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Oscars Open Thread

So the Oscars were last night, and a woman won Best Director for the first time ever! And that same woman’s movie won Best Picture! Which is exciting, especially since the next big contender was Avatar, which I have not seen mostly because I hate James Cameron and I really hate colonialist masturbatory pet-projects. Lauren wrote about The Hurt Locker here, and Sady covered Avatar pretty well over at her regular pad. Yay Kathryn Bigelow, boo James Cameron.

The big Oscar disappointment for me was Sandra Bullock winning Best Actress. Even though I love Sandra Bullock — she seems very sweet and smart and funny and like she’d be really fun to have a few beers with, because she would definitely be the person encouraging you to eat barbeque at 3 in the morning, and who doesn’t love that person? And her dress was one of my favorites last night, and whoever styled her did a fantastic job. But the movie she won for? And the character she played? It’s White Lady Saves The Day to the max, and I’m just awfully tired of movies about how tough white women come in and save children of color. Or, as David Edelstein put it, “[Bullock won] because her role in The Blind Side spoke to two semi-contradictory impulses in Academy voters: a) guilt over being filthy rich and white; and b) a hunger to channel your altruism in ways that enable you to crush other people on the playing field.”

But really, the Oscars were full of un-surprises, so onto the important things: What everyone was wearing. My absolute favorite was Sandy Powell, the woman who won the Oscar for Best Costume Design. But I can’t find a picture of her, so my #2 was Cameron Diaz (pictured above; Maggie Gyllenhaal was a close second). She was my surprise favorite of the night, especially because she often shows up to awards shows looking… troubling. And she generally just doesn’t do it for me. But she rocked the gold dress and I loved it.

On the dude side, of course Tom Ford was the best dressed:

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SYTYCD Finale Open Thread

We don’t get that many comments in the SYTYCD show posts, but I figured I should start an open thread for the finale so that no spoilers are posted on the other posts.

So if you haven’t watched, do not enter the comments because this is a Spoiler-Filled Zone.

Everyone else, have at it! What did you think of the judges’ favorite dances? What’s with all the musical performances? And, of course, were you happy with the winner?

Open Thread: When Art and Ideals Collide

When we look at art, pop culture, and media on feminist and progressive blogs, sometimes it seems all too easy to force the discussion into a simple good/bad debate: See this movie because it has a strong female character. Don’t read this book because it’s full of stereotypes. This work is feminist. This film is misogynist. This story is racist. This song is empowering.

But what do we do when it comes to movies like Up, which tells a great story with beautiful animation, but also comes with the difficult baggage of Pixar’s seeming unwillingness to tell women’s stories? And it’s difficult to know what to say when it comes to writers like Orson Scott Card, who writes great books but is an outspoken homophobe. What do we do when a book empowers one group at another’s expense?

I think sometimes the defensiveness we see from trolls in threads concerning movies that have uncomfortable subtext is that it’s just difficult for people to accept that something they like so much can also be damaging. I find it interesting how vehemently literary scholars will defend beloved authors like Chaucer and Shakespeare against charges of racism, explaining that their difficult to shallow works such as The Merchant of Venice or “The Prioress’ Tale” are social criticism (sound familiar?). There could be truth in these arguments, of course (some of them are pretty convincing,) but sometimes I wonder if it’s just really difficult to accept that brilliant, creative people who write brilliant, creative stories sometimes carry with them disgusting prejudices and blind spots.

And so here’s the point: I’ve realized that I’m sometimes a hypocrite when it comes to which ideas I love and which artworks  I love.

For example, I love Virginia Woolf, but I am Jewish. When I told my grandparents that I was writing my senior undergraduate thesis on Virginia Woolf, I hoped they didn’t know that Woolf was a known Anti-Semite. Despite having married a Jewish man, she often wrote in her journals of her dislike of the “Jewish voice” and “Jewish laugh,” and this still hurts me a lot. Not only was it so disappointing that someone who so clearly saw prejudice at work in her society’s treatment of gender roles could be so blind when it comes to race and religion, but it made me realize that Woolf would not have truly liked me. Yes, it felt that personal. Maybe she wouldn’t even have considered me a scholar worthy of her work.

I wish it were simpler. The “problem” is that media is created by people, people who often have a hard enough time fitting their murky gray-area self into their own ideals, more so fitting their creative offspring. In the same way that a strong friendship is often complex–we often have things about our closest friends that we dislike–I’ve started to realize that my love of books, tv shows, movies, and the people who make them, must be similarly complex.

I know I’m not the only one who’s felt this way; I’m sure many of you have beloved works of fiction (any media. There’s got to be a better way of saying book/movie/tv show/song,) but feel uncomfortable with it because of its subtext. I’m sure that many of you, too, have lists in your head of famous people, dead or alive, whom you would love to have dinner with, except you know they wouldn’t respect you, or you hate their political views even if you love their creative work.

