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Cruelty to Animals

Mark Bittman tackles the pet/farm animal divide in his column today, pointing out the ridiculousness of protecting animals from cruelty when they’re pets, but allowing prolonged torture and abuse if they’re farm animals who are being “processed” for food (warning on that link: it has some pretty graphic descriptions of animal cruelty).

[I]n New York (and there are similar laws in other states) if you kick a dog or cat or hamster or, I suppose, a guppy, enough to “cause extreme physical pain” or do so “in an especially depraved or sadistic manner” you may be guilty of aggravated cruelty to animals, as long as you do this “with no justifiable purpose.”

But thanks to Common Farming Exemptions, as long as I “raise” animals for food and it’s done by my fellow “farmers” (in this case, manufacturers might be a better word), I can put around 200 million male chicks a year through grinders (graphic video here), castrate — mostly without anesthetic — 65 million calves and piglets a year, breed sick animals (don’t forget: more than half a billion eggs were recalled last summer, from just two Iowa farms) who in turn breed antibiotic-resistant bacteria, allow those sick animals to die without individual veterinary care, imprison animals in cages so small they cannot turn around, skin live animals, or kill animals en masse to stem disease outbreaks.

All of this is legal, because we will eat them.

We have “justifiable purposes”: pleasure (or, at this point, habit, because eating is hardly a pleasure if you do it in your car, or in 10 minutes), convenience — there are few things more filling per dollar than a cheeseburger — and of course corporate profits. We should be treating animals better and raising fewer of them; this would naturally reduce our consumption. All in all, a better situation for us, the animals, the world.

Yes. And that doesn’t even touch on how cruel the industry is to its human workers.

I’m not a vegetarian, and I don’t plan on going fully vegetarian any time soon (although I was pescatarian for about 10 years). Instructing people to go full veggie isn’t going to work — a lot of people don’t know how to prepare vegetarian-centered food, a lot of people want to eat the foods they grew up eating, and a lot of people like the taste of meat (or are at least used to it). A lot of people also (and this is my personal reason) view food as a fundamental pleasure, and see it as something to be experimented with and shared and tried and tasted in all of its forms. The idea of removing a major source of food from the list of options isn’t going to fly if you believe that food is for something more than just to fill you up. But that pleasure-centered view of food — that it’s not just fuel, but also something that should nourish your body well and should be variable and exciting — actually lends itself pretty well to reduced meat consumption, because it inherently requires you to eat and cook outside of your comfort zone which, for a lot of people, means non-meat dishes.

Bittman isn’t saying that we have to forgo meat completely. Just that eating meat every day is not the greatest, for animals or the environment (or, frankly, for your body). And that if you’re going to eat meat, paying the actual cost of that meat is crucial — that is, getting your meat from sustainable farms that aren’t wildly subsidized by both the U.S. government and their own irresponsible and cruel practices.

All of these things, of course, are not possible for everyone. Cheap meat is cheap for a reason, but it’s all a lot of people can afford; if there are five mouths at the table, a larger quantity of cheap meat makes more sense than a small bit of sustainably-farmed meat. Cooking takes time and clean-up takes time, so sometimes take-out or fast food is easier. Fresh fruits and vegetables are often pricey or not available. Etc etc. There are barriers.

But every time these conversations around food happen at places like Feministe, there seem to be two camps: the People Must Revamp Their Lives camp (who suggest, for example, that it’s totally easy for an entire family to go vegan) and the People Cannot Do Anything More camp (who suggest that everyone is trying as hard as they can and any suggestion that people should make incremental changes is shaming and harmful). And I think both of those views are kind of ridiculous. Are there very real barriers in the way of people being able to eat healthy? Yes, absolutely. Is it possible for every individual to be a perfect eater at all times? No, of course not. But are there small changes that most people can reasonably make, if they are given the tools to make them? Yes. Many of those tools have to come from something bigger than the individual — we need the time to cook and clean up (not possibly in a culture that values Work Work Work and demands that low-wage workers work two or three jobs to stay afloat); access to healthy foods (often not the case if you live in a place where the local stores just don’t carry fresh fruits and vegetables); and access to affordable foods (which doesn’t happen when the government subsidizes the worst agro-businesses, which artificially lower the cost of the unhealthiest, most over-processed “food” out there, and when big corporate food entities have a lot of political sway).

