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It’s a “private issue,” right?

Just when I was in love with opinion columnists, this had to go and happen:

Chicago Sun-Times columnist and editorial board member Neil Steinberg was arrested at his home late Wednesday and charged with striking his wife during an argument.

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“We hope for the best for Neil and his family,” said Sun-Times Editor John Barron.

So is he fired? Suspended? As far as I can tell, no.

I’m not necessarily a proponent of people losing their jobs (or being unable to get a job) because of past crimes (especially misdemeanors) that they committed. However, the standard changes when the person in question is a public figure, as Steinberg is. Should he have his entire life destroyed over this? No. But he should be hit a little harder than “We hope for the best.” I wonder if the reaction would have been the same had he been arrested for child abuse. Even if he does get fired, he can always get a job at an amusement park.

Thanks to Julia for the link.

A Fine Day for Book Nerds

Today in Bryant Park, the New York Times hosted an event featuring several fantastic authors doing readings and book signings. A partial list of the writers: Jonathan Safran Foer, Naomi Wolf, Nicole Krauss, Jill Nelson, Bob Herbert, Pete Hamill, Paul Krugman, Chuck Klosterman… the list goes on and on. I sadly over-slept and missed the 11am spot, which featured some of my favorites (Wolf, Nelson, Foer, Krauss), but made it in time to be first in line for Bob Herbert’s book signing. I love Bob Herbert, and was incredibly excited to meet him:

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Yes, that is Paul Krugman in the background. Awesome.
(It was a Sunday afternoon, and I was hung over, tired, not wearing any make-up and had my wet hair pinned back. Be kind.)

Shannon, my lovely (and from the picture, one would think miniature) roommate bought her parents a copy of A Cook’s Tour for their anniversary, and got it signed by Anthony Bourdain:

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We then went to see Chuck Klosterman, but that little jerk left his tent early and we missed him. Oh well. I still love Bob.

Update: Speaking of books, I most ardently support Ignatious J. Reilly to head FEMA. via Hissy Cat.

For any other book nerd who’s interested in additional readings/signings in New York, below the fold is a list of a couple that I’ll probably be going to at local Barnes and Noble stores.

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Who Needs Roe?

…when rich women have California and poor women have Cytotec? In an unbelievably offensive article, a writer for the Times assures all of us that even if Roe is overturned, we have no reason to fear a return to the days of knitting needles and coat hangers — we’ll have this great ulcer drug that we can use to illegally terminate pregnancies! And the best news — the chances of infection with Cytotec are way less than they are if you go the old-school coat-hanger route. Aren’t we gals so lucky that technology helps us out, and that the Times is looking out for us?

They even have the nerve to title the article “Abortion Might Outgrow Its Need for Roe v. Wade.”

Because it’s not like the government will catch on and pull Cytotec off the shelves, or make it much more difficult to get (I mean, it’s only been featured prominently in the New York Times; who reads that?). And it’s not like there are any problems with forcing women to misuse an ulcer drug in order to covertly terminte their pregnancies — hey, little lady, as long as you can try to terminate your pregnancy, you have nothing to complain about. The shame, you say, of having to get an underground procedure done, and being scared to go to the hospital if something goes wrong? You should be ashamed! You did have sex, after all. It doesn’t matter that you might be married, might already have kids to support, might not able to afford another child, might have been raped, might have been impregnated by a family member, might be 12, might just not be ready or able to handle having a child — you got yourself into this mess, and you shouldn’t be whining about having to undergo a shame-inducing, dangerous method to end the pregnancy. And when you show up at the hospital with an infection or when you give birth to a child with severe birth defects because that’s what Cytotec sometimes does, and the doctor is treating you like a criminal, well, you should have been more responsible.

Cytotec works 80 to 90 percent of the time when administered by a doctor in clinic conditions — it’s not as if women who are getting it illegally will have any problems knowing what dosage to take, or when in pregnancy they can take it. Clearly, this article is onto something — who needs Roe when we can have illegal abortions that aren’t as dangerous as before?

