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American Exceptionalism and You

Talking with a lovely Canadian the other day, we were discussing a really common problem we encounter on the Internet: The assumption that all readers are from the United States, and thus have a detailed understanding of issues that pertain to the United States and are deeply interested in these issues.

There’s a term, ‘American exceptionalism,’ that is used to describe some of the interesting social and political attitudes that surround the United States. Officially, it has to do with the idea that the United States is somehow exceptional or special, occupies a special position on the global stage by virtue of its accomplishments, deserves a special place in history because it’s just so darn unique. None of these things are true, but they directly contribute to the way the United States engages in foreign policy and interacts with other nations, behaving as the self appointed playground monitor that can do no wrong.

And this plays out in the way that people in the United States interact with the rest of the world as well. There’s a dominance that happens; US English is assumed to be the primary mode of communication, for example. Sites assume that readers can access Hulu videos (only available in the United States, but you already knew that, right?). Or that all readers are up on current political events in the United States. There’s also an implication that everyone from the United States has shared values and life experiences that acts to erase many people.

This very term, ‘American exceptionalism,’ speaks to the special place that the US thinks it occupies. Did you know that there are 36 countries in the Americas? That the Americas span two whole continents and the Caribbean? That US English is not the only language spoken in the Americas? Yet, the United States has coopted this term, ‘American,’ all for itself. Some people have even taken special care to weaponise this term in the immigration debate, demanding that the United States should be closed to people who aren’t ‘American.’

Assuming that everyone is from the United States doesn’t just erase the identities, interests, and concerns of people who are not from the United States. It also makes it fundamentally challenging for people to engage with content on US-centric sites. The assumptions that they will know about things slung about quite casually with no context or background get really frustrating; who wants to Wikipedia their way through a blog post to understand what in the hell is going on? Not I, that is for sure.

And I note that when people who are not from the United States write, they often do so with a global audience in mind. They explain things as they go along. They provide context and information so that people can understand what they are reading. They add insight and commentary. They do not assume that readers will understand the ins and outs of their political systems or will know the titles of laws by heart or will understand coded references to historical events. As a reader in the United States, I still sometimes feel a little bit lost, in part because of the ignorance cultivated by the way I engage with media, but at least I am not completely at sea.

When I go to the front page of overseas newspapers, often it’s US news that dominates the headlines. The 2008 election was covered in exhaustive detail in publications all over the world. Yet, Britain recently had an election, and it received barely any coverage here in the United States. Many US readers couldn’t tell you what a ‘coalition government’ is, let alone why it matters. Australia has an election coming up this year, but you probably wouldn’t know that if you read the news in the US exclusively.

US newspapers report news in the context of ‘how this pertains to the interests of people in the United States.’ Foreign newspapers don’t do this. They assume that readers might actually want to know about things that are going on in the world, even if they do not directly related to events going on at home.

There’s an othering that happens here too. When I read news stories about things that happen in other countries, it’s all about the Other. Over There. Those People. And The Horrible Things They Do. No matter that the same horrible things happen here in the United States, no matter that the United States might actually have some culpability in those horrible things, some involvement in a history of colonialism and exploitation.

That othering crosses over to interactions online as well, with people regarding nations outside the United States as abstract, exotic places. A certain amount of patronising seems to develop. Even on sites that supposedly have an international bent, the assumption is that everyone is from the United States, as though people from other regions of the world can’t access the site, or are perfectly happy to remain on the margins, to allow other people to write about their nations and their experiences. Sometimes it seems like everything must be filtered through the US lens.

Considering what happened the last time someone at Feministe tried to point out that the United States is not the centre of the world, I’m sure this will be tragic to hear, but, folks? The United States is not the centre of the world. And the widespread insistence on centreing experiences and concerns that are primarily relevant to people in the United States, and to referring to these things as ‘American,’ effectively ignoring the existence of the 35 other countries in the Americas, is really a significant barrier to conversation, not just here, but on many sites across the Internet.

Caught in a bad romance

I wrote not too long ago in semi-defense of the Twilight books, mentioning that part of the backlash against them was rooted in sexism.

I hate that argument. I like dresses and makeup and boys, and I’m still a feminist. I maintain that I can also be a romantic (when I’m not being a cynic) and be a feminist, too. What’s wrong with a feminist enjoying a love story? Must the love story have a twist to it, be something like Jeannette Winterson’s Written On The Body? (And is there a more romantic book than that one? I think not.)

Caitlin Flanagan, our bête noire, wrote and Sady admirably refuted another boring us v. them drama about hookup culture vs. wanting boyfriends, as if it’s not possible to do both. Or to have your heart broken doing both.