But I want to push back on the “no individual changes can be made” argument a little, because I think it’s both wrong and condescending. There’s rarely nothing that we can do on an individual level (and sometimes there really is nothing; if that’s the case, then ok). Usually the things we can do are very small, but small isn’t nothing. One thing I’ve found particularly helpful, since I’m single, is cooking with friends. I teach P how to make mussels, she teaches me how to make beans and spicy quinoa, we both learn something new and get a good meal out of it. I also go to the Times Recipes for Health and Bittman’s own Minimalist column to get food ideas, often based around whatever I have in my kitchen. And the more I cook based on recipes, the more I understand how to cook without them, and the easier it is for me to just throw some things in my kitchen together and make it taste good.

Cooking more also illustrates how much easier it is, a lot of the time, to make vegetarian food. So I eat vegetarian most days of the week, and don’t have to make a conscious effort to do “meatless mondays” — a meat-based meal is the unusual one. It’s healthier, and a lot cheaper.

Again, the eating habits of a single 20-something Brooklynite are obviously not translatable to everyone (or even most people). I’m not suggesting that everyone eat like me (or even that I’m a near-perfect eater most of the time. I’ve been known to eat a block of cheese and a bottle of wine for dinner. Yesterday I had a cheeseburger, a taco and a cupcake for lunch. I’m not a perfect eater by any stretch). But crucial for me in developing as someone who tries to be somewhat health- and socially-conscious about what they purchase and put in their body has been information-sharing. It’s been reading about the industrial food industry and its cruelty and its environmental and human devastation, and also gathering recipes that allow me to use healthy ingredients, and also choosing restaurants that ethically source their meat, and also pooling knowledge with friends and learning how to cook hands-on. It’s little things — it’s having Monday TV and cooking-dinner nights with friends instead of going out or ordering in. It’s cooking dinner together on Friday and then just going out for drinks. It’s going through my kitchen and seeing what I have and what I can make from it rather than hitting the grocery store or the deli. It’s getting an apple when I’m hungry instead of a cookie. It’s walking a few extra blocks to the green market for my vegetables. These are things that a lot of people already do; for me, they’re small shifts that are manageable in my daily life.

So, my question is: What do you do? How do you negotiate being a socially conscious person (which I assume you are if you’re reading this blog) with the very real day-to-day need to feed yourself and perhaps your family on a set income in a particular place? The point isn’t to say that because you do something, everyone else can, too; it’s to recognize that we all make efforts and we make them in particular contexts, and perhaps by sharing our best practices, we can learn and adopt some new ones.

The least happy person in America

Who is she? “[A] 4’10”, middle-aged Muslim woman without children who is separated from her husband and earns under $12,000 a year. She’s also an unemployed manufacturing worker in West Virginia.”

By contrast, the happiest person in America (statistically-speaking, of course) is “a tall, Asian-American, observant Jew who is at least 65 and married, has children, lives in Hawaii, runs his own business and has a household income of more than $120,000 a year.”

Here is your chance to make a difference

Earlier this month, I posted Some fabulous Guatemalan teenage girls could do with your help. You can click through for details of the wonderful work being done. In essence, Voces de Cambio, the only all-girls afterschool program in the country, needs funds to run a new video program. Volunteer Lucas says Voces de Cambio ‘helps encourage participants to construct a new social narrative, one in which they occupy equal and authentic voices within their communities’.

The program needs $7500 (USD) in order to run. The current pledges are about half that. The funding mechanism that they are using is such that if even a dollar less than $7500 is pledged by 22 March, they will get nothing.

Nurturing the imaginations and hearts of young women is of vital importance. We all know the deep importance of being allowed to tell our stories, of sharing our ideas about the world. That’s how people thrive. It’s a project well worth supporting for that reason.

Let me put this another way. Official figures, according to the BBC, put the murder rate of Guatemalan women in 2010 at 685. Six hundred and eight-five women. Less than 4% of murder cases end in conviction. Now, I’m not in the Guatemalan government or judiciary, and there’s not a whole lot I can do to make that right. But here is an opportunity to help foster the voices of young women in this context, in those same communities, young women who really, really need it.

So, there are a couple of things you can do. You can pledge any amount of money over $1 by 22 March. I know this is not viable for all of you, readers, and that’s okay. What else you can do is spread the message to your networks. Post a link on Twitter or Facebook. Send some emails. Tell your friends. We all share silly links all the time, and this is something really important: this is a singular and vital project.

You all have big hearts, and I know that we as a community can get this done. I can’t bear the thought of these young women being denied such a great opportunity to create and speak because they went short a couple of thousand dollars.

These girls really could do with the help. Please pledge if you can, and, either way, spread the word.

