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Friday Random Ten -the Big Fucking Deal edition

Friday Video: The Very Best! And indeed they are. And indeed they were at SXSW:

You know the FRT drill. Set your MP3 player to shuffle, and post the first 10 songs that come up. My ten:

1. Spoon – The Fitted Shirt
2. Sujan Stevens – Decatur, Or, Round of Applause for Your Stepmother!
3. Built to Spill – Big Dipper
4. Elvis Costello – Little Triggers
5. Mos Def – May-December
6. Clap Your Hands Say Yeah – Tidal Wave
7. The Bloodsugars – Purpose Was Again
8. Dead Kennedys – Too Drunk To Fuck
9. Girl Talk – Peak Out
10. Silver Jews – How to Rent a Room

Amazing Women: Joanie Warner and Abby Mahler

This blog post about mother and daughter Joanie and Abby warmed my heart, and could not have been written about two more lovely, inspiring women. Joanie has been battling cancer for more than a decade, and her daughter Abby has used her love of music to raise awareness about breast cancer and to shore up resources for research organizations. Joanie, her husband Bob and Abby are also long-time family friends — I used to babysit Abby, and was blessed to experience first-hand how warm, loving and brave their family is. So go read the post — and check out the whole blog, which features stories of inspiring women, while you’re at it.

Lady Gaga’s Prison-Yard Make-Out

Sady basically said everything there is to say about the Lady Gaga and Beyonce Telephone video, but I wanted to direct Feministe readers to this interview with Heather Cassils, the Lady’s prison-yard make-out partner. She has some interesting things to say not just about Gaga, but about gender and queerness — and her interpretation of the “does Lady Gaga have a dick?” rumors, and Gaga’s response, seem fairly at odds with what we’ve discussed. Her comments about her own body as a tool of subversion, and her thoughts on how to create social change by inserting yourself into the machine, particularly struck me (even if I don’t necessarily agree that the second one is entirely correct).

Check it out, it’s worth a read.

Friday Random Ten – the Natural Born Killers edition

So obviously this week’s Friday video is this, if by some chance you have not seen it (warning on the video — there is nudity and violence and lots of, to put it gently, problematic content):

…that is a lot of Tarantino and a lot of product placement, and Gaga going on with her latest girl-power thing, and I’m kind of surprised that Beyonce went along with all that weirdness. But yeah, damn. That is a video. Unsure how I feel about it, and Gaga is always controversial, so have at it.

Now, the Random 10. Leave yours in the comments.

1. Lykke Li – Everybody But Me
2. Grizzly Bear – Lullabye
3. Yeah Yeah Yeahs – Shame and Fortune
4. Portishead – Over
5. Cass McCombs – Jonesy Boy
6. Ecstatic Sunshine – Little Dipper Big Dipper
7. Band of Horses – St. Augustine
8. Rufus Wainwright – Across the Universe
9. Ted Leo and the Pharmacists – Army Bound
10. MGMT – Electric Feel

Friday Random Ten – the Snowpocalypse part 30454 edition

There’s a huge snowstorm in New York right now, and it’s making me wish I was still in the southern hemisphere. Ugh. Anyone having a better Friday?

The Friday Video this week is a song that I’ve been a little obsessed with for the past few months — I admittedly think the TI version is the jam, even if it’s not the most feminist thing in the world, but having a lady sing it? In a really fun sex-positive video where she works at Toys in Babeland and her customers include Daniel V from Project Runway and Andy from Weeds? Love.

Now, the Ten. Add yours in the comments.

