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It’s Tuesday! Waste Some Time

This outfit is so ridiculously close to something I wear on a regular basis, I just had to share. I spent way too much time looking for appropriate hair, so this length will just have to do.

eLouai’s Candybar Doll Maker is somewhat similar to the Make Your Own Superhero app that made its rounds about Blogovia this winter. It’s as incredibly complex but has far more choices as far as the “doll’s” accoutrements are concerned.

If any men are interested in making their own avatars, the app is located here.

If making a Sim was something like this, I’d never leave my computer. This is far cheaper than shopping.

UPDATE: I just noticed there are no options to change the color of skin or the body type. What gives? If there’s one thing that should be easy to add to this game it would be skins for people of color.

Watch Your Info

ISOU points me to a blog where a woman has a fake Adult Friend Finder account, uses it to lure married guys into contacting her, and then publishes their letters on her blog. She even posts phone numbers and names when they give them out and offer to meet her. Like David says, she is absolutely brutal.

And the men? Yeah, can’t work up any compassion for married people getting called out on their adulterous ways.

Watch your information, people. Let this be a lesson to ye.

If You’ve Decided To Use The F-Word

Heart of Canada embraces a new term: androgynist.

I’ve never embraced the word “feminist” to describe my view of the world, and I doubt I’d be mistaken for a Marxist. On the other hand, if I so much as open my mouth in the direction of expressing thoughts about women’s status in society, protrayal in the media, or use in marketing, some readers will immediately reply with the F word — feminist — in retort to what I have said. Some of those readers are women.

Citing the ever encroaching authority of “the nanny state,” these readers seem to want society to put no limits on marketers, and if you object to degrading posts on blogs about women, you will be sure to stir the dregs of hostility into a full-out blogwar. I don’t usually advocate writing laws that restrict what marketers can do. Instead, I expect people to vote with their feet and not support organizations (or bloggers) who reap benefits from exploiting others. There are plenty of fine companies and bloggers out there who don’t.

In day-to-day life, the situation is usually much different. People aren’t so willing to jump out and pin a big F to your chest, but they show their biases in other ways. For example, I have seen men and women alike overtly discount the concerns of women by just denying that they hold any validity or credibility. When I’ve brought up concerns, myself, I’ve had men reply “No, that’s not true,” even to the mostly strikingly obvious of situations. On the other hand, I’ve also seen men override each other’s rights and feelings and have found myself sticking up, at times, for them as well. Accordingly, I find myself feeling simultaneously alienated from and identifying with the word feminist.

Therefore, I’ve come to a decision: henceforth, I shall refer to myself as an androgynist, equally concerned with the rights of women and men, as well as the exploitation of adults and children, particularly in the media. What does this mean? Nothing, actually, because it’s not like I’m going to be actively crusading for or against anything in particular. On the other hand, it will give me a link to point to the next time someone knee-jerkishly replies to one of my posts by using the “F” word simply because they couldn’t think of something less hostile and more interesting so say.

On The Disclaimer Train

Dorcasina takes my disclaimer and modifies it to “fantasize about the kind of disclaimer I could give my students on the first day of a class. I would ask them to read it carefully, then quiz them on the material on day two. Those who choose to stay in class must earn a B or better on the quiz and sign a waiver indicating that they are now fully aware participants in MY pedagogical universe (which I would, of course, call “Our” pedagogical universe).”

It’s hilarious. Read it.

What I’m Reading Since I’m Not Writing

Feministe occasionally aims to subvert the dominant link paradigm.

Feminism
• Via Chaos Theory, a college course on being single.

• Hugo on “How To Shut Your Wife Out of Business

• Media Girl highlights pro-consumer politicians. My state’s Evan Bayh is thankfully on the list. I’m willing to bet that if Bayh ever ran for the presidency, he’d be a shoo-in. Also, “Why Abortions Should Be Free,” where she battles the perception that abortion is the “easy way out.” I don’t agree with the entirety of this post, but Morgaine Swann makes a compelling case. AND, “Equality? Hell, How About Reparations?” Media Girl is on a roll.

Politics
• Shannon posts a Clue By Four exercise:

1) Read a major magazine like Newsweek or Time. If most of a story is about white people, from a white viewpoint (like a white person talking about the situation in Iraq) or features mostly white people, mark that story as ‘white’, but if it’s about people of color from a person of color viewpoint, or features (not just tokens, y’all. They have to be the main character) people of color, mark that a POC story. See the difference?

