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Estrogen Week

All this testosterone gives me the vapors!

I’m taking a cue from Ilyka Damen and hereby declaring this week Estrogen Week in favor of disproving the silly notion that “fundamental viciousness and self aggrandizement inherent in opinion writing turns off a lot of women” (says the self aggrandizing blogger) whilst we shit-sling and wrestle like the best of uppity men.

Sorry, guys. You won’t be mentioned at least until Friday.
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Fellow Indiana blogger Steph writes a righteously embittered letter to the Indy Star on the recent anti-gay marriage bill that passed the first gate on its way to becoming a part of the Indiana state constitution.

Holy shit, I jumped right in with the politics. Pass the smelling salts.

Alt Hippo takes Michelle Malkin to task for spreading disinformation.

• Susan lauds the British partnership to recruit and maintain gays in the navy. Now gays and women can die for their country too. Yeehah.

• The Appalachia Alumni Association is on a roll this week. Liz writes on corporate parenting initiatives (politics, no?) and corporate accountability, and Hope looks at Rep. Maloney’s denial of opportunity to speak or submit written testimony on a rape and sexual assault bill that doesn’t address emergency contraception whatsoever.

An Old Soul is consistently one of my favorite blogs for coverage of No Child Left Behind and other educational issues. A must-read for any edu-political junkie.

Chris Nolan hilariously skews Kevin Drum’s most recent WAATFPB?: “You’re right about one thing. I don’t like food fights. I normally carry a stiletto. It’s very sharp.”

• Lynda of Available Light chalks Drum up to being another example of embarassing progressive politics.

If I can’t come there, I’m not going. Feministing writes on the Alabama ban on the sale of sex toys.

In the meantime, see the blogroll to the right consisting of almost completely progressive bloggers. Not only are there many examples of feminist-minded bloggers, but a great many have been added to the blogroll.

For an easier read, see Feminist Blogs, a one-page aggregate of twenty or so feminist bloggers.

WAATFPB?

I woke up ready to do some serious blogging and story writing on my day off, but the Flu Fairy visited my house overnight. To make my day even worse, well-meaning, sincere, clueless Kevin drums up the question again: Why the dearth of female political bloggers in the Ecosystem Top 100?

  1. Why, Kevin, you say that like you care!
  2. “Female political bloggers” assumes that the default blogger, or the default politico, is male. If women are add-ons in your eyes, you probably don’t take us too seriously. No? Your blogroll tells me so.
  3. The Ecosystem is highly flawed and based on whether or not a blogger and her comrades can all agree to link to one another. If the sisters link to the brothers and the brothers don’t link to the sisters, what kind of family is Liberalism? A one-sided, dysfunctional family, the kind where Dad burps and farts on the couch and asks for another beer while Mom gets frenzied over the applique details on a Spongebob costume the night before Halloween.

    Judging from the frequency of conservative bloggers in the top 100, it appears that conservative bloggers have the “blogger family values” thing down pat.

The way Kevin repeatedly asks this question suggests distress over something or other, and I think the hint is in the question itself. He appears to be asking: Where are all the good female political bloggers (because I don’t see any)? Oh my, that is distressing.

In the meantime Kevin ponders the importance of political blogs, the answer to which lies directly in his navel right beyond the bellybutton lint.

Clancy, your work is cut out for you. Roxanne, Trish Wilson, Brutal Women, Flea, Echidne, and Avedon Carol take Kevin to task, while I retreat to the couch with a flask of NyQuil.

There’s a Cat In There Somewhere

Pablo is finally out of isolation. He loves it.

Thank you so much to everyone who donated for the vet bill. I have set some money aside for future potential vet bills and some for the humane society. If I don’t get flaky about it, I’ll keep you updated when I give the HS the donation. Perhaps I’ll sponsor them for Blogathon 2005 this May…

I have always found the PayPal buttons tacky and never thought I would use one and actually solicit money. But something happened once I set it up and set it free. I got up from the computer to fix myself some dinner, and when I came back, a very significant amount of money had been donated. I spent the next two hours wandering about my house in tears.

I called a friend and told her what was happening. “Look,” she said, “I cry to the Gilmore Girls. You cry at the kindness of strangers. Who’s better off here?”

But the more I do this and the more I interact with fellow readers and writers, the less I feel my consorts are strangers. And the less I feel a stranger to you.

Last night I caught Pablo napping on the floor. If you look very closely you can discern which end of the cat we are observing. And if you look very, very closely, you might be able to tell the difference between a fuzzy tail and very fuzzy feet.

Thank you again from a happy, healthy kitty and his humble family.

A Great America

I have, as many have, been deeply disappointed by the state of current affairs far before and now after the last presidential election. Only two days ago I saw a speech by Karl Rove in which he insisted, again, that the president has a mandate to do whatever he chooses based on a sad 1% of the voting population. Pat Robertson, only yesterday, declared that Bush’s most urgent issues are “judges, judges, judges.” The recent finds in “Gannongate” have gotten elusive reactions from the White House at best, and straight lies at worst.