Finally, this is one of those articles that leads me to ask, “What’s the real story here?” From this set of facts, the Times gleaned, “If/when abortion becomes illegal, women will still be able to have them, just illegally.” I read the same set of facts and I find, “Women are already having illegal abortions in this country. That says something about access to medical care for low-income women.”

In 2000, researchers at three obstetrics and gynecology clinics in New York noted that low-income immigrant women were already using misoprostol as an alternative to going to an abortion clinic, because it was easier and less expensive. They got the pills from doctors, pharmacies, relatives and from contacts in other countries.

That gets one paragraph. One. The news isn’t what might happen if. It’s what is happening and why. And what is happening is that low-income and immigrant women lack access to healthcare in this country, and are turning to illegal methods instead of being able to get safe, legal procedures. That’s a story, and it’s a tragic one. But I suppose the plight of poor and immigrant women isn’t so important to the staff at the Times; more valuable is issuing a good sedative to middle and upper-income women — you know, the women with more political power — to remind them that their rights aren’t really being threatened.

Where’s the “liberal media” when we need it?

Income

Since this semester started, with my less-than-usual financial aid and rising cost of living, I have been constantly worrying over money. Today I finally pulled off a way to make extra cash.

Today was a big game day. Purdue played Notre Dame about five blocks away from my house. I invited Anne and her dog over for the afternoon, drew up some signs on cardboard, and propped them up in the street. Knowing the church down the way was charging $8 a pop, and other houses nearby were charging $10-25 for parking, I let people park in my yard for five dollars apiece. Within an hour I had made $50.

I could have made far more money, but whatever. You can bet your ass I’ll be out there next game day.

Marry Me, Katha Pollitt

She writes the best piece yet on the Yale stay-at-home mom article.

Story’s article is essentially an update on Lisa Belkin’s 2003 Times Magazine cover story about her Princeton classmates, whose marginalization at work after having children was glowingly portrayed as an “opt-out revolution” and which claimed that women “don’t run the world” because “they don’t want to.” What’s painful about the way the Times frames work-family issues is partly its obsessive focus on the most privileged as bellwethers of American womanhood–you’d never know that most mothers who work need the money. But what’s also depressing is the way the Times lumps together women who want to take a bit of time off or work reasonable hours–the hours that everybody worked not so long ago–with women who give up their careers for good. Cutting back to spend time with one’s child shouldn’t be equated with lack of commitment to one’s profession. You would not know, either, that choices about how to combine work and motherhood are fluid and provisional and not made in a vacuum. The lack of good childcare and paid parental leave, horrendous work hours, inflexible career ladders, the still-conventional domestic expectations of far too many men and the industrial-size helpings of maternal guilt ladled out by the media are all part of it.

Wouldn’t you like to read a front-page story about that?

In semi-related news (related, at least, to my love for Ms. Pollitt), I will now consider moving to Connecticut.

A Demand-Side Pro-Life Movement

Ed Deluzain, a pro-life Catholic blogger, argues for a demand-side approach to the pro-life movement:

Short of a constitutional amendment banning abortion, and no administration, Republican or Democrat, has seriously pursued that. Abortion is a right. It’s not based on a law. It’s based on the Constitution.

The only thing at our disposal, short of an amendement, is to attack the demand side. We can make some changes there. We can bolster welfare programs so that another child won’t cripple a family, even if that family is African American and poor. We can set up day care centers beyond what we already offer so single mothers can work. We can help every family attain adequate housing. We can provide appropriate sex education and contraception education to kids who need it. We can do a host of things to attack the demand side of abortion, but we don’t.

via Noli Irritare Leones

Blogger Par-tay

Last night, I had the pleausre of attending a blogger party organized by Karol, who was really cool, as I expected.

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It was great fun. My dear friends Shankar of TK (who has an additional picture) and Jess, a feministing contributor, came as well. I wore my feministing tank top to represent.

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And I met Dawn Summers, who is hilarious and shares her name with another Dawn who I don’t love as much. Sadly, I did not get a picture with her.

Check out all their blogs. They’re fabulous. Thanks to Karol for organizing the party!