2) Minorities comprise about 25% of the US population. If less than 1/4th of the major characters (or even minor characters) are PoC, mark that show as ‘white’. See the difference?

3) When going to class, see who is mentioned. Are there any POC mentioned at all? Probably not.

4) Read “See You When We Get There“, how does the white author point out the difficulties of telling the stories of people of color? Do you think that if the teachers featured in this book were trying to get a book deal on a similar project that it’d be as easy? Bonus: What style is the author using? (hint: this probably has nothing to do with race) Double Bonus: Why do you think conservatives have the free time to bash anything that MIGHT make them think?

• Pinko Feminist Hellcat on the “Homosexual Agenda” and Emily on Subtle Examples of Homophobia, Heterosexism, and Sexism.

• Mac-A-Ronies has the “Ho” Story on Jeff Gannon.

When the Bough Breaks: Mac tears apart the notion that the economy is failing because us breeders aren’t having more children.

Fun
• Flea has released the finalists for the Best and Worst Stripper Names contest. Mine was Ms. Kitty Trail, which sounds like something someone leaves behind after scraping her ass across the driveway.

• Language Log on The Grammar of Bullshit. See part two as well.

• Go wish Dr. Myers a happy birthday. Or even better, write something scientific for him and send him a link. He compelled me to take this quiz which informs me I’m all man, baby.


Your Brain is 33.33% Female, 66.67% Male


You have a total boy brain.
Logical and detailed, you tend to look at the facts and while your emotions do sway you sometimes,
You never like to get feelings too involved

• And finally, another quiz:

What Social Status are you?
created with QuizFarm.com

You scored as alternative. You’re partially respected for being an individual in a conformist world yet others take you as a radical. You have no place in society because you choose not to belong there – you’re the luckiest of them all, even if your parents are completely ashamed of you. Just don’t take drugs ok?

Alternative

92%

Middle Class

79%

Lower Class

58%

Upper middle Class

42%

Luxurious Upper Class

17%

Estrogen Week, Continued

• Distorted Dreams suggests an equal opportunity action for lesbian escorts. Factesque posted a related political cartoon.

• Cinnamon writes on gentrification and racism.

Hey, anyone remember when identity politics were regarded as actual politics?

• See Democratic Wings for coverage of stories on women’s rights, foreign policy, civil liberties, and more.

• Ellen Goodman takes on Larry Summers’ teachable moments:

When MIT scientist Nancy Hopkins dropped the dime on Summers, there was a firestorm of criticism. But that was followed by a second round in which he was defended as a victim of political correctness, a poor defenseless seeker of wisdom in the Ivy League madrassas.

George Will tagged professor Hopkins as hysterical, a word which, he failed to note, comes from the Greek root for uterus, thus proving that only women can be hysterical. Other pundits either compared Summers’s opponents to “religious fundamentalists,” accused Harvard of “neo-Stalinist intolerance,” or praised poor Larry for facing down “the gods of political correctness.”

Even The Washington Post editorial page said that if Summers was punished for the “crime of positing a politically incorrect hypothesis” the “chilling effect on free inquiry will harm everyone.” After all, the editorial said, he was “provoking fresh thought on big issues.”

Why didn’t I think of that? The suggestion that women were innately less able to do math and science wasn’t the same old tired stereotype with a sell-by date of 1636, when Harvard was established. It was a cutting-edge fresh thought!

DED Space takes on the notion that Million Dollar Baby is “an insufferable, manipulative right-to-die movie.” Right.

• Cruella looks at a study that discerns the difference between young women’s and young men’s idea of what makes up a good sense of humor: “for a woman, a Good Sense Of Humor means someone who makes her laugh. For a man, it means someone who laughs at his jokes.”

Dove’s Eye View points us to Lebanese Politics for Beginners. Also, Leila is a breast cancer survivor. In this post she shows off her beautiful bald head, inspired by Melissa Ethridge’s recent public appearances with no hair. I thought Ethridge looked lovely. Leila does, too.

• At Whirled View, Patricia looks at America, Europe, and the Iranian Question.

• Rowan asks whether rape in the military is a woman’s issue or a man’s issue. I’d posit it a human rights issue.

• Noli Irritare Leones has moved to a new site with WordPress. Welcome Lynn to her new domain.

All this hard politics! I don’t know how the little ladies do it with all the doilies to iron.