Anymore, I haven’t written about any of it because I care about my blood pressure.

Media Girl has written a powerful reconsideration, and a scathing condemnation, of what makes America so great. It has nothing to do with the “ideals” of those above. In part:

The tone was set in the Constitution of the United States of America, which codified a set of principles and rules that have allowed this country to see the abolition of slavery, women’s suffrage, voting rights, civil rights — all tumultuous changes in the moral fabric of our society — without bloody coup or government overthrow.

I see a country that embraced the freedom of people to speculate on their own futures and take risks, free of the threat of debtor’s prison. I see a country that, in facing economic disaster, stood together, pooling resources so that all citizens stood together as a society, secure against the most dire costs risked with uncertainty.

I see a country that mobilized its entire economy and population to fight a war against nations that did not respect citizens’ rights, built up frightening military machines, and dared to dictate to other nations how they should live. I see a nation that, after conquering dozens of nations militarily, proceeded not only to withdraw without claiming any sovereignty, but also gave blood and treasure to help those nations — including the vanquished enemies — rebuild from their ravages of war.

I see a country that, time and again, has faced its dark demons and changed its ways. I see a country that led the world in compassion and generosity, a country that, despite its overwhelming wealth and power, has been admired and respected all around the world.

In turn, she condemns those with attitudes that bank on American “greatness” as license to do whatever American government chooses. They are, she says, “rabidly vitriolic when they confront the reality of racial, ethnic, sexual and economic diversity in this country. They absolutely despise any and all programs designed to provide any sort of community safety net. They abhor notions of human rights in this world. They suppress any and all efforts and the liberation and empowerment of women, here and abroad. And they fear all the way down to their bones the Enlightenment, Reason and Science, and work with all their passion, energy and strength to destroy them to create a new vision of the world, starting right here in America.”

She asks if there is a label for this kind of wingnuttery. I say neo-conservatism.

* They seem to flip the cart in front of the horse, claiming not that America is great because of the great things it does, but rather they claim that America is great, therefore it can do what it wants.
* They embrace and employ the use of torture, and consider human rights “quaint” and inconvenient.
* They quash free speech.
* They embrace “might makes right” as foreign policy doctrine.
* They ignore the importance of a strong economy.
* They treat the citizens of this country as the enemy.
* They work to tear apart the social programs that provide the modest safety net that exists.
* They seek to take away women’s rights over their own bodies and their own lives.
* They endeavor to destroy public education.
* They make a crime not only what someone does, but what someone might do.
* They do whatever is necessary to disempower minority cultures and communities in matters of elections.
* …and not just a few other things, too.

All of these things are built by a culture of fear, a strategy that works in the short term, but rarely in the long term. One’s best hint to this strategy is located in the list: “They treat the citizens of this country as the enemy.”

Many won seats in the most recent elections on their closed-minded interpretations of Constitutional and Biblical texts, and sometimes plain bigotry. One wonders if these politicians and talking heads want their legacies to be based on such bigotry, but in the short term, fear-based trends work far better than social fairness. Further, those whose careers are rooted in such “pro-family” and “pro-life” agendas are rarely called to task for their own personal hypocrisies or are lauded for their “idealism” over their pragmatism. And those of us who dissent are hateful, unpatriotic, traitorous, elitist, naive, or we are just plain silenced.

For shame. One wonders why we continue to invest ourselves in this system at all.

Reasonably Related Reading:
Rad Geek’s look at the Founders intention to truly separate church and state.
Ded Space on John Negroponte.
Netaloid on Big Brother’s Master Human Identification Card that will be forced on the states through fiscal blackmail.
The Republic of T on the disappearance of Queer.
An Old Soul on how research doesn’t matter when it comes to pushing an educational agenda.
Pharyngula on public schools and Bible classes. Together.
Confessions of a former “dittohead,” a Rush Limbaugh devotee.
and
ShutUpAndTeach.org

Corresponding with PEEK

Alternet has set up a new blog syndicate called PEEK, compiling a list of lefty bloggers for the masses. I looked at it late last night and was irritated to see it was more of the same lefty voices with no surprises. WAATFB again?

I wrote last night:

I love your website, so it is with great chagrin that I noticed your new feature is compiling only popular, well-established blogs. There are plenty of other blogs out there worthy of greater recognition, and I hope you will take these demographics into consideration.

And so it’s clear, this isn’t a request to be syndicated. I’d rather not.

Good luck with your new project.

Lauren *****
feministe.us/blog/

And got this response this morning:

Thanks for the feedback Lauren, I really appreciate it. The content and blogroll at this point is only a reflection of our recent reader survey. My list goes well beyond that. The plan is to gradually begin to include
the less established blogs as readers, many of whom are getting their very first introduction to the blogosphere, become more comfortable with the medium.

Please feel free to send suggestions as well…

Evan

So I responded again:

Excellent!

I was hoping your answer would be something along those lines. I think there’s something to be said for the so-called apolitical blogs, though on some level, I think most bloggers are political. But that’s the topic of another letter.