1. The Pogues – Fiesta
2. Mike Wexler – Pneuma
3. Tom Waits – How’s It Gonna End?
4. Yeah Yeah Yeahs – Man
5. Sally Shapiro – Time to Let Go
6. Santogold – Starstruck
7. Sufjan Stevens – Size Too Small
8. Mos Def & Faith Evans – Brown Sugar
9. Voxtrot – Blood Red Blood
10. Bon Iver – Skinny Love

Taylor Swift Flame

Is Taylor Swift bad for women? The F-Bomb says she is not a feminist dream! Because, well, she is maybe not so talented and she writes pretty much just about boys and she relies pretty heavily on the virgin/whore thing in her songs and videos. My one quibble is the idea that Swift isn’t a feminist dream because there are lots of better female artists out there, like La Gaga, and they should be getting more of the credit. That is true, but this is not a zero-sum game! The music industry is chock-full of really really crappy male artists to balance out the handful of really really good male artists, so I’m cool with having a bunch of really really crappy female artists, too. And yes, I would put Taylor Swift in that category, even though I think she is completely adorable. And for the record, I like my share of really really crappy artists, so if you like Taylor Swift? That’s ok! But songs with painfully trite lyrics like that over sweet little melodies? Entertaining no doubt, but not exactly Musical Genius. But again, that’s ok — women should have just as much room as men to make easily-marketable and widely-palatable musical Big Macs. The problem, of course, is that women don’t have as much room as men in the music industry, and so even the really talented ones either get funneled into the Sweet Girl With a Guitar box or dressed in a latex bikini. The fact that Swift plays the virgin isn’t her fault, personally, but it is a problem with her branding — which is why it’s important to keep the ensuing flame-age focused on the idea that we’re criticizing Taylor Swift as a musical brand created and marketed in a particular cultural context, and not Taylor Swift the surely very sweet and smart young woman.

Anyway, apparently not all feminists are in agreement that Taylor Swift is bad. The point, though, isn’t that we should feel bad for liking Taylor Swift because it somehow damages our feminist creds (did anyone say that?). Just that, you know, as feminists who write on the internet we analyze pop culture and stuff. And maybe Taylor Swift is not the best thing, feminism-wise. Kind of like how Nickleback is not the best thing, humanity-wise.

All of which is to say, I’m with what our girl Sady wrote way back in ’09. And also Kate Harding, because, of course. Autostraddle also has kind of an amazing post.

Although I’ll add that, despite my feeling that Swift is completely precious, I will always sort of hate her for allowing that travesty of a duet with Stevie Nicks to go on at the Grammy Awards. That is Stevie Nicks. Stevie Nicks does not sing back-up. And if she does back you up, you had better not be out of tune.

John Mayer and his white supremacist man-bits

I may have mentioned my hatred of John Mayer five or six times before. He is possibly my most-hated male celebrity. He is also the gift that never stops giving, because his totally bizarre, narcissistic and offensive comments never end. Example of the day: His latest Playboy interview. A few highlights:

1. “There have probably been days when I saw 300 vaginas before I got out of bed.”

2. “My biggest dream is to write pornography.”

3. “I feel like women are getting their comeuppance against men now. I hear about man-whores more than I hear about whores. When women are whorish, they’re owning their sexuality. When men are whorish, they’re disgusting beasts.”

4. “I am a very…I’m just very. V-E-R-Y. And if you can’t handle very, then I’m a douche bag. But I think the world needs a little very. That’s why black people love me.”

5. “My dick is sort of like a white supremacist. I’ve got a Benetton heart and a fuckin’ David Duke cock. I’m going to start dating separately from my dick.”

And that’s not even the part where he talks about Jessica Simpson as “sexual napalm.” Oh J. Don’t ever change.

UPDATE: Renee has more, and it is horrific and involves John Mayer using the n-word and musing on what it’s like to be black.

Friday Random Ten – the Demon Sheep edition

You all have seen this, right?

Enjoy. Not exactly a music video, but I think better.

Now you know the deal — set your MP3 player to shuffle, and post the first ten songs that come up.

1. Spoon – Mystery Zone
2. Timbaland and Magoo – Up Jumps Da Boogie
3. Rhett Miller – Hover
4. Carmen Rizzo feat. Deer Tracks – Shadows Ramin Sakurai (SBL) Remix
5. Maxwell – Get to Know Ya
6. Feist – Mushaboom
7. Lyle Lovett – My Baby Don’t Tolerate
8. Des Ark – Jesus Loves You (But Yr Still Coming Home With Me Tonight)
9. Santogold vs. Switch and FreQ Nasty – Creator
10. Lykke Li – Time Flies