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Guantanamo detainees have rights in civilian courts. It’s about damn time.

Although I’m not surprised, I am disappointed that this case was decided 5-4. And it’s interesting that John Roberts said the United States offers “the most generous set of procedural protections ever afforded aliens detained by this country as enemy combatants.” Which is funny because the current administration redefined the term “enemy combatant” to basically mean “people who we think have ties to al Qaeda or the Taliban, whether we have actual evidence or not, apprehended abroad and often in secret with absolutely no oversight and outside the rule of all domestic and international law.” The term “enemy combatant” is an old one, but the current definition of that term is totally new. So sure, we’ve given them the most general set of procedural protections ever because this is the first time we’ve ever dealt with “enemy combatants” as defined in this particular way. It’s certainly disturbing that the courts are supposed to be a check on executive power, and instead the Chief Justice of the highest court in the country is regurgitating executive propaganda.

Either way, it’s good news.

Posted in Law

John McCain: No Friend of Women

John McCain has a reputation as a maverick and an independent. But in reality, he’s more of the same: An anti-woman, anti-choice, anti-immigrant, pro-war, same-old candidate. What’s truly pathetic is that he’s only considered “moderate” because he thinks we should maybe consider doing something about climate change, and he doesn’t think we should be able to torture with impunity. When that makes someone a “maverick,” we have a problem.

But a lot of voters have bought into the lie that McCain is a friendlier type of Republican. I’ve certainly heard a fair share of feminist-minded people arguing that he isn’t so bad on women’s rights.

That isn’t true.

McCain is anti-choice — strongly anti-choice. He supports overturning Roe. He has a 0 percent rating from NARAL Pro-Choice America.

Since 1983, in votes in the House and the Senate (where he has served since 1987), McCain has cast 130 votes on abortion and other reproductive-rights issues. 125 of those votes were anti-choice [pdf]. Among his voting lowlights:

He has repeatedly voted to deny low-income women access to abortion care except in cases of rape, incest, or danger to the mother’s life (although McCain is now wavering on trying to put these exceptions into the party platform).

He voted to shut down the Title X family-planning program, which provides millions of women with health care services ranging from birth control to breast cancer screenings.

He voted against legislation that established criminal and civil penalties for those who use threats and violence to keep women from gaining access to reproductive health clinics.

He voted to uphold the policy that bans overseas health clinics from receiving aid from America if they use their own funds to provide legal abortion services or even adopt a pro-choice position.

Of his anti-choice voting record, McCain has said, “I have many, many votes and it’s been consistent,” proudly adding: “And I’ve got a consistent zero from NARAL” through the years. And last month he told Chris Matthews: “The rights of the unborn is one of my most important values.”

What’s more, McCain has made it very clear that if he becomes president he will appoint judges in the Scalia, Roberts, Alito mold. His big judicial speech earlier this month was filled with coded buzz words that make it clear that, if given the chance, he’d replace 88-year-old Justice John Paul Stevens with an anti-choice Justice who would tip the scales against Roe v Wade. Throw in an additional anti-choice replacement for the 75-year-old Ruth Bader Ginsburg, and you can kiss the right to choose good-bye for a long, long time.

The feminists were right

Socialized gender differences are bad for marriage:

Notably, same-sex relationships, whether between men or women, were far more egalitarian than heterosexual ones. In heterosexual couples, women did far more of the housework; men were more likely to have the financial responsibility; and men were more likely to initiate sex, while women were more likely to refuse it or to start a conversation about problems in the relationship. With same-sex couples, of course, none of these dichotomies were possible, and the partners tended to share the burdens far more equally.

While the gay and lesbian couples had about the same rate of conflict as the heterosexual ones, they appeared to have more relationship satisfaction, suggesting that the inequality of opposite-sex relationships can take a toll.

“Heterosexual married women live with a lot of anger about having to do the tasks not only in the house but in the relationship,” said Esther D. Rothblum, a professor of women’s studies at San Diego State University. “That’s very different than what same-sex couples and heterosexual men live with.”

But there is hope — it just requires dropping gender-essentialist ideas:

The findings suggest that heterosexual couples need to work harder to seek perspective. The ability to see the other person’s point of view appears to be more automatic in same-sex couples, but research shows that heterosexuals who can relate to their partner’s concerns and who are skilled at defusing arguments also have stronger relationships.