Lauren
feministe.us/blog/

And received this:

Lauren,

Yes, I feel bound to mostly politics for now. But my hope is for people to begin to see that sometimes the BEST ways for the political landscape to change is through subjects, discussions, arguments that aren’t explicitly so.

Thanks again for your comments. Not to get too corny but these dialogs are exactly what make blogging the fascinating and promising medium I believe it is!

Evan

Looks like this guy is one of us. Finally.

I thought I would post this correspondence because I saw several criticisms of the new syndicate among feminist bloggers. I say we take him up on his offer and send a list of suggestions.

UPDATE:
Further correspondence and then some. I suggested a short list of bloggers and then pointed to the Link Portal on Gender in the Blogosphere to give the PEEK editor some context to the criticism he’s received so far. This being only day two of the PEEK blog, I say we give Alternet some slack. They are more than pro-feminist when it comes to their choices of syndicated articles and site content. I predict that they will become more representative of the blogosphere over time.

Or should, if this project is to be successful.

My Dad Reads Blogs

After his retirement, my father took a basic computer course at the local community college. On the first day the instructor joked that he was sure everyone knew how to turn on a computer. My father raised his hand. He did not know how to turn on the computer.

He can’t type with more than one finger. He didn’t know how to operate a computer until in his 60s. He regularly asks me how to add attachments in email.

But tonight I was a silent witness to my father reading Wonkette, Power Line and LGF. I nearly shat myself.

Three Afternoon Reads

Cleis outlines why she disagrees with Dr. Crazy’s “Why Women’s Studies Sucks.”

The NYTimes has an interesting article about the risks Dems run if they don’t tow the line on reproductive rights.

An AIDS activist and mother writes on her LiveJournal about raising a gay son in a homophobic world. In part:

Fag: This is what I heard someone call my little boy today. I didn’t ignore it. I asked. I glared. What did you say? The kid muttered under his breath. Nothing. We walked to the car and he was quiet. He’s a boy who takes everything into himself. When he shares, it’s a gift. It has a meaning beyond what it is…

…So here was my golden boy, born at a time in my life when I was acutely aware of the powers of both love and hatred, chewing his nails in the backseat, trying not to cry. He looked up at me with his giant green eyes. I could tell he was phrasing his question very carefully, as he is such a precise little boy. “I’m not a fag if I don’t want to have a girlfriend, am I?” He was so quiet and serious. I pulled over and turned around to face him.

I wanted to tell him about the time into which he was born, how so many people loved him, how so many people saw him as the sign of a good and hopeful future they might not live to see. I wanted to tell him how the woman who came into my office after he was born wept with him in her arms and kissed him all over. I didn’t take him from her until he was sleeping and her tears had been replaced with a soft smile. “No one has ever let me touch a baby since I was diagnosed,” she told me in Spanish, “He’s so beautiful. Thank you.”

One of the scariest things about being a parent is my fear that my child will be targeted for something that ultimately defines his identity. This short post on parenting and homosexuality is beautiful for its complexity and compassion. Thanks for the link, A.

“Loser” Is Right

I’m too wiped to even touch this one, so I’ll let you guys have at it. Bolds are mine.

Well I may be an unemployed man without a wife or girlfriend still living with my parents despite being over the age of 30, but at least I’m not so stupid as to think that a gorgeous young girl would be the author of a popular libertarian blog. She’d be too busy having fun. The kind of fun found in this post, except it would be happening every night instead of just being a one time event. You guys are so gullible!

Libertarians tend to be ugly because it’s an anti-majority philosophy. People who are attractive have an easy time going through life and derive far too many advantages from the status quo to ever question it. It’s only outsiders, who are usually ugly, who join up with fringe movements.

One thing I learned from this blog is how easy attractive woman have it. When I had a blog as my real self, no one linked to me, no one left any comments, it was as if the blog existed in a vacuum. But things were different for Libertarian Girl. Every day I’d check Technorati and discover new unsolicited links. It was like I had warped into an alternate universe where all the rules had changed. At the rate things were happening, this would have been an A-list blog in a few more months.

It’s funny how there have been some posts in the blogosphere saying that the political blogosphere was a boys club that discriminated against women, as evidenced by how few politics bloggers were women. Boy were they completely off the mark. It’s ten times easier for a woman’s blog to become popular.

This effect no doubt carries over into the real world. Whenever I see an attractive woman with a successful career, I’ll remember the experience of this blog and assume that she didn’t really get there on merit, just her looks.

Let us just take a moment to remember that I, in a very, very small contest, was voted sexiest female blogger – and I didn’t even show cleavage, write about sexual exploits, or something else equally silly. Oh, and that I am a member of several fringe movements. And, despite five years of this, I’m not A-list.

So what’s wrong with me? Oh yeah, the f-word again. Shit!

And this observation was made by a thirty-plus-year-old living in his parents’ basement. A good catch, that one.

via Ilyka Damen