UPDATE:
Breaking my goal to only list female bloggers this week (again), this story absolutely cannot be passed up. Lest Blood Be Shed points to a post in which grotesque militarism is showed off in church:

“A guy was asked by his father to attend a ‘father-son’ event and he brought a camera and was really disturbed to see a place of Christian worship being used to promote militarism and warfare. Even though this guy is a Republican and supporter of the war, he was shocked at the visual propagandistic ritual, which reminded him of movies he had seen about Nazi pageantry. Anyway, his account is not the best but check out the photos – you have to see this to believe it.”

The True Moral Majority

Gleaned from Blog or Not?

I think it’s morally wrong to let children go without health care just because their parents have made unwise career choices.

I think it’s morally wrong for a teacher to make a child feel bad because she doesn’t share the religious faith of the majority of her classmates.

I think it’s morally wrong for the president to lie his way into war.

I think it’s morally wrong to force a rape victim to carry her rapist’s child.

I think it’s morally wrong to rape and torture prisoners of war.

I think it’s morally wrong to execute over 300 people on Texas’s Death Row and then talk about “a culture of life”

Additional tenets welcome in the comments or at Maureen’s blog.

While we’re at it, the lady at Bloggg points out that Senator Santorum is hosting a poll on his website asking, “Do you support the creation of voluntary Personal Retirement Accounts as a part of Social Security reform?” Vote now.

Estrogen Week

All this testosterone gives me the vapors!

I’m taking a cue from Ilyka Damen and hereby declaring this week Estrogen Week in favor of disproving the silly notion that “fundamental viciousness and self aggrandizement inherent in opinion writing turns off a lot of women” (says the self aggrandizing blogger) whilst we shit-sling and wrestle like the best of uppity men.

Sorry, guys. You won’t be mentioned at least until Friday.
___________________

Fellow Indiana blogger Steph writes a righteously embittered letter to the Indy Star on the recent anti-gay marriage bill that passed the first gate on its way to becoming a part of the Indiana state constitution.

Holy shit, I jumped right in with the politics. Pass the smelling salts.

Alt Hippo takes Michelle Malkin to task for spreading disinformation.

• Susan lauds the British partnership to recruit and maintain gays in the navy. Now gays and women can die for their country too. Yeehah.

• The Appalachia Alumni Association is on a roll this week. Liz writes on corporate parenting initiatives (politics, no?) and corporate accountability, and Hope looks at Rep. Maloney’s denial of opportunity to speak or submit written testimony on a rape and sexual assault bill that doesn’t address emergency contraception whatsoever.

An Old Soul is consistently one of my favorite blogs for coverage of No Child Left Behind and other educational issues. A must-read for any edu-political junkie.

Chris Nolan hilariously skews Kevin Drum’s most recent WAATFPB?: “You’re right about one thing. I don’t like food fights. I normally carry a stiletto. It’s very sharp.”

• Lynda of Available Light chalks Drum up to being another example of embarassing progressive politics.

If I can’t come there, I’m not going. Feministing writes on the Alabama ban on the sale of sex toys.

In the meantime, see the blogroll to the right consisting of almost completely progressive bloggers. Not only are there many examples of feminist-minded bloggers, but a great many have been added to the blogroll.

For an easier read, see Feminist Blogs, a one-page aggregate of twenty or so feminist bloggers.

A Great America

I have, as many have, been deeply disappointed by the state of current affairs far before and now after the last presidential election. Only two days ago I saw a speech by Karl Rove in which he insisted, again, that the president has a mandate to do whatever he chooses based on a sad 1% of the voting population. Pat Robertson, only yesterday, declared that Bush’s most urgent issues are “judges, judges, judges.” The recent finds in “Gannongate” have gotten elusive reactions from the White House at best, and straight lies at worst.

Anymore, I haven’t written about any of it because I care about my blood pressure.

Media Girl has written a powerful reconsideration, and a scathing condemnation, of what makes America so great. It has nothing to do with the “ideals” of those above. In part:

The tone was set in the Constitution of the United States of America, which codified a set of principles and rules that have allowed this country to see the abolition of slavery, women’s suffrage, voting rights, civil rights — all tumultuous changes in the moral fabric of our society — without bloody coup or government overthrow.

I see a country that embraced the freedom of people to speculate on their own futures and take risks, free of the threat of debtor’s prison. I see a country that, in facing economic disaster, stood together, pooling resources so that all citizens stood together as a society, secure against the most dire costs risked with uncertainty.

I see a country that mobilized its entire economy and population to fight a war against nations that did not respect citizens’ rights, built up frightening military machines, and dared to dictate to other nations how they should live. I see a nation that, after conquering dozens of nations militarily, proceeded not only to withdraw without claiming any sovereignty, but also gave blood and treasure to help those nations — including the vanquished enemies — rebuild from their ravages of war.