One of the most common stereotypes in heterosexual marriages is the “demand-withdraw” interaction, in which the woman tends to be unhappy and to make demands for change, while the man reacts by withdrawing from the conflict. But some surprising new research shows that same-sex couples also exhibit the pattern, contradicting the notion that the behavior is rooted in gender, according to an abstract presented at the 2006 meeting of the Association for Psychological Science by Sarah R. Holley, a psychology researcher at Berkeley.

Dr. Levenson says this is good news for all couples.

“Like everybody else, I thought this was male behavior and female behavior, but it’s not,” he said. “That means there is a lot more hope that you can do something about it.”

Feministe Feedback: Sex from a Feminist Perspective

Feministe Feeback

A reader is looking for resources:

While pondering the problems of navigating the rocky waters of heterosexual sexuality with its troublesome past and symbolic meanings, I wondered: are there any good resources online for sex from a feminist perspective? Not blogs, but more along the lines of info sites.
Also, an interesting topic of discussion would be if there are any forms of sex that are essentially negative, or against the principles of feminism, if they’re done by sensitive, equal partners? Or is that ideal of a relationship (being very difficult, while everyone thinks they are in one) just likely to obfuscate what might be problematic sex lives?

Can anyone help out?

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Feisty

Harriet McBryde Johnson, a disability and civil rights advocate, died last week. Read Kay’s post for some background on this extraordinary woman’s life.

One thing you won’t find in Kay’s post is the ableist language coloring the obits in other publications. For example:

Harriet McBryde Johnson, a feisty champion of the rights of the disabled who came to prominence after she challenged a Princeton professor’s contention that severely disabled newborns could ethically be euthanized, died Wednesday at her home in Charleston, S.C. She was 50.

Disabled people who advocate for themselves are routinely labeled two things: “Feisty” and “brave.”

Also “feisty”: Uppity young women and small dogs.

Let the summer of stupid media tricks begin!

Michelle and Barack Obama Fist-Bump

It’s just gotten very hot in New York. Around here, when the summer heat hits, things start to get crazy. But maybe not quite as crazy as FOX News wondering if a perfectly moment of respect-knuckling between Barack and Michelle Obama might be a “terrorist fist jab,” complete with ominous chords. It’s not clear exactly what source FOX’s E.D. Hill is relying on — or if she even has one at all — when she talks about how “everyone interprets this gesture differently” and includes “terrorist fist-jab” among the possibilities. I kind of suspect she just made it up to scare the people in this country who have somehow never seen two people touch fists as a sign of respect, celebration, greeting, or just as an alternative to a high-five. I mean, as Melissa points out, even Pat Buchanan has been on TV doing a fist-bump.

My other guess? FOX News has a quota system for its anchors where they have to concoct at least a certain number of rabid attack-journalist comments about the target of the week, and sometimes the well runs a little dry. Sometimes they have to make phrases up, and the “terrorist fist jab” is born.

On the other hand, maybe some random Freeper gave birth to this interpretation in a fit of lunacy; do let me know if any of you trace it back, because I’d like to know what they thought of Obama’s earlier shoulder-brushing. Does it mean “I’m going to eradicate the white people in this country just like these little flakes of dandruff?” Or maybe it’s a dogwhistle for the homosexual agenda. I’m sure there are all sorts of interpretations, and what is the media’s job if not to give voice to the total insanity of the far right and make it sound quasi-reasonable, fair and balanced?

It’s going to be a long election year summer.

In other horribly stupid news, some bouncers in Beverly Hills decided to throw a woman out of a bathroom and call her “it” because they thought she looked too masculine. It’s the trials of Khadijah Farmer all over again, and a month earlier this year. This time around, perhaps related to the fact that Tanya White is a fairly well-connected songwriter in Hollywood, she’s being represented by celebrity-lawyer Gloria Allred. Interestingly, Allred and White are only asking the hotel for an apology and a policy revision… but I wonder how many times that will have to happen, in how many hotels and restaurants across the country, before gender non-conforming folks can pee without being harassed?

It’s also worth noting that White and Farmer are both female-identified and female-assigned, and therefore have a very good case against the establishment’s notions of gender. Not everyone can rely on assigned sex, legal sex, or photo ID to back them up in situations like these. But that doesn’t change the fact that everyone has the right, and the bodily need, to access a bathroom in safety and peace when they have to go.