But! Romance. And desire. It’s an obsession of mine, a subject of much of my feminist-blogging, female desire is. A few of us declared Female Desire Week on our blogs a couple of years ago, and explored all sorts of parts of it. I think it came out of the 98354674896th incarnation of The Blow Job Wars, in which certain self-declared “Radical” feminists informed some of us that we were insufficiently radical because we might still have sex with men.

Not gonna fight that battle here. No, really. Probably shouldn’t have brought it up.

ANYWAY.

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Girl hospitalized after self-inducing abortion

This story is horrific. A 13-year-old girl was impregnated by her 30-year-old “boyfriend,” with whom she had been having a sexual relationship with for a year, and tried to self-induce an abortion with a pencil. She is currently hospitalized, and the boyfriend is in jail.

I’m not sure what more can even be said about this case. I don’t believe that sex between a 30-year-old and a 13-year-old can ever be consensual; we also know that many extreme age-disparate relationships involve rape. And yes, this girl obviously needed access to safe abortion care; if she had such access, she wouldn’t have had to self-induce abortion with a lead pencil. Abortion access would have lessened this tragedy by a significant degree. It’s shameful that, under the guise of caring about children and babies, anti-choice groups seek to limit abortion access for women and girls.

But she needed a lot more than that. And her community and her culture — the people who are supposed to tell her that she’s important, that she’s loved, that she deserves pleasure, that she deserves autonomy — failed her. We fail girls all the time. We put girls in impossible, heart-wrenching positions. We give girls little autonomy and few options, and then we’re surprised when they act like animals caught in traps.

Predators like Michael James Lisk, her “boyfriend,” are entirely responsible for the crimes they commit. But this girl needed a safety net, and she did not have one.

Thanks to Jessica for the link.

Hello and Thanks for Having Me!

Hi, Feministe-ers.

I’m Sarah Jaffe, and I’ll be one of your guestbloggers for the next couple of weeks! I have a blog that is rarely updated these days–more often I do my writing elsewhere.

I’m a journalist by trade, but I do dearly love blogging and so when the Feministe crew offered me a guestblogger slot, I figured it was a good time to make myself actually jump back into this mindframe again. By day, I run the website for GRITtv with Laura Flanders, which is, if you’re not familiar, a progressive/feminist television program on satellite, cable, and public stations as well as on the web. I’m ridiculously lucky to have a job in media at this time, and I spend a lot of time thinking about the changing journalistic/media landscape, as well as my role in it. I may wind up blogging about this more.

Other things I do: I am deputy editor at GlobalComment.com, I have written for Bitch and Bust, The American Prospect and the Nation. I love pop culture as much as I love politics, and politics are pretty depressing these days, so I’m looking forward to doing some more feminist cultural criticism, which is the pretentious name I give to posts where I argue for the feminist significance of Robyn or David Bowie (both are coming).

I’m a white, Jewish, heterosexual, overeducated, employed, tattooed, loudmouthed cis woman living in Brooklyn. I am a whole bunch of media cliches, but I try to break through a few of them. I have a pretty liberal comment policy–not much you say is gonna offend me. Oh, and I’m a gigantic comic book nerd and an unapologetic Wearer Of Red Lipstick.

I am ridiculously busy, so I can’t promise to be the world’s most prolific guestblogger, but I will try to make it fun.

Nice to meetcha.

Making My Introductions

Greetings, Gentle Readers!

The Feministe crew generously (and perhaps unwisely, given my penchant for incendiary rhetoric) invited me to pollute their front page for two weeks. I’m s.e. smith, and you may know me from this ain’t livin’, my personal website, or FWD/Forward, where I am a founding contributor. I am very honoured to be invited on as a guest here; one of my favourite features at Feministe is the summer guest blogging, where I get introduced to a lot of new and interesting voices, and it’s quite exciting to get to be one of them.

What Will I Be Writing About Here?

I’ll be writing about an assortment of things over the next couple weeks. Some things are going to be explicitly feminist in the traditional sense, like a piece asking why it is that on mixed-gender creative teams in television, the women are blamed for failures and the men are blamed for the successes.

Others are things that I think are feminist issues, but are not as widely covered on feminist sites. I’m interested in everything from environmental issues to prison reform, and I would be remiss if I didn’t take advantage of the Feministe platform to get some of you reading and thinking about these issues in the limited time I have. For some of you, I may be expanding perspectives. For others, I’ll be going over tired old ground. I hope that for all of you, it will at least be interesting!

How Come Comments Are Closed?

There’s a thing that happens in online spaces that gets particularly exacerbated with guest bloggers. People don’t do a lot of reading and thinking, and they do a lot of talking instead. People gloss over posts to get in with a comment without really processing or weighing the material. They shout over each other in comments. Soon, arguments erupt that have nothing to do with the original content of the post. And sometimes, communities can be quite harsh on guest bloggers. We are new voices, we are unfamiliar, we challenge people by bringing in discussions of issues that haven’t been centred or addressed before.

