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A true pro-life platform

According to the LA Times, Democrats are adopting language and policy goals that reflect “conservative” views of abortion. Which is true, to a point — but more accurately, they’re promoting policies that make it easier for women to make the right choice for themselves. In other words, they’re promoting pro-choice policies:

The Reducing the Need for Abortions Initiative provides millions in new funds to:

• Counsel more young women in crisis to consider adoption, not abortion.

• Launch an ad campaign to inform needy women that they can receive healthcare and other resources if they are “preparing for birth.”

• Expand parenting education and medical services for pregnant women, in some cases by sending nurses to their homes.

• Offer day care at federal job-training centers to help new mothers become self-sufficient.

The initiative, part of a broader appropriations bill, passed the House with solid bipartisan support. A separate measure, still pending, calls for funding maternity and day-care centers on college campuses so pregnant students won’t feel they must have an abortion to stay in school.

Obviously some of these proposals are problematic — most notably the first one. Counselling should help women make the best choice for their lives, not coerce or guilt them into making a choice that some Congresspeople think is best. It also sounds like a sneaky way of saying that they’ll throw more money at so-called “crisis pregnancy centers,” religious organizations that claim to help pregnant women but actually just throw Bible verses at them and don’t do much of anything after the baby is born. I also have an issue with the proposal to “Launch an ad campaign to inform needy women that they can receive healthcare and other resources if they are ‘preparing for birth.'” It’s pretty fucked that low-income women are told they can receive health care and other resources only if they’re using their body as an incubator for something that Congress has deemed more important. Everyone in this country should be able to receive health care and other resources simply because we’re human beings and we are valuable in our own right — not because we’re carrying an ever-important fetus. Of course, under the Bush administration, health care for pregnant women isn’t actually given to pregnant women — it’s technically given to the fetus.

But other than those two things, the rest of the bill sounds pretty good. I support anything that gives women more resources and more non-coercive options. I do think it’s interesting that the part of the bill that helps born people — maternity daycare centers on college campuses — is still pending. I wonder whose holding that up?

But conservatives also accuse Democrats of using abortion rhetoric to sell the right on traditional liberal priorities, such as healthcare funding. Democrats have rejected other ideas that conservatives consider highly effective in reducing abortions, such as requiring women to view ultrasound images of the womb.

“In terms of bridging the ideological gulf, you need to ask: Is this a two-way street?” said David K. DeWolf, a law professor at Gonzaga University in Spokane, Wash., who has advised antiabortion groups.

Rep. Mike Pence, a Republican from Indiana, sees hypocrisy in the fact that much of the new family planning funding will go to Planned Parenthood. The money can’t be used to terminate pregnancies — it’s for birth control and gynecology services. But Pence says it’s ludicrous to send tax dollars to the nation’s largest abortion provider in the name of reducing abortions.

“That’s not a common ground I can accept,” Pence said.

Right. Because if you want to prevent abortions, it’s a terrible idea to allow people to access birth control and gynecology services. Better to just tell them not to have sex.

And how offensive that liberals would use talk about abortion in the context of health care, and point out that some women choose abortion because they know they can’t afford the costs of pregnancy, child birth, and child-rearing. That’s just crazy-talk, and clearly a cover for their radical lesbian feminist Communist agenda.

I’m glad Democrats have finally caught on to what pro-choice leaders have been saying for a long, long time: That women need the widest range of choices possible. We need birth control access, health care, well-baby care, pre-natal care, child care, and supportive workplace policies. Now if only “pro-life” Republicans would get on board and take steps to actually decrease the abortion rate without purposely harming women. I won’t hold my breath.

Aquafina is tap water.

Shocker. Aquafina also tastes disgusting, in my personal opinion.

Really, if you like your water purified, get a Brita or a filter and re-use your water bottles. There is no need to muck up the environment with millions of used plastic bottles.

Washington pharmacists angry that they have to do their jobs

A group of pharmacists from my home state are suing because Washington law requires them to do their jobs. Their beef is with (surprise surprise) having to dispense emergency contraception.

I’m very sympathetic to the argument that there has to be a balance between job requirements and respecting individual religious and moral beliefs. But I’m not particularly sympathetic to the idea that one should be able to take a job and then simply refuse to carry out the requirements of that job, at the expense of someone else’s health. Anti-choice pharmacists argue that EC is a new medication, and that they didn’t know they’d have to be dispensing it when they chose their occupation. If that were actually true, I’d say they have something of an argument. But EC is the exact same thing as birth control, just a higher dose. And I’m fairly confident that birth control has been around for a while, and pharmacy school students and pharmacy job applicants should have been aware that they would have to fill prescriptions for it.

The Washington rule is pretty fair — it doesn’t require pharmacists to fill prescriptions they find morally problematic, so long as the patient can still get their prescription filled in the same visit:

Under the new state rule, pharmacists with personal objections to a drug can opt out by getting a co-worker to fill an order. But that applies only if the patient is able to get the prescription in the same pharmacy visit.

Pharmacies also are required to order new supplies of a drug if a patient asks for something that is not in stock.

Pharmacists are also forbidden to destroy prescriptions or harass patients, rules that were prompted by complaints from Washingtonians, chairwoman Rebecca Hille said.