Feministe Feedback: How to Discuss Feminist Issues

Feministe Feeback

A reader writes in with a question about how to do feminism in her daily life:

How do you talk about issues that are certainly feminist, but not necessarily button-pushing issues like sex work and abortion, with your friends? I’m thinking specifically about how to encourage my to accept their bodies as they are and to recognize the effect that the media has on everyone’s, and particularly women’s, body image. My friends know that I identify as feminist, and most of them, while they might not accept that label themselves, certainly believe in feminist ideals. I want to bring this idea up, because I am becoming increasingly concerned with the prevalence of body-hating talk whenever we get together. (For what it’s worth, ALL of them are conventionally attractive, so it seems to me that the talk comes more because they subconsciously think it’s expected, even required, in our society than that they actually believe it.) I already tell them regularly that they are beautiful, but I worry that 1) I’m reinforcing the idea that conventional beauty determines female value and 2) they don’t believe me anyway.

Suggestions?

And remember that you can email your Feministe Feedback questions to feministe -at- gmail.com

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New Yorkers: Support Marriage Equality

From a listserve I’m on:

If you support gay marriage…

Governor Patterson has said that NY will recognize legal same-sex marriages from other states and countries. He’s doing a poll on whether people support it. If you’re interested in taking 15 seconds to lodge your support, just call 1-518-474-8390 and say ‘I support the Governor’s directive on marriage,’ then give them your 5 digit (New York) zip code.

Send this to all your friends and progressive coworkers in New York ASAP!

New Yorkers only (sorry non-NY residents). But please do take a minute and call.

Has Feminism Lost Its Focus?

That’s what Linda Hirshman argues in the Washington Post. And, not surprisingly, I think she’s wrong.

FYI: There will be a live discussion about the article here at 1pm today. Join in.

Full disclosure: Linda interviewed me for this article. I’m quoted in the second-to-last paragraph. I really enjoyed speaking with her — it was clear during the interview that we have very different visions of what feminism should be, and we pushed back against each other quite a bit, but it was an engaging conversation. I didn’t expect to convince her or anything, nor her I — and from the article, I feel like we’re speaking different feminist languages.

Linda seems to be arguing that feminism has lost focus by way of intersectionality — because we’re so busy looking at things like race and class, we’ve forgotten about women. Race and class are “divides” that fragment the movement, making us less able to, say, get a woman elected president:

So what keeps the movement from realizing its demographic potential? First, it’s divided along lines so old that they feel like geological faults. Long before this campaign highlighted the divides of race, class and age, feminism was divided by race, class and age. As early as 1973, some black feminists formed a National Black Feminist Organization; in 1984, the writer Alice Walker coined the term “womanism” to distinguish black women’s liberation from feminism, the white version. In the early 1970s, writer and activist Barbara Ehrenreich argued on behalf of “socialist feminism,” saying that the women’s movement couldn’t succeed unless it attacked capitalism. The movement was barely out of its teens when Walker’s daughter, Rebecca, announced a new wave to distinguish her generation’s feminism from the already divided feminisms of the people who had spawned it.

This would have been enough to weaken the movement. But it still could have been like many other reform movements, which manage to remain effective by using such traditional political tools as alliances and compromises. There’s an old-fashioned term for it — “log-rolling.” Put crudely: First I vote for your issue, then you vote for mine.

The mostly white, middle-class feminist organizations could have established relationships of mutual convenience with groups such as the black feminists. An alliance like that might have been able to prevent the confirmation of Clarence Thomas to the Supreme Court in 1991. White feminists opposed him, but he had enough support among black voters — who are heavily female — to induce four Southern Democratic senators who were heavily dependent on black votes for reelection to cast the crucial votes to confirm him.

But feminists weren’t going to do things the old-fashioned, “political” way. Instead, faced with criticism that the movement was too white and middle-class, many influential feminist thinkers conceded that issues affecting mostly white middle-class women — such as the corporate glass ceiling or the high cost of day care — should not significantly concern the feminist movement. Particularly in academic circles, only issues that invoked the “intersectionality” of many overlapping oppressions were deemed worthy. Moreover, that concern must include the whole weight of those oppressions. In other words, since racism hurts black women, feminists must fight not only racist misogyny but racism in any form; not only rape as an instrument of war, but war itself. The National Organization for Women (NOW) eventually amended its mission statement to include interrelated oppressions.

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