Women lead in unpaid work

Women earn less than men for similar work, and also do more work for free. Around the world, women spend more time on childcare, cooking and cleaning — all for no pay — than men.

On child care in particular, mothers spend more than twice as much time per day as fathers do: 1 hour 40 minutes for mothers, on average, compared to 42 minutes for fathers.

The numbers vary, of course, depending on whether each parent also has a paid job, but perhaps not by as much as you’d think, especially for the men. On average, working fathers spend only 10 minutes more per day on child care when they are not working, whereas working mothers spend nearly twice as much time (144 minutes vs. 74) when not working.

Female hourly-wage workers also aren’t paid as well as men for similar work.

Where are you from? Part 3

Previously: Part 1 and Part 2.

Who gets asked where they’re from?

My mother is asked this all the time by strangers in the street. And she’ll answer, hesitatingly, with the country in which she lived prior to coming here, because that’s what people want to hear, satisfied they’ve correctly deduced her accent. (Or they’ll push for more, because her looks say something else.) But I’m not all too sure she thinks that that is where she’s “from”. It’s telling that this is generally asked by those with what are here the dominant background and the “right” accent.

Sometimes, I’m sure, it’s a question intended to be polite, interested, and inclusive. It’s not for people like me, however; it’s as loaded as a question can be. When I’m asked where I’m from, I feel my confidence and belonging drain from the atmosphere into a tight little ball in my belly. The way that I and many other non-white people experience this question is of extreme rudeness. The asker is trying to mark out our difference for their own curiosity, out of sheer entitlement. We must become all about our otherness, our elsewhereness.

Because the crux of “where are you from?” is that the person being asked is assumed to be from elsewhere. We are never allowed to belong here, and it’s only our history elsewhere, which may or may not exist, that matters. We’re always other. Upon being asked this question, I feel as though my life lived here doesn’t matter, that I’ve been presumptive in taking on any kind of identification with where I live. This town, this country: only for the white folks. Asking this question is a way of levering someone out of their space and belonging.

If you live in a space like I do, where there is a strong sense of a singular national unity and identity, there’s a whole other set of implications.

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‘And for how long will we let ideological agendas kill women in silence?’

I want to share with you a speech given by a young Moroccan doctor and sexual and reproductive rights activist by the name of Imane Khachani. I’ve been extremely fortunate in securing an interview with Dr Khachani – ! – which I’ll share with you quite as soon as it’s conducted. This is a video I found during the course of my research, and it’s well worth a viewing. A transcript follows.

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Who has the power to fix the system here?

There’s a piece in the Zambia Daily Mail by Zangose Chambwa called Work hard, First Lady tells women. The second sentence is as follows:

Mrs Banda said women should not wait to be appointed because of men feeling pity for them, but should showcase their hardwork.

And then:

“Zambia has women who have excelled in many fields, and it is cardinal for them to work extra hard and take up decision-making positions on merit,” she said.

Hmm. Well, I don’t know how accurately the first quote represents what Thandiwe Banda actually said, and I like the gist of a lot of what she says in the article, so my beef is not with her in particular. I’ve got to take issue with the second quote, or, rather, the narrative into which it is playing.

Is it important for decision-making positions to be taken up by those who merit them? Definitely: a nation needs competent decision-makers. My beef is with the idea that women are obliged to work ‘extra hard,’ to ‘showcase’ their efforts, in order to show everyone that they are worthy. I don’t think that women owe the world extra effort in order to make up for the shortfall of a system oppressing them. I think women should have to work the same amount as anybody, be as talented as anybody, to succeed.

It’s not that women aren’t working hard enough and don’t merit particular positions. It’s that, although a woman might be making the same amount of effort as other candidates, she doesn’t get the position because she is a woman. It’s not up to women to fix that; they’re already working hard. It’s up to the beneficiaries of gender gaps, that unfairness, to fix them: the men with those decision-making powers.

Implicit in the idea that women wait to be appointed ‘because of men feeling pity for them’ is the idea that women aren’t really worthy of those appointments, anyway, and that men are under no obligation to lift a finger in the name of gender equality. That’s not so. Women are simply waiting to be appointed.

Women are already working quite hard, thank you very much. It’s time to shift the obligation to make those efforts towards gender equality from those who have to make them to those who ought to be.

Sending mentally ill people to Siberia

He’s really really old and has therefore earned the right to say what he thinks” doesn’t really apply when the old person in question suggests sending mentally ill people to Siberia so that they can die of exposure, and when he says that Hitler did something right. Especially when the person in question is a New Hampshire Republican state senator, whose views actually determine what programs — and what kind of people — receive state funding.