Kinda sad when we have to make a state law disallowing pharmacists from destroying prescriptions and harassing patients. But I suppose that becomes a necessity when pharmacists are under the impression that they can decide what kind of medication a woman should be allowed to access, even if she and her doctor feel differently.

Pro-life doesn’t stop at birth

Or so says anti-choice politician and GOP presidential candidate Mike Huckabee. Sounds promising, right? After all, most other anti-choice politicians really only seem to care about “life” up until the point of birth, and then they’re perfectly happy cutting social service programs, poverty relief programs, educational programs, health care programs, and other things that make it possible for kids to grow up healthy. So perhaps Mike Huckabee is different.

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Youtubing

Miriam Makeba singing on Brazilian TV in the sixties. Is it wrong of me to want this dress?

This is pretty good too. (The song and the dress.) It’s The Click Song, though it’s actually called Qongqothwane. I kind of wish I spoke Xhosa.

The Disney Princess Industrial Complex is coming for your soul!

Evil Belle

Or, at least it is if you’re a girl below the age of 12, anyway.

It’s come to my attention that toys and children’s merchandise in general has become heavily gendered. (Or at least, and this makes me feel like a serious old fogie, since I was last exposed to children’s merchandise.) I offer, as evidence, these anecdotes.

1. Last week, the husband and I are driving around running errands, toddler in the back seat. Knowing we won’t be able to feed the child at the usual time, we decide to stop for fast food, choosing McDonald’s (I know, I know). Upon ordering a Happy Meal, we are then asked if it’s for a girl or a boy. WTF? How long has this been happening for?

2. Several days later we made a trip to the local aquarium, and were perusing the gift shop to see if there was anything cool under the price of a kajillion dollars (there wasn’t). It slowly dawned on us that every plush toy had a regular version, and then a boy and a girl version. Like, regular black-and-white penguins, but also pink penguins and blue penguins. Ditto sea turtles and manta rays and jellyfish (although plush jellyfish – how cool is that?).

3. Nobody thinks my daughter is a girl. Now, I don’t really have a problem with this and don’t correct anyone when they make the mistake of saying “What a beautiful boy!” I just find it kind of interesting as a Cultural Anthropology nerd that unless she is wearing a dress (of which she has a few, as they tend to fit for a longer period of time than pants,) or is wearing something pink or frilly (of which she has exactly one item that she wears regularly, and only when there’s laundry to be done,) do people think she’s a girl.

Now, it’s not like I dress the kid in blue baseball uniforms or mini suits or anything. Typically she wears jeans or t-shirts from the girl’s aisle of Target. I try not to dress her in anything I wouldn’t wear myself. But it’s like, unless specifically designated as the “other,” all children must be boys.

4. Sesame Street, the last bastion of inclusiveness and equality, has a relatively new Muppet. And she’s the girliest girly girl ever. Her name is Abby Cadabby, and she has sparkly pigtails, a pretty fairy princess dress, likes George Clooney, and talks on a cell phone hidden in her magic wand. Now while that pretty much describes me every Saturday night from 1996 to 2004, it’s hardly a role model I’d want for my child. Especially when there are several really cool girl Muppets on Sesame Street already, namely furry orange Zoe and furry blue Rosita, who is a fruit bat, and that’s pretty cool.

(Although I have to add that I still pretty much love Sesame Street. I’ve seen children of all races, multiracial families, children wearing various religious paraphernalia, visually impaired and hearing impaired children, children who use wheelchairs or crutches, and even, by god, overweight children portrayed as normal on the show, as they should be. Love that.)

But all this stuff pales in comparison to whan looms on the horizon. The Disney Princess Industrial Complex is coming for my child’s soul, and I kind of feel like my husband and I are the only line of defense. How do we keep her from becoming brainwashed, but not ashamed of being girly if that’s what she really feels like being? How do I keep the corporate logos, not to mention the gender stereotypes, out of the house?

These are the things that keep feminist moms up at night. That, and fear that the kid will grow up voting Republican.

Friday Random Ten – the Unlucky edition

The 25th is my most unluckiest day of the month. So I’m glad it’s the 26th — and that somewhere, it’s Friday the 27th.

Anyone else have unlucky days?

1. Beck – I Get Lonesome
2. Tom Waits – How’s It Gonna End
3. Timbaland and Magoo – Luv 2 Luv U
4. The Rolling Stones – Not Fade Away
5. The Bad Plus – Frog and Toad
6. Art Brut – Rusted Guns of Milan
7. Modest Mouse – Talking Shit About a Pretty Sunset
8. The Cramps – Garbageman
9. Death Cab for Cutie – The Employment Pages
10. MC Solaar – Caroline

Friday Random Video: My absolute favorite Yeah Yeah Yeahs song of all time. However, it is a very creepy video.

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Happy “I Hate Fat People” Week!

No, it’s not actually I Hate Fat People week, but it kind of feels like it. A (very questionable) new study says that obesity spreads like a “virus,” and having fat friends can make you fatter. Another says that mothers who work outside the home make their kids fat. According to the Chronicle of Higher Education, obese girls are less likely to go to college. And now Dick Cavett has a thing or two to say about obese people daring to show their faces on television (or just about anywhere). It’s an incredibly hateful piece, and it demonstrates just how bigoted people can be towards overweight people — something further illustrated in a recent Zogby survey which found that 26 percent of Americans believe most people would least want to work with a morbidly obese person.

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