So, I’m turning comments off. It doesn’t mean I don’t love you or that I don’t think you have anything to say. It just means that I really want you to read, consider, weigh over, and think about what I have to write about. I want to force the conversation to slow down. I want to break out of the cycle of reactionary responses and break into the cycle of an actual discussion, which is why I want you to really listen (read).

I live at the intersections of a number of oppressions; I am disabled, I am a nonbinary trans person, I am queer, I am fat. Voices like mine tend to get drowned out and silenced a lot, which is why we carve out spaces of our own. Feministe has very kindly offered me a soapbox for two weeks, and I’m going to use it.

We shall see how things go. I may open up comments on my final post to give people an opportunity to talk about some of the things I bring up. These posts are not the last chapters in a book and the discussion didn’t begin, and won’t end, here at Feministe. Closing comments gives all of us a chance to take a step back, and I am very grateful to the Feministe crew for allowing me to do that.

Many thanks again to Feministe for hosting me. I’m really looking forward to my time here!

Shameless Self-Promotion Sunday

Post a short description of something you’ve written this week, along with a link. Make it specific — don’t just link your whole blog.

Project Guest-Blogger 2010

It’s that time of year again, when we invite some of our favorite bloggers, writers and activists to guest-post at Feministe. This year, we’ve invited about 30 people to participate. Each writer will blog for two weeks, about whatever they please. We have an amazing line-up, and we think you’ll all be really excited to see who’s posting over the next three months. We will let them introduce themselves, but trust us: It’s going to be a great summer.

But because guest-blogging also means that we have a whole bunch of new people camping out on Feministe grounds, we have come up with some ground rules and general guidelines to make sure that we maintain a thoughtful and productive comment section.

1. Please think of our guest-bloggers as invited guests who are staying over at our house, and think of yourself as a friendly neighbor dropping by. Show them the attendant respect. All of the permanent Feministe bloggers will have far less patience with rudeness to guest-bloggers than we have even to rudeness directed at us. Engaging with and even challenging the posts is always ok — just do it respectfully and in good faith. If you aren’t sure that your comment achieves that, please refrain from posting it.

2. Know that guest-bloggers are fully allowed to moderate their own comment sections. Some of them will have stricter moderation rules than others. Some of them will have looser rules. These rules will not always accord exactly with what you expect from the regular Feministe bloggers. Know that the Feministe comment policy still applies, but that each blogger will have a slightly different style and you may not like it. If you don’t like a particular blogger’s moderation style, we suggest reading their posts and just skipping over the comment sections.

3. Know that the guest-bloggers have a wide range of histories, backgrounds, viewpoints, politics and feminisms (and non-feminisms). Part of the point of the guest-blogger series is to introduce Feministe readers to different perspectives and new writers. Not all of the guest-bloggers are going to have views that accord exactly with what you’re used to seeing on Feministe. That’s a good thing! We can all learn and be challenged and hopefully move forward.

4. Know that the guest-bloggers have been given full reign to write about whatever they want. Some of them were selected precisely because they write about things other than feminism. Complaints that they are not covering what you think is important, or questions of “Why is this on a feminist blog?” can be answered right now: Because that’s what we, the Feministe team, wanted. We wanted a wide range of topics to be covered. We wanted to cover some topics that are not, at first glance, glaringly feminist. You are welcome to skip posts that don’t appeal to you. And you are welcome to blame the regular Feministe bloggers for the occasional non-feminist post! But do blame us, not our guests.

5. Be conscientious of what you may not know. The guest-bloggers, as stated above, come from a wide variety of backgrounds. Take care not to assume a writer’s gender, race, physical ability, religion, sexual orientation, location, citizenship status, nationality, history, etc.

6. Finally, have fun! Learn some new stuff. Add some new blogs to your RSS feed or google reader or blogroll. This is our favorite time of the year, and we hope you enjoy it as much as we do.

-The Feministe Team

How to Know You’re Dating a Racist

In response to this atrocious piece about How to Date an Indian (Make daal! Watch Bollywood movies! Learn a phrase in Hindi! Dance!), Samhita gives us a helpful guide to know if you’re dating a racist. Basically, if you just love Indian people so much that you think it’s cool to assume that the more than 1 billion people of Indian ancestry all act basically the same way and like basically the same things? And if you manage to take things that pretty much everyone in the world likes — Food! Dancing! Movies! Language! — and turn them into Very Exotic Activities when brown people do them? You might be a racist!

Look, it’s great to be interested in the things that are important to your partner, and the things that are part of their culture. But that’s a far cry from “Indians are great and love to dance and they’re so friendly! If you want to date one, pick a favorite Bollywood actor!”

What else do you do to avoid dating racists, sexists and other politically undesireable ladies and dudes?