I see a country that, time and again, has faced its dark demons and changed its ways. I see a country that led the world in compassion and generosity, a country that, despite its overwhelming wealth and power, has been admired and respected all around the world.

In turn, she condemns those with attitudes that bank on American “greatness” as license to do whatever American government chooses. They are, she says, “rabidly vitriolic when they confront the reality of racial, ethnic, sexual and economic diversity in this country. They absolutely despise any and all programs designed to provide any sort of community safety net. They abhor notions of human rights in this world. They suppress any and all efforts and the liberation and empowerment of women, here and abroad. And they fear all the way down to their bones the Enlightenment, Reason and Science, and work with all their passion, energy and strength to destroy them to create a new vision of the world, starting right here in America.”

She asks if there is a label for this kind of wingnuttery. I say neo-conservatism.

* They seem to flip the cart in front of the horse, claiming not that America is great because of the great things it does, but rather they claim that America is great, therefore it can do what it wants.
* They embrace and employ the use of torture, and consider human rights “quaint” and inconvenient.
* They quash free speech.
* They embrace “might makes right” as foreign policy doctrine.
* They ignore the importance of a strong economy.
* They treat the citizens of this country as the enemy.
* They work to tear apart the social programs that provide the modest safety net that exists.
* They seek to take away women’s rights over their own bodies and their own lives.
* They endeavor to destroy public education.
* They make a crime not only what someone does, but what someone might do.
* They do whatever is necessary to disempower minority cultures and communities in matters of elections.
* …and not just a few other things, too.

All of these things are built by a culture of fear, a strategy that works in the short term, but rarely in the long term. One’s best hint to this strategy is located in the list: “They treat the citizens of this country as the enemy.”

Many won seats in the most recent elections on their closed-minded interpretations of Constitutional and Biblical texts, and sometimes plain bigotry. One wonders if these politicians and talking heads want their legacies to be based on such bigotry, but in the short term, fear-based trends work far better than social fairness. Further, those whose careers are rooted in such “pro-family” and “pro-life” agendas are rarely called to task for their own personal hypocrisies or are lauded for their “idealism” over their pragmatism. And those of us who dissent are hateful, unpatriotic, traitorous, elitist, naive, or we are just plain silenced.

For shame. One wonders why we continue to invest ourselves in this system at all.

Reasonably Related Reading:
Rad Geek’s look at the Founders intention to truly separate church and state.
Ded Space on John Negroponte.
Netaloid on Big Brother’s Master Human Identification Card that will be forced on the states through fiscal blackmail.
The Republic of T on the disappearance of Queer.
An Old Soul on how research doesn’t matter when it comes to pushing an educational agenda.
Pharyngula on public schools and Bible classes. Together.
Confessions of a former “dittohead,” a Rush Limbaugh devotee.
and
ShutUpAndTeach.org

Three Afternoon Reads

Cleis outlines why she disagrees with Dr. Crazy’s “Why Women’s Studies Sucks.”

The NYTimes has an interesting article about the risks Dems run if they don’t tow the line on reproductive rights.

An AIDS activist and mother writes on her LiveJournal about raising a gay son in a homophobic world. In part:

Fag: This is what I heard someone call my little boy today. I didn’t ignore it. I asked. I glared. What did you say? The kid muttered under his breath. Nothing. We walked to the car and he was quiet. He’s a boy who takes everything into himself. When he shares, it’s a gift. It has a meaning beyond what it is…

…So here was my golden boy, born at a time in my life when I was acutely aware of the powers of both love and hatred, chewing his nails in the backseat, trying not to cry. He looked up at me with his giant green eyes. I could tell he was phrasing his question very carefully, as he is such a precise little boy. “I’m not a fag if I don’t want to have a girlfriend, am I?” He was so quiet and serious. I pulled over and turned around to face him.

I wanted to tell him about the time into which he was born, how so many people loved him, how so many people saw him as the sign of a good and hopeful future they might not live to see. I wanted to tell him how the woman who came into my office after he was born wept with him in her arms and kissed him all over. I didn’t take him from her until he was sleeping and her tears had been replaced with a soft smile. “No one has ever let me touch a baby since I was diagnosed,” she told me in Spanish, “He’s so beautiful. Thank you.”

One of the scariest things about being a parent is my fear that my child will be targeted for something that ultimately defines his identity. This short post on parenting and homosexuality is beautiful for its complexity and compassion. Thanks for the link, A.