger folk I’ve ever encountered. In fact, I spent the latter end of high school referring my friends to the site and I still surf it a lot. Scarleteen has information on anatomy and relationships and consent and friendship and pleasure and all manner of things. While it is aimed at younger folk, it’s well worth a read whatever your age.

Sometimes there are projects you yourself might want to participate in, like this series around forming conversations about shared experiences between people of different ages (of, for example, abortions, queerness, different family situations, being trans, bullying, being HIV positive). They even have message boards for support and advice, not to mention a group blog! There’s a great series running on the blog called Queering Sexuality in Color, which consists of first person profiles of queer people of colour. Check out their feminist sex ed policy.

Founder Heather Corinna kindly agreed to speak with us. She’s an activist, educator and the author of S.E.X.: The All-You-Need-To-Know Progressive Sexuality Guide to Get You Through High School and College. She also co-founded All Girl Army, a group blog for girls and women from 10 to 25 years of age (the AGA is looking for new bloggers, so apply and pass the link on!). Heather’s personal site is femmerotic.com. Without further ado…

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Another new kid on the block

Hi, everyone! I’m evil fizz and the lovely Feministe bloggers have graciously invited me to share their platform for the next two weeks. (There is a chance you’ll recognize my name from commenting and my last guest-blogging stint, although it was many moons ago). I’m a white, cis, TAB woman in my late twenties. I’m married to a lovely man who has previously been identified here as T, and we have a daughter, A, who just passed her first birthday. By day, I work for the U.S. government, specifically the Army, where I’m an active duty JAG officer. More specifically, I work as a prosecutor. I’m mentioning my line of work because it informs a lot of my writing and gives my readers a better sense of where I’m coming from, not because I, in any capacity, speak for the Army, DOD, or anything like that. Also, it’s the sort of thing that’s going to limit me in a couple of ways: I won’t be talking about presidential politics, Wikileaks, or operational law. And it’s going to limit my ability to moderate comments effectively, not being able to access Feministe at work except via my phone at lunch and all. I take a reasonably laid-back approach to comment moderation and am quite fond of the local commenting policy, but comments which characterize service members as sadistic jingoists are out. In the event that a thread is getting out of hand, please shoot me an e-mail. It’s just my handle (no spaces or punctuation) at Gmail. Questions, comments, outrage, and vitriol can also be directed to that address.

Aside from that whole JAG thing, I’ve also worked in food service, academia (bioethics and medical ethics), and dabbled in teaching. I really like to cook, and can always be counted on to have a fridge full of cheese and Diet Coke, but never any bell peppers or cilantro. I am prone to abuse parentheses with reckless abandon and am delighted to be here.

Jane Austen’s Fight Club

This is possibly the greatest YouTube video I have ever seen. It’s exactly what it sounds like: a faux trailer for a film about a fight club consisting of Jane Austen characters. There’s a transcript below the cut. You absolutely have my permission to repost the transcript, and please do, but I would appreciate a note and link of credit and if you’d let me know!

I’m so pleased to see people who aren’t white in a video like this, and every time I watch this anew I am more and more impressed by the high production values of a video obviously done on quite a small scale! They have to produce the film the “trailer” is for, don’t you think?

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