So let’s talk about it: We often criticize conservatives for expecting art to fit neatly within their value systems. Art doesn’t work that way. Can you separate art from author? Can you separate story from subtext? How do we learn to criticize what and whom we love? Tell me your stories: How did you react when you realized that your favorite author was racist, or your favorite movie had ablist subtext? Do you love a song but loathe the lyrics? What did you do? I don’t think there’s a “right” way to deal, but it’s important to talk about ways we can deal.

Open Thread: Child-Free Resources, Suggestions, and General Bitching

Ask and ye shall receive. Commenter Ali says:

“Not to mention that the logical consequence of bringing society around to the point where being childfree is a non-weird, totally acceptable option is more people taking that option.”

Sorry to threadjack for a second but Jill (or Cara or anyone else), could we have an open thread about this please? I was just refused permanent BC (the essure procedure specifically) by my OB as well as another doctor I called because evidently I’m too stupid at 25 to know that I don’t want biological children. ever. I’ve been shaking in rage and frustration all morning and I don’t know what else I can do at this point.

I know this has come up before on the blog, so this may be a good time to pool resources and share stories. These things go both ways: Women who are considered “fit” to reproduce (young, white, middle-income or higher, educated, able-bodied, etc) are often second-guessed in their decisions to not have children or to delay childbearing — and especially in the decision to go on permanent or long-term birth control. On the other hand, women who are deemed “unfit” to reproduce and/or parent (often women of color, poor women, drug-using women and disabled women) are forced or coerced into sterilization, or legally punished for exercising their fundamental right to reproduce.

So this might be a good place to share resources, strategies and information about how we can fully exercise our reproductive rights in a world where our identities shape just how free we’re all allowed to be.

Inauguration Open Thread

Rumor has it that Jill is present in the crowds in D.C., but the rest of us are watching the inauguration on the tube. What are your thoughts on the switch in power? Chris Matthews’ wacky commentary? Joe Biden’s goofy smile? Hillary Clinton’s cabinet seat? Bill Clinton’s yellow scarf? George Bush’s final exit? Obama’s historic seat at the table?

Open Thread: Politics, In General

Some quick background on me.

I am a registered Independent voter. I generally vote Democrat, Independent or Green. (This may change, since I have only been eligible to vote in one state election and one federal election.) I have considered some Republican candidates (see: former Maryland Governor Robert Ehrlich) but there was always some kind of red flag waving in my face at the last minute.

In this election, I endorsed Barack Obama. (The entire team of Racialicious at the time did, though we were not expecting to do so. We all prepared our statements separately, for a joint post, and then realized we were all supporting BHO.)

However, due to how the political climate is changing, I am considering submitting an op-ed for why women who feel disenfranchised by both parties should be voting green instead of opting out of the process. I am dismayed that the McKinney/Clemente ticket is not getting more time in the news.

And, what bothers me the most, is how the election news cycle is being framed in this election. I read pages and pages of opinion and analysis, and watch hours and hours of punditry and I am still not hearing the questions that are knocking around my mind.

“Drill, baby, drill!” But how is that going to help Americans now, when we will not reap the benefits for seventeen years? Why are we trying to wean ourselves off a dependency to foreign oil, just to create a new dependency on a stateside finite resource?

“Barack Obama wants to raise taxes!” But how else are we going to pay for the War? (You know, the War they keep cutting out of the budget estimates because it throws the budget off?) Someone has to pay the piper, and I haven’t seen anyone collecting tin cans or growing a victory garden in my neighborhood. And who – on either side of the aisle – has a plan for the budget? And where the fuck is the accountability for all of these punk ass contractors that are wasting billions of dollars for services that they may or may not be providing? (KBR, I’m looking at you. And you aren’t the only one.)

“Sarah Palin’s baby has a baby!” And? Where the hell are the plans for working mothers? What happened to all the discussions on poverty? Where is the townhall on how relying on the “market*” isn’t producing the jobs America needs? What about corporate accountability as well as individual accountability? And what the hell happened to the discussions on Social Security? Did we decide that program is FUBAR? Because if so, I would love to see y’all stop taking that out of my check.

[Oh, surprise! I’m a fiscal conservative. I’ve also lived in the ‘burbs of Washington my whole life and I currently work in a bureaucratic position designed to prevent reckless spending. We have more than enough money to pay for social programs, and we don’t even need to raise taxes. But that’s another post, for another day.]

I feel like there are a lot of comments that need to be made, and conversations that just aren’t happening. So this thread is for that. Feel free to argue/vent/scream/nitpick as you will. Over at Racialicious, we are discussing the RNC and the GOP at large. Here, I would love to hear just about anything. Party politics or social justice, have at it!

*Don’t quibble over the definition of the market here, I have a post coming out about capitalism, where we can yell about